Comments on: Attracting Women: Do Looks Matter?

By: Marni

Marni — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:02:49 +0000

I agree with you. If a man is treating himself poorly and looks horrible because of this then he is not loving himself and therefore should not expect others to love him either.

On the other hand if a bald, heavier man owns his appearance and is happy that energy can go along way with women.

By: Valmont

Valmont — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 06:21:59 +0000

I really liked the article though this sends a wrong message to guys that “looks/appearances/image is not important” which is a fallacy.

Generally speaking, attractive and desirable women do want men (physically speaking) who:

a)are taller than them
b) in good physical shape
c) take care of their appearance (grooming) and image (dress style).

A lot of guys are just lazy slobs and neglect their appearance and project a sloppy image.

The first dating improvement step for a guy before delving into “inner game” should be to work on his appearance and image and hit the gym because it will boost his confidence and will make him feel good about himself…how can a guy “seduce” a women if he does not even like himself and treats himself like shit?

By: Darren

Darren — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:28:49 +0000

Wow Cody im having the same problem. I am a good looking guy and I have absolutely no game . When im this close to getting laid (with some very beautiful women i might add) all always shoot myself in the foot due to lack of confidence. This website is really helping me realize actually what I am doing wrong! Thanks, Marni

By: Jarrod

Jarrod — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 05:41:03 +0000

Looks are only about 10% of ur first impression, body language about 60% and the other 30 is split between confidence and personality. I say 60% is body language because women will pick up in that slight wrist twitch that u won’t notice and think ur nervous. You also don’t want to give the impression of a dog trying to hump her leg. Excuse my example. I work for a small dollar store that is full of women and I talk to them about everything my dates there dates and they let me know what I did wrong and vice versa I also watch there body language while I tell my story and find that something tiny can be a bigger deal maker or breaker then I ever would of thought.

By: Marni

Marni — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:53:49 +0000

John thank you for your comment. This post was not meant to tell men that women do not care about looks as well. A woman still has to be attracted to the man they are with but all attraction does not come from a hot body and an excellent jaw line. Attraction comes in different packages and amazing looks can be overridden by an amazing energy. I would actually like to talk to you more about this because from your email I can tell that there is something underneath your confidence that women may be picking up on.

Write me at marni@winggirlmethod.com so we can talk further.

By: John Smith

John Smith — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 12:12:29 +0000

I am not totally convinced and I think it really depends on the particular woman in question . Women are as different as snowflakes and while a few may be willing to look beyond looks and consider shorter men or obese men, based on my experiences I have come to the conclusion that for the majority of women looks do make a good or bad impression and can be a deal breaker. I am an extremely confident man and a skilled communicator/conversationalist/listener by the nature of my profession(Social Work). I carry most of these qualities over to my private life but I have yet to connect with a woman who finds my confidence appealing. For the majority, when they see that I am not tall and handsome, it is a deal breaker.

By: Eric

Eric — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 18:42:59 +0000

I find this article to be VERY true. I’m not the best looking guy ever but I have dated and had sex with woman who are BEAUTIFUL. When I ask them why they were attracted to me most of them said,”I was fun, funny, and confident.” These are woman in their early and mid 20′s, so even young girls don’t judge off of looks some do but most don’t. Here’s what I learned from my experience and have heard woman say is that when you display attractive behavior i.e. confidence, sense of humor, unaffected by her test, not needy, etc they FORGET how you look. I have heard that straight from attractive women’s mouth and I think the reason is that looks FADE personality is FOREVER!

By: fritz

fritz — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 11:31:43 +0000

Women are all about feelings, nothing more. If a woman can feel special sensations, you are far away from the ass kissers. The good feelings could be started from a great self-assurance, or from some kind of cocky funny style as mentionned by David Deangelo.

By: Cody Lacy

Cody Lacy — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 09:19:43 +0000

The reason I got into learning how to pick-up wemon was because I was a good looking guy who could’nt get laid. Now I have become extreamly successful with wemon, but it is all because of having good game. Thank you for writting this page because as crazy as it may sound my looks actually stop me from getting the girl I want (this used to happen to me on a regular basis untill I realized its all about personality and the way you make her feel when shes around you). This happens when I’m hanging out with some girls I’ve just met at a club and start relying on my looks instead of my game. I start thinking to myself I don’t need to stay ontop of my game these girls want me because I’m good looking. Then instead of staying focused, engaging them in interesting conversations making them laugh and being a challenge, I start to get lazy because I think that I’m going home with them no matter what. Whenever I do this I end up going home alone, all because I thought that being good looking was actually doing something for me and forgot that its all about game.

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