Being unfit and out of shape can have a detrimental effect on your dating life.

From the dates you go on, to your confidence both in and out of the bedroom, how fit you feel will impact your love and sex life.

Here are the 7 ways that being un-fit affects your dating life.

1. Great dates are like marathons! :First you rush out to dinner after work, then spend a couple hours talking with your beautiful date, all this followed by the entire night wide awake laughing and kissing…

Of course this is exhilarating…but also exhausting!

If you’re gonna make it throughout WONDERFUL dates…and BE a wonderful date, you’re gonna need the marathon endurance for it!

(And I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that you’re gonna need stamina to “last” throughout the honeymoon period. )

2. Dating involves fun ACTIVE-ties: Whether you want to swing by a Salsa class, go for a bike ride in the park or take a long stroll across the beach; some seriously romantic dates also require you to be active.

Women are drawn to men who wanna take them on adventures that other guys are too lazy to go on.

No girl is gonna settle for a coffee date, then a dinner date, then the movies over and over again.

And the key to keeping a girl hooked and wanting more of you is to take her on adventures that no other guy has…or even can.

So get those climbing legs ready, get your heart rate up to speed, and don’t limit her to a night out at the movies…again.

3. Dating involves delicious dining: I’ll be the first to say that when I see a guy on a date ordering just a salad or limiting his options, I get really self-conscious about what I’M eating, then I get uncomfortable in front of him, and then overall become less attracted to him.

The more fit you are, the more able you’ll be to go crazy with whatever dinner choices you want…

In return SHE will feel that much more comfortable eating whatever around you as well, which IN TURN will make her feel secure with you and more connected to you.

So don’t restrict where you can go to eat, or feel guilty when you get there.

Instead, get started on a dynamic fitness routine that allows for some wiggle room when it comes to adding some spice to your meals…and to your dates.

4. Dating means choice: Imagine how awesome dating would be if you knew you could have absolutely any woman YOU wanted…even the ones you immediately write off as “out of my league.”

You don’t just want a woman who is nice enough to deal with…you want a girl who’s beautiful (inside AND out), fun, smart and totally gets your impersonation of Steve Carroll.

Don’t limit the kind of women you think you can approach by having poor self esteem.

So do what you need to do to get the confidence you need to go for those tens…for the women YOU really want…don’t just settle for the only ones you THINK you can get.

5.  Dating means dress code: Just like how you don’t want to restrict the women who you think you can approach, or the dates you can go on, you also want to be able to wear clothes that are both stylish and appropriate.

In fact you want to look and feel sexy yourself: so that means getting to a fitness and stamina level where you’re happy to wear a well tailored suit, feel great in a pair of swimming trunks, and amazing in the nude.

6. Dating means first impressions: Just how you wouldn’t walk into a job interview unprepared, and un-groomed, you want to go out to a date feeling like you’re presenting your best self to the world.

But don’t look back to your high school photo and wish you still looked that good…because as far as I’m concerned, your best self has yet to be realized!

Instead, get to where you need to be in order to present yourself at your fittest (and HAPPIEST) today.

7. Dating is overall SEXY: This is gonna sound a little weird, but I want you to ask yourself if you would wanna watch a porn with yourself in it.

No I’m not saying that you’re gonna have to make one…but I am saying that SHE will have to see you during moments of physical intimacy…

And whatever doubts, concerns, or self-reservations you may have about yourself…she will totally pick up on and become instantly turned off (she might think there’s something about HER that’s wrong).

What I want you to do is get to the point where you look in the mirror and think, “YEAH that guy’s hot enough to be a porn star!” because THAT’S when you’ll know you’re looking and feeling your best

But being sexy doesn’t just mean feeling like you’re one hot guy…cuz let’s face it some guys feel sexy with money, nice clothes, and a fancy car attached to them.

But REAL sexy comes from having a voracious libido and showing her how hot you get for her AND having the overall stamina and endurance to give her the kind of passion she needs.

Unfortunately being unfit may mean that your nights of passion don’t last as long as you would like though.

I remember I was in the middle of some hot action with a not-so-fit guy and NOT ONLY did I feel like I was suffocating while he was on top of me, he had to keep stopping to get water and wipe off all his sweat!

I was so put off and grossed out that I stopped in the middle of it and never answered his calls or texts ever again!

