Go here to get it now: http://bit.ly/12sd68B

I am so excited for you to hear it and to give feedback on it.
I have to be honest with you.

This new experience has been a little uncomfortable for me and has brought out some insecurities which I am sure you can relate to.

I obviously want this podcast to be amazing and super successful. I know that I have so much great information and advice to give and I want to be sure to make everyone happy.

Which is so funny because the pressure I’m putting on myself to make this podcast “perfect” is so similar to the pressure you put on yourself to make every interaction with women perfect right?

Funny how these two worlds can relate

So I’ve taken a page out of my own book and saying “screw it! I’m going to put my best self out there and see what happens”.

The more you try to control an outcome, whether it’s having a successful podcast that everyone loves OR approaching a woman and getting her number, the less likely the chances for success will occur.

Go check out my first podcast where me and the women of Ask Women tell you:

- What it means when a girl looks at you

- How to know when she’s interested

- Subtle signs that women give that say “I want you” or “I don’t want you”

and much more!!

The podcast is available for download here: http://bit.ly/12sd68B

I hope you like and if you don’t, I’ll survive

The challenge is called, Nickname it!

I came up with this challenge when I was at wholefoods this morning getting my coffee when this guy walked in that I see nearly every morning.

He looked at me, smirked and said “coffee buddy, what’s up”. I immediately got shy for a second, hard to believe right

I realized that because he nicknamed me I instantly saw him as someone of higher value than me AND I felt attracted to him.

2. Nicknames are kind of fun and funny

3. Nicknames make me feel special

4. Nicknames make me feel feminine.  Not sure why, but they totally do.

I love that he doesn’t even know me but he had the confidence to nickname me.

The fact that he did this rather than politely initiating conversation caught my attention and made me like him more.

So this weekend I want you to Nickname It!!!

Everyone that you come in contact with, I want you to give them a fun nickname.

If you’re at a bar and the waitress is kind of mopey, call her mopey face or sad sally.  Then tease her a little and cheer her up.

If your coffee girl is really perky and smiling call her smiles.

You get the idea.

But I want you to dish out nicknames to women, or even people for that matter, and watch how your rapport changes. It’s almost as if you skip all formalities and go straight to connecting.

So go try it this weekend and then come back here to report back to me and let me know how it went. Write what happened in the comments section below.

In the comment box below, tell me what happened after you did this exercise.

Want more challenges and exercises just like this one??  CLICK HERE

For this one you must be out of your house and somewhere social.  So if you don’t have plans for this weekend, GET SOME

You’re not going to meet women sitting on your couch now are you???

While you are out I want you to go up to the first girl you see and TELL her that you want her to be your Wing Girl for the night.

If she asks what that means tell her “you don’t know what a Wing Girl is?” with a smirk. “Well a Wing Girl is a super cute and outgoing girl who helps a guy break into conversations with women. I think you’d be great at it”.

Then if she says yes to this “partnership”, play around with her. Give her challenges to complete.

This is dare that will help you be more playful when you are out and about.

It will also show you how open to fun and being playful women are when they are out and about.

REMEMBER, you are the leader and it’s your game. She is a part of this fun world you are creating.

NOW GO DO IT!!!

AND then let me know how it goes!

Want More Exercises That Will Get You Approaching and Talking To Women?

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What I think is actually going on when you don’t “notice the signs she’s into you” is that you are actually attempting to avoid rejection so you talk yourself out of thinking she’s into you and convince yourself that she is not.  Trust me, I understand that’s it’s always easier and safer to avoid a risk but then your left with nothing but regret and loneliness. Doesn’t seem ideal to me.

So I wanted to give you some rules to follow so that you can always notice the signs she’s into you AND act on those signs to make something happen.

I decided to call in the big guns and interview a friend of mine, Jordan Harbinger of Pickup Podcast and The Art of Charm.  He has a TON of experience with not noticing signs she’s into you. But more importantly, he’s now learned the signs and knows exactly what to do to when he sees them.

Check out our 40 minute interview where Jordan tells you:

1. How to notice the signs she’s into

2. 4 Key Signs to look for: Proximity, Damsel in Distress, Elevated Levels, Exaggeration

3. The GoFor Tool – This one is awesome and I highly suggest doing it

4. Why women’s signs are so subtle

You can listen to it for free here and can download it below:

For more information on Jordan and The Art of Charm Bootcamps AND to get your discount Click Here.

