Comments on: Do You Know These 10 Signs She’s Flirting With You? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/ Every Mans Secret Weapon For Getting The Girl Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:12:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brian http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/#comment-1746 Brian Thu, 28 Apr 2011 07:59:06 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3006#comment-1746 I don't believe in being banished to the friend zone forever. Somewhere, deep within, every girl has visualized that "what if" fantasy. All that it might take to bring you out of the friend zone and into the "hmmm.. what if" zone, could be a small gesture of interest. If you continue to act like her friend, she will continue to treat you like one. I think on average, women shy away from making that "first move" on a friend, or even bringing up the possibility. It's on you to get out of the friend zone, and usually it takes more than a simple, "hey wanna mess around?" or "i love you!"... you have to be coy about it. Women are all about the challenge. You can't deliver it to her on a silver platter. You have to spark the interest and let it percolate. I think of it like a game, almost. And women love games of romance. And that is the key, my friend, on getting out of the friend zone. Romance. Think of things that you can do that show her that you care about her, and that you're sensitive to her interests. If she is complaining to you about something in her life, find a way to contribute or give her something related to that area. I.e. if she's been texting you about her car trouble, show up at her place some weekend and tell her you want to look at her car for her. You have to dangle the lure, and almost tease her to snatch it. This takes patience, determination, but also A LOT of finesse. You have to woo her. Think of it this way. The friendship you both built up has to be systematically deconstructed and reconstructed into a potential relationship. So, if she's ranting at you about another guy, tell her you don't want to hear about him. If she asks you why, say that you just don't like hearing her talk about other guys so much. And leave it at that, and change the subject. Don't over-explain it, and if she prods you to, don't give in. Let it peculate! That night, she'll be lying in bed thinking about it, and that's right where you want her to be. I think you can figure it out from there. ;) I'm no professional. This is just what I would do if I wanted one of my female friends to think about me in "that way." It's definitely a challenge, so make sure it's something you want. Cause, worst case scenario is you ruining the friendship you two have built. If you just want to mess around with her, I'd say it's not worth it. Good friends are hard to come by in the way the world is now. You can always find a girl to mess around with, but a true friend is rare. So think long about it before you make any move. GL I don’t believe in being banished to the friend zone forever. Somewhere, deep within, every girl has visualized that “what if” fantasy. All that it might take to bring you out of the friend zone and into the “hmmm.. what if” zone, could be a small gesture of interest.

If you continue to act like her friend, she will continue to treat you like one. I think on average, women shy away from making that “first move” on a friend, or even bringing up the possibility. It’s on you to get out of the friend zone, and usually it takes more than a simple, “hey wanna mess around?” or “i love you!”… you have to be coy about it. Women are all about the challenge. You can’t deliver it to her on a silver platter. You have to spark the interest and let it percolate. I think of it like a game, almost. And women love games of romance. And that is the key, my friend, on getting out of the friend zone. Romance. Think of things that you can do that show her that you care about her, and that you’re sensitive to her interests. If she is complaining to you about something in her life, find a way to contribute or give her something related to that area. I.e. if she’s been texting you about her car trouble, show up at her place some weekend and tell her you want to look at her car for her. You have to dangle the lure, and almost tease her to snatch it. This takes patience, determination, but also A LOT of finesse. You have to woo her.

Think of it this way. The friendship you both built up has to be systematically deconstructed and reconstructed into a potential relationship. So, if she’s ranting at you about another guy, tell her you don’t want to hear about him. If she asks you why, say that you just don’t like hearing her talk about other guys so much. And leave it at that, and change the subject. Don’t over-explain it, and if she prods you to, don’t give in. Let it peculate! That night, she’ll be lying in bed thinking about it, and that’s right where you want her to be.

