How To Be A Woman’s Hero

“Nothing” is the worst word a man can possibly hear coming out of a woman’s mouth. “What’s wrong”, “NOTHING”. But it doesn’t have to be.

I want to tell you what this “Nothing” really means, why we say it and how it has NOTHING to do with you. If you can learn how to handle the “NOTHING” with class, comfort and ease you will be a woman’s hero for life!

I will explain it by using an email that I received from one of my Insider Club Members, E.

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Email From E:

Hey Marni,

I’m curious about something.

When you can see that something is a woman’s mind or is troubling her. When you ask her, is something wrong or what’s on her mind? Females usually say ” Its nothing”.
But my gut feeling is that: “nothing” = something she’s not wanting to tell you. If I’m right Marni, what is the best way to handle that situation? or should I just let it go? What’s really happening here?

My Response:

E,

Ah the dreaded “Nothing”, a statement I have made oh so many times.  This “Nothing” is actually quite loaded, but not in the way you think.  I have heard many men label this as a “test” or a way for women to manipulate.  It is neither.  What it actually is, is a statement stemming from discomfort.

“Nothing” means either “You should know and I can’t believe you don’t” or “I am mad at myself for being this mad about X and need your help calming down. I don’t want to be this upset, but I am”. Both come from a place of caring about you, feeling alone and discomfort. Both should be handled in the same way.

Let me step back up for a minute and tell you something about women. Women tend to “think” they are in control at all times. They also aim to be an ideal woman, especially in the eyes of the man they are seeing. When they get into situations where they begin to feel “less than ideal” it creates anxiety. Anxiety that is uncontrollable and sooooo uncomfortable.

When she is seemly sitting and stewing, this is the moment where you can be a woman’s hero OR you can be her punching bag. Ultimately this choice is up to you because it’s really in your control, not hers.

If you wish to be the punching bag, engage her defensively and tell her that what is feeling is irrational/crazy/unacceptable.  No good. Get’s you nowhere but the dog house for a full week.

If you wish to be a woman’s HERO, stay strong, listen, be patient and understand that it’s not ABOUT YOU.  Next, you engage her in a warm way. Not defensive, not attacking and not AFRAID. The last one is most important. If you show any indication that you are afraid or that for one minute you are thinking in your head “this chicks crazy” game over

You say to her “I can tell something is bothering you and I want to talk about with you”. And then you LISTEN to her.

If she still does not budge you say “listen, I want you to be comfortable telling me things. If I have done something to upset you, I want to know so that I can try to not do it again.” Give her a hug if needed.

If she still sticks with the huffing and puffing, that is when you have to have a boundary and you say to her “I can tell something is wrong but I am not going to push it out of you. I will be in the other room and when you are ready to talk, I will be ready to listen to you.” and then leave.

Most likely she will calm down and eventually work up the courage to speak with you. Still be strong, patient and understanding and LISTEN to what she is saying. These are her feelings, they are not meant to hurt you or attack you. They are meant to show you what she is feeling so that you can grow together.

Sometimes in relationships, your partner can make mistakes or they can have a moment of weakness. These are the most important times to show her you still care and can handle her imperfections.  If you handle these situations with class and calmness, these situations will happen fewer and farther between and you truly will be a woman’s hero. Trust me!

Marni
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Situations like the one described above can either hurt a couple of bring them closer together.  Next time you encounter the “NOTHING” situation with the girl your dating, take it as a compliment.  Seriously.  Understand that she cares about you enough to feel stress, anxiety and discomfort over you.  If she didn’t care about you and if she was not invested, then these things would not matter to her.

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How To Kiss A Girl

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How To Kiss A Girl

The first kiss! Oh the first kiss!!!  Such an amazing moment sprinkled with discomfort, awkwardness and fear.  It’s never going to be as picture perfect as either of you imagine it but in this 5 minute audio I recorded, I tell you how to kiss a girl in a fun and creative way.

It’s called The Whiskey Kiss and it’s a way to take the edge off when you are freaking about when and how to kiss a girl.

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Kissing Women At The End Of A Date: How To Know If She Wants To Be Kissed!