WHAT DID YOU THINK?  Leave a comment below and let me know what you thought of this interview with Jordan. Did you like it? Did you hate it? Did it help? I want to hear

First Gift

A new friend of mine, Ani, sent me this video last week and I thought it was amazing. I then sent it to a few of my personal clients and they all said it had a deep impact on them.  So of course, that means I wanted to show it to you

The video is from a TED conference and talks about how standing in a posture of confidence (power stances) can affect testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain and could impact success.

Which means in normal English that standing a certain way can actually alter the way that women see you and increase your success with women. So it’s a video on an easy way to build confidence with women and show them you are a confident, assertive leader!

The first few minutes of the video are just her talking and introducing the concept of her speech so you can skip the first 4 minutes if you want.

Enjoy the video and I would LOVE to hear what you think of this video.

So what did you think of that video? Genius right? It’s the holiday season right now which means you will have ample opportunity to try this out.  So go try it and let me know what happens.

Assignment: Before you go out at night or even before you walk into your place of work or school, take 2 minutes to stand like Amy Cuddy tells you and see if it has an effect on
you.

Then let me know about it by writing to me below in the comments section of this article.

Second Gift:

It’s a THANKSGIVING SPECIAL because I am so thankful for you.

You have supported me and I want to properly thank you for that. So thank you! With all my heart.  I appreciate you.

And to show you how much I appreciate you, I wanted to offer you something that I’ve never done before.  For the next 24 hours, I’m offering you a 50% discount on ALL my programs.

All you gotta do is enter this coupon code at checkout: thanksgiving50

And you will instantly get 50% off every product I sell, including the ones I don’t sell on my site.  See the full list here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/category/products/

I’m doing this for the next 24 hours only and then the coupon code will not work

Again, thank you so much for all your support. Happy Thanksgiving!

I’ll be helping a woman!!!  Weird right?

I was honestly freaked out when they asked me to do that, but then I thought, I want a challenge right now and this is a challenge.

So even though I was nervous, I said yes to doing it and now you can watch me as I coach my first woman ever live on TV.

I’ll be on the Jeff Probst Show (he is the host from survivor who now has his own talk show) on October 22rd at 2pm PST on NBC.

If you want to find out what time it airs in your city go here: http://www.jeffprobst.com/showfinder/index.html

One thing that I learned, which I kind of already knew but this experience reinforced, is that women have a tough time too.

Even beautiful, successful women like the woman I helped. She doesn’t approach the men she wants and has extreme approach anxiety even though  she is awesome!!!

So many men say to me “it’s so easy for women. They can have any man they want.”

Not true and my segment on Oct 22rd will confirm that for you. I hope you get a chance to tune in and watch. If not, I may be able to get a copy of the segment and put it on my site.

The show is The Jeff Probst Show on Oct 22 at 2pm PST on NBC.

Let me know what you think!!!

I’m nervous slash so excited

Want to do a little trade with me?   

Here’s the trade:

I recently put my report, 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women and How To Avoid Them, up on Amazon.com. And included 15 bonus pages of extremely revealing information about women, that I guarantee I have never told you before. And for the next few days, I have dropped the price by 75%.

Grab the program from Amazon here:
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This short (it’s 30 dense pages. No fluff, no B.S.) report teaches you a simple, step-by-step system ANY man can use to get any woman you want…
And have her literally BEG to be with you!

Even better, this simple, powerful method has been proven again and again to work on almost ANY girl (no matter how HOT and amazing she is ) But here’s where the Trade comes in. In return for downloading the book and writing a review (hopefully a good review) on Amazon.com. I’ll trade you a free 45 minute mp3 on Why You Get Put In The Friend Zone & How To Avoid It Forever (Value $39.99)

I will also throw in the transcript of the interview!!!

It will only take 2 seconds of your time and I would forever be indebted to you if you did this!

Here’s all you have to do to get your Free Copy:

1. Go grab “10 Mistakes Men Make With Women & How To Avoid Them” from Amazon by going here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/bookonamazon

(Remember, you don’t need a Kindle to get the program. Amazon has software that lets you read Kindle books on your phone, Mac, PC, Tablet or Laptop.)

