Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Tue, 28 Jul 2015 01:50:40 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.3 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes How To Make Women Comfortable With Sex http://www.winggirlmethod.com/make-women-comfortable-with-sex/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/make-women-comfortable-with-sex/#comments Tue, 28 Jul 2015 01:50:40 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19182 Yesterday I left you with a bit of a cliffhanger on how to build sexual tension… If you haven’t checked the blog out yet, I suggest you find it because it was gold. (Click here to read it) Before I … keep reading

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Yesterday I left you with a bit of a cliffhanger on how to build sexual tension…

If you haven’t checked the blog out yet, I suggest you find it because it was gold. (Click here to read it)

Before I get to part 2, I’m going to tell a story about myself.  You may have heard this story but it’s a great story with an awesome lesson:

This may come as no surprise to most of you but growing up most of my friends were guys.

Being considered “one of the guys”, I would hear all about their conquests and it turned me into a jaded PRUDE.

I didn’t want to become like the girls I heard about that were being taken advantage of and then tossed aside because they weren’t “girlfriend material”.

I was terrified and I put a “barrier up” that no one could break through.

Until I met one of my this one guy who unleashed the sexual beast within me, the sexual beast that lurks inside of every woman that craves and desires to be let out.

So what did this guy do?

Here goes:

We were making out in the heat of the moment and things were getting more intense.

I was on the verge of pulling away when he stops, puts his hand across from mine and says – “This is my hand… and this is your hand… if you are uncomfortable with ANYTHING I’m doing and want me to stop… just slap my hand.”

And he literally took my hand and made it slap his!

Now this was a MAN. A man who had already proven to be comfortable with himself and completely confident.

A man that I wanted to be with.

And when he said those words to me it made me feel – and here’s the key takeaway – comfortable and secure.

I didn’t feel pressured.

I didn’t feel judged.

And let me tell you something… I didn’t slap his hand ONCE and I went farther with him that night than I had ever gone before.

All because he did something that most men ignore because they’re too scared of being rejected so they go in, guns blazing.

In fact, I’ve been with other men who either get frazzled if I get uncomfortable and pull away.

OR…  they completely ignore my discomfort and push themselves on me further, which makes me pull even further away and view them in a negative light.

If you’ve properly built attraction and she’s feeling you, and then out of the blue it seems like she’s rejecting you when you try to take things to the next level…

9 times out of 10 it’s because you didn’t put her in a comfortable state where she felt secure, comfortable and completely free of judgement.

It’s that simple.

So other than using the “hand-slapping,” which I think is pure gold by the way… because it worked on yours truly, obviously…

Another tip I would give you is advance things sexually in baby steps.

Ease her into things.

Let her know that you’re taking the lead but she’s the one with the foot on the gas pedal.

You’ll go as fast she wants you to go.

Think of a suave James Bond versus a frat boy rushing to get his jollies off.

Do you see the difference?

I would LOVE to hear what you think about what I’ve said in this blog.  Do you agree, disagree? Have you tried doing this with women? What were the results?

Just comment below and let me know!

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Opening Lines That Work http://www.winggirlmethod.com/opening-lines-that-work/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/opening-lines-that-work/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2015 16:33:58 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19188 If you’ve been reading my blog, watching my instant download programs OR listening to my podcast, you know that I am NOT a fan of canned lines and openers.  WHY?  Because as a woman, I know it’s about WHAT  you … keep reading

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If you’ve been reading my blog, watching my instant download programs OR listening to my podcast, you know that I am NOT a fan of canned lines and openers.  WHY?  Because as a woman, I know it’s about WHAT  you say, not how you say it.

But I also know that everyone needs training wheels to hone a new skill, which is why I asked my awesome Wing Girl Alex to provide her advice on opening lines that work.  Alex is super cute, SINGLE and awesome.

PLUS – she gets hit on all the time and gets to see a lot of examples of opening lines that work and opening lines that fail miserably.

Not only does Alex share what lines do and do not work on girls like her… She has also provided a description of what she calls “The Dive In Method” for starting conversation that works best on her.  (NOTE: I’ve been teaching the Dive In Method for years but I call it OSA)

Opening Lines That Work & An Introduction To The Dive In-Opening Line
By: Alex

This weekend I matched with someone on Tinder. Exciting, right? Wrong. Soon after matching with this guy, he messaged me this opening line:

“20 bucks says I spank you in horse.”

What did that even mean? It sounded like a sexual come on gone bad because of auto correct.  I think he meant to say, “I spank you like a horse.” Or maybe, “in horse” is a sex position? All I know is that it sounds degrading. Why did he think that was appropriate to say to a total stranger?

I texted my best friend and told her about this Tinder nightmare. She laughed and said, “Give him a chance.” To which I replied, “No.”

She texted back, “Maybe that’s the best opening line he could come up with?”

“’Hello’ is a pretty simple opening line. Not a chance of me writing back.” I said.

Sorry, I know you wish I was this awesome girl who just gave 2nd and 3rd and 4th chances to creepsters, even if they are not meaning to be creepsters… but I don’t.  And neither do most real women.

Later, I got to thinking about this and about all the opening lines that I have received over the years, which ones worked and which ones didn’t.

I think by now, I have heard it all.

I’ve had guys be really mean in their opening lines and say things like:

Guy–“So you and your friends are too good to talk to me?”

This was the first thing he had said to us… We haven’t even been given a chance to talk to you.

Guy #2—“Why do you have that mean look on your face?”

I was just walking down the street… Am I supposed to smile all the time?

Guy #3—“Standing there looking all bougie” (Pronounced “Boo-she,” slang for “bourgeoisie”)

How is my posture conveying that? And why do I feel like I’m in third grade and he’s the boy on the playground pushing me down and then later trying to kiss me on the cheek?

I’m a pretty happy girl, in fact people make fun of me for it.  But isn’t it interesting how my initial gut reaction to these opening lines were anger, frustration and the strong desire to punch something??

Probably one of the most common opening lines that I get is, “Hey, what are you?” I’m half Mexican American, half white but my facial features make it very difficult to tell what my ethnicity or race is so people love guessing about my cultural background. However, opening with, “What are you,” isn’t a great line. To me, it sounds kind of rude. “What are you” sounds as if you are asking me for some kind of classification or my species. “Um…human?” Though, it is a legitimate question so save it for five minutes into a conversation and bring it up like this: “You’re look is so interesting. What’s your racial and ethnic background?”

Pick up lines are the worst, too.

“Did it hurt?” said Man.

“Did what hurt?” replies Woman.

“When you fell from Heaven,” Man said with smile.

Can we retire this line already?

I don’t recommend pick-up lines. Nothing about them are cute, sexy, or attractive. As women, we’ve heard them all. They’re not flattering. We know you’ve used them a billion times on other women. They don’t make us feel special or excited to know you. Rather, they make us look for the quickest exit away from you.

UNLESS executed correctly. And when I say correctly, what I really mean is him making it very clear that he knows he is using a classic “pick up line” and is ironically using it OR playfully using it and then calling it out.

For example, I have to give props to this guy who approached me a few months ago with the best pick-up line ever. As I was walking by, he had this confused look on his face as if he was trying to figure out who I was. So I looked at him a little closer. Did I know him?

He stopped me and said, “Hey, didn’t I match with you on Tinder?”

“I don’t think so?” At this point, I’m racking my brain trying to remember. Did we match? I don’t recall him on Tinder. He didn’t exactly look like the kind of guy I would swipe right on.

“What’s your name again?” he asked me.

“Alex,” I said.

“Yes, Alex. I knew that was you!”

I’m still confused. I can’t remember this guy at all. “What’s your name?” I ask.

He gives me his name and then laughs. “I’m just messing with you. We didn’t match on Tinder.”

I was completely blown away. First, his acting was amazing. Secondly, that was the most creative opening line that I’ve ever heard. And if my friends hadn’t pulled me along, I might have stayed and chatted with him because I can respect a guy with creativity.

