#1 Secret To Dating Younger Women
Want to know the #1 Secret To Dating Younger Women?
I get at least 2-3 emails a week from men asking whether or not they can date girls who are younger than them.
I always find this to be such a strange question because there should never be any limitations on who you can and cannot date.
Listen, if the girl is 16 I am obviously going to advise against it but if she is legal and you connect, then I play ball!
The real question I like to throw back at these men is why are you putting boundaries on what you can and cannot do?
The #1 Secret To Dating Younger Women is to stop thinking about what complete strangers (women) want and start going after what you want. The only thing that stops you from getting what you want is your own head. So if you think that a younger women will not be interested in you then she won’t be. How could she be?
Thinking that younger women will not be attracted to you is an issue with YOU not women. The longer you have this belief the longer you will not be dating younger women.
The way to get rid of this belief is simple. Just throw it out the window and stop letting your insecurity about your age be your crutch or defense mechanism.
I can tell you that I have a lot of female friends who prefer dating older men. In fact, I happen to be one of them. In the past I had dated men who have been up to 20 years older than me and am now married to a man that is 10 years my senior. To be honest at times, the issue of age did come into my mind but quickly disappeared every time.
There was one instance when age did become an issue and that was the time when the guy I was dating became totally fixated and insecure about our difference in age. It was brought up every 2 weeks and I could tell that he was very uncomfortable with it. This made me uncomfortable with it and it also annoyed me having to constantly defend my age and the reason we were together. Exhausting and very unattractive.
I thought it would be interesting to interview them and see why they preferred dating older men compared to men their own age.
“Older men are like a breath of fresh air. Most of the men that are my age (26) are not comfortable in their skin yet. They are still figuring themselves out. I did that 3 years ago and am ready to be with someone that is a little more mature, independent and confident.” – Melissa 26
“I like to date men who are in their late 30′s – early 40′s. They are less headaches and are more open to communicating because they are not worried about looking cool and being macho. Plus they know who they are or are at least closer to getting there then men my own age.” – Jennifer 27
“I have dated younger men and I have dated older men and I definitely prefer dating older men. They are just better. Men who are younger or my age don’t really interest me. I find it easier to connect to older men.” – Belinda 35
Everyone around you is an option and therefore women young or old will be attracted to you as long as you are attracted to yourself.
Remember, you can’t turn anyone on if you aren’t turning yourself on and doubt mixed with poor self worth will not turn anybody on.
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For the past few years, I haven’t dated a girl at length that was legally able to enter a bar (…and I specialize in “night game”…go figure!?) and I think the biggest reason for this is my sense of “entitlement”.
Its strange because the same kind of girls that wouldn’t give me the time of day when I was 18 are the ones that can’t get enough of me now (I’m 31, by the way)! Sure when I was 18 or so my skills with women were less than impressive (but at that age, what guy’s skills are!?)
So can I say that it is ONLY because my skills with women have gotten better? That’s definitely a factor in it but not the full picture.
Here’s the deal:
I honestly believe that the older I get, the sexier I become to younger and younger women.
This may or may not be a “delusional” belief….but…it has been quite functional as that belief transfers itself onto the younger women I tend to go after: Because I believe that the older I get, the sexier I become to young women, these young women tend to believe it too.
It’s all about experiencing this sense of entitlement. Once you feel entitled to having a certain type of girl, it’s amazing how that type is naturally drawn to you.
I take a lot of heat from people about my rules of dating. I just won’t date anyone over the age of 30. My last two girlfriends were literally half my age. I’m 39. I agree, Adonis. When I was that age those women wouldn’t give me a second look and now they find themselves drawn to me.
Granted I don’t expect these relationships to be too long term but it fits perfectly in my lifestyle at the moment.
I’m sure the reasons behind why I do this have a little to do with the so called getting it out of my system. But I would sat the biggest reason is that I have not met many women over thirty that I was attracted to enough, to date. Also women over thirty are generally settled down, married, or divorced, and have kids…etc. So I put it my online profile that I refuse to date women over thirty and now I have women telling me how many days or years they can have me.
An interesting fact about men dating younger is how the different sexes respond to it. My friends that are women bust on me for dating a woman half my age.
My guy friends are overly curious about the details.
The women give me that, half shame half wondering look.
The men just smile and thank me as if I did them a favor.
One woman even proclaimed to me,
“Yeah…but I bet it’s the best sex he has ever had.”
At the same time another women was mentioning how younger guys have more sexual stamina. Haha…and as she walked away I could see the light bulb over her head making the connection,
“Younger woman, better sex. Younger man, better sex. Older man and younger woman, he must be good in bed!”
And the men are just overly curious about the details.
My girlfriend claimed SHE was “robbing the cradle” and that when I grow up, I’m going to be a great man.
And I just smirked back with a, “Haha! You’re my old lady.”, look on my face.
Then the man in me focused more on the details of our relationship.
I am 44 and I have a terrible time dating women say younger than 38….they give me all kinds of excuses about age,ect and its been like pulling teeth.
Its really tough and almost impossible I believe. If one has status, money or looks to a degree, then I can see it. For the average guy like me, its been really tough.