2. Read the book. It’s 30 pages so you can read it REALLY fast.

3. Submit a review to Amazon. Obviously I want as many 5 star reviews as possible but I want you to be honest. The review can be as long or as short as you want it to be but be honest and talk about what you liked about the book and what can be improved.

4. Email me to let me know you’ve bought the book and tell me your review has been posted and I’ll send you the MP3 right away!

No need to show me, I totally trust you! I will be increasing the price shortly, so make sure you get it now.

If you do this for me, I will owe you big time! Grab the program from Amazon here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/bookonamazon

P.S. Don’t have a Kindle? No problem. You can download the Kindle reader for Mac, PC, iPhone, iPad and Droid by following this link:

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I want you to be able to meet women whether it’s morning, noon or night: and make them feel real attraction to you.

You may like to meet women at the mall, over your morning coffee, or when you’re at a friend’s party BUT come Saturday night having the ability to approach a woman at a club is pretty invaluable.

But before I give you a few tips on how to successfully approach women in clubs I want to share with you hands down, the biggest mistake guys make.

When a guy goes to a club thinking:

“I’m here to get some!”

The results often suck!

Why?

Because he is WAY too focused on his ‘goal’ rather than having fun. This means you can end up ‘prowling’ around, obviously checking girls out, appearing creepy and more often than not going hope empty handed.

Why? Because you seem needy and desperate.

Believe it or not, if you are overly focused on picking up at the club, instead of having a good time, you are instantly going to turn off most of the women in the club. A man that is too focused on “women or getting some” is creepy.

The best thing to do at a dance club is actually enjoy yourself. Men who are having fun and not preoccupied with picking up are super attractive.

They are demonstrating that they are non-needy, enjoy life and are the kind of guys you’d want to hang out with again!

So from now on I want you to scrap:

- Lingering around the girls you want to approach, watching them, instead of going to say ‘hi’ or joining in.

- Doing a ‘sneak attack’ where you squish your way into a group of girls dancing and then just start grinding. Women HATE this!

- Fake it. If you aren’t into the music, don’t fake that you are. You may wind up looking like you’ve stepped out of a Steve Carroll movie.

Instead to succeed with women in dance music clubs take the following steps:

- Be playful with girls on the dance floor.  Yep, that means I want you on the floor initiating dance offs.  Imitate (mirror) their moves for 5 seconds and then stop, smirk and get back to your dancing. This shows girls that you ‘get it’, have a sense of humor and are being playful.

- Pull women into your fun world of dancing.  Encourage the shy girls to get up and dance: be the life and soul of the party!

Tip: Go up to the oldest women in the room and take her for a spin on the dance floor. This tells the other women in the room that you’re a confident who knows how to have fun and that’s an attractive guy women want!

But most importantly…

HAVE FUN!!! Enjoy yourself!  Enjoy the music and show the people around you that you don’t care if you look like a fool.

Going to a club shouldn’t just be about meeting women; it should be about you having an great time, being sociable and just happening to attract lots of women as a consequence!

BONUS: 3 minute MP3 clip from a private coaching call. I give my client step by step instructions on how to flirt and approach women at a club or bar.

For more tips on how to convey confidence to women so that they want you instantly, Click Here.

Again, it’s extreme because honestly most women would not be that tough, guarded or vocal. BUT I do know that women whip out that behavior on a smaller scale and I want you to be able to handle it with confidence and charisma.

Press play to watch the video: Secret to approaching & talking to women – STAY GROUNDED…..

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The main point I want you to take away from this video is that you can’t and should not let a woman’s words rattle you.  They are just a verbal display of her own emotions.  The more unaffected (not sure if I spelled that right so correct me) and grounded you are, the more she feels safe, secure and attracted to you.  Masculine meet feminine.

I have an exercise for you that will help you learn to stay grounded no matter what women throw at you. It’s similar to what they do in martial arts so that you can stop reacting to danger, you can calmly respond to it.

EXERCISE:  The Shadow Game

Remember the shadow game that you played when you were a kid?? Where another person would say something and you would repeat whatever they said. It would be funny at first and then the other person would get so frustrated and upset because you wouldn’t stop it.  Ha.  Ahhh childhood. Anyway.  For the next week I want you to play this game with people (not women, people, everyone) you talk with for at-least 30 seconds. To the point where they kind of get annoyed but they aren’t at the point where they want to punch you.