Find out how to get the endurance you need and avoid being her next horrific sex story

I’m not saying this is you by any means, but I will say that it’s almost inevitable if you don’t start taking care of your body and overall physical state NOW.

Most guys will write off this advice as something they don’t have time for or something they’ll get to later…or even worse, something they can fix with a shake-weight!

But just think…

If YOU aren’t giving yourself the time to invest in yourself, then no woman will give you her time either.

Dedicate time to yourself now and find out how you can look and feel your best

So if it came down to a choice between a doughnut and dating, or a mid afternoon sugar fix and sex, I know which one I’d choose!

Big news that I may have mentioned to you before but now it’s actually happening.

I am finally doing a Podcast and I am so excited about it.

Me and 3 other amazing, intelligent SUPER HOT women, are going to be doing a weekly FREE podcast called Ask Women.

Each week me and these 3 lovely ladies will be giving you realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man.

To ensure you get all the updates on the podcast, you can follow @askwomenpodcast on twitter and I’ll also update you through email so that you don’t miss it.

I will have full instructions for you next week on:

1. Where and when to listen to the podcast

2. How to download the podcast

I’ll also be introducing you to the other 3 women that will be part of Ask Women.But for now, here are some preview pics of them:

I am so excited for you to get to know these girls and for them to educate you on the ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.

Be the first to get details on the Ask Women Podcast by following @askwomenpodcast on twitter   Click the link to follow us now and PLEASE share this with others!!!

Facts are that men and women have very different ideas of what makes for a great first date: which is why you may think it’s a done deal, when she’s not ready for round 2.

As a guy you may see an attractive women in front of you, have a nice conversation for an hour or so, and assume that she’ll be equally interested in a second date. Problem is that women are often looking out for a much broader range of qualities that make you a keeper.

You may not even consider these points when you’re looking for a date: but women will be evaluating on whether they believe you have the right qualities to be a good match for them; whether you have the charisma to keep them interested; and what you can bring to their life long term.

To help you put the pieces of the puzzle together I asked 5 sexy, successful, single ladies to give you their HONEST opinions about what they’re looking out for on a first date:
Our panel:

Ria, 27, sales executive

Brittney, 28, admin coordinator

Haley, 31, retail consultant

Rebecca, 29, finance

Sarah, 34, accountant

Q: Imagine you’ve just met a guy for your first ‘official’ date: what’s the first thing you’re looking out for?

Haley: This sounds bad: but how much of a ‘man’ he is in organizing the date. I once had a guy ask me to make all the decisions as to where we’re going, what I wanted to do etc and it just felt really dull! Kind of like I was hanging out with my younger brother!

Brittney: Confidence definitely helps with that, I want a guy to take the lead!

Rebecca: Yes, if a guy is clearly super nervous, it makes me worry for him and think ‘this guy can’t handle me!’

Sarah: I’m a little different… I’m looking for a gentleman, someone who has manners, and is respectful. I don’t want to go out with an immature guy, or a rude one!

Q: What do you mean when you say ‘confident,’ Brittney?

Brittney: Confidence doesn’t mean being a jerk: it’s more like someone who is confident and calm within themselves. You don’t want a guy who apologizes about who he is or what he’s about: you want a man who’s comfortable with what he’s got to bring to the table.  I want to sit across the table from someone that feels like a man to me so that I can feel like a lady.  Ya know?

Q: Ok, it’s time to get real ladies, how important is a man’s success to you?

Ria: I’m actually not a huge fan of boastful guys. I mean, if a guy has a good job and loves his career that’s cool: but nothing comes off worse than when a guy can’t stop talking about how much money he’s making. I always think that seems to try hard, guys who are doing more humble things are fine by me!

Sarah: I grew up in a small town so I have similar values to that: honest work, enough money to live on, but no need to be flashy. Now I live in NYC though and- my god- it’s different so many guys will try to impress you with their wallet first.

Haley: I think you can live with a guy who maybe doesn’t have the best job, as long as he’s got some drive and ambition. You want to be with someone who’s going somewhere. So, if he’s a little broke right now, but that’s because he’s putting himself through med school: that’s cool, in fact it’s pretty admirable.

Brittney: Yes, I agree: ambition to be a better person is more important than just being rich here & now!

