Its really tough and almost impossible I believe. If one has status, money or looks to a degree, then I can see it. For the average guy like me, its been really tough.

Granted I don’t expect these relationships to be too long term but it fits perfectly in my lifestyle at the moment.

I’m sure the reasons behind why I do this have a little to do with the so called getting it out of my system. But I would sat the biggest reason is that I have not met many women over thirty that I was attracted to enough, to date. Also women over thirty are generally settled down, married, or divorced, and have kids…etc. So I put it my online profile that I refuse to date women over thirty and now I have women telling me how many days or years they can have me.

An interesting fact about men dating younger is how the different sexes respond to it. My friends that are women bust on me for dating a woman half my age.

My guy friends are overly curious about the details.

The women give me that, half shame half wondering look.

The men just smile and thank me as if I did them a favor.

One woman even proclaimed to me,
“Yeah…but I bet it’s the best sex he has ever had.”

At the same time another women was mentioning how younger guys have more sexual stamina. Haha…and as she walked away I could see the light bulb over her head making the connection,
“Younger woman, better sex. Younger man, better sex. Older man and younger woman, he must be good in bed!”

And the men are just overly curious about the details.

My girlfriend claimed SHE was “robbing the cradle” and that when I grow up, I’m going to be a great man.

And I just smirked back with a, “Haha! You’re my old lady.”, look on my face.

Then the man in me focused more on the details of our relationship.

Its strange because the same kind of girls that wouldn’t give me the time of day when I was 18 are the ones that can’t get enough of me now (I’m 31, by the way)! Sure when I was 18 or so my skills with women were less than impressive (but at that age, what guy’s skills are!?)

So can I say that it is ONLY because my skills with women have gotten better? That’s definitely a factor in it but not the full picture.

Here’s the deal:

I honestly believe that the older I get, the sexier I become to younger and younger women.

This may or may not be a “delusional” belief….but…it has been quite functional as that belief transfers itself onto the younger women I tend to go after: Because I believe that the older I get, the sexier I become to young women, these young women tend to believe it too.

It’s all about experiencing this sense of entitlement. Once you feel entitled to having a certain type of girl, it’s amazing how that type is naturally drawn to you.