For the most part, “Hello” is not the best opening line either (though it’s not really bad either). If I’m walking by and a guy says, “Hello,” I’ll usually say, “Hi!” then smile, and continue walking because the guy just left it at “hello,” and didn’t say anything else. I’ve seen my friends do the same thing. I think as women we feel uncomfortable when a guy just says “hello” and leaves it up to us to continue the conversation. We don’t usually start conversations with guys, so we don’t know what to do or say which isn’t fair to men, but I can’t help that.

When a guy begins with “Hello,” I have a pretty good idea where the conversation is going—toward awkwardness. No one likes the awkward aspect of introducing oneself and “Hello” is the kind of opening that makes me have to do that. When a guy says, “hello,” I know that he will soon say, “What’s your name?” and then we have to exchange names. Then he will probably ask me what kind of work I do and then I have to ask him what he does. That conversation is as awkward as a fifteen-year-old boy trying to unsnap a girl’s bra for the first time. Let’s spice it up!

I like when a guy starts talking to me like we are old friends or as if they are talking to a guy friend at a sports bar. Skip the awkwardness and comment on something that is going on around us so we can start a conversation, get to laughing, or bond over something we see. How about using an opening line like, “Hey, what are you drinking” or “The bartender takes forever here.” Then five minutes later we can introduce ourselves and it will be less awkward because by then I will feel comfortable around you and will be willing to give you my name and learn yours. Let’s call this the dive in-opening line.

Other examples of dive in-opening lines may be:

“Ever wonder why Starbucks employees always spell our names wrong?”

“Is that Apple watch worth it?”

“You really wear that short haircut well. Too many girls are afraid to rock a cut like that.”

“Know of any good bars near here?”

“This music is giving me flashbacks to my grunge phase.”

As you can see, dive in-opening lines don’t have to be funny. They can be, but most of all they should feel natural and comfortable when you say them. Use your environment when coming up with a dive-in opening line. This shouldn’t be something that you have to think too hard about. Just relax and chat.

The dive in-opening line shows women a few things about you. First, it shows that you are confident in who you are. You’re not stumbling over a “hello” or a pick-up line you heard on Family Guy. Secondly, it tells me that you are comfortable talking with a total stranger and that you aren’t intimidated by talking to someone you find attractive. Third, it shows that you are creative and can think on the spot. We like creative!

Fourth, this dive in-opening line makes us relax and feel less up tight. We hate turning down guys, hurting their feelings, or being pessimistic about a man’s approach toward us. I know it may not seem like that, but most women feel this way. Starting a conversation with a woman like you two are old friends will help her relax and make her more willing to speak to you. And the longer you can get her to speak to you, the better because it raises your chances of getting her number.

So skip the awkwardness, lose the pick-up lines, and drop “Hello” from your dating dictionary, and dive right into a conversation with me.

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How To Build Sexual Tension With Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-build-sexual-tension-with-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-build-sexual-tension-with-women/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2015 15:49:58 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19179 I’ve been getting a ton of emails about how to build and sustain sexual tension and excitement in your approaches and interactions. I can tell you first-hand that this is one of the most important dynamics in any interaction. Because … keep reading

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I’ve been getting a ton of emails about how to build and sustain sexual tension and excitement in your approaches and interactions.

I can tell you first-hand that this is one of the most important dynamics in any interaction.

Because if you’re not building sexual tension… the interaction just dies out and goes nowhere.

Or even worse… you get filed away in the Friend Zone cabinet, never to see the light of day again in her eyes.

Here’s what happens when you build sexual tension correctly:

She immediately sees you as a “sexual option”.

You no longer run the risk of appearing like a non-sexual entity otherwise known as “The Friend”.

If you’ve been building attraction over the course of the interaction and you move to build sexual tension, whatever attraction she felt for you will skyrocket 10x over because you’ve “turned up the heat”

There’s nothing sexier to a woman than a man who’s completely comfortable and confident in his sexuality and what he wants. As a bonus, if she isn’t interested (there’s no shame in this by the way, not every girl is going to be interested in your for some reason or another) you’ll find out immediately and not waste your time.

Doesn’t that all seem awesome? :)

Well get ready because today I’m going to tell you exactly:

How To Build Sexual Tension And Excitement From The Get-Go

A word of caution first. These tips I’m about to give you are not a shortcut to getting a girls to drop their panties at the first sight of you.

You still need to build attraction like I teach in my programs (you can find my de-facto course right here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/)

But if you want to build attraction AND tip the balance in your favor so you can have her hot and bothered within the first interaction… then read on.

Principle 1: Become a sexual and sexy man

This might seem like a vague principle but it’s quite the opposite.

Let me explain what I mean by “become a sexual man” before you start walking down main street in a pair of chaps, oozing sex and creeping women out 😉

If you’re building attraction, she’s interested in you and wants things to escalate… then she will subtly bring up the topic of sex one way or another. Or something semi sexual.

Now what most guys will do is act shocked and freeze if a girl flirtatiously brings up sex.

But you’re not most guys. You’re a SEXUAL guy.

Which means you don’t become stupefied when a woman brings up sex.

Instead you roll with it. Completely relaxed and comfortable with your sexuality.

“I love wearing thongs” she says.

The regular guy might try to laugh it off and shy away from the conversation.

You’re the sexual man so you charge head-on.

“So what color is your favorite thong?” you say with a smile.

Or you could even throw in a little joke like “Me too. I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.” with a little smirk and then say “so what color is your favorite thong.”

You can move from topic to topic, asexual or sexual.

This shows her that it’s not a big deal to you and you won’t judge her if she decides to make a move.

Principle 2: Lead and escalate

If you build attraction and then take her somewhere discreet where things COULD escalate and then you just build up the tension, most of the time… it WILL escalate.

3 things you can do to escalate the situation are:

Make touching each other a normal thing.

If you’ve never touched a girl in a casual way and she’s never touched you, there’s a pretty big gap from not touching to suddenly becoming intimate. Instead, if you’re used to touching each other and the sexual tension builds up… intimacy seems like the natural next step.

Strong eye contact is incredibly suggestive, sexy and it builds the sexual tension like nothing else. Use it!

Tell a risque story

“Marni, what do you mean a “risque” story?” you’re probably asking yourself.

So let’s say you’re in a secluded area, perfect territory for some naughty stuff.

You’ve built attraction, you’re building the sexual tension with the touching and the eye contact.

And now you drop this one on her – “Damn… this whole situation is reminding me of something.”

She’s curious.

“What? What does it remind you of?!” she asks.

“Nah… never mind.” you pretend like you’re hiding something.

“Oh no come on tell me!” she playfully hits you. (BIG ATTRACTION SIGN RIGHT THERE BY THE WAY)

“I don’t know if I wanna hurt your innocent little ears,” you smile coyly.

“If you don’t tell me, I’ll be mad” she pouts at you.

“Fine fine…” you say to her.

This is where you recount a sexy story of something that happened to you in the past.

Build up the tension. Don’t jump into the sex part right away. Lead up to it.

It’s even better if you don’t ever talk about “the sex part” and just talk around it.

This is how you put her in a sexual state and make her that much more comfortable with being sexual.  Easing her into it and allowing her to choose her own sexual path.  (Remember: As a man you are always leading NOT pushing).

Make sure you don’t judge the girl in the story or she’ll feel like she might become part of your story to the next girl.

It’s key to making her comfortable.

Principle 3: To be continued…

I’ve just realized while typing this that this is a LOT to take in and remember.

And I’m sure you’re bursting at the seams hungry for more enticing bits of info.

So here’s what I’ll do.

In the my next blog, I’m going to expand on these principles and give you some more “hot and ready” info to getting her in the mood to do just about anything you want.

I’m going to be giving you the inside scoop on what it takes to get a girl completely comfortable to take things to the next level.

Stay tuned.

BTW – not sure if you saw, but I have a BIG debate happening on my blog right now that I think you may want to be a part of.

The debate is on whether or nohttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-admin/post-new.phpt you it’s good to compliment a woman on her looks.

Would love to hear what you think.