Rebecca: Listen, having cash is almost never a negative thing in my eyes but it’s certainly not the reason to continue dating a guy. I see it as a bonus if a guy has money. It’s honestly nice but it’s not the reason I would sleep with him or want to continue dating him. There has to be more or else the money is useless. Sorry, just being really honest.

Q: But what happens when it comes to paying for the date?

Haley: It doesn’t have to be an expensive date, drinks or coffee are fine, but I would expect a guy to pay, for sure. If he’s asked me out on a date I think it comes across as really rude when he wants to split the check. That said, if I really like a guy, then I’ll usually offer to pay for something: maybe the second round of drinks or the parking.

Rebecca: If a guy doesn’t pay for the first date, there will certainly not be a second one.  I’ve had a guy go dutch on me for a coffee date. I think the total bill was $7 tops.  It threw me off and left a bad taste in my mouth.  I know we say we want to be equal and stuff but that’s in the work force, not the dating space. It just makes me feel really unwanted and unfeminine if a guy wants me to pay on the first date.

Ria: Yeah, I wouldn’t want to date someone who’s overly thrifty. It’s fine to not have too much money, but when guys are ridiculously cheap it makes you worry about where he sees the relationship as going, and what it would be like in the future if you were in a relationship with him.

Q: And what about the actual type of date: do you need to go out to dinner?

Rebecca: No, but it kind of depends where you met the guy. If you met him via a dating site, or he approached you, you may go for something a little more formal than if he’s a friend of  a friend that you linked up with at a party.

Sarah: I think sometimes a restaurant can be way too much. A really fancy place too early on makes me feel like things are going too fast.

Brittney: Yes, I like to still feel like I have something to work for too: there’s no fun when it’s a done deal. I also hate it when guys get drunk or forget really simple manners. I’ve had guys forget key details about me mid-date: which has made me want to leave!

Ria: I also think that where you go is slightly less important than the guy’s overall presentation. You want him to have bothered to you know, wash, comb his hair, make sure his car is tidy: simple things, but they say a lot!

Q: How is it important for him to behave mid date?

Haley: I think, just like Ria said, you want him to have put a little effort in and, most importantly, make you feel like you’re the only girl in the room.

Sarah: The most important thing for me is no groping! Or lunging in to kiss you unexpectedly before you part- I hate that! A little touch to the small of the back to guide you across the street is fine though.

Rebecca: I like it when a guy has good values: when he speaks about his family, friends, co-workers, positively. Even occasionally mentioning ex’s is fine, as long as it’s light hearted. You want a good guy really: not a guy who’s a player, or who wants to act like one.

Ria: I think we’ve all had a couple of mid date make outs, ha.  I think it’s weird if the guy and I are just having a normal conversation and then he pounces on me wanting to make out. But if we’re in that vibe and feeling it, I’m totally down for a little make out session.

Q: Do you know during the 1st date if there’s going to be a 2nd date?

Haley: Honestly, YES.  I know pretty quickly if I am feeling a connection. I’ve been surprised mid date before but that doesn’t happen very often.

Sarah: I also know pretty early if the date is going to go anywhere. But I will say it also depends on what I want at that point in time.  If I’m on a date and I’m in the “I’m happy I’m single” mode, I may be more open to the guy. But if I’m in “I’m looking for my next boyfriend” mode, I decide pretty quickly. Doesn’t mean I won’t have fun on the date. I just won’t want a 2nd one if I’m not feeling that chemistry or a strong connection and desire to see him again.

Rebecca: I wish I could say that I was really open minded and non-judgmental but I’m not when it comes to guys I date.  I know within the first 5 minutes if I want to see this guy again.  I usually try my best to wrap up the date quickly and not lead him on in any way so that there is no confusion at the end of the date but sometimes it’s tough. Like when I really get along with the guy but I don’t feel anything more for him.  I’m sure he’s thinking “we’re having a great date” while I’m thinking “I totally want you to be my new best friend”.

Ria: Sometimes I go on dates where I really get along with a guy and I really wish I felt something more for him but I don’t.  It just isn’t clicking for me and I don’t know why.  I never say anything because I always assume he can feel it too.

Q: OK, let’s be brutal now: you went out, and you didn’t connect with him. What do you do next? Be honest!

Brittney: Let it die! Avoid calls, say you’re busy and hope he gives up? I know that sounds horrible but it seems nicer than just flat out telling a guy that he isn’t rocking your world.

Sarah: You have to make excuses sometimes: just to be polite.