I think you can figure it out from there. ;) I’m no professional. This is just what I would do if I wanted one of my female friends to think about me in “that way.” It’s definitely a challenge, so make sure it’s something you want. Cause, worst case scenario is you ruining the friendship you two have built. If you just want to mess around with her, I’d say it’s not worth it. Good friends are hard to come by in the way the world is now. You can always find a girl to mess around with, but a true friend is rare. So think long about it before you make any move. GL

]]> By: Brian http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/#comment-1745 Brian Thu, 28 Apr 2011 07:48:27 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3006#comment-1745 Some of these are kinda walking the thin line. I think if you're studying the positioning of a girl's feet that you're being a little too analytical. Even if it's true, how would you tell the difference? People tend to stand the same way, even if they aren't interested in you. I also think that if you're interested in the girl, you will try to find ways to convince yourself that she is flirting, even if she isn't. Self-fulfilling prophecy. "Oh, yea, she definitely just adjusted her sweater cause she's into me!" Or.. maybe she was just uncomfortable? Or maybe she fidgets when she's stressed out or preoccupied. I dunno, it's good to look out for signs of interest, but I think some of these things could go either way, and don't really prove a girl's interest one way or the other. I think the rule of thumb should be: 1) does she touch you more than other people? and her touch is lingering? 2) does she find reasons to come near you/talk to you/get you to talk to her? 3) does she try to make herself stand out from other girls in the area (either by standing closer to you, or in your line of site, or by talking louder than them, etc.) These things are usually sure-fire signs of her interest in you. But if you're focusing on her foot position, or the buttons on her blouse, she might think you're the one interested in her, and maybe she's just being polite or possibly flirting back at you! haha Some of these are kinda walking the thin line. I think if you’re studying the positioning of a girl’s feet that you’re being a little too analytical. Even if it’s true, how would you tell the difference? People tend to stand the same way, even if they aren’t interested in you. I also think that if you’re interested in the girl, you will try to find ways to convince yourself that she is flirting, even if she isn’t. Self-fulfilling prophecy. “Oh, yea, she definitely just adjusted her sweater cause she’s into me!” Or.. maybe she was just uncomfortable? Or maybe she fidgets when she’s stressed out or preoccupied. I dunno, it’s good to look out for signs of interest, but I think some of these things could go either way, and don’t really prove a girl’s interest one way or the other. I think the rule of thumb should be: 1) does she touch you more than other people? and her touch is lingering? 2) does she find reasons to come near you/talk to you/get you to talk to her? 3) does she try to make herself stand out from other girls in the area (either by standing closer to you, or in your line of site, or by talking louder than them, etc.) These things are usually sure-fire signs of her interest in you. But if you’re focusing on her foot position, or the buttons on her blouse, she might think you’re the one interested in her, and maybe she’s just being polite or possibly flirting back at you! haha