No longer does kissing women at the end of a date have to become such a daunting task.

I have put together her list of the important signs to look for that will let you know a woman wants to be kissed.

It’s the end of an evening with your date, following a great dinner and nice conversation. You want to kiss her good night. But is the timing right?

Of course the timing is right! Why? Because you have already acknowledged that you want to kiss the girl at the end of the night. Therefore be confident in your decision and go after what you want, the kiss!

BUT if you are looking for the list of guaranteed, fool proof “signs” to watch for before kissing women then you have come to the right place!

In my opinion it’s always a good idea for a man to walk a woman to her door following a date. In fact, it’s a must. But how do you navigate that awkward feeling of, “What do I do now?” “Should I go in for the kiss?” “Does she even want to be kissed?”

Here Is A List Of The Body Signs That Indicate Whether Or Not A Woman Wants To Be Kissed:

Making eye contact before saying goodnight – GOOD SIGN

Face down, hands by her side – BAD SIGN

Sexy lean against her door, attempting to show off her body and appear sexy - GOOD SIGN

Bolting ahead of you – BAD SIGN

Licking her lips – GOOD SIGN

Fumbling for her keys – BAD SIGN

Leaning towards you – GOOD SIGN

Arms crossed protecting her body – BAD SIGN

Batting her eyelashes – GOOD SIGN

Making excuses about her busy day at work tomorrow/how busy she is going to be in the next couple of weeks – BAD SIGN

**Note: The head turn is always a confusing one for men. If a woman turns her head when you go in for the kiss this is not necessarily a bad sign. It may mean that the woman is not ready to be kissed by you, but this does not mean that she will never get there.

If the woman is still acting present, making eye contact and very comfortable around you YET turns her head at the end of the night, be patient. You will get your kiss eventually!

If you happen to see any of the GOOD SIGNS listed above then get ready to kiss!

However, do not hastily lean in for the kiss. Instead run your hand up and down her arm a couple of times to see if she responds by leaning in.

Comment: This move can be extremely powerful and sexy! It shows that you are confident, in control and a leader plus it feels so damn good Sends chills up my spine just picturing it.

TIP: To be able to do this move effectively, you must be able to be present in the situation. Concentrating on whether or not she wants to be kissed or if you will be a good kisser removes you from the situation. Take a breath, get back into your body and out of your head and know that both of you are going to enjoy this moment.

Many men may not be aware that the first kiss is a magical and sacred moment for many women. It might seem silly to you, but it is actually quite intimate for many women.

If you have any doubt at all, the worst thing to do is to kiss her. You can’t go wrong by just saying good night and walking away. She might even wonder why you didn’t kiss her and it will stick in her mind all night and the next day. Women love the mystery of that too.

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One Night Stand: Women Tell All

(**To listen to me and my friend Amy discuss when women want a One Night Stand go to the bottom of this entry!)

A few weeks back I posted a blog about when women want a One Night Stand. I got a ton of emails both from my newsletter members and from blog readers like you- wanting to know more!

I didn’t realize this was such a hot topic!

As always, I dug deep and asked every single one of the women in my network about their thoughts on a One Night Stand. Girlfriends, sisters, mother, Wing Girls, on facebook, through twitter… Every female I could find and I pretty much got the same responses from all.

Out of all the women, maybe 2 had never had a one night stand BUT said they had considered it and attempted it a few times.

From the other women, each of them used the words “I decided…” when describing their one night stands. I thought this was really interesting. I mean I must have talked to at least 200 women about this and each said something along the lines of I decided.

This was interesting to me, cause what I think I discovered from my questioning was that most one night stands for women are PRE MEDITATED!!! Or at least women like to think so.

The one time I had a one night stand, it was pre meditated. I was coming off a broken heart, insecure and wanted to just DO IT cause I thought it would shake my sad feelings. Never a good idea.

I have however had multiple one night fool arounds and loved every second of it!

Why? Because it was fun, exciting, went with the night and felt really, really good!!!!