Ria: I’ll usually blame myself! I may say I’m not into relationships right now, which is true, I’m not into having a relationship with him but of course if the right guy came along, I’d probably change my mind!

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I’m honestly not sure how to classify this situation other than calling it over eager. I see a lot of guys make a situation into something much bigger than it is because they are worried of either:

1. Falling into the friend zone

2. Losing a girl

3. Messing up

Which is ultimately what ends up happening because they are over eager. Funny how that works right? ha.

Read this guys email because I know you will learn something from his situation as well as my advice for him.

Hi Marni,

I just signed up for the Winggirl program and am looking forward to learning how to be a better man. Thanks!  I did have some questions regarding someone who I am currently talking to.  But first a little background information:

I’m a single guy in my mid-thirties. I live in LA, but work takes me to SF (San Francisco) every other month for a week at a time. On my last trip, I met this girl and we went for drinks on a Thursday night.  Everything went well and we decided to meet for dinner the next night.

Dinner the next night got off to a bad start because I was really late.  She was pissed.  I tried to make the best of it, but it was pretty miserable.  I kept asking why she was so upset and halfway through she started opening up about herself and her past. She had abusive parents and a rough time in High School where she got into drug and alcohol use. She also mentioned a lot of bad relationships with unreliable guys.  At the end of the night, we hugged, said we’d stay in touch and said goodbye.

I left for LA the next day.  So a month has gone by and we’re emailing each other. I’m trying to keep it light and casual, while avoiding the friend zone. I’ll be back in SF in January and will try to see her then.

Anyway, I know this is a lot, but hopefully you can give me your advice and thoughts.

Sincerely,

xxxxxx

And here are his questions, and my words of advice:

QUESTION #1: What do you make of her past?  Should I be concerned. All the articles on askmen say I should run away as fast as possible. 

MARNI’s ANSWER: hmmm. Not sure you should run away unless you are getting huge red flags about her. Are the emails fun or are you just sending them to “stay in touch” and make sure she’s still there. I would say an email every other week would be enough.  You guys didn’t kiss or anything when you hung out in SF so it’s still not anything solid yet. I would keep is casual until you get back to SF. Plus it’s holiday time so enjoy this time for yourself, send her a happy holidays message that’s cute and kind of teasing and then contact her in January.

QUESTION #2: Not sure how I feel about past drug use, guys, etc.  How do I bring up the topic of STDs and when?

MARNI’s ANSWER: That’s an individual thing. I know it’s not my ideal either but I also know I adjust if I like someone. My husband was a much bigger drinker than I ever imagined myself with and I had a hard time adjusting to it cause I wanted to change him BUT when I stopped trying to change him and just accepted it, he actually started drinking less. I’m happy I stuck around!

QUESTION #3: She’s religious.  I’m not, but it doesn’t bother her. Is there anything I should be concerned about?

MARNI’s ANSWER: Concerned? NO. I would hold off on all these concerns for now and just really think about whether or not you like her.  Seems like a lot of thought and effort going into someone.

QUESTION #4: Is this part time in SF lifestyle fair to her or to me?  Is it workable?  I need to know more about her before I would consider her anything more than someone I’m seeing/dating.

MARNI’s ANSWER: Same response as above. Don’t worry about fair. You guys are pen pals for now, so take a breath and don’t take this so seriously

QUESTION #5: How can I keep emailing her interesting?  How do I start flirting or is that a bad idea?

MARNI’s ANSWER: OF COURSE FLIRT!! Why else are you emailing!!

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This example, shows you how to handle when a woman tests you if you are in a relationship. But the essential pieces of remaining grounded, unrattled and confident still stand for those that are single.

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To be honest, it was a surreal experience watching myself on that show but it was awesome.  It was so great to see that I am achieving my dream! It was also amazing to see how big a response the show created.  I got so much traffic to my site yesterday from the show that it actually crashed.

Freak out aside, it was pretty amazing! What was more amazing that the people coming to my site were WOMEN. Women who want my help meeting men.

Now I know you may think “what do women need advice for? It’s so easy for them.”

But  I got emails, that also included pictures, from beautiful women all across the United States and Canada. These women were telling me that they are having trouble meeting men and they wanted my help. I gave these women a survey to find out why they were having trouble and their responses were shocking.

They were not shocking because they were extreme or out of this world.

