Big news that I may have mentioned to you before but now it’s actually happening.

I am finally doing a Podcast and I am so excited about it.

Me and 3 other amazing, intelligent SUPER HOT women, are going to be doing a weekly FREE podcast called Ask Women.

Each week me and these 3 lovely ladies will be giving you realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man.

To ensure you get all the updates on the podcast, you can follow @askwomenpodcast on twitter and I’ll also update you through email so that you don’t miss it.

I will have full instructions for you next week on:

1. Where and when to listen to the podcast

2. How to download the podcast

I’ll also be introducing you to the other 3 women that will be part of Ask Women.But for now, here are some preview pics of them:

I am so excited for you to get to know these girls and for them to educate you on the ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.

Be the first to get details on the Ask Women Podcast by following @askwomenpodcast on twitter   Click the link to follow us now and PLEASE share this with others!!!

Read on to get the exercise…

Why is it that every time I am at the gym, brilliant ideas come to me?

Lucky for you, I’ve learned my lesson and started bringing paper and pen with me to the gym. Ha.

This guy did the awful and sadly typical move of  “I’m going to get distant and act strange so she’ll get upset and have to break up with me”.  (BTW, girls do this move as well so this is not a stab at men).

As you can guess, or probably know from experience, this kind of technique can be very hurtful, freakin frustrating and down right confusing.  My Wing Girl has been crushed by the situation. Not because she and her boyfriend broke up. But because, someone that she dedicated so much of her time to, could not respect her enough to simply be honest with her.

I know you have been told time and time again, women LOVE jerks, but this is not the “jerky” behavior they are referring to.

Cause you know what happens when you cowardly break up with a woman this way?

1. You get bad dating Karma?

2. You ruin your good female PR. You make an enemy out of an ex, who could have been your biggest cheerleader and tell other girls about you.

3. You make it harder for your ex to trust another man. A man who may have been the right guy for her.

4. Your penis may literally shrink!!!  There is no telling what a scorned woman is capable of. Ever heard of a woman named Lorena Bobbit?   

Check out this video I made for you that includes The Wing Girl Method’s guidelines for How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Like A MAN

Even if you aren’t in a relationship now and planning on breaking up, remember these guidelines for breaking up to ensure you always leave a woman, better than you found her.

Always, break up with your girlfriend like a MAN, instead like a coward.

For more tips on how to be THE MAN Women Want. A man of great integrity, go here.

FRIEND,

I know for a fact that you do not want any more female friends (except for me of course) but for some reason you keep finding yourself collecting tons of female friends.  Why?

Well, it’s most likely because you are presenting yourself as a FRIEND to the women you actually want to DO

So how can you learn to stop presenting yourself as a friend and make a woman see you as a sexual option?

First, STOP PRESENTING YOURSELF AS A FRIEND, because you are too fearful of being rejected or putting your real wants out there!!!

Second, listen to the interview I have posted below with “friend to lover“ expert Eric Edgemont. Eric has claimed to have “cracked the code” on the friend zone and is now teaching 1000′s of men around the world how to do the same.

I have two FREE resources for you below:

1. Audio interview I did with Eric (35 minutes)

In this 35 min interview, Eric and I discuss the essentials needed to avoid the Friend Zone and make sure you never find yourself there again.

It’s 35 minutes of solid, actionable information explaining:

1) What the Friend Zone really is & why are you are in it (2:30)

2) What she feels about you in “the Friend zone” (3:42)

3) How To Avoid Being “Angry Andy” (4:39)

4) How Your Emotional Blocks Are Stopping You From Success With Women (6:39)

5) How Changing Your Mind Will Instantly Change Your Position With Women (7:07)

6) Why “Winning” is not about her… Its about YOU (7:47)

7) How To Unlock Your Alpha, Masculine Mojo (9:46)

8) The Focus and how to switch it to get maximum results (18:49)

9) What is the core attraction & How to use it to get what you want with women? (22:35)

10) How Eric successfully turns a friend into a lover EVERY time (25:00)

Plus a ton more!!!

Click Play to Listen

2.  Video Made By Eric That Shows You How To Get That Girl That Says “Let’s Just Be Friends” To Be With You:

Check out this video Eric has made explaining how a honey badger is going to show you how to get that girl that says she “just wants to be friends” Click Here To Watch It Now!

The program video is hilarious AND gives you the step by step instructions you need to ensure you never hear “let’s just be friends” again.

Click Here to Watch The Video Now

Eddie is one of my long time members and has been using my materials to learn how to be cool with women.  I think it’s working

The best thing about this is that Ricky stood up for himself. Recognized when something was just not right (because that behavior is NOT right) and did something about it.  Not just anything. He took action the way he wanted to do it. Not emotionally.  Not childishly.  But gentlemanly. He stayed grounded and sure of himself and took action accordingly.  Sexy!

