Comments on: Cell Phone Dating Usage: The Do’s and Don’t of Calling Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/ Learn what women want, straight from the source Sun, 14 Mar 2010 10:32:06 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Latest first date dos news – First-Date Dos & Don’ts From "Megan Wants a Millionaire … http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1618 Latest first date dos news – First-Date Dos & Don’ts From "Megan Wants a Millionaire … Tue, 23 Feb 2010 01:04:33 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1618 [...] Cell Phone Dating Usage: The Do’s and Don’t of Calling Women … [...] [...] Cell Phone Dating Usage: The Do’s and Don’t of Calling Women … [...]

]]> By: Clarence http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1571 Clarence Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:37:13 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1571 There's this lady I like, but never to her that I like her.... we've this distant liking of each other but not telling. I don't know if it's flirting because I am not good at it nor can I see or pick on signals. The last time she came to do business at one of our companies. a) She's friendly and single. b) She couldn't find her cell phone and she asked me to call her cell so that she could find. This time we were by the parking lot side by side. I inside my car, she walked over and opened my passenger door and asked me to call her cell. She then walked back to her call....her cell rang, she looked across over to me and winked. I had mixed emotions - business and friendly. I don't know if she was giving me signals to make a move, I have her number saved on my phone and she also has my number now. Before any direct contact, we used to communicate with business lines. I haven't asked anyone for an advice or thoughts. This has been bugging me for awhile because I like her and appreciate her making business with us. We buy merchandise from her anyway. I don't want her to feel like I am going to take advantage of her services. What should I do? I want to arrange a date with her. She's my style of a wife material that's if everything goes well, ‘I will then take it to another level. PLEASE HELP AND ADVISE ME. Thank you in advance and have a great day. There’s this lady I like, but never to her that I like her…. we’ve this distant liking of each other but not telling. I don’t know if it’s flirting because I am not good at it nor can I see or pick on signals. The last time she came to do business at one of our companies. a) She’s friendly and single. b) She couldn’t find her cell phone and she asked me to call her cell so that she could find. This time we were by the parking lot side by side. I inside my car, she walked over and opened my passenger door and asked me to call her cell. She then walked back to her call….her cell rang, she looked across over to me and winked. I had mixed emotions – business and friendly. I don’t know if she was giving me signals to make a move, I have her number saved on my phone and she also has my number now. Before any direct contact, we used to communicate with business lines. I haven’t asked anyone for an advice or thoughts. This has been bugging me for awhile because I like her and appreciate her making business with us. We buy merchandise from her anyway. I don’t want her to feel like I am going to take advantage of her services. What should I do? I want to arrange a date with her. She’s my style of a wife material that’s if everything goes well, ‘I will then take it to another level. PLEASE HELP AND ADVISE ME. Thank you in advance and have a great day.

]]> By: Latest first date email news – HOW TO FEEL CONFiDENT ON YOUR FiRST DATE Post on IMEEM | First Date Advice http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1196 Latest first date email news – HOW TO FEEL CONFiDENT ON YOUR FiRST DATE Post on IMEEM | First Date Advice Sat, 10 Oct 2009 15:34:06 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1196 [...] Cell Phone Dating Usage: The Do’s and Don’t of Calling Women … [...] [...] Cell Phone Dating Usage: The Do’s and Don’t of Calling Women … [...]

]]> By: Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1157 Marni Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:14:27 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1157 Darren, That is just the thing. You did nothing wrong on the "calling" end she just was not into you when she decided to give you her number. Women do not mess around with men by giving out their numbers. They give out there numbers because they don't know how to say no. There may be things that you are doing on the approach end that are not working for you. Meaning that a woman is not engaging in your or your personality on the initial meeting. You and I can work together to figure out where your de-ttraction points are and correct them. Let me know if you want to talk further. Darren,

That is just the thing. You did nothing wrong on the “calling” end she just was not into you when she decided to give you her number.

Women do not mess around with men by giving out their numbers. They give out there numbers because they don’t know how to say no.

There may be things that you are doing on the approach end that are not working for you. Meaning that a woman is not engaging in your or your personality on the initial meeting. You and I can work together to figure out where your de-ttraction points are and correct them. Let me know if you want to talk further.

