Who Are The Wing Girls?
The Wing Girl Method is based on opinions from women around the world. on What Women Want. Women of all different ages, ethnicity’s and religions contribute their voices and thoughts on a daily basis. These opinions are brutally honest and blunt and are meant to help men gain a better understanding of women so they can finally get any women they want.
Below are some of our top contributing Wing Girls:
Ariel
Age: 26
Nationality: Filipino
Home City: Austin, TX
What Quality Attracts You Most in A Man: Confidence, confidence, confidence. If a man is comfortable in his own skin, he makes himself that much more attractive. There is a fine line between confident and cocky, so he also needs to have a good heart.
Ariel is a native Texan who is passionate about NCAA football, Texas barbeque, and the southern gentleman. She graduated from The University of Texas at Austin with a major in Communication Studies. For as long as she can remember, she has always been intrigued with the ways in which men and women communicate. After years of guiding her friends through the trenches of love and relationships, she is thrilled to be able to share her own perspective and theories and tell it like it is on WGM. She writes leisurely and currently resides in Los Angeles with the loves of her life–her dogs, Pebbles and Yao.
Tricia
Age: 29
Nationality: American
Hometown city: Santa Monica, CA
Birth city: Mechanicsburg, PA
What are the top qualities you find most attractive in a man: Confidence, sincerity, mad karaoke skills…and vibey hair.
Tricia has an M.F.A in screenwriting from USC, but spends most of her days trying to come up with ways to flee the country and escape her horrifying student loans to live on a remote beach, write what she wants, and drink blueberry-acai mojitos for breakfast. Oh, and she’s perennially single much thanks to her former penchant for guys with “edge” and therefore is constantly entertained by and a pawn in the mad house that is the LA dating scene. All fodder for writing, right?
Zoe
Age: 32
Nationality: Asian-American
Home City: Los Angeles, CA
Birth City: Smithtown, NY
What quality do you find more attractive in a man? Tied for first place: Talent and a sense of humor
I am a writer who has lived in Los Angeles, New York, and Paris. Don’t try to hit on me by asking “Are you Japanese?” because I’ve heard it a million times before. I’ve dated men from every continent, older men and younger men, sweet guys and obnoxious pricks. I’ve learned there’s something to be appreciated about all of them. A lifetime commitment-phobe, I have been told by many men I am more like a guy than they are themselves. If being “like a guy” means a woman is independent, strong-willed, and doesn’t need a significant other in order to feel valid, then all the women I know are packing heat in their pants.
Read Zoe’s recent articles: 7 Ways To Create Sexual Chemistry With Women
Desiree
Age: 35
Nationality: All-American girl
Birth City: Long Island, NY
Home City: Desiree has traveled across the world, and ranks Nashville, Tenn.; Asheville, NC; Daytona, Fla.; San Antonio, TX; and Salt Lake City, Utah as her favorite cities, but still calls New York home.
What quality attracts you most in a man: By far, it’s someone who respects me. I also want someone I can spend hours talking with, about everything from the mundane to the intellectual. Physically, I’m attracted to all different types. If a man shows respect for me and simultaneously, can make me laugh, I’m done.
Desiree celebrates her sixth wedding anniversary – and 12 years with the same man – in August 2009. As the former editor of two paintball publications, Desiree still writes for paintball magazines and spends most of her professional life surrounded by men. A true Wing Girl on and off the paintball field, she looks forward to sharing her life, dating and relationships advice and experience with Wing Girl Method visitors.
Danielle
Age: 33
Nationality: American
Birth City: small town in Mississippi
Home City: Los Angeles, CA
What quality attracts you most in a man? Ambition, confidence, creativity, compassion, someone who wants a partner not a trophy girlfriend, great listening skills, humor (a MUST), and good manners.
Danielle has dated up and down both coasts gathering lots of valuable dating insights along the way. Having large circles of both female and male friends she is able to give more than just “band-aid” advice. She can teach men to begin to understand the mysterious inner-workings of the “other sex.” Danielle is thrilled to join the other Wing Girls in helping men learn to ultimately help themselves. Danielle’s educational and professional background is in gender studies and reproductive health. She is an avid hiker, an amateur artist, and writer hoping to travel to all seven continents within the next five years .
Leah M.
Age: 21
Nationality: American
Birth City: Detroit, MI
Home City: East Lansing, MI
What quality attracts me most in a man: The ability to choose where we eat dinner, without saying “I don’t care, you pick.”
Leah is a college student at Michigan State University who is passionate about modern literature and the Detroit Red Wings. She enjoys spending evenings with friends, shared over delicious meals and strong cocktails. With a large circle of male friends, Leah has always found a striking balance between being “one of the guys” and the object of friends’ desires, maintaining her rightful place in “the friend zone.” She devotes most of her time to studying, but if she’s not buried in academia, you can find her tailgating for MSU, out dancing, or in for the night to watch movies. She enjoys holding hands in public and exchanging great back massages in private.
Esmeralda
Age: 25
Nationality: Mexican
Home City: Los Angeles
Birth City: Cd. Hidalgo
What quality attracts you most about a man: intelligence.