Self Confidence

The Professor stood before his class of twenty senior organic biology students, about to hand out the final exam.

“I want to say that it’s been a pleasure teaching you this semester. I know you’ve all worked extremely hard and many of you are off to medical school after summer.

So that no one gets their GPA messed up because they might have been celebrating a bit too much this week,

Anyone who would like to opt out of the final exam today will receive a ‘B’ for the course.”

There was much rejoicing in the class as students got up, walked to the front of the class, and took the Professor up on his offer.

As the last taker left the room, the Professor looked out over the handful of remaining students and asked, “Anyone else? This is your last chance.”

One final student rose up and opted out of the final.

The Professor closed the door and took attendance of those students remaining. “I’m glad to see you believe in yourself,” he said. “You all get ‘A’s.”

One of the biggest challenges I have ever had to face, overcome and thankfully complete, was learning how to have a social life.  One that I truly enjoyed and felt was mine.

When I was 23, I moved out to LA from Toronto (Canada) where I had a network of friends I had known since birth, my family, my routine. Really my whole world.  In LA, I had to start from scratch on my own. I had one friend out here who lived over 45 miles away.  Not going to lie, the first few months I was depressed and was ready to pack up and go back to Toronto.  But then, I met a great man (who is now my husband), built a network of friends and before I knew it had created a full social life for myself.

Whether you are 18, 28, 38,48……..  A social life is a must have.

Which is why I went searching for an expert to interview on the topic of How To Have A Social Life and hit the jackpot!!  I found Greg Greenway, the owner of Social Supremacy and social circle expert.

NOTE: I found about 8 other “experts” but when I did further research I discovered that these guys were all talk. They knew how to tell people to have a full social life, but did not have one of their own.

Greg is the only REAL expert in this field and he has the social life to prove it. He came recommended to me by over 12 other experts who I trust and after our interview, I can tell why!

Audio Interview With Greg Greenway [MP3]

1. How to stand out in the crowd to automatically be looked upon as the most
   attractive guy in any social setting
2. How to find your perfect girl through social circles (with a MUCH higher
   success rate than hoping you’ll bump into “her” on the street, or in a bar)
   
3. How to become 10 in everybody’s eyes, NOT just women
4. How to infiltrate an existing group of friends, add VALUE and become a part of the group (social circle)
5. How to join any social circle and become the center of the group
6. How to systematically engineer “the cool factor” in your life… and behave in a way so that people will naturally like and respect you – without faking it or behaving in a way that’s not “you”. (And… it doesn’t matter how “dorky” you think you are now!)

   You’re really going to love this call, so far Greg’s stuff has been incredible.

Greg has more tips, tools and step by step instructions on How to Build The Social Life You Have Always Wanted. Go watch this Free Presentation That Teaches You How To Infiltrate High End Social Circles So You Can Live Your Ultimate Social Life

Click Here to Watch It Now

Read full article by clicking here

Here’s a little snipet from the article:

Study recruited 40 male heterosexual students. Each one performed a standard memory test where they had to observe a stream of letters and say, as fast as possible, if each one was the same as the one before last. The volunteers then spent seven minutes chatting to male or female members of the research team before repeating the test.

The results showed men were slower and less accurate after trying to impress the women. The more they fancied them, the worse their score.

But when the task was repeated with a group of female volunteers, they did not get the same results. Memory scores stayed the same, whether they had chatted to a man or a woman.

In a report on their findings the researchers said: ‘We conclude men’s cognitive functioning may temporarily decline after an interaction with an attractive woman.’

Psychologist Dr George Fieldman, a member of the British Psychological Society, said the findings reflect the fact that men are programmed to think about ways to pass on their genes.

‘When a man meets a pretty woman, he is what we call ‘reproductively focused‘.

‘But a woman also looks for signs of other attributes, such as wealth, youth and kindness. Just the look of the man would be unlikely to have the same effect.’

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Wanted to know your thoughts on this.  Do you think “duh” or “ahhh” or “huh”.

The first thing I said when I read this was, why didn’t they test women being in the same room with more attractive women. I bet you they would find similar results. Because I know that it would effect me.

Trust me, when I say I get you. Don’t get me wrong, I like men. But the reason I’m good at what I do is because women, especially pretty popular ones, used to intimate the shit out of me.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this article.

Here’s how to create your own SYSTEM for attracting women.

I wanted to share this email with you because I’m pretty sure you feel the same way.