Go here to join in on the debate:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/

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Examples of How To Compliment A Woman The RIGHT WAY http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/#comments Mon, 20 Jul 2015 18:00:56 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19138 Not sure if you have seen any of the blog posts from my new Wing Girl Alex, BUT they have been getting a lot of attention, and other guys are loving them. Alex is 25, super cute, single and very … keep reading

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Not sure if you have seen any of the blog posts from my new Wing Girl Alex, BUT they have been getting a lot of attention, and other guys are loving them.

Alex is 25, super cute, single and very honest when it comes to the things men do that turn her off instantly.

Now Alex is really pretty. There is no way of not seeing how pretty she is. Whenever I’m out with her, she’ll have at least 3 guys come up to her and tell her how pretty she is.
And every time a guy tells her how pretty she is, she rolls her eyes, says thanks, and walks away.

Pretty rude right?

But then I started to notice that myself and my other girlfriends did the exact same thing.
Myself and my other friends may not have been so rude about it and would talk to the guy complimenting them. But we would all give that same sigh and then their body language would sink in this sad way.

I’m an analyzer, so I, of course, thought forever on WHY I had this reaction. And then I went to my girlfriends to ask them about it, and they all said the same thing about why a guy saying “you’re pretty” was such a big turn off.

My Wing Girl Alex described it best which is why I asked her to write a blog about it!

I’ve posted the blog below that tells you why telling a girl she’s pretty will never get you the reaction you want AND what you SHOULD compliment her on, that will make her instantly attracted to you.

Read this post with an open mind because I know how you may respond.  “women suck…. bitches all of them… he’s just trying to say something nice…”  or something along those lines.

I’m not saying that the reaction us women have to you complimenting us is RIGHT or FAIR. But it’s our biological, instinctual, gut reaction that we have little control over.  So read this with an open mind and understand that it’s just “what is”.

Telling Me I’m Pretty Is Too Easy
By: Alex

I worked at a bank two years ago.

We had a male customer that had just moved to the U.S. from the Middle East with his mother and sister with the help of a local Catholic church. The family was lovely, and I tried to make them feel welcomed as was my job to do as a teller.

One evening, the guy came to the bank with a bouquet of flowers for me. I wasn’t working that evening, so he came the next day in the drive-thru when I was working, gave me flowers, told me I was so beautiful and asked me out. I had never spoken to him for more than five minutes before this, and we had never shared any personal stories. Only exchanged words about his account and the basic, “Hi, how are you today,” “Fine, and you?”

So I was pretty surprised to receive the flowers and couldn’t understand why he was asking me out. He didn’t know me? I quickly learned it was because he thought I was the “prettiest woman in the world.” He even had a card with a poem that he had written about my beauty. I turned him down politely; I wasn’t very interested in dating at the time, and I wasn’t attracted to him.

A few days later, I was closing up the bank (alone) and had just closed the door to the bank when I saw a figure standing at my car. It was the same guy! With more flowers and waiting at my car (very creepily) to ask me out again. Now I was starting to get annoyed. I could have called the cops—since I didn’t know who he was at first, I could have thought he was a bank robber! He spouted off more statements of “You are so beautiful” and “the prettiest.” As you can guess, I never went out with the guy.

Actually that evening when I went home, I was really annoyed.

This guy wanted to date me for only one reason: how I look. He didn’t know me. He didn’t know anything about my personality—I could have been evil and cold-hearted. He didn’t know my passions, my dislikes, my weird habits, my hobbies, my education, or my beliefs, but he was so adamant to take me out because I was “so pretty.”

I was annoyed because telling me that I’m pretty is way too easy. He hadn’t taken the time to even figure out the kind of person I was before asking me out. Rather, he had already created this fantasy about me, that my physical appearance must match my personality, my soul, or reflect the kind of woman he wanted. I’ve had this happen multiple times.

Guys have painted this picture of how I am, positive or negative, in their minds based on my looks without even taking the time to get to know me.

I was on a date once with a guy, and we were talking about what we wanted for our futures. I said I wanted to move around the rest of my life and move my family with me. He argued that that wasn’t feasible, and I would have to settle down eventually in one spot. We debated on this, cordially of course. That wasn’t the only thing we disagreed on. My personality, beliefs, and views of the future and his were quite different. We would not have made a good match. But did that deter him from wanting to continue to go out with me? No. And I can only assume, due to his frequent comments on my appearance, that he only wanted to continue to go out with me because of how I looked.

Telling me, a confident woman, that I’m “pretty” or “beautiful” or “gorgeous” is too easy. If you want to ask me out, you got to do better than that. I’m not going to give you a second look because you complimented my looks, especially if I’m not physically attracted to you. Granted, I do enjoy compliments on my appearance but I don’t need them and when they come from men. They just seem paper thin without any substance behind them, because I can’t tell if you even like the person that I am, or only like me because of how I look. I want compliments from a man that I’m in a serious relationship with; that’s what I enjoy. So if you want to win me over, or women like me, you need to step up your game and do what everyone else isn’t doing: not compliment me on my looks.

About a year ago, I went on a date with this guy I had matched with on Tinder. He looked cute in his pictures, though it was sort of difficult to know for sure. When we matched on the app, he sent me a message, and we talked a bit before he asked me out. It wasn’t until the day that we went on the date (maybe five days after we had started talking on the app) that I realized, he hadn’t once commented on my looks, hadn’t even referenced them! That intrigued me.

When I arrived at the date and saw him, I noticed that he was cute but not as attractive as I had thought he was. Still, I found myself not caring—this guy was different. During the dinner, he continued asking me about my passions and dreams and what I liked and disliked and we soon discovered that we were both ambitious with very similar interests and beliefs. It wasn’t until the end of the date that he even referenced my appearance, and when he did he didn’t even say the words “beautiful” or “pretty”! It was very subtle.
And I liked that.

Men who don’t compliment my looks when they are getting to know me or wanting to ask me out intrigue me, because they are doing something different than the masses. More importantly, when they aren’t focusing on my appearance, they are focusing on something most important: who I am as a person. Showing genuine interest in the kind of person that I am is the best, most sexy compliment you could give me. And engaging in good conversation about my ideals, goals, ambitions, and passions—well, now you’ve opened my eyes and I’m interested in you. That’s what will catch my attention. That is what will catch the attention of other girls and will give you the edge to date girls you never thought possible to date.

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Would LOVE to hear what you think about this post.

Chick-TionaryP.S. Don’t forget to check out The Chick-tionary: The Hidden Meaning Behind What Women Say & Do

This manual gives the full run down of ALL THE THINGS women say that confuses men, written in dictionary format. Go here to find out more and see a sample chapter of The Chick-tionary.

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Date Ideas – How to Create Fun Non-traditional Dates That Help Build Attraction and Connection http://www.winggirlmethod.com/date-ideas-how-to-create-fun-non-traditional-dates-that-help-build-attraction-and-connection/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/date-ideas-how-to-create-fun-non-traditional-dates-that-help-build-attraction-and-connection/#comments Wed, 15 Jul 2015 23:20:28 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19115 On many occasions, men come up to me and ask me “What’s the best place to take my girl to on a date?” Well, you see, dating is all about seeing if two people are able to find something that … keep reading

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On many occasions, men come up to me and ask me “What’s the best place to take my girl to on a date?”

Well, you see, dating is all about seeing if two people are able to find something that ties them together and to see if they can connect to each other. I feel that you should be true to yourself, so that the other person can see if they can and want to fit into your life.

A lot of men try too hard to impress a girl and lose themselves along the way.

In the beginning of things, she really is no one to you, well, at least no one who comes before you. You agree? Well then… stop being focused on her and start focusing on yourself.

If you feel like dancing then take her dancing.

If you want to play billiards, then take her out and enjoy a nice game of billiards.

The first date does not need to be expensive, and you do not need to show off anything. Just be yourself, but, of course, the date has to be fun and enjoyable for the both of you.

Dinner and a Movie – Not a Way to Go!

You are probably well familiar with a couple eating dinner and then heading off to see a movie. That’s a classic first date scenario, but you might be looking for something different this time.

Think about what you already know about your date and choose a place accordingly.

If you are already passed the first date stage and seeking some other date ideas, then this time focus a bit on her and her preferences.