So if they say “What are you doing” you repeat back “what are you doing” with a smirk on your face.

Then they say “Seriously stop it” and you repeat back “Seriously stop it”
Got it?

NOTE: Do not do it in the whiny voice that I know I used to do it in when I was younger. This is emotional and wimpy. Copy the way the guy in the video above talks to Whitney.

What this will do for you:

- It will show you what it’s like (how it feels) to be unaffected by someone else’s emotions.

- If you can remain calm and not give in to them wanting you to stop, it will give you a glimpse of what being grounded feels like

- It will be hilarious!!!  If you can’t have fun with yourself, you can’t have fun.

- It will give you an experience to draw from next time you encounter a woman who throws up her shield of protection

It’s no secret that women like men with confidence. BUT the essential piece, that many people forget to tell you is that, if a man can stay grounded, he instantly becomes the sexiest man in the room!!!  That’s a man I want.

Discover how to stay grounded in EVERY situation with women. 

There are 1000′s of little things that men don’t know about women. But I guarantee if you knew them, it would put you in the top 1% of men that have their choice of women they want. I can tell every little thing you need to know about women. Including the things that women would never want you to know.  Check out the system 1000′s of men use to make women want them.  Read more….

Rejection sucks. It does.  It sucks for men. It sucks for women (yes women get rejected too).  Overall it sucks. BUT, it sucks less when you experience it more.  Honestly, I know that seems counter intuitive but it’s true.

I know from my own personal experience, that the more I put myself out there and feel the brunt of rejection, it actually effects  me  less.

I’m going to be gross for one second but I was listening to NPR and they were discussing torture victims. They said that those who experienced torture in their lives, no longer felt fear. It’s as if they hit their tipping point after being tortured and developed the belief system that nothing could be worse, so why be fearful.  This made them push forward even harder and with more confidence.

I talk to hundreds of guys every week, thousands every month and they all fear the same thing, REJECTION!!! So instead of putting themselves out there to possibly be rejected, they don’t do anything and get no results.  In my opinion that’s just silly.  They are basically rejecting themselves, so that they won’t experience being rejected by a woman.

I was responding to comments that people post on  my blog and I stumbled across one that made me think, this guy gets it!!  This guy gets to how handle rejection by a woman AND how to flip the switch so his response creates attraction. It’s posted below:

This post honestly made my day!! I love hearing when guys who read my materials finally get it and they stay grounded and calm.  Totally sexy and super attractive to women.

Honestly there is nothing sexier than a man who is unaffected by my actions.  Gives me chills just thinking about it. Why is this? Because it singles to me that this man can handle things.

“I had this guy that I had stuck in the friend zone for years. Whenever he would bring up becoming something more, I would say no I don’t want to ruin our friendship blah blah blah and he would crumble and try to convince me to be with him.  Total turn off. Then one time when he brought it up, he said to me OK, smiled and then stopped contacting me.  That man has been my boyfriend for 2.5 years. Ha.” – Emily 28

Lesson: Rejection isn’t the bad thing, it’s the way you handle it that can make you feel so horrible.

**My 3 girlfriends and I discuss this in full length in my program What’s Inside A Woman’s Mind. We reveal exactly how the right man will handle rejection and how 1 little mistake will ruin your chances forever. Click Here to Read More…

So here is my exercise to you (you knew this was coming, ha):

GO OUT AND GET REJECTED 10 TIMES THIS WEEKEND!!! 

I am being totally serious. Go out, take chances, approach super hot women YOU believe would never give you the time of day, say whatever you want to her and then get rejected and love it!!!  Even smile or laugh to yourself after you get rejected and then walk away.

I want to hear about all your experiences, stories, success, failures so make sure to come back and write them below in the comments box.

The goal of this exercise is to have fun being rejected.  This little psychological tweak will, improve your presence with women, help you stay grounded and teach you how to handle rejection with grace so that women find you attractive.

There are 1000′s of little things that men don’t know about women. But I guarantee if you knew them, it would put you in the top 1% of men that have their choice of women they want. I can tell every little thing you need to know about women. Including the things that women would never want you to know.  Check out the system 1000′s of men use to make women want them.  Read more….