They were shocking because they were the exact same responses that I get from guys when they fill out one of my surveys.

The top 3 things women listed as the reason why they were having trouble dating were:

1. Motivation – Not sure where to meet men and not doing anything right now to meet men

2. Confidence – they were nervous, shy and didn’t think they were good enough

I don’t think so: one of the most common hurdles guys tell me they face to meeting women is that they don’t know where to find them! So I want to give you an insight into how to overcome this so that you know not meeting women is down to your logistics and not your mindset.

You may not live on Broadway, NYC, or South Beach, MIA, or Hollywood, CA; but here are my top places to meet women in your local area:

1. The Mall: Without making any jokes about how much women like to shop; one of the key places to meet women is where they hang out during the day time. If you are attracted to someone it is perfectly ok to strike up a conversation with someone whilst you’re going about your day to day activities. So next time you see a cute woman shopping for some groceries, buying a coffee, or window shopping, approach, approach, approach. Unless you go and say ‘hi’ you’ll never know!

2. The Gym: You’re basically killing two birds with one stone here. Getting fit AND meeting women! I know you may think that women don’t want to be bothered at the gym and this is somewhat true, but it’s a great place to slowly build rapport with women and make connections.  Over the years I have probably dated 7 guys that I met at the gym. 1 was my trainer but the other were guys who just went to the same gym as me.

3. Social clubs: Once women have left college (& gotten some responsibilities) grinding at a dance club until 3am may have lost some of its appeal! However, there are plenty of other social opportunities that women will turn up for. If you live in a city check out networking events: often these list attendees, including single women. If you live a little further out then look into local social clubs, book clubs, yoga clubs- any activity that you think the women you want may be into.

4. Explore your hobbies: Always wanted to learn a few skills in the kitchen? Try out rock climbing, or finally make the trip to see your favorite band play? Then do it! Not only will you build up your own social life (which instantly makes you more of an attractive guy to be around) but you’ll also end up meeting women who have a shared interest with you: great for kick starting conversations!

5. Get online: Even if there wasn’t another woman for 100’s of miles around, the fact that you’re reading this blog means that you have access to the internet. So get online, try out a few free sites, put some effort into getting a good profile together and whip out those ice breaker messages. Just like in real life, internet dating requires you to be pro-active, but it can be a great way to meet tons of people you’d never get to know in real life.

6. Ask your friends: Most people still meet people through their social circle; so it’s time to work on yours. A group of good friends will get you off of your couch and out meeting people. The bigger your social circle is the more people you can meet who are a friend of a friend of a friend. So start saying ‘yes’ when people invite you out, arrange cool social gatherings and tell all your friends to play matchmaker!

7. The Grocery Store: I think I have officially  increased revenues at Wholefoods and other local supermarkets around the world, because every guy I work with I tell them to go practice meeting women at the grocery store.  It works so well & it’s a great place to meet women. Plus it’s got so many conversation starters because there is so much to observe there. “You have a lot of Sweet Potatoes.” or “I’ve never had that type of fish before, what does it taste like?”. Plenty of ways to break into conversations.

8. Google That SH*T!!!!: Google is the best resources for finding events/groups/activities you can participate in so that you can meet women.  I actually use it for most of my one on one clients.  Here’s how to use it:

1. Enter your age or age range you are looking to meet/interact with

2. Enter singles events/singles groups/singles parties

3. Enter your city

(see example below)

A whole bunch of options will pop up. Then go through the options and find the best choices for you. Make sure to do 1 of these things each week and I guarantee you’ll meet women OR new single friends that you can hang out with. No more being the 3rd wheel!

You know have a list of 8 ways to find places to meet women! So no more excuses. It’s time to get off your butt and make it happen.

I Want To Know What You Think!

What do you think are the best places to meet women? Write suggestions in the comment section below. Your suggestion may help other men!

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I’ll be helping a woman!!!  Weird right?

I was honestly freaked out when they asked me to do that, but then I thought, I want a challenge right now and this is a challenge.

So even though I was nervous, I said yes to doing it and now you can watch me as I coach my first woman ever live on TV.

I’ll be on the Jeff Probst Show (he is the host from survivor who now has his own talk show) on October 22rd at 2pm PST on NBC.

If you want to find out what time it airs in your city go here: http://www.jeffprobst.com/showfinder/index.html

One thing that I learned, which I kind of already knew but this experience reinforced, is that women have a tough time too.