Your date might like an active date where the two of you will play a game of sport, or she might like an adventurous date where both of you will feel like kids again and try doing something new and non-traditional that will help you to build attraction and connection.

As long as you are personal and put some actual thought into it, choosing a date idea will be fun.

One of the most important things is to think about what your date likes and dislikes, regardless of whether you barely know her, or if you have been friends for a long time. Your partner won’t enjoy herself if she feels like you did not invest any time in thinking things through. You should consider if she would like an active date or perhaps she would like to do something passive.

For instance, if your date doesn’t like nature all that much, don’t ruin your chances for something more with a picnic or a hike.

If she works as a waitress, avoid planning a date at a coffee shop, and just be well aware of her preferences.

Consider the things you already know about her, and just try to recall what you have talked about.

What does she love doing, and what does she hate?

Whatever you choose as your date option, my recommendation is not to take her to some fancy expensive dinner, not just yet.

Wait until you know she is worth it!

Marni

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Do you use Tinder or any of those other dating apps? Then you have to read the below post written by my cute new 24-year-old Wing Girl Alex. Alex reveals how she uses Tinder AND the mistakes guys make on Tinder that make her swipe left.

What Always Makes Women Swipe Left On Tinder

By: Wing Girl Alex Temblador (25)

So I’m back on Tinder. It’s a love/hate relationship. Love that I have the chance to go on dates, meet some guys, and maybe find a relationship. Hate the profiles that I have to go through and deny because of men’s ridiculous choices with their photo deck and “About Me” section.

I started on Tinder about a year ago in Los Angeles and hated it for so many reasons. It’s not very easy to match with someone; it’s not very easy to get to know someone. Half the time, I chose only guys that were very attractive, and when we matched, I discovered that their looks did not reflect their personality. They were either total douchebags, sex fiends, misogynistic, or just plain weirdos. That part was my fault, and I’ve learned from it.

I took a six-month sabbatical from Tinder and then returned to the app a few weeks ago. And so far, it has sucked. Not because there aren’t any guys to match with. Not because I haven’t changed my own personal perspective on choosing guys (I don’t just choose guys that are Channing Tatum – hot anymore). Rather, the problem I am facing is that I’m swiping left (the action of denying or saying “no” to someone on Tinder) to so many guys because of their profile. Half the time I just want to throw my phone at the wall because the men on Tinder are not making it easy for me to swipe right.

There are certain basic principles that men should follow when using Tinder, basic principles that could get you a match. From my own experiences, I’ve noticed that over half of the men that come up on my Tinder, have set up their Tinder profiles in such horrible ways that I won’t even give them a second look and will swipe left. For all I know, that guy could have been an awesome guy to match with, but because of some very poor Tinder profile choices I don’t have the time or the desire to figure that out.

Tinder isn’t the best dating app for most people. Mostly because it limits a person to photographs and a tiny paragraph to explain who that person is. In plain terms, it’s a dating app with a primary focus on beauty and looks, an aspect that doesn’t help most guys. I’m going to share with you all of the things that will make a woman swipe left on Tinder. Things you SHOULD NOT DO with your Tinder profile, in hopes that you can learn what TO DO to get more matches.

If you follow my advice, I can’t guarantee that you will match with someone you find attractive or interesting on Tinder. However, I’d rather give you a fighting chance, an opportunity against those other men who make stupid Tinder profile mistakes. A chance that just might get you that match, if you’re lucky.

  1. Obscure photos: I can’t even tell what you look like!

Why is every single one of your photos blurry? Or a picture of you from far away? Or has a bad camera glare? Or is a bunch of photos of you facing away? Or wearing a hat and sunglasses?

If I can’t tell what you look like in over half of your photos, I am swiping left. If your main photo is obscure, I will swipe left 95% of the time.

A nice, clear main photo of you might make a girl pause. If she pauses to take a look at the rest of your photos (which should also be clear), you have a higher chance of her swiping right. So your choice: obscure or not?

  1. Why is your first photo a quote, a drawing, or a landscape photo? Why is it not of YOU?

I want to see pictures of you. I don’t want a quote you saved from Pinterest or an image of a lovely landscape from your last vacation. Don’t waste my time with those. If you have to include a picture like that, maybe it’s a drawing that you did, or you’re into photography and you want to show off your skills, then include it later on in your photo deck, like your 5th or 6th photo.

  1. Which one of the five guys in your picture is you?

I hate when guys have like four pictures with them and their friends. I deplore when that picture is your main photo. Why are you making me work to figure out which one in the picture is you? Nobody has time for that. You should have one or two pictures (two pictures if you have six photos up) with you and your friends.

Yes, women do want to know you are socially competent, and you do have friends, but we don’t need to get to know your friends in your Tinder profile. We want to see you! And what if your best friend in your picture is hotter than you… I’m just saying.

  1. So many women in your pics. Is that your ex? Are you a player?

I think there is some insane misconception that has made its way among men: that women like to see pictures of you and other women on your Tinder profile. I can only come up with one reason why any guy would do this: He wants women to think that other women like him and, therefore, make you jealous or intrigued. Whatever the reason behind this, stop doing it!

I’m almost positive that some of these pictures that men put up are pics with their ex-girlfriends. That’s gross. When I see pictures with a lot of women in your Tinder profile, it is a turn-off.

I don’t want to talk to a player.

I don’t want a guy who hangs out with a lot of girls all the time.

Now I know some men put up pictures with their sister or other female family members, but how do I know that is your sister? Just keep those pictures to a bare minimum, like, zero.

  1. One picture? Creepy…

Why do you only have one picture of yourself on Tinder? Or two? That’s just creepy. Now you have me wondering if you’re a robot, a catfish, or just some creepy 80-year-old man pretending to be someone he isn’t.

  1. Mom pics, why?

What is this “mom pic” trend that has caught on? It’s cool that you get along with your mom, but it just makes yourself seem a tiny bit juvenile. All I can think is, “Mama’s Boy,” and how I’m not trying to compete with a mom for her son.

  1. Few animals other than a dog scream “manly.”

Pictures with you and your dog—that’s sexy. Pictures with your cat… just doesn’t say manly. I hate to say that because all animals are awesome, but there are just some animals that say things other than you are a manly, sociable man. Horses are sexy in a cowboy way and maybe snakes are in an alternative rock star-kind-of-way; but if you can, stick with dogs.

  1. Why do you look miserable? Lonely? Creepy?

I don’t want to date someone who is miserable in life. Make sure your pictures don’t reflect that. I’ve seen pictures of guys on Tinder who are hunched over in photos with a depressed look on their face.

That’s not attractive. It’s off-putting.

Do you have any pictures of you smiling? Happy? Something beyond creepy, lonely guy who people don’t feel comfortable around?

  1. The Don’ts of Selfies and Mirror Pictures.

Recently, I was looking through a guy’s Tinder profile, and I couldn’t stop laughing. He had two selfie mirror pictures, and both of those mirror pictures were taken at Walmart. I have nothing against Walmart, but why can’t you take those selfie mirror pics at home?

This brings up selfies. Men don’t take the best selfies. I’m sorry, it’s true. So, if you do post a selfie on Tinder, stop and take a look at it.

Are we looking up your nostrils? Throw it out.

Do your facial features look extremely disproportioned because of the way you held the camera? Throw it out.

Here’s a selfie trick that women do that could be beneficial to you. One side of your face is always slimmer than the other. Look in the mirror and figure it out. When you find out which side is slimmer, tilt you head slightly to the left or right, whichever way will show that side, and take a picture. Full on pictures can look nice, but slightly angular selfies will show off your best side, and remember, Tinder is mostly about looks.

  1. Abs, abs, abs.

Lots of girls like abs on guys. I like abs on guys. However, I don’t like seeing four pictures of your abs that you took in a mirror. It tells me that you might be too ‘into yourself’ and won’t be able to be into me. So limit those ab pictures to one. Maybe two.

  1. Your pictures give me zero information about you.

Sometimes you can’t say everything about yourself in your “About Me” section. The nice thing with Tinder is that your photographs can show me what you are interested in. I love seeing guys playing sports, on the lake with friends, at a baseball game, etc.