“A man who can make a decision in a split second, especially when under pressure, is the sexiest thing to me.” – Carly 27

Whether it’s making a decision about where to go on the first few dates, what show to watch on TV, or how to pack up your apartment on moving day…  Decision making is a must have skill for any man who wants to attract and keep a woman interested.

“When a man can’t make an important decision, I think to myself, what do I even need you for. I know it’s harsh but it’s what I think.” – Jennifer 31

Recently, I had my own struggles with making decisions and stumbled upon this amazing resource for how to make decisions in 60 seconds.

Since I have found this, it has been a key resource that I give to all my private coaching clients.  Check out what one of my clients said after receiving it:

Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. That is such a powerful piece. That resonated in my heart quite a bit… so simple and powerful. I just started looking at things in the past and asked myself was that me… and no for a lot of the negative stuff.

Thank you so much for this Marni!
-Randall

Then I received another email from a virtual coaching client named Shawn telling me that he had been “listening to the interview with Jake and found that he too was guilty of not making decisions especially in the beginning on a relationship (with women) which would later turn catastrophic.”

So I of course sent him the FREE tool for how to make decisions in 60 or less and he also loved it:

Marni,

This is a question I should have actively asked myself in my previous relationship. The question not only relates to male/female relationships but as the article indicates, it affects everyday life.

Moving forward, this is the type of approach I will take, not only for selecting and dealing with women, but also generally. As a matter of fact I tried it this morning and it was much easier than what I was doing before.

I may have told you that I recently developed a fear of approaching women at the train station. Well, this morning I never had on a rubber band but I imagined myself stinging myself with one, then asking myself  “do I really want to stand here and not approach her?” after that I found myself moving up to her and played a prank. I asked her if she realized that an orange spot was on the back of her pants. She started looking for it then I smirked and told told her I was just joking, then she smiled, the train came at the same time. I never continued the interaction as she was not someone I was attracted to but I just did it to get over that fear and to train myself to say anything to anyone as long as it’s not disrespectful.

So, now I want to provide you with this tool as well!

Discover how to make decisions in 60 seconds or less with this free tool. Click Here To Download It Instantly For FREE!

Use this for every decision you make moving forward. It is a life saver for me and it will be one for you too!

5 Things You Need To Do To Get Women In 2012

1. Be a LEADER, not a follower – I know it's easier to be the “easy going guy” but it's certainly not attractive. For the month of January be decisive in everything that you do. Even if you don't have an opinion, form one and take it to action. For example “X what do you want to do tonight?”. Your typical answer “Doesn't matter to me, whatever you like”.  New 2012 answer “Let's go to this new Whiskey bar I heard about.”

2. Get a life – Women are more attracted to men that have lives of their own. Why? Because it means they are not as needy. Assignment: Join 1 new group/sign up for 1 new activity that you have been meaning to try forever but never have.

3. Sign up for online dating – If you are single and not online then you are seriously missing out.  Online dating is the equivalent of a candy shop for singles!!! Tons of hot, available women all in one place. The only thing is that you if you don't do it right, then you won't get to taste any of the goodies. If you need assistance let me know and I will show you how to attractively date online.

4. State your intentions - 2012 is the year of honesty. No more covering up your intentions and suppressing your masculine urges.  If you see a woman you find attractive, go get her and let her know what you want. And what do you want?? You want to see whether or not you want more from her. Whether it's to date, sex, partnership, friendship etc….  But you will never get to find out unless you are clear with your intentions.

5. Be direct – This one is an add on to #4. There is nothing sexier than a man who can be direct. Be direct and ask for what you want OR you can continue asking for what you don't want and tip toeing around it. Think of how you asked for gifts from Santa when you were younger. You asked for what you wanted “I want a BB gun, I want a Nintendo Entertainment System, I want a G.I. Joe….”. Then it's up to Santa to say yes or no. The only way to get what you want, is by asking for it.

I guarantee that if you start doing these 5 things, you will get women in 2012!

I had one of my past clients, Alastair write in and also comment on the article and let me know that he has been doing some extensive research work in the field of body language.

Here's what he wrote: The body language stuff has always interested me, alongside behavioral psychology. I've been studying both subjects for the last two years and I have to say that I love being able to utilize the skills in my communication with women.