]]> By: Darren http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1156 Darren Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:55:00 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1156 Yes this list is spot on! I looked this up cause last week I called a girl on wednesday after she gave me her number. The thing was she gave it to me on Friday and I never did the double check her number thing. I will do that in the future tho so thanks. Anyway it was her number but she didnt answer, she didnt have my number yet so there was really no way she couldve been screening my call, (i could tell by the voicemail-she says her name in it) so I left a message. I WAS NOT STUPID AND DIDNT CALL BACK MORE THAN ONCE! She didnt call back tho :( She was in her late 20's tho and im in my early twenties. What do you think I did wrong? Did I wait too long to call her? I didnt say anything too horrible in the voicemail but that I wanted to meet up this weekend and to give me a call back. What do you think is the reason she didnt call back? Age, my voicemail, or how long it took me to call.... I have heard of women giving men their numbers just to mess with them do you think that is what happened? Any Ideas? Yes this list is spot on! I looked this up cause last week I called a girl on wednesday after she gave me her number. The thing was she gave it to me on Friday and I never did the double check her number thing. I will do that in the future tho so thanks. Anyway it was her number but she didnt answer, she didnt have my number yet so there was really no way she couldve been screening my call, (i could tell by the voicemail-she says her name in it) so I left a message. I WAS NOT STUPID AND DIDNT CALL BACK MORE THAN ONCE! She didnt call back tho :(

She was in her late 20’s tho and im in my early twenties. What do you think I did wrong? Did I wait too long to call her? I didnt say anything too horrible in the voicemail but that I wanted to meet up this weekend and to give me a call back. What do you think is the reason she didnt call back? Age, my voicemail, or how long it took me to call…. I have heard of women giving men their numbers just to mess with them do you think that is what happened? Any Ideas?

]]> By: Caitlin http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1072 Caitlin Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:42:45 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1072 @Michael: It is absolutely fine to set up the date when you meet a girl, as long as she seems interested in the idea. Like Dan said, you can call if there is a decent stretch of time in between (over a week is a good rule of thumb). Try to avoid texting between the initial meeting and the first date, because it tends to make the whole situation feel like a junior high relationship; one in which you communicate frequently on electronic devices to avoid phone or face-to-face conversation. @Dan: Thanks Dan, I am glad that someone was able to identify and appreciate that reference. Great movie. It is especially enlightening when it comes to the whole idea of getting back out there, which many of us are. @Michael: It is absolutely fine to set up the date when you meet a girl, as long as she seems interested in the idea. Like Dan said, you can call if there is a decent stretch of time in between (over a week is a good rule of thumb). Try to avoid texting between the initial meeting and the first date, because it tends to make the whole situation feel like a junior high relationship; one in which you communicate frequently on electronic devices to avoid phone or face-to-face conversation.

@Dan: Thanks Dan, I am glad that someone was able to identify and appreciate that reference. Great movie. It is especially enlightening when it comes to the whole idea of getting back out there, which many of us are.

]]> By: Dan Donche http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1047 Dan Donche Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:53:37 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1047 @Michael - I think it depends on how far apart your first meeting is and when the date is. If it's over a week away, a quick phone call might be okay, provided you don't stay on the phone forever. Keep it short and sweet, and FUN. If it's a few days away, you're probably better off not calling. I think also something that factors heavily into this is being able to judge how interested she is in you. If she's super interested, a phone call will be good. @Caitlin - I like how you mentioned the Swingers scene. It's probably the best example of what not to do. @Michael –
I think it depends on how far apart your first meeting is and when the date is. If it’s over a week away, a quick phone call might be okay, provided you don’t stay on the phone forever. Keep it short and sweet, and FUN. If it’s a few days away, you’re probably better off not calling. I think also something that factors heavily into this is being able to judge how interested she is in you. If she’s super interested, a phone call will be good.

@Caitlin –
I like how you mentioned the Swingers scene. It’s probably the best example of what not to do.

]]> By: Michael http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1042 Michael Sat, 05 Sep 2009 21:55:41 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-1042 Just one question--what if you actually set the date during the first time you meet her? I'm going this route because the more I think about it, it doesn't seem to make sense to call her to set up the date when you can do the same when she is right in front of you. This is what I have been doing lately. Do I owe a phone call between the time I meet her and the first date? Just one question–what if you actually set the date during the first time you meet her?

I’m going this route because the more I think about it, it doesn’t seem to make sense to call her to set up the date when you can do the same when she is right in front of you. This is what I have been doing lately. Do I owe a phone call between the time I meet her and the first date?

]]> By: Bree http://www.winggirlmethod.com/cell-phone-dating-usage-the-dos-and-dont-of-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-950 Bree Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:34:14 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3984#comment-950 This list is spot on. I agree with all of it! This list is spot on. I agree with all of it!

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