Don’t go overboard with this. If you have four out of six pictures of you with guns, I will probably think you’re some unstable, paranoid, or violent guy and I will swipe left. If you have five pictures of you at the gym, I might assume you’re a meathead whose only hobby is working out (which is just sad). Share your hobbies, just don’t overshare one over the others.

  1. Lying with your pictures.

My cousin went on her first Tinder date when she was visiting me in Los Angeles. She liked the guy she was chatting with, but she kept asking me,

“Is there something off with his pictures?”

“Do you think he is as tall as the pictures make him seem?”

When she went on the date, she found out he wasn’t. Later we discovered that in one of the pictures, he was standing on a few steps above a girl to make it seem like he was taller, and he cut the photo at the point that would prevent us from figuring that out.

Don’t lie with your photos. That’s not nice.

  1. Posing with kids.

I don’t have kids. I’m not ready for kids, and I don’t want to be a mother, so when I see Tinder pictures of guys with kids, I usually swipe left. Now, let me go further into this. First, if you have a kid and you want to share that in your pictures and be honest with women about who you are, do it! However, mention that the child in your pictures is your kid in your summary section. There are tons of women who find dads hot, so show that and be proud!

On the other hand, if you are a single guy with no kids, it would be beneficial to women if you did not post pictures of yourself and children. I think most guys think that posing with kids shows women that they could be good dads or that they like kids. Not every woman is looking for that right away. So I would say nix those photographs. If you really want to include a picture with your nephew or niece, write a disclaimer in your summary section, “This is my niece. Isn’t she cute?”

  1. Connect to IG, please!

If you have an Instagram, connect it to your Tinder profile. It shows a woman a little more about your personality such as what you do with your friends, quotes you find inspiring, and much more. I love when guys have their IG accounts on Tinder because I have a chance to see what we have in common.

  1. Don’t try to be funny if you’re not.

The summary section on Tinder is the last thing I look at and sometimes it’s the last thing between you and a swipe left or a swipe right.

I’ve noticed men try to be funny in these sections and half the time it doesn’t work. Sometimes, these “funny” things that guys write isn’t funny at all. Sometimes they are goofy, or corny, or turn out as misogynistic statements.

  1. Why is your summary about me and not you?

Some men have written some interesting things in their “About Me” section. What I find interesting is when they talk about women on Tinder rather than sharing information about themselves, which is what the whole section is meant for!

I’ve seen things like, “Why do I have to message you first?” “Women, stop going for the hot ones,” “I don’t understand y’all,” “Don’t be conceited, ladies,” etc. Why are you speaking to a gender? Why aren’t you just sharing information about yourself?

My advice for the “About Me” section: tell me what you like, what’s your passion, whether you want something serious or not, family, educational background, your profession, where you are from, and what you are looking for in a woman (but always be positive; don’t say, “I just want a girl with tattoos and isn’t bat shit crazy when she drinks”—yeah, I read that yesterday).

Hopefully, those are some helpful tips that you can take and apply to your Tinder profile.

One last thing… A while back I got to wondering how women’s Tinder profiles looked, so I did an experiment. I changed my profile settings to include “interested in women” along with men and then I started exploring. Women have way better Tinder profiles than men. I don’t think I came across one “unattractive” or “weird” or “crazy” looking woman on Tinder. So, I encourage you to change your profiles for just a few minutes and check out how the men of Tinder have set up their profiles (don’t worry, you can change it back later). Perhaps then you might understand why I, and many other women, have been swiping left so much.

Love Alex!

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O.S.A: The Idiot-Proof Method for Approaching Women [Part 3/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/o-s-a-the-idiot-proof-approaching-method-part-33/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/o-s-a-the-idiot-proof-approaching-method-part-33/#comments Thu, 09 Jul 2015 18:33:25 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19060 Hope you’ve been enjoying this mini-series on the O.S.A Method. If you’ve missed any of my blogs the last few days, then you should definitely go back and read ’em. Check out Part 1 here and Part 2 here: They’re … keep reading

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Hope you’ve been enjoying this mini-series on the O.S.A Method.

If you’ve missed any of my blogs the last few days, then you should definitely go back and read ’em.

Check out Part 1 here and Part 2 here:

They’re that good.

But here’s a quick recap of what the first two parts of the O.S.A Method before I give you the last piece of the puzzle:

1. Observation: Make a statement about something you’re observing in your environment. Whether that be her or otherwise. Think of it like being a 5-year-old kid again who’s intrigued and curious about everything.

2. Sharing: Share something personal (opinion, thought, etc.) about the observation you’ve just made. If observation is giving her a piece of your reality, then sharing is letting her come along for the ride.

Obviously, there were a lot more intricacies (which is why you should go see parts 1 & 2 on my blog, duh!) but this the gist of the first two parts.

But here comes the 3rd and some would say most important part of the whole enchilada.

*Drum roll*

Part 3: Ask A Question

You’re a one-man show during the first two phases, but part 3 is about bridging the gap and getting her invested into the interaction.

Asking a question makes sure that this becomes a two-way dialogue instead of you blabbing on and on without any input from her.

Again, this whole OSA Method is to get the conversation started so you can find out if you’re interested in her.

And the only way to do that is to get her to open her mouth.

Now, there are a few things guys get wrong when asking questions so here’s what you should and shouldn’t do:

  1.  DO ask open-ended questions. Use the 5 W’s like journalists use to get the best interviews they can out of their subject. Who, what, where, why and how.
  2.  DON’T continue to ask questions that begin in “Do you…?” as in “Do you come here often?”. This makes it extremely easy for her just to say yes or no – and completely block you off from further conversation. I understand it is hard always to come up with an open question so you may need to use “Do you…” at first, but don’t follow up with another “Do you…” question.

These two rules make sure that you don’t go into “interview mode” and bombard her with question after question that she can just answer with yes or no.

Let’s take you through a full example of the whole process in action:

You see a girl in the mall with a scarf in 90-degree weather.

You’re thinking to yourself about how crazy hot it is, and that scarf is just ridiculous.

So as you pass her by you tell her, “What the hell? A scarf in this heat? (← Observation)

I’m wearing shorts and a tank top, and I’m STILL about to pull a Magic Mike because I’m so hot! (← Sharing)”

(Obviously you don’t have to use a stripper reference but you get bonus points if you do in my book 😉

And here comes the ask:

“How are you even dealing with it right now?”

Bam, conversation started, and she can’t answer yes or no because… it just wouldn’t make sense.

You’ve just injected yourself directly into the middle of a conversation, and she can’t put any barriers up because again – it wouldn’t make sense.

Simple and extremely effective. It’s why I love things like O.S.A so much.

They’re easy to remember and so much better to use in real-life situations.

Now there’s a whole second part to this OSA Method, which I call the LCA Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method, to literally, get her ADDICTED to you.

I could have used any adjective, but addiction is literally what happens in her brain when you use this stuff.

You can learn about it in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

Make sure you check it out.

I hope you enjoyed the mini-series and let me know if you use it.

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O.S.A: The Idiot-Proof Method for Approaching Women [Part 2/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/the-fool-proof-o-s-a-approach-method-part-23/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/the-fool-proof-o-s-a-approach-method-part-23/#comments Wed, 08 Jul 2015 18:31:25 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19057 Yesterday I introduced you to The Wing Girl Method’s “indirectly direct” method for approaching women, the O.S.A. Method. If you missed the blog post then you can see Part 1 here: ==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/formula-for-approaching-women/ Or here’s a quick recap: The O.S.A Method … keep reading

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Yesterday I introduced you to The Wing Girl Method’s “indirectly direct” method for approaching women, the O.S.A. Method.

If you missed the blog post then you can see Part 1 here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/formula-for-approaching-women/

Or here’s a quick recap:

The O.S.A Method is an approach technique that allows you to quickly break into a conversation with a girl while completely removing formalities and taking away the “interviewer” mode of discussion.

Most guys just try to bombard a girl with random questions in an attempt to force their way into a conversation.

Yuck.