These were guys I met while I was out and there was an instant, fun and exciting connection. They weren’t guys who asked me about my job or my family during our meeting. They were guys who were light, bantery and just plain old fun! Ones who pulled me into a world of excitment and enjoyment. It almost seemed fitting to make out with them and be part of a fantasy world.

Sometimes, that is all women are looking for! A great guy to blow off steam with!

I wanted to dive deeper into this discussion of a One Night Stand so I asked my friend Amy if she would be open to a recorded discussion and she said YES!!!!

Here is just 2 minutes of our 20 minute discussion on our experiences with a one night stand, why we had a one night stand and what makes us want to have a one night stand!

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Bad Boy vs. Nice Guy

Do Women Want To Be With The Bad Boy or The Nice Guy?

Contrary to popular belief women DO NOT want to be with the Bad Boy. They want the Nice Guy. I know you are probably cringing right now because everything you have learned up until now has provided evidence that makes you believe the opposite.

So again I am going to tell you, women DO NOT want to be with the Bad Boy. They want to be with the Nice Guy.

Listen to the audio below. It tells you how I know this to be true, why it’s true and how you can use this information to get any woman you want!

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Do You Have The Presence Women Want?

As I always say information is key and recently I was challenged to elaborate on the information that I provide.

You may or not know but women like to be challenged so I was more than happy to accept!   This challenge involved me digging deep to really understand, as a woman, the energy that I respond to from men.

About a month ago I got an email from one man who had purchased The Wing Girl Method best selling program How To Become The Man Women Want where I reveal to you the top characteristics a man must possess in order to attract a woman and then I provide ways to gain these characteristics.

This man, who I will refer to as X, had told me that the information he received from the program, How To Become The Man Women Want was priceless but it left with 1 question about presence. He wanted to me explain this presence that I kept referring to that women fall head over heals for.

After his request, and my completion of his challenge, that I realized how valuable this information was to other men so I wanted to share our email correspondence where I explain exactly what women are looking for in a man.    Below is the email from X.  He really got me to dig deep and I know this information is the exact information you need to truly understand what women want in from a man.

Question from X:

On Oct 29, 2009, at 7:19 AM, X wrote:

 Hey Marni,

 Here's a question about looks:

 If looks don't matter that much to women, but everyone -man and

 woman alike- wants a good looking girl or guy... I'm confused, so,

 for a woman, what is the point, or the deed, or the key or whatever,

 where the woman stops looking at what he looks like, and starts to     

like him for who is inside. More so, what must the man be like, act

 like or do, in order to take attention away from the way he looks

 and turn a woman's attention to his character, of course, not in a

 manipulative way?

 And yes, i know confidence, proactiveness and fun will all be there

 in your answer. Be your best self advice is also way too generalized

 for me. I know I'm being picky with the answer i haven't even got

 yet. Plus, I'm making it harder for you to answer, so I'll make it

 easier for you to answer this question.

 And you don't have to answer this question but you're a woman so I

 have to ask... So, here's the question anyway!

 What would make you forget about how the guy's looks and like him

 for something he's got inside or something he does or it's just the

 way he expresses himself, what does it for you, and what would make

 you say, 'wow, it's so not about how he looks'?

 Thanks

 X

Answer From Me:

 From: info@winggirlmethod.com

 Subject: Re: WGM Become the Man Women Want

 Date: Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:29:53 -0400

 X,

 I totally get your frustration because some of the advice that most

 people dish out seems general and there is no WHY behind what they

 are saying. I am going to try to break it down for you the best way

 that I can.

 For me, yes, looks are what initially catch my eye.  It's easy to

 spot pretty things and the truth is those pretty things can bring

 great disappointment when they don't work as well as you think they

 should.  BUT a pretty thing can be over powered by quality in a

 matter of seconds. Once you hear and feel that something is quality,

 that THING starts to become appealing.

 I would like you to go out to the mall or somewhere really social

 and notice the way that people carry themselves.  Take a look at

 really attractive people and people who are unattractive. I am sure

 you will spot some people that you typically would not give a second

 look to with a powerful presence about them. That presence is what

 I am talking about. That is what is sexy. It is the perceived notion

 that something is quality!