After receiving this email, I asked Alastair if would be able to create a special report for me on how to show confident body language when approaching women.  I asked him to combine what he has learned through his schooling on body language, working with me and working with other great dating & attraction experts.

He agreed, because he is also learning to become a life coach and happily put together a quick and easy guide listing 9 Tips For Confident Body Language.

When I received it last week, I loved it and instantly wanted to share it with you.

Click Here to download Alastair's 9 Tips For Confident Body Language!

Want to see if your body language is telling women what you want it to??  Set up a strategy session with me and within minutes I will tell you exactly what women think of you and how your body language makes them feel.

Click Here to find out more information on how to work with me!

1. It will help you read signals from women by recognizing what their bodies are saying to you with saying a word.

2. The 7 tips for improving your body language are tips you can use immediately.

ARTICLE:

Understanding Body Language

Most everyone's body language is a bit different. Some body language might represent learned behaviors, while some of it might also be cultural (a thumbs up means drastically different things in various parts of the world).

There does seem to be a certain amount of it hard coded into our DNA however. Studies have been done illustrating the movements of blind children and their similarities with children who had perfect sight. Hand movements when illustrating points, pouting and other emotional gestures are examples of this kind of behavior.

When trying to read someone's body language, it is also important to note that some language might simply be the result of circumstance. For example, maybe the person you are reading is cold and has crossed their arms in response.

How to Read Body Language

Here is a handy list of body language signs. Given the proper context, these nonverbal cues can help you with interpreting body language.

Examples of Body Language

Body hunched – low confidence
Clenched fists – aggression
Crossed arms – shut off, uncomfortable
Dragging feet – lethargy
Dropped shoulders – lethargy or weariness
Fidgeting with objects, hands – nervous
Hands behind head – arrogance, superiority
Hands on hips – in defiance
Hands on table – in agreement
Head down – timidity
Head rested on hand – bored, disinterested
Leaning away – discomfort with the situation
Leaning in closer – interest, comfortable
Looking at watch – boredom
Looking away to the left – constructing a thought in their mind or accessing a feeling
Messaging temples – anxiety
Nodding – interest, agreement or understanding
No eye contact – lack of confidence, lying
Shaking of legs – a sign of stress
“Shifty” eyes – nervousness
Stroking of chin – thinking, in thought
Tapping foot – impatient or nervous
Wiping hands on clothes – nervousness

Improve Your Body Language

Improving your body language will help you come across as more confident. It will also help make you a more persuasive salesman, which is a trait that can aid you in a variety of circumstances. It is important to understand that you shouldn't force your body language, but rather be aware of it to help control your emotions and tactics. Forced body language can come across as awkward and strange. Most of us can usually spot unnatural movements.

There are different body language expectations for different circumstances. On a job interview, you want to appear calm, cool and collected. You want to come across as confident and in control. You do not want to come across as creepy. Prolonged eye contact, close talking — these may be appropriate on an intimate date, but not in a job interview!

Here are some tips we've come across to help improve your body language:

• Smile and laugh – Laughter is contagious, it will also help put you in a positive mood. Your body language will naturally improve because of it.
• Slow down, breathe regularly – Nothing will stress you out more than moving at full speeds. Don't walk fast, don't talk fast and remember to breathe. Not only will this help calm you down, it'll calm down the people around you who pick up on stressful vibes.
• Use your body with purpose – No fidgeting and keep your hands out of your pockets. Don't be afraid to take up a little space. Show you are comfortable in the situation, not put-up-your-feet comfortable, but that you are in control and unafraid. Use your hands to expand on points or call attention to important statements.
• Hold objects by your side – If you have a drink in hand, keep it to your side, not in front of your chest. Holding your drink in front of your chest can express the same feelings as if you were standing with your arms crossed. Relax.
• Show your interest – Nod occasionally to let the person you are interacting with know that you are listening and are in agreement. Leaning in is another way to show your interest, just be careful not to lean in to soon or to often, or you may creep them out.
• Eye contact is powerful – Make eye contact with the people you are talking to, just don't stare. Breaking eye contact downward is generally more positive than breaking eye contact to the sides. If you have trouble looking people in the eye, try looking at their nose instead. They won't be able to tell.
• Mirror – This is a tough one because it can be hard to pull off. When two people have strong rapport, their actions and body language will naturally start to mirror each other. If you can, you can stimulate this by consciously doing it. Just be careful, as if you get it wrong, it will be really awkward for everyone.