And to be honest, super annoying.

By using the O.S.A method, you’re completely throwing that out of the window while still being entirely clear in your intent.

It’s the best of both worlds which is why I love it so much… and so do women!

I also told you about the first part of the method – Observation.

Without going into too much detail, observation is letting a girl into your reality by making an observation about something in the world around you.

Think of it as being a 5-year old who’s curious and intrigued about everything.

So if she’s wearing a scarf in 90-degree weather and you think that’s ridiculous, you’d open the conversation with “A scarf in 90-degree weather?!”.

It could be an observation about her or just about anything in the environment.

The next part of the O.S.A method is – Sharing.

Sharing is where you add your 2 cents to whatever you made an observation about.

If the observation is giving her a piece of your reality, sharing is letting her come along for the ride.

Girls will subconsciously try to put the pieces together of what you’re saying, your body language and your tonality to get an idea of who you are.

And as long as you’re sharing, you’re pulling into your reality and getting her invested.

So what do you share exactly?

This is actually brain-dead easy…

First you follow the first rule of O.S.A where you make a statement about an observation that you’ve made then you share something personal about it.

Here’s an example:

You see the girl walking around the mall with the scarf in 90-degree weather.

You’re in shorts and a tank-top, and you’re still almost suffering a heat stroke.

So you make an observation and follow it up by sharing something personal:

“What the hell? A scarf in this heat? I’m wearing shorts and a tank top and I’m STILL about to pull a Magic Mike because I’m so hot!”

Your body language is relaxed, your gaze is firm and you’ve got a half-cocked smile on the whole time.

Do you see how effective this part is in reeling her in?

Now she knows something about you.

She knows you’re a funny, confident guy who knows about Magic Mike.

Now obviously you don’t have to be funny or make a male stripper reference.

But whatever it is that you DO share will give her a puzzle piece in building a painting of who you are.

You’ve also broken past all of her defenses and injected yourself in the middle of a conversation.

Neat huh?

That’s why I love little methods like this one.

It’s kind of nerdy, but they’re so easy to remember which makes it a breeze to apply in real life situations.

Now there’s a whole second part to this OSA Method, which I call the LCA Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method, to literally, get her ADDICTED to you.

I could have used any adjective, but addiction is literally what happens in her brain when you use this stuff.

You can learn about it in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

Anyways, tomorrow I’ll be posting the last part of the OSA method …

IF you are not already signed up for my newsletters, I suggest signing up so that you don’t miss out on the last and final part of the O.S.A Method!

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WOW… my last few newsletters about being direct with women and clearly asking for what you want were like a roller-coaster of feedback. (If you missed them I’ll be posting them on my blog shortly)

Some of you were confused, some of you needed some explanation, but for those of you who got it…

I’m super excited to hear about how you used what I told you to get some action over 4th of July weekend. 😉

Now look, if you were confused, or you needed some explaining, or maybe being that direct just isn’t your schtick…

These next few emails are going to be a TREAT because I’m going to be unveiling The Wing Girl Method’s in-depth method for being “indirectly direct” while approaching a lady of your choice.

I say it’s “indirectly direct” because the way you’ll be approaching women and talking to them will be seemingly indirect, but will still show a clear intention…

The intention being “you’re cute. I want to talk to you and get to know more.”

If this is all going over your head right now, don’t worry because it shall all be explained over the next couple of days.

So without further ado…

The O.S.A. Method

The O.S.A. Method is the method that I created for my personal clients back in 2006, and it’s the best method for approaching women, and striking up a conversation.

In fact, it’s the approach that, of the 5000+ women I’ve interviewed over the past decade, say they respond to the most.

It’s not a direct approach per se because you aren’t just coming out and saying what you want, BUT it allows you to:

1) Still be 100% genuine and clear in your intent (which is the foundation of direct approaches anyway)

2) Break into conversation with a woman and then decide whether or not you enjoy her, and still feel the attraction, because making an exit with this approach is as easy as pie

But I think the most important part of the O.S.A. Method is that it completely removes all annoying formalities. It takes away the “interviewer” mode of conversation that most guys attempt to go into, which makes women immediately put up barriers…

And barriers ain’t fun.

So what IS the O.S.A Method?

Well, as you’ve probably already guessed it’s an abbreviation (duh!) and the first letter stands for…

Observation.

Let me explain:

Picture for a moment you’re in the mall, and you see a pretty hot girl, nothing out of the ordinary right?

But you see that she’s wearing a scarf… in 90-degree weather.

So as you pass her by you simply make a statement about your observation, something like…

“A scarf in 90-degree weather?!”

You’ve got a giant smirk on your face, and your body language is relaxed and confident.

Your body language and tonality are 90% of how you communicate who you are, so you have to get that right but…

What you’ve just done by letting her in on YOUR observation is:

A) You’ve just cut directly into the middle of a conversation therefore skipping all formalities like “Hey my name is…” or “Can I talk to you for a second”.  She won’t (and more importantly, can’t) put barriers up because there’s nothing to actually put barriers up against. (<- super important!)  Instead, she’ll most likely just stare at you.

NOTE: Don’t take this as a bad thing. It just means you’ve gotten her attention.

B) You’ve just demonstrated confidence through your body language, tonality, and the fact that it takes major balls, and really awesome social skills to pull off being completely in your own “stream of consciousness”, and pulling her into it.

Oh and the observation doesn’t just have to be about her.

It could be about anything.

A simple shortcut: just state, out loud, EXACTLY what you’re already thinking.

Think of it as being a 5-year-old kid again without a filter who’s intrigued and curious about everything.

It’s that simple.

Tomorrow we’ll dive straight into the next part of the O.S.A Method, and if you do this one thing, you’ll completely suck her into YOUR world.

So keep an eye out for it!

Oh and before I go, if you like formulas like the O.S.A. Method that are not only powerful but easy to remember and apply in real world situations, then you should check out my L.C.A. Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method to literally get her ADDICTED to you.

You can learn about in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

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Ask Women Podcast Episode 111: Misconceptions Women Have About Men That Are Ruining Your Dating Life http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-episode-111-misconceptions-women-have-about-men-that-are-ruining-your-dating-life/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-episode-111-misconceptions-women-have-about-men-that-are-ruining-your-dating-life/#comments Thu, 02 Jul 2015 00:49:35 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19043 I’ve heard this statement time and time again: “Women have it sooooo much easier. They just have to walk into a room and pick the guy they want.” But is that really true?? Is it REALLY easier for women to … keep reading

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I’ve heard this statement time and time again:

“Women have it sooooo much easier. They just have to walk into a room and pick the guy they want.”

But is that really true?? Is it REALLY easier for women to date and have sex than it is for men?

Listen to this week’s episode of Ask Women to find out

We had the always awesome, dating coach to women – the “other Marni”, Marni Batista on the show. To share with us the struggles, frustrations, and confusions, that women have about men and dating that you may be shocked by.

We also had this guy Graham on the show, who seemed to like us until we hit a sensitive button for him with women and gold digging.

But even so, this guy and dating coach to women, delivered a pretty awesome show that ended in a BIG debate that I would love to hear your thoughts on.

Please take a listen and let me know your opinion.

The topics we covered on this show were:

1. Does money really matter to women? And how does it matter?

2. Is dating, sex, etc… easier for women?

3. Top things women don’t understand about men.

4. How to date younger women.

5. How to be a leader with women.

6. How to avoid being seen as a pushover, wuss with women

7. Misconceptions women have about men that may be ruining your dating life

And much more!!

I hope you enjoy it!

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How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-act-like-a-bad-boy-but-actually-be-good/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-act-like-a-bad-boy-but-actually-be-good/#comments Wed, 01 Jul 2015 01:42:18 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19037 How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good (Or what I like to call:  Learning from Fifty Shades of Grey*) So, is there an art to shedding the “nice guy” moniker in a woman’s eyes? Absolutely! What … keep reading

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How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good

(Or what I like to call:  Learning from Fifty Shades of Grey*)

So, is there an art to shedding the “nice guy” moniker in a woman’s eyes? Absolutely!