 By being confident, proactive and fun you can build up your inner

 core so that you can display this type of quality to others and it

 will be a real quality. A top machine that can produce better than some silly little

produced in china that looks amazing but falls apart after the first time you use it.

I hope that makes things more clear.

Let me know if you want me to elaborate.

Best,

Marni

On Oct 29, 2009, at 7:20 PM, X wrote:

 Hey Marni,

 Yeah, I totally understood what you said in your email. If you could

 elaborate on that 'presence' that you are talking about? - that

'quality'- because that is exactly what I'm trying to get at!

 Can you describe what that 'presence' or 'quality' is for you; what

 it feels like or how or what makes you sense this presence or

 quality in a guy; is it a skill that a man has to be attain; or is

 it an intuition the man has and he does what he wants in the moment?

 -You know, try to be as specific as you can, but also try to

 consider what every other women thinks of this presence and/or

 quality, in your answer.

 Even for me that is a really hard question to answer, but I

 sincerely think that we are on a goldmine here, we just haven't

 reached the gold yet.

 Thanks

 X

 From: info@winggirlmethod.com

 Date: Fri, 30 Oct 2009 09:59:13 -0400

 X,

 I like the challenge! I know this is something that needs to be

 broken down and it is priceless.

 I was with a best friend of mine who has always been great with

 women.  Some of our other friends, guys, are a little jealous of his

 abilities and credit it to his money/car/home.  As a woman I know

 that his success with women has nothing to do with his money/cars/

 home.  He could be dirt poor, no car and bald and if he was still

 able to hold that inner calmness that he currently has he would

 still be able to attract many many women.

 The thing about this friend of mine is that he knows he is worthy,

 he has self respect and he knows what he wants and goes after it.

 I know you want a more magical answer than this but that is really

 the secret.

 Now the hard part is getting to a place of believing this about

 yourself and feeling that calmness and comfort.  This comes with

 practice, experience and information.  It comes from observing

 people but more importantly from recognizing yourself.

 I don't want to sound like a spiritual guru right now but I hope you

 see where I am going with this.

 My guy friend has been in therapy since he was 12.  He was

 constantly evaluating himself with the assistance of another person.

 This allowed him to face his greatest fears, learn to control his

 anxiousness and come out on the other side as a man of value.  The

 reason he has this value for himself is because he has earned it and

 worked at it.  He gives himself permission to go after what he wants

 and believes that he will get it.  This type of attitude is where

 comfort and calmness stem from.

 You can have this as well but it takes time and effort!

 Marni

 On Oct 31, 2009, at 10:55 AM, X wrote:

 Hey Marni,

 Thanks for sharing that story about your friend, plus, also thanks

 for providing an answer to my question. And, you didn't sound like a

 spiritual guru, you actually spoke a lot of sense -giving yourself

 permission to going after what you want and believing that you'll

 get it, and knowing yourself- is basically the best advice, and I'll

 tell you why...

 I went out to this club last night. Now, I have approach anxiety.

 So, when I went out to this one club, loud music and all...

 something happened - I just got my phone out and typed a message

 "hey I think that ur gorgeous" and I went out on the dance floor and

 I gently touched this really gorgeous blonde girl on her shoulder

 and showed her the message on my phone. She burst out laughing and

 asked me, "How often do you do say that sort of thing?" and I calmly

 told her the absolute truth, "not often, this is actually the first

 time..."

 And it was, it truly was the first time I just went up to a girl who

 i wanted just like that, and sure, I could have said something

 better than just 'ur gorgeuos', but I'm learning, it was more about

 getting rid of the anxiety. But, I realized that the anxiety I had

 about approaching was so irrational, and it is so true, women are

 really friendly and polite. I spoke to her for a short time, but

 then I thanked her for the conversation and left, because I knew my

 chances were zero...

 I wouldn't say my approach anxiety is all gone, but I just listened to what you

said and understand that it is my choice to decide if I can get the women I want.

I know I can meet new girls when I'm out because that's what I want. 

What I also know is that I won't be afraid to go up to a girl

 any more, because, I know that after I did what I did with the girl

 on the dance floor, I still felt like me, I still felt like X,

 even though I didn't get her. I now look back in the past to the

 many chances I could have met someone great and didn't because I was

 too nervous or worried about rejection, and I just kick myself.

