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	<itunes:summary>Dating Advice For Men - What the HELL do women want? I&#039;ll tell you! As a woman, I know exactly what you need to do to attract women, date women, seduce women and get the women you want. Whether you&#039;re after 1 specific girl or want to explore your option, The Wing Girl Method will give you step-by-step instructions on how to get ANY woman you want! For more FREE tips and advice go to http://www.winggirlmethod.com

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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:58:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[2) What Women Want From Men]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[About a year and a half ago, I was working on creating a reality show (about my business) with a very famous female celebrity. At that time, that girl was single and I of course started to dish out advice, guidance and exercises that I give to 1000&#8242;s of men around the world every day. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Be A Natural When Talking To Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 20:43:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interview: &#8216;From awkward interview to natural flow: Richard La Ruina on how to talk to women&#8217; MP3 Download of The Interview Below ‘Just be yourself’ I’d bet my bottom dollar that you’ve been given this advice before. Whether it was from a well meaning friend, nosy bystander, or a relative that cares about you: it [...]]]></description>
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‘Just be yourself’
I’d bet my bottom dollar that you’ve been given this advice before. Whether it was from [...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Interview: &#8216;From awkward interview to natural flow: Richard La Ruina on how to talk to women&#8217;
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‘Just be yourself’
I’d bet my bottom dollar that you’ve been given this advice before. Whether it was from a well meaning friend, nosy bystander, or a relative that cares about you: it is the easiest advice to say and often the hardest to implement.
But I’m not like your average female friend. I understand that it’s not that easy: when an attractive woman is right there in front of you, the pressure can be overwhelming and you can end up acting completely out of character. Suddenly you go from being that confident, outgoing guy, your friends love to someone who comes across as shy and insecure. It’s just not you- and so frustrating.
Earlier this week I decided to pick the brains of a man who understands exactly how that feels; and who has spent his life learning how to just be his natural self in front of women.
Richard La Ruina, is a self confessed former geek turned ‘natural’ PUA.
Richard believes a guy could become a ‘natural’ with women: that’s right, start out awkward and end up developing skills with women that are smooth- but gimmick free.
I say ‘skills’ because, as you guys know, I am not a ‘pick up artist’. I don’t believe in using lines, routines, and gimmicks to get the girl. All this does is screw things up as it stops you from being yourself, and makes women defensive of being ‘played’, which then makes it harder for the genuine guys to get a chance. I want men to be sincere, open and direct- and, yes, use their ‘natural’ self to attract women.
Despite Richard being a ‘pick up artist’ I could see that we shared some perspectives on how to engage with women naturally.
Richard explained he doesn’t see ‘pua’ as something that has to be robotic (which I hate!) but it can be a skill set built in experiences. He said getting great at interacting with women naturally can be a little like playing the piano. As you first hit those keys it feels unnatural- and sounds awful. Fast forward a few months though and things start to come together.
He believes that some guys who are exposed to lots of female company, and great experiences with women early on, can have this ‘natural’ sensation when talking to a woman: because it’s all they’ve known. However, that also means that if you haven’t had those experiences with women you can recreate this development process- by kick-starting your socializing with women.
I like to call this your ‘research stage’. When you first start to really interact with women, it’s not about how many phone numbers you get: it’s about learning the perimeters of what works for you.
Yes, this takes time and this takes effort: but I agree you can become a lot more natural with women. You can ‘be yourself’.
To get you started with ‘being yourself’ around women though, Richard shared one key idea about how to talk to women.
He pointed out that there was one big difference between the way girls speak naturally to their friends, boyfriends, and the way a guy who isn’t used to speaking to women will try speaking to them. This isn’t about using lines or routines. It’s about knowing the right structure the conversation should have to make it feel natural.
So what is the big difference? How can you make both you, and the woman you’re speaking to, feel way more comfortable, far more like ‘yourselves’ in an interaction?
It’s simple: ask less questions, make more statements. Something I have been telling you guys for years  
As a woman I can also tell you it is frustrating when you feel a guy isn’t listening to you: which is exactly what happens if a guy doesn’t respond properly and simply shoots another question out there.
Being ‘yourself’ and being ‘natural’ around women is not about saying the smartest line in the moment: it’s about relaxing, and letting the conversation have the same natural structure, as if you had known the woman a lot longer.
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		<title>Why You Need A Wing Girl!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[How To Approach Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Style & Fashion Tips]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I knew I onto something when I stared The Wing Girl Method but now it has been scientifically proven!!! According to a recent study, men with PLEASANT women by their sides, are perceived as more attractive. After the study came out I got contacted by one of my favorite Magazines Men&#8217;s Health, to tell their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Women Have Boundaries</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[2) What Women Want From Men]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to know why women have boundaries and why sometimes it seems SO hard to get through to a woman? Because of things like this: What he did wrong: 1. Contacted me twice on facebook in under 3 hours 2. Double complimented on my looks 3. Used smiley faces in both his message &#8211; (real [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Communicate With Your Partner</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 07:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[How To Talk To Women]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[My newest Bing/MSN video&#8217;s are live.  They are all geared towards couples. Check this one out on how to communicate with your significant other. Even if you are not in a relationship, this is still great advice: Video: 2-Minute Couples Coach: Communicating]]></description>
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