What the Bad Boy Isn’t

Let me start by saying that a bad boy is not creepy or mean! EVER! Abusive and hurtful behavior will NEVER be acceptable to anyone, and you will end up with a restraining order instead of a date.

So how do you act like a bad boy? Well, I have already established that our friend Mr. Nice Guy can be a doormat, and not very interesting to women (see the article on that by clicking here). However, don’t lose that guy altogether because you will need him for balance.

The Unattainable Media Standards

Every woman between the ages of 16 and 90 has read Fifty Shades of Grey, so right now most women have what I like to call Christian Grey syndrome. They somehow manage to compare the men they date to him. They find this type of bad boy appealing because he is a tortured soul who is not beyond redemption. He is also an amazingly hot billionaire, who flies his own helicopter and owns half of the world.

To begin, I have to tell you, you are not in his “league” or however you want to phrase it. No one is. Nevertheless, he is (almost) the perfect balance of bad boy and good boy. There are things you can learn from his character.

If you haven’t read the book or a girlfriend didn’t drag you to the movie, don’t worry, I’ll give you the down low on what the takeaways are.

Take the Lead!

A bad boy is a leader in all situations. Christian Grey runs the show from the very beginning and lays out exactly how a relationship is going to be. He doesn’t do this with brute force but with brutal honesty. He lets the woman know what he is upfront and lets her decide. (In this case, he provides her with a contract, which states that she will be his love slave, but REALLY guys, I can tell you this much –  not happening for you unless you DO fly your own helicopter and own a skyscraper.)

My takeaway:  be truthful about what you want and expect. If a woman doesn’t like it, she can walk away, and you don’t have to waste anyone’s time.

Be Independent!

A bad boy is independent and rules his world. OK, the comparison case is not apples to apples. The guy is also super rich, but you don’t have to be. You just cannot have your mother doing your laundry or cooking for you. Women love to nurture men, but we definitely do not want to be washing your boxers or packing you a lunch!

Establish yourself by doing something that makes you happy and BE dedicated to the things you love. It’s not specifically the rich part that women love; it is the personal success. So, if you are passionate about what you do, you are rich in many ways and women see that side as independent and prosperous.

Another important thing to say here is that you should not give up your favorite pastime or hobby. If you enjoy watching football on Sundays, invite her to be part of it, or tell her you will see her Monday. Going back to our Fifty Shades analogy, I thought the best thing about our friend Mr. Grey was that he took his woman gliding in a plane, played piano for her and showed her his other interests. (Besides the “secret room”)

My takeaway:  Here is where some guys become doormats. DON’T DO IT!!! Don’t give in. If a woman is not impressed by your successes (income or profession) or interested in your life run – don’t walk.

I can tell you that a woman who is worth having will respect what you do for a living and for fun. She doesn’t have to always be a part of it, but SHE MUST respect it.

Show Your Strength

If you think a bad boy is made of muscles and willing to fight off everyone. You are wrong.

I’m not going to lie to you. If you have a rockin’ body that you work hard to attain, show it off – Woman love to look at a rock-hard body! However, you do not need to be Channing Tatum to rock a woman’s world.

Listen up — This is the Balance Part!

Confidence along with emotional balance is key. Strength starts inside and works its way to the outside. Men do not need rock hard abs to make a woman happy. (A Homer Simpson gut however, is not appealing.) What we want is a man who makes us feel safe and secure.

This is why Christian Grey is a bad boy all women WANT. He will do his own thing, be his own man and stand up for his convictions, all while he is flirting with us, talking dirty to us and challenging us to be adventurous and spontaneous in and out of bed.

My Takeaway: Deep down inside I know women really do want the Christian Grey guy who will defend them, hold their hair back while they are throwing up from too many shots of tequila, and carry them off to bed to teach them things they never even knew they wanted.

(Spoiler Alert)

I told you that you could learn from this guy. Carry yourself with his confidence. Show your strength. Be interesting and use his blend of seduction and nice guy.

However, there is a moral to our Fifty Shades comparison. Mr. Grey is emotionally empty, and a bit disturbed. At the end of the story, his woman walked out on him. (To be continued!)

Don’t be that man. If you have emotional issues – get help first.

My BIGGEST takeaway: Tell and show a woman you care OR don’t waste your time or hers.

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How To Influence Girls and Make Them Like You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/win-girls-hearts/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/win-girls-hearts/#comments Tue, 30 Jun 2015 01:06:15 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19031 The Field Guide To Building A Cult Or Connecting With Women All the way back in 1936, a book was published that would affect the future in ways the author most likely never saw coming. Warren Buffett (who’s worth $72.3 … keep reading

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The Field Guide To Building A Cult Or Connecting With Women

All the way back in 1936, a book was published that would affect the future in ways the author most likely never saw coming.

Warren Buffett (who’s worth $72.3 billion dollars as I write this) has a certification that he completed this book hanging in his office right now.

Charles Manson read this book in prison and used what he learned to manipulate women into killing for him.

Whoever got their hands on this book, whether they knew it or not, could use it for great good or evil.

Some men used it to make fortunes, some to build a cult of women to kill for him and others to just… get laid.

The little book they used to do all of this was “How To Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.

Don’t let the innocent looking title fool you. This is powerful stuff and people like you and me have been using it since the ’30s to get people to do their bidding.

Now, while there’s a million and one ways you can use this info for evil schemes… I’m going to show you (through example) how you can use it to connect with women on a deep level.

There were 6 main principles in the book and if you use them correctly and GENUINELY on a girl of your choosing, she’ll feel the deepest of connections with you.

I have to warn you though:

When I say “evil schemes” I’m not trying to be cute.

Cult-leaders like Charles Manson have used these same techniques to completely and utterly dominate the minds of his followers.

So I urge you to only use this for good.

Capisce? :)

Let’s move along.

Say you’re on a first date with someone, you’re at a little cafe downtown.

She’s sitting across from you, sipping a white chocolate Mocha frap.

You want this date to work out so friggin’ bad. Your head is filled with a thousand thoughts at the same time.

Thinking of all the little tips and techniques you’ve picked up online. Maybe they’re MY tips and techniques.

She’s moving her mouth but you can’t make out the words she’s saying. You’re too busy figuring out her next move.

You’ve got this glazed look in your eye like you’re spaced out… she notices.

She pauses after what she was saying and she’s looking straight at you.

“Is she waiting for me to something? Oh no… I barely listened to what she was saying… I was too busy thinking about my next move… did she say something about her dog? Shit…” you think to yourself.

You’re in deep trouble.

And this ladies and germs brings me to…

Principle 1: Be genuinely interested in her.

Say you had read this article BEFORE you went on the date and you were genuinely interested in what she had to say.

Rather than being stuck in your own head and worrying about your next “Ultra Ninja PUA Move 5000 TM”, you would have heard this:

“Aw look at that cute little puppy outside! I’ve always wanted a dog but I’m so worried that I won’t have the time to care of it…”

“I could’ve sworn you were a cat person…” you reply.

Bam… you’ve got her laughing and you’ve built a connection with an inside joke you could use later.

And while we’re on the topic of laughing…

Principle 2: Smile.

What do you think drives a deeper connection if you would have made that cat lady joke:

  • A) You say the joke and stare at her completely dead-pan. Now that I say it… I think it would come across as either insulting or creepy. No bueno!
  • B) You say the joke but this time, you flash her a cocky and light-hearted smile. You come across as charming, light-hearted and sexy. Win!

The difference between being creepy/insulting and sexy/charming is a smile.

Moving on!

The next principle is a game-changer.

It’s so easy to do and almost insignificant but if you do it right… you’ll make her tingle and she won’t even know WHY.

How?

With one word.

Principle 3: Remember that her name is to her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

I’m not sure of the psychological reason behind it but there’s something intoxicating about hearing someone say your name.

Don’t believe me?

Think of the last time someone said your name during sex.

It sent you right over the edge didn’t it?

I suspect that it has something to do with the ego and how we ALL like getting our ego rubbed.

Which leads me to the next principle:

Principle 4: Be a good listener. Encourage her to to talk about herself.