 So, again, thanks for the advice marni! I am one step closer to the presence
you are talking about.

 Sincerely

 X

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What this email exchange shows is that the only person from holding you back from getting EVERYTHING you want is you.  X took a chance and went after what he wanted. He approach a woman, he felt like himself instead of pretending to be  someone else and even though he didn’t get the girl he felt better about himself because he took the chance.

The more you can start pushing yourself to take the chances the more confidence you will gain and more opportunities with women will appear.

I promise you!

Have a great thanksgiving and don’t worry if you don’t get to make a wish on that wish bone because you don’t need it! Make the wish yourself and then go make it happen!

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What Women Want – Other Experts Speak Out Part 2

Yesterday I introduced you to a couple of my new friends in the community Alan Roger Currie and Carlos Xuma. I shared with you their opinions on What Women Want.

Today I have a couple more people to introduce you to, who will be giving their expert opinion on What Women Want. I want to introduce you to:
David Wygant, and Liz Leia.

Again, these are others in my community who have been validated by world as experts in the field of Attraction, Dating, Seduction, NLP and What Women Want!

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2 more amazing people I have recently connected with that have wonderful insight into what women want. All provide absolutely amazing materials that will empower you so that you can attract the women you want!

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What Women Want – Other Experts Speak Out

What The Hell Do Women Want?

Over the past 6 years I have been giving you my insight into the minds of women and worked hard to explore, understand and explain to you What Women Want!

During this time I have gained the respect of some of the worlds top PUA’s, dating experts and attraction specialists because I have been able to clearly articulate to men What Women Want. I didn’t even realize this was a commodity until a few years ago!

Throughout my site there is tons of free content available to you so that you can learn what women want including 2 video and audio programs that also teach you step-by-step How To Become The Man Women Want and What’s Inside A Woman’s Mind? You have heard my opinions and the opinions of my Wing Girls but now I want to open the floor for even more opinions that I definitely agree with.

As I said, I have gained respect from others in my community BUT I have also found many other individuals who opinions I respect as well. All of whom I have had countless conversations with about What Women Want. Most of these conversations have lasted for hours and could have continued for many more.

I wanted to start sharing some of their views with you because, as you know, I believe information and numerous opinions are always beneficial.

These other individuals may say the same thing that I am saying but in a slightly different way that may resonate with you!

I am going to do this as a series as not to overload you with too many opinions.

Today I am going to start by introducing you to two wonderful men, Carlos Xuma of Dating Dynamics and Alan Roger Currie of Mode One.

I really want your feedback on these two men.

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by becoming the Modern Day Alpha Male Click Here

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These are just two of the amazing people I have recently connected with. Both provide absolutely amazing materials that will empower you so that you can attract the women you want!

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Making Connections With Women

Making connections with women can be a tough feat for those that do understand the importance of connecting. If you are not able to CONNECT to a woman she will NEVER want to be with you long term. Connections are how women function and when there is connection there is affection, love, sex, romance, conversation and much much more. Trust me, as a woman, I know!

Listen to the audio below where I talk with Christian Hudson of The Social Man and discuss the importance of making connections with women.

From this FREE audio podcast you are going to learn how to:

- Make connections with women
- Discover how to make a conversation last longer than 30 seconds
- Realize when there is a connection between you and a woman
- Stop wasting your time on useless women who are not worth your time

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How To Become The Man Women Want

You want to know what women want? I will tell you.

Women want a man.

A MAN, by female definition is a male that is self assured, calm, cool, collected, comfortable and direct. A MAN goes after what he wants and does not apologize for it. A MAN is not a jerk, or aggressive. A MAN is kind but will not allow others to walk all over him.

Every male has the power inside him to be a MAN. The MAN that women want! It’s just hard to find him sometimes because of that thing above your shoulders

I’m talking about the brain, the mind, thoughts. These things are what stop you from getting what you want because you let them overpower your natural, biological makeup.

So stop letting that thing on the top of your head stop you from fulfilling your role as a male.

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