So the freeze out is a bad thing? Give me a break! Marni, you said you’d met Mystery right (somewhere I heard you say that)? Do you not know his teachings? The freeze-out is his technique! Search “freeze out pua” on google and it will come up with a youtube video link!

I still don’t undersand why women are expected to be treated as vulnerable, indefensible, emotional eggshells while its quite acceptable for men to be neglected for showing the slightest insecurity.

OK, honestly I do understand why women find unconfident and unsure men unattractive… And I understand that men themselves are in charge of changing themselves for the better (IE. no woman is going to show them sympathy along the way) But this is all simple human nature and its simply how attraction works.. I have no qualms about this part.

It is the societal double standard that women are to only be treated how they want to be treated, while men are to be treated however women want to treat them, that I don’t agree with.

I don’t understand why men are supposedly in charge of the emotional state of the woman that CHOSE to come back to his place and the actions she CHOOSES to perform or not. She can always say “no”. She can always say “no”. She can always say “no”. To disagree is to suggest that women are somehow less than men and that they can’t even use their own mind to make their own decisions. Give me a break!

Question – did the guy talk to you during sex? Or was he just a moaner and grunter, like he’s in his own world?

That’s a big one for me. I have to know that mentally, my partner is with me and not off in la-la land, though at the right time it’s a wonderful place to be!

I’ve always been the giver. In life in general, but mostly in sex. I love knowing that I’m pleasing my partner. I’m exactly sure if it has to do with power or what. I know that it increases my pleasure.

I know that having sex is an escape (for me). Some people drink or smoke as an escape. I like sex. And its not even that I have sex a lot or even regularly. But when I do get the chance to have sex, I have a very big appetite. It could be because I havent had that orgasm but I think even with the orgasm I would want to keep going. The feeling of sex is very intoxicating.

For one, women fake orgasms because their man just doesnt know how to satisfy them. And I do not entirely blame that on men. If more woman spoke their minds and told guys what they want and what feels good to them then men would know where to touch, what feels good, what hurts and so on. But men have to understand that women are not the most comfortable beings, but the more comfortable we are, the more open we are.

Second, women fake orgasms because they want their man to feel good. Some girls can’t have orgasms alll the time but that doesnt mean the sex wasn’t good enough. But maybe they just don’t want to disappoint their men. Men know that they have big ego and the woman only wants to feed it.

I’ve actually heard (from someone) that there is a certain percent of people (false as far as i’m concerned) who can’t have an orgasm but I honestly don’t believe that. I mean if you can’t hit that spot then thats what it is.

I love the others. Very Enlightening!

The second is not my choice, but neither will I force anyone to adopt my values, only explain what I perceive to be the consequences of each. Just because my life philosophy is one way doesn’t mean such choices do not exist and it would be naïve to do so. The same choices are made every day in business, politics, and even amongst the various social interactions of other animal species.