Even beautiful, successful women like the woman I helped. She doesn’t approach the men she wants and has extreme approach anxiety even though  she is awesome!!!

So many men say to me “it’s so easy for women. They can have any man they want.”

Not true and my segment on Oct 22rd will confirm that for you. I hope you get a chance to tune in and watch. If not, I may be able to get a copy of the segment and put it on my site.

The show is The Jeff Probst Show on Oct 22 at 2pm PST on NBC.

Let me know what you think!!!

I’m nervous slash so excited

If you’re going to fight, then you have to learn to handle a fight with your girlfriend. This will ensure you grow from your fights, rather than damage the relationship.

Watch this video that I did for Askmen.com on how to handle a fight with your girlfriend.

This guy did the awful and sadly typical move of  “I’m going to get distant and act strange so she’ll get upset and have to break up with me”.  (BTW, girls do this move as well so this is not a stab at men).

As you can guess, or probably know from experience, this kind of technique can be very hurtful, freakin frustrating and down right confusing.  My Wing Girl has been crushed by the situation. Not because she and her boyfriend broke up. But because, someone that she dedicated so much of her time to, could not respect her enough to simply be honest with her.

I know you have been told time and time again, women LOVE jerks, but this is not the “jerky” behavior they are referring to.

Cause you know what happens when you cowardly break up with a woman this way?

1. You get bad dating Karma?

2. You ruin your good female PR. You make an enemy out of an ex, who could have been your biggest cheerleader and tell other girls about you.

3. You make it harder for your ex to trust another man. A man who may have been the right guy for her.

4. Your penis may literally shrink!!!  There is no telling what a scorned woman is capable of. Ever heard of a woman named Lorena Bobbit?   

Check out this video I made for you that includes The Wing Girl Method’s guidelines for How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Like A MAN

Even if you aren’t in a relationship now and planning on breaking up, remember these guidelines for breaking up to ensure you always leave a woman, better than you found her.

Always, break up with your girlfriend like a MAN, instead like a coward.

For more tips on how to be THE MAN Women Want. A man of great integrity, go here.

It can literally drive a person crazy. Watch this video as I explain How To Make A Good Impression with Her Parents.

Here are a few simple tips to follow so that you can breeze through your first meeting and make an amazing first impression:

1. Be yourself.  Don’t try to over impress or pretend to be someone you are not.  I know it’s important for you to win them over but you aren’t going to win them over by acting like someone you are not.
2. Always clear the table and help out.  Don’t just sit there and let your GF’s parents do everything for you. I know my parents love it whenever my boyfriends have helped out around the house without being asked.
3. Don’t hide your affection for their daughter. Parents want to see that their daughter is with someone that will care for her. So don’t be afraid to let her parents know how you feel about their daughter and why.
4. Find out more about them.  Ask her parents questions and show an interest in their family history and dynamic.  This will show that you want to learn and understand how to be part of their family.
5. Ask questions about their daughter. What was she like as a child? What activities did she love?  The more interest you have in knowing about her, the more comfortable they will feel with you.
6. Get some one on one time.  A true sign of a great man, is one that is confident enough to break away from his lady and go one on one with her parents.  Spend some private, quality time with each parent and get to know them better.

Follow these 6 tips when meeting your parents and I guarantee you will win them over and make your lady very happy!

Not sure if you remember my friend Christian Hudson, but we have done several interviews together on connection and being fearless with women. Well, he and I did another interview on his new favorite topic How to meet a girl and make her want to be your girlfriend.

As always with Christian, we had a great conversation filled with tons of actionable information that you can start using right now to attract women and make them want to be with you.

In this call we discuss:

- The 4 phases of attraction and how to successfully handle each phase so she stays interested in you

- What it means to be a modern alpha male and how to get these traits in a short period of time

- The secret thing you can do that keeps her coming back and always guessing (in a good way)

- How to make women see you as a long term option

And so much more!

Check out the 35 minute, FREE MP3 now by clicking play:

I am so sorry, I had to cut the interview short, because I had a private coaching call BUT check out this video that Christian made that reveals an AMAZING little trick that helps you figure out if a girl will sleep with you on the first date.  As a woman, I know this little trick will definitely work

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A few months back, I co-hosted a twitter event and the whole time I was thinking “I can do this”. So I am!!