Esmeralda is an intelligent, creative and passionate person whose interests include: art, literature, playing flute, romantic languages and dating sophisticated and intellectual men. Her natural charisma, confidence, and attractive appearance have attracted men that are kind, witty and nerdy. She has dated scientists, artists, musicians, and philosophers and is not one to jump into things too quickly, but she does like the element of spontaneity in a relationship. She believes that men as well as woman like to be swept off their feet. Tradition when it comes to dating is important, but trying things that are new and exciting are just as important. She considers herself to be a modern woman. She is very conscious about what she wants in a man and usually she does not hesitate in pursuing what she want. Unfortunately, she has found most men to lack confidence. This ultimately is what she would like to enable men with: self confidence is something a lot of men have to build and she would like to help them learn to gain it.
Ana
Age: 48
Nationality: Canadian of English and Ukrainian extraction
Home City: Los Angeles, CA
Birth City: Vancouver, BC
What quality in a man do you find most attractive? Competence at something difficult.
Veneesa
Age: 25
Nationality: Ethnically Ambiguous
Birth City: Albuquerque, NM
Home City: Manchester, NH
Current City: Los Angeles, CA
What quality attracts you most in a man?: Confidence and a good sense of humor.
Vennesa Estela, L.A.’s newest media vixen, is always on the go-go. With a list of modeling, on-air, and dancing credits including co-host of an award-winning weekly cable show (“Weekend Kickoff”), featured dancer on Telemundo (“Descontrol”), and numerous magazine and print modeling appearances, it was only a matter of time before she left the unabridged tranquility of Massachusetts for the fast lane of Los Angeles. It was a move she was well prepared for – and then some. Like the day she was alerted to a Playboy casting audition in Boston, minutes before the deadline. “I became a New York driver that day,” recalled Vennesa, as she arrived after the interviews ended. She was able to persuade them to interview her, and three weeks later, she was invited to New York to shoot her first of several Playboy Special Edition layouts. Dedicated… ambitious… driven. Vennesa knows only one speed, overdrive, which has consistently allowed her to beat the odds. Already making a name for herself in some of L.A.’s top go-go clubs, it’s only a matter of time until the rest of the city notices what admirers have already. In the words of Christopher Morley, Vennesa believes…“Big shots are only little shots who keep shooting.”
Elisha
Age: 27
Nationality: American
Birth City: Charlotte, NC
Home City: Outer Banks, NC
What quality attracts you most in a man? A capacity for inspiration.
For more details on Elisha check her out at: http://inconvenientbody.wordpress.com/
Cynthia
Age: 50+
Nationality : Jewish
Home City Hollywood, Florida
Birth City Fall River, Massachusetts
What quality do you find most attractive in a man? Self respect for the efforts he takes in maintaining that he is always in the process of becoming a “better man”.
Cynthia began learning about men with 3 brothers and a 60’s “free love” coming of age…evaluating what men do and say that works and doesn’t work. And..she’s always in that process with her dad (now 93) and a husband (forever young), whether or not her ideas come from stuff she learned in a master’s program in counseling at Columbia, or-more probably– years toughing through dating in New York City. To men she has been, daughter sister, friend, companion, confidant, lover, wife and through it all has come to know that men never like to be told they’re wrong, what to do, or how to do it…. but they do read and listen and allow ideas to process inside and come out in their own time and place.
When it comes to men, Cynthia is one part Mom, one part Oprah, one part Dear Abby, and one part Dr. Ruth, (and still tries to keep herself looking hot.)
Elyse
Age: 20
Nationality: American
Birth City: Wooster, Ohio
Home City: As of now, Walnut Creek, Ohio. I’ve lived in many other cities, as well as states, in the past.
What quality do you find most attractive in a man? I can’t pick just one- I’d say the top 5 things I find most attractive in a man is if he is Confident, Passionate, Respectful, Good Looking and Comical. Other traits are also important, however, these are the few characteristics that stand out to me personally. Any guy that contains these traits are definitely sexy and usually have a great all-around personality that I love!
Leah R.
Age: 33
Nationality: American
Home City: Los Angeles
Birth City: Los Angeles
What quality do you find most attractive in a man?: I have a thing for guys who can make me laugh. As someone who’s been on her fair share of both good and bad dates, I think I know a little something about what women look for in a man. I recognize tactics that come off as desperate. I know what type of behavior comes off as arrogant. But, perhaps more importantly, I know what works.
Outside of my own dating experience, I’ve spent many nights listening to female friends complain about their relationships. I’ve spent just as many nights helping my male friends understand exactly what they did to upset their girlfriends. However I like to think my insight comes from the fact that I’ve been surrounded by perfectly healthy and happy couples (yes, including my parents) my entire life. You’d be amazed at how much you could learn about love, dating and romance if you spent just a little bit of time focusing on the positive relationships around you.