]]> By: Gabriel http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/#comment-1443 Gabriel Mon, 27 Dec 2010 07:23:16 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3006#comment-1443 in my opinion a kiss in the club would've been great on that night in the salsa club BTW I'm a mexicano so take it from me salsa dancing is a great way to meet an project your self to a girl its a great way to get intimate without committing to unwelcome flirting and its a great way to read each others body language so great choice but a kiss would've been way to seal the night off and make your intentions clear but you still might have a chance if you play this right. when u went to the party what i would've done if the situation permitted is as i entered the party if i could instantly locate her but don't approach her instead not let her see me until i wanted her too if there's alcohol at the party (which i assume there is) go find the beer preferably a keg because there's usually people hanging around it find a someone to start a conversation with someone or all of them if you are that good of a conversationalist but try to make sure the person/people you are talking to are not the quiet drunk types you want to talk to the people who have the eyes and ears of the party if u can and if you can try to get a group of girls in the conversation as to what u should talk about try something you know about/ are passionate about with me its alcohol I'm a connoisseur and its easy to jump into a conversation about something like that at a party and when you know a lot about the subject remember the bigger the impression you make on the party the better now if you've accomplished this try to make yourself be seen by her try to get her attention by maybe say talking to another girl at the party (not to make her jealous but to show her that you are comfortable with the fairer sex) crack a joke make the girl you're talking laugh try and make sure she sees you doing this this will show her you're a confident individual who deserves her attention someone she needs to be around to have fun remember if you're the life of the party everyone will want your company including any girl you're trying to catch the attention of make her seek you out and say "oh hey i was just about to go look for you!" or some variation of that remember never use lines! always speak in the moment! women can sense something that is rehearsed OK that rambling is over now the Sunday date coffee not such a good idea coffee's not intimate enough it doesn't send a clear enough message an try not to have a day date something intimate at night is better we as people tend to look forward to nights out instead of the day it takes a HELL-OF-A-DATE to leave an all day impact on her you want her to be thinking about the great time she had with you for the remainder of the day it would take a big impression to have her thinking about the date she was just on all day and all night i hoped this helped from one guy to another in my opinion a kiss in the club would’ve been great on that night in the salsa club BTW I’m a mexicano so take it from me salsa dancing is a great way to meet an project your self to a girl its a great way to get intimate without committing to unwelcome flirting and its a great way to read each others body language so great choice but a kiss would’ve been way to seal the night off and make your intentions clear but you still might have a chance if you play this right. when u went to the party what i would’ve done if the situation permitted is as i entered the party if i could instantly locate her but don’t approach her instead not let her see me until i wanted her too if there’s alcohol at the party (which i assume there is) go find the beer preferably a keg because there’s usually people hanging around it find a someone to start a conversation with someone or all of them if you are that good of a conversationalist but try to make sure the person/people you are talking to are not the quiet drunk types you want to talk to the people who have the eyes and ears of the party if u can and if you can try to get a group of girls in the conversation as to what u should talk about try something you know about/ are passionate about with me its alcohol I’m a connoisseur and its easy to jump into a conversation about something like that at a party and when you know a lot about the subject remember the bigger the impression you make on the party the better now if you’ve accomplished this try to make yourself be seen by her try to get her attention by maybe say talking to another girl at the party (not to make her jealous but to show her that you are comfortable with the fairer sex) crack a joke make the girl you’re talking laugh try and make sure she sees you doing this this will show her you’re a confident individual who deserves her attention someone she needs to be around to have fun remember if you’re the life of the party everyone will want your company including any girl you’re trying to catch the attention of make her seek you out and say “oh hey i was just about to go look for you!” or some variation of that remember never use lines! always speak in the moment! women can sense something that is rehearsed OK that rambling is over now the Sunday date coffee not such a good idea coffee’s not intimate enough it doesn’t send a clear enough message an try not to have a day date something intimate at night is better we as people tend to look forward to nights out instead of the day it takes a HELL-OF-A-DATE to leave an all day impact on her you want her to be thinking about the great time she had with you for the remainder of the day it would take a big impression to have her thinking about the date she was just on all day and all night i hoped this helped from one guy to another

]]> By: flirt girls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/#comment-966 flirt girls Fri, 26 Nov 2010 21:42:41 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3006#comment-966 Nice website and great information. There is a lot of mis information about how to flirt with girls that I have found, so it Nice website and great information. There is a lot of mis information about how to flirt with girls that I have found, so it

]]> By: Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-signs-shes-flirting/#comment-206 Marni Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:59:50 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3006#comment-206 I am going to need more information than this to decided whether or not you have been banished to the friend zone forever. I want to hear more about her response to your text. She told you in advance that she has plans with friends on saturday so I am not 100% sure she is a flake. What I do know is that you did not screw up on Wednesday by not kissing her. There are several more opportunities to man up and kiss her you just need to go get that kiss. It sounds like you are not sure of yourself which is the #1 attraction killer. If you want to talk about this further and figure out EXACTLY what to do to get this girl then write me at marni@winggirlmethod.com. I am going to need more information than this to decided whether or not you have been banished to the friend zone forever. I want to hear more about her response to your text. She told you in advance that she has plans with friends on saturday so I am not 100% sure she is a flake.

What I do know is that you did not screw up on Wednesday by not kissing her. There are several more opportunities to man up and kiss her you just need to go get that kiss.

It sounds like you are not sure of yourself which is the #1 attraction killer.

If you want to talk about this further and figure out EXACTLY what to do to get this girl then write me at marni@winggirlmethod.com.

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