The Twitter Event will focus on everything you need to know for approaching, attracting and getting any girl, and features a Q&A with me.

Here are some of the topics I’ll be covering

• Approaching a woman in public – how to do it, what to say, how to know if she’s into you
• Asking a woman out/on a date – how to ask and how to follow up before the date
• Where to take a woman on date - where to take your date, how to give options without being a wimp, how to lead your date
  
• The date itself - shake hands? Kiss on the cheek? Hug? how to greet your date, how to act on the date, when to touch, when to kiss
• Post-date tips – when to ask for that second date, how to tell if you want to go on a second date

and tons more!!

Plus they giving away ridiculously amazing prizes every 10 minutes including:

·         Five $20 gift cards
·         Two $50 gift cards
·         FREE Copy of What’s Inside A Woman’s Mind
·         GRAND PRIZE: One FREE coaching session with me

If you have a Twitter account, follow the instructions below on how to be involved in the Twitter Event and ask me anything you want to know about dating, women, attraction.

If you DO NOT have a twitter account, get one!!!  If only for the purpose of being part of this event

See details below and make sure you RSVP and leave a comment!

DETAILS

TOPIC – Rules to Follow To Ensure A Successful First Date

TIME – Thursday May 31 @ 8-9 PM Eastern (7-8 PM Central, 6-7 PM Mountain, 5-6 PM Pacific)

HASHTAG – #BTHEMAN – Use the hashtag #BTHEMAN to follow along with all the conversation and to be eligible to win great surprises every 10 minutes

HOST – @winggirlmethod & special surprise guests!

WHAT - The event will focus on everything you need to know for approaching, attracting and getting the girl and feature a Q&A with ME and the other experts! Learn answers to your toughest questions including how to ask someone out, what to say, plan the date, prep for the date, and even follow-up after the date.

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I’ll be sending updates on twitter to remind you, but make sure you mark it down in your calendar

Quick question. I remembered from my first meeting with the first girl that she likes “white Roses”.   Would it be unwise to give her 1 white rose for the 2nd meeting?

- Eddie

Eddie,

That’s a tough 1 without knowing full details on you feel/think about this girl. Or how she reacts/responds to you. But here are my broad thoughts on the matter of  giving gifts to women.

Before you take any action with a woman; texting, email, calling, gifts etc… you gotta take a second and really think about WHY you are doing it.

If you are doing it for attention – don’t do it.

If you are doing it so she’ll think you’re nice – don’t do it.

If you are doing it because you think that’s what she wants you to do – don’t do it.

If you are doing it because you honestly thought, hey she might like it and it won’t take me much time to do – DO IT.

Intention is everything. So if you like this girl and want to do, then do it.  But don’t do it to because you think it will make you win.

For your specific situation, I think bringing a rose, is very sweet. It’s definitely thoughtful and can win you points if you she is feels a chemistry between the two of you.  If you sensed chemistry from the first date, then I would bring the rose to show you guys are still on track. But if you guys are still fence sitting this move may seem a little premature and needy.

Only you can tell where you guys are at and decide.

Hope that helps.

Marni

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Hi Marni,

There are so many times I’m out speed dating or on a 2nd date and I’d like to be open and honest about what I want, yet I’m socially aware there is a right and wrong way to express that intention.

My Question is what is the correct way to express your desires and intention in the correct way that turns her on ?

Peter

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Peter,

I always say be honest with tact and DO NOT emotionally throw up on a woman.  For the first date, or the first speed dating round, you definitely want to keep it fun and light. BUT if you do want to get into the more nitty gritty topics and put it all out there, here is how to do it:

Instead of saying this:

“I’ve been to a million of these speed dating events and I just want to find someone.  I really want to get married and have kids.  I’m ready and I’m hoping to find that girl here tonight. So how about you?”

This is tooooooooo much.  Too emotional, too needy and too yucky.

You can say the same thing but with a little more respect for yourself and a little more tact.

Say something like this:

“My life is pretty full right now. I enjoy my job, have a great group of friends. I’m happy. I’m in a space where I am looking explore and meet someone great and see where it goes.”

#2 is much stronger and shows that you still respect your life but looking to enhance it with the right person. Honest and classy!

WHAT DO YOU THINK?  In the comment section below, tell me what you think is the right and wrong way to express your intentions to a woman? Looking forward to hearing what you have to say.