Orit
Nationality: American-Israeli
Home City: Los Angeles
What Quality Attracts You Most in A Man: Independence, Intelligence, Talent, Heroism
Orit is a media maven and journalist. For the past few years she has written a popular singles column for The Jewish Journal (www.jewishjournal.com) revealing the glories and pitfalls of dating in the Jewish world and beyond. Having worked as a journalist in Israel and Los Angeles, she has been both the victim and honored recipient of a variety of pick-ups–from the most aggressive to the gentlest–by an international cadre of men. Smart and beautiful, but like all women, has her fare share of fears and insecurities. She is passionate about teaching men how to approach and succeed with the most delicate and awesome of God’s creatures: women. Read her work at www.oritarfa.net
Read Orit’s recent articles: How Women Use The Shit Test
Jennae
Age: 29
Nationality: American
Home City: West Los Angeles
What Quality Attracts You Most in A Man: The first on the list is a sense of humor, followed by intelligence, though I don’t know many people who are smart and not also at least a little bit funny. After that I’d have to say compassion, confidence and courtesy. Courtesy is just a buzz word for “calls when he says he will” and “says please and thank you to strangers.” And courtesy really goes hand in hand with compassion–if you care about other people, you treat them better. And, of course, confidence is sexy. My type tends to be a bit geeky (like me) with a lot of interests, which hopefully includes reading, and possibly sci-fi, since I’m a former Trekkie.
Ericha
Age: 39
Nationality: American
Home City: LA
Birth City: Small town north of Seattle, Washington
What Quality Attracts You Most in A Man: I love a funny man, but it has to be balanced with someone who takes life seriously too.
Ericha is a woman, and think like a pretty typical one. She has dated her share of jerks, and all different types of guys. and married a nice and successful man in the end. She is a firm believer that nice guys do not need to finish last. But there is a difference between a “nice guy” and a push over. It’s a fine line and you need to stay on the right side of that line. Trust her and you will end up with the girl of your dreams. “Part of me feels alittle guilty revealing girl secrets, but the way I see it, it’s a win for woman-kind too if a beautiful, nice woman doesn’t end up with the bad boy.”
Riki
Age: 25
Nationality: African America/ White/ Filipino
Home City: Long Beach
What Quality Attracts You Most in A Man: Intellect and sense of humor… laughter feeds the soul.
Riki is a California native who is the eldest child of 5 siblings (all girls). Being that she is multiethnic (African American, White, Filipino) she has been introduced to the best of several worlds, which has made her a well rounded, open minded individual. She loves her life and most of all loves herself.
Read Riki’s recent articles: 6 Signs That A Woman Is A Cock Tease
Lisa
Age: 39
Nationality: African-American
Birth city: Brooklyn, NY
Home city: East Hartford, CT
What qualities attracts you most in a man? A man who possesses confidence without being cocky, intelligence, sense of humor and the ability to express his gentle side and show support when needed.
Mandira
Age: 28
Nationality: INDIAN
Birth City: Raebareli
Home City: Hyderabad
What quality attracts you most in a man? Intelligence
Nanci
Age: Chronologically 60, spiritually ancient, feel 35 and when I’m in love – 18!
Nationality: American/Canadian
Home City: Los Angeles
Birth City: Raised in Canada
What quality do you find most attractive in a man? Oh – the usual – funny, smart, attractive – but the most important and the hardest to find … how he reflects me back to me. This isn’t ego [well not totally] – it’s about emotional knowing.
As a director and more recently an acting coach and a life coach, I am a student of people – understanding what’s beneath the surface – the unseen impulses that make us who we are. I’ve traveled a lot, worked with people of every ethnicity and many religions, have friends from 20 to 85, been in love 3 times – married twice [incl. a 27 year love] and been ‘in-like’ or lust many more. For all our differences, I’d say we all share the desire to be loved and a fear of getting hurt. It’s the latter that gets us into trouble, but … from the headiness of falling in love to the satisfaction of deepening intimacy and sharing in trust – love is worth the risk!
Karen
Age: 35
Nationality: American
Birth City: Dallas, TX
Home City: Los Angeles, CA
What quality attracts you most in a man? That old familiar trio – looks, brains & personality – but remember guys, it’s all subjective – it’s not about how cute, smart or funny the population at large thinks my guy is, it’s about what I think. Oh, and mad dance skills will get me every time.
Originally from Texas, Karen has an undergraduate degree in Theater from UCLA, a master’s degree in business from Claremont Graduate University and a “Single-Girl Survival Degree” from 17 years in the City of Angels. She’s dated her fair share of the city’s male population and oh, does she have some stories. Both a professional photographer (www.karensolterophotography.com) and a writer (www.thebrunettechronicles.blogspot.com), Karen is the consummate observer of male and female dynamics. She’s a girly girl that can hang with the boys. She might be at the hottest bar sipping cocktails, or she might just be tearing up the track at the local go-kart place. She love high heels and Chucks, drinks whisky, does a mean two-step and has a recently developed weakness for male cheerleaders. And she’s never afraid to tell it like it is.
Jacqueline
Age: 28
Nationality: American
Home City: Los Angeles/Tokyo
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