Hey Marni,

I am subscribed to several newsletters, including yours. I have literally thousands of articles stacked up in my bedroom. I feel like I need to know everything, from the approach to sex, before I can even begin, because I don’t want to screw up. I feel overwhelmed by the amount of information that is available. I go places and I see women that I would like to approach, but they are busy shopping or talking to their friends or they look like they don’t want to be bothered. I am just not sure where to begin and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

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Trust me, I understand a thing or two about being overwhelmed with information.I am also signed up for these emails, so that I can see what others are saying and at times it literally makes me want to crawl into a hole and never come out.

Step 4:

I got this message on my blog today:

Here was my response:

Not really sure to how to start off this post because I am still kind of in shock. A couple of weeks ago I received an email from a guy in the U.S that has asperger’s. Asperger’s, in case you don’t know, is an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) that is characterized by significant difficulties in social interaction, alongside restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior and interests.

He and I exchanged a few emails, then he wrote back recently with an email that kind of caught me off guard. He was frustrated by the fact that women do not evaluate men on their looks or physical attributes. Probably the opposite complaint to most men who come to my site. Check out his email to me, my response and then his response to me:

Don’t you find this fascinating?!!! The fact that someone who has trouble in social situations due to Asperger’s would PREFER if women were more superficial. He actually thinks it’s not fair and that women have it easier because they evaluate men based on their personality.

Take a minute and think about this one. Hopefully you find it as interesting as I do.

Let me know what you think.

Do you find it UNFAIR that the female attraction trigger is personality rather than looks?

There were so many quotes from it that I wanted to share with you that I just decided to cut and paste the whole damn thing.  That's the part that I am not sure is legal. If it is, I will take it down immediately

There are a few things that I love about this article:

1. It's so real and sometimes we need to hear real to truly understand

2. It agrees with the way that I view marriage and all relationships

3. It teaches you exactly how to set expectations and communicate without feeling needy or wimpy

Honestly gold.  Please take a read.  I've highlighted my favorite parts.

Update made March 9: Psychology contacted me and asked me to take it down.  Really guys? 3 weeks? Staff is a little slow with copyright infringement   Anyway, below are some key points and you can see the full article at Psychology today.

Are You with the Right Mate?

Read the full article here

Got a great email.  Read below:

I went digging around to find the blog post that Mike was referring to and I finally found it.  It’s pasted below.  NOTE: It’s literally like 2 different people.

Amazing!! Just wanted to share.

“A man who can make a decision in a split second, especially when under pressure, is the sexiest thing to me.” – Carly 27

Whether it's the decision of where to go on the first few dates, what show to watch on TV or how to pack up your apartment on moving day.  Decision making is a must have skill for any man who wants to attract and keep a woman interested.

“When a man can't make an important decision, I think to myself, what do I even need you for. I know it's harsh but it's what I think.” – Jennifer 31

Recently, I had my own struggles with making decisions and stumbled upon this amazing resource for how to make decisions in 60 seconds.

Since finding it, it's been a key resource that I give to all my private coaching clients.  Check out what one of my clients said after receiving it:

Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. That is such a powerful piece. That resonated in my heart quite a bit… so simple and powerful. I just started looking at things in the past and asked myself was that me… and no for a lot of the negative stuff.

Thank you so much for this Marni!
-Randall

I got that email about 3 months ago and made a note to send you the decision making tool but then totally forgot.

Then I got this email an email from an email coaching client Shawn telling me he  “was listening to the interview with Jake and there's something I am guilty of . That is not making decisions especially in the beginning (with women) which later turned catastrophic.”

So I of course sent him the FREE tool for how to make decisions in 60 or less and he also loved it:

Marni,

This is a question I should have actively asked myself in my previous relationship. The question not only relate to male/female relationships but as the article indicates, it affects everyday life.

Moving forward, this is the type of approach I will take, not only for selecting and dealing with women, but also generally. As a matter of fact I tried it this morning and it was much easier than what I was doing before.

I may have told you that I recently developed a fear of approaching women at the train station. Well, this morning I never had on a rubber band but I imagined myself stinging myself with one, then asking myself  “do I really want to stand here and not approach her?” after that I found myself moving up to her and played a prank. I asked her if she realized that an orange spot was on the back of her pants. She started looking for it then I smirked and told told her I was just joking, then she smiled, the train came at the same time. I never continued the interaction as she was not someone I was attracted to but I just did it to get over that fear and to train myself to say anything to anyone as long as it's not disrespectful.

So, now I want to give this tool to you as well!

Discover how to make decisions in 60 seconds or less with this free tool. Click Here To Download It Instantly For FREE!

Use this tool for every decision you make moving forward.  It's been a life saver for me and it will be for you too!

Happy New Year!!!!!!