Your confidence and attitude will carry you through and increase the chance of your success. Understanding how to read body language and improve your own will be a valuable trait!

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EXERCISE: Start using what you have learned from this article while you are out this weekend.

You can learn much more about improving your attraction levels and how you come across to women in my Confidence Booster System.

NOTE: Want to know what your smile says about you? Get my smile and Are You Attractive To Women assessment.

Click Here to get it now and within 24 hours I'll tell you exactly how you come across to women.

The first step to being attractive to women is very simple: you just need to smile more!

I'm not talking cheesy smile, like the picture to the left. As a woman, that smile says to me “needy, eager and not enough man for me”.  Which translates into A GUY I DO NOT WANT! Even if that's not who he is, it's what his smile says about him.

I'm talking sexy smile, The smile that says something behind it. George Clooney is the KING of this type of smile. This is the smile that gets you dates, sex and overall attention from women.

But WHY is smiling so important?

Flashing a smile, when you see a cute woman walking past, lets her know that you’re interested in getting to know her better. It also says “I'm confident and I've got things to smile about”.

A smile is the universal signal for ‘I’m a happy, positive person, come say ‘hello’!’.

So you should get into the habit of smiling: lots. Smile at beautiful women in the mall, at an art class, at the gym, at work, in a coffee shop, in a bar, and start engaging them in conversations, getting numbers and dates!

It sounds so easy (and it is) but I get that smiling is not an automatic reflex for everyone. But like other skills or reflux we don't have naturally, we can do a little work and train ourselves to do it.

For example, I used to have a habit that when I would be really interested in what people were saying to me, I would frow my brow. I didn't realize that I did this and didn't realize that my frowed brow sent a message to people that I was judging them, or communicated to them that I didn't like them. So, I worked on it and made a conscious effort to not frow my brow.

Now I couldn’t remember, right off the bat, not to frow my brow: as frowning had been a habit of mine for years. So I used a little trick to remind me to soften my brow and keep smiling!

Back when I wanted to get over my approach anxiety, I used to wear a rubber band around my wrist, that I would snap to remind me to not be afraid and get back into my body.  Now that my approach anxiety is gone, I used the rubber band on my wrist as a reminder to ease up that brow and smile. It took a few weeks of me snapping my wristband to remember what to do, but soon my frown pretty much vanished.

I soon noticed that people seemed more relaxed around me, and responded more warmly to me. This is because I was giving out signals that I was approachable, and that I was appreciating what they were saying.

Smiles are great communicators, and do a lot of the hard work of approaching a woman for you.

So if you have trouble remembering to smile, or have a natural ‘frown face’ when you meet new people; you need to work out your own technique to get smiling.

If you have a face that has a serious expression (even when inwardly you’re feeling happy) then you may need to find your own version of my reminder-wristband. Maybe try another special accessory or item, or every time you become conscious that you didn’t smile take ten seconds to put a smile across your face, so you get into the habit of beaming.

Learn To Have The Sexy Smile Women Are Attracted To.

Here's How  – Exercise:

- Go watch any George Clooney movie and watch how to smiles at women

- Go sit in front of your mirror and practice doing that same smile, but obviously give your own spin to it. Do this for 1 week.

- Find 3 females (co-workers, friends, sister) and ask them what your smile says to them

- BONUS: Want to see if you have nailed that super sexy smile?  You can send me either pictures or a video of yourself doing the smile and I will tell you if it's right OR if you need to make tweaks.  All you have to do is Sign Up for the assessment and within 24 hours, I'll tell you exactly what women think.

Smiling may not seem natural now, but just like any new skill, you can learn to incorporate it more often. Once your natural instinct is to smile when you see a woman that you like, you’ll start getting a lot more smiles back, and (hopefully) a lot more great interactions, numbers and dates with the women you want. You will have mastered the first step to becoming a more attractive man.

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- What your smile says about you

- If your smile is turning women off

- If you need to tweak your image.  Simple tweaks can make MASSIVE changes with women.

- If women will find you attractive

- What your overall look says about you

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