One of the biggest problems guys face is that they don’t know how to make conversation with girls they don’t know.

“But what do I say?” is the #1 question I get from men. More than any other question by a long shot.

And it’s a devastatingly simple question to answer.

Let her talk about HERSELF by asking questions.

Women love talking about themselves, it’s no secret.

You open the door for them to do just that by asking questions.

Now make sure you don’t break Principle 1.

Ask questions about her that genuinely interest you, don’t fake it because she’ll know.

And even more so, you want to be actually listening to her and interested in what she has to say because you have to…

Principle 5: Talk in terms of her interests.

If you can follow Principle 4 & 5, you’ll never have a problem having deep and meaningful conversations with not just women but anybody you meet.

Relate back to what she’s talking about and add your 2 cents.

You’ll learn more about each other in a date or two than the average dating couple does in months.

And since you asked her questions that genuinely interest you about her, you’ll have no problem relating back to it.

This is the one-two punch and you’ll be like Muhammad Ali in the ring in his prime.

She’ll feel like she knew in a past life and the connection you’ll have with her will be deep and unshakeable.

And you’ll…

Principle 6: Make her feel important and do it sincerely.

This one is easy to misinterpret.

Don’t put her on a pedestal and worship the ground she walks on.

Make her feel important by letting her earn your attention.

Give her sincere compliments, not shallow or over the top praises.

“You know Samantha…” he said with a smile.

“I’ve never met a girl as weird and charming as you.”

That’s the kind of thing girls read in books like 50 Shades of Grey… and they FAWN over it.

They want a man (<— important!) to make them feel like a woman.

They want to be in the fairy tale. You just have to make them the main character and you have to be the man they’re chasing after.

Well, that wraps up the 6 principles to building a deep connection with the girl of your choice.

I hope you use this for good and not to build a cult.

First time I’ve had to write that ha!

If you want to pick up the classic original book, you can buy it on Amazon here for cheap

Or if you want a course that’s built around principles like this then you should get the book AND my course How To Become A Man Women Want. Just Click here to read more.

Either way you can’t go wrong.

Marni

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5 Reasons Why Hot Women LOVE Nerds http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-rule/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-rule/#comments Mon, 29 Jun 2015 18:57:30 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19026 I rarely have guest writers on my blog, especially male writers, BUT I had to post this blog. It’s written by an Anonymous Silicon Valley Founder and self-proclaimed, nerd. I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this article! … keep reading

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I rarely have guest writers on my blog, especially male writers, BUT I had to post this blog. It’s written by an Anonymous Silicon Valley Founder and self-proclaimed, nerd.

I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this article!

Let me know what you think.

5 Reasons Why Hot Women LOVE Nerds

I am a nerd, and I have an elite sex life.

Wait – what?

It gets crazier: I don’t make much of an effort, either. All I do is stay true to myself, maintain my values, and chill out.

Let me explain: I am not a pickup artist. I don’t manipulate people or follow particular routines. I don’t go after every girl. I’ve dabbled in all that junk, and it’s not who I am.

Then, I discovered something crazy: By staying true to my [nerdy] self – and understanding women a tiny bit (see below) – I found myself with an unstoppable sex life. To be honest, the only thing limiting me is my time.

“Exactly what kind of women is this nerd dating?” you may be asking. Beautiful women. More than good-looking, these women have stimulating personalities, fascinating lives, and broad perspectives. And they’re damn sexy.

I find it funny that nerds who’ve mastered theoretical math or software programming still haven’t discovered their enormous advantage over most dudes when it comes to dating. Most nerds accept the Hollywood dogma – hot girls go for meatheads – like it’s Newton’s Second Law. How silly.

High-quality girls – those with both brains and beauty – are drawn to nerds like bowling balls to the Earth’s surface. We just have to not get in their way.

Here’s why hot women love nerds:

1. We Have Passion

Nerds aren’t defined by superficial things, like how we dress or our raw IQ: being a nerd is to be passionate about something.

Being passionate about something – anything outside of making money – is extremely rare for women to find. As one journalist recently lamented about the influx of very successful men to her city, “They thought the ability to buy someone an expensive meal made them interesting.”

Gorgeous, intelligent women find nerds incredibly refreshing in a world of men who may have a six pack and a nice car, but lack substance.

As one woman told me – after what was an incredible one-night stand – what turned her on the most was when I started talking about my passions. She didn’t necessarily understand them – but she loved the energy I radiated.

Genuine, independent passion is rare – and it’s the definition of being a nerd.

2. We Couldn’t Care Less What Others Think

One blond midwestern lawyer told me after we both had a few glasses of wine, was that she found it extremely attractive that I didn’t posture or try to showcase my achievements. Most men she encountered in her city went unnaturally out of their way to hint at their success. To women, that’s always transparent.

Growing up as a nerd, you learn an important lesson: life is just better when you don’t pay attention to what others think of you. As adults, that ends up being an incredibly unique trait – one that women absolutely notice.

3. We Stay Humble

Nerds crave to be around people who are better and smarter than they are; that’s where we learn most. We’re happiest when the people we’re with challenge us. Only truly secure, confident people can live life this way.

Nerds are humble, but not pushovers. When we believe in something, we certainly make it known. Secure, confident humility is extremely attractive.

Turns out there’re scores of brilliant, accomplished women out there, too. Fortunately for us, normal men find their independence too threatening to date. As nerds, we enjoy being around anyone who challenge us with new perspectives. And those women enjoy being challenged as well – and know how (unfortunately) rare men like us are.

4. We Have Our Shit Together

Nerds have their act together. We have good values and live by principles. We respect others because we have empathy. We prefer genuine friendships rather than being social butterflies. Our intelligence permits us to choose lucrative careers that make us genuinely happy.

Nerds have our shit together more than the general population of men. It’s probably why they’re so threatened by us – and call us nerds. Fair trade by me.

5. We Learn Damn Fast

At this point you’re thinking, okay, great, so why does the dating world not seem to favor nerds?

What stands between your average chess champion, hardware engineer, or mathematics professor, and the dreamy women around them? It’s simple: we just have to not get in their way.

We’re inherently attractive by our nature; we just need to learn the basics of the process – and open the floodgates.

Nerds are, by nature, fast learners. We take pleasure in learning hard things, and we’ve done it many times. Sure, women can be complicated, but come on – we’ve hacked more complicated systems. (No offense, women!)

There’re a few basic things most of us haven’t thought about:

– Women want sex as much or more than you do

– There’s no magic: Women want you to lead them through a simple, consistent path, without skipping stages (gradually – but not necessarily slowly).

– Women need you to initiate – from saying ‘Hi’, to getting a number, all the way to taking off her clothes. And if you do it right, there’s never any need for courage or acting, just being yourself.

– We need to get out there – be easy to find and interact with, whether on Tinder, OKCupid, Facebook, or real life.

– Understand that you’re not going to have chemistry with all women – and that the smart thing is not to care.

– We could do a few small things to be more attractive (hint: this is easy, totally under your control, and has nothing to do with genetics)

All of these are incredibly easy to achieve and require almost no courage or training. It’s just another system to hack.

As nerds, we’ve got an enormous advantage over the general population when it comes to dating attractive women. The best part? All we have to do is be ourselves.

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Marni’s comments:

I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this article! Especially the last few bullet points mentioned by Mr. Anonymous.

Would LOVE to know your thoughts on this article.  Write your comments below and tell me what you think.

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What Does Being A Nice Guy Actually Mean? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/what-does-being-a-nice-guy-actually-mean/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/what-does-being-a-nice-guy-actually-mean/#comments Fri, 26 Jun 2015 19:07:48 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19018 What Does Being a Nice Guy Actually Mean? Are you the nice guy? Do you constantly let her have her way? Do you go out of your way to please her? Does every relationship you have end with the F-Word … keep reading

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What Does Being a Nice Guy Actually Mean?

Are you the nice guy? Do you constantly let her have her way? Do you go out of your way to please her? Does every relationship you have end with the F-Word – FRIENDS?

“Nice Guy” is a Matter of Perspective, Yours and Hers

His Definition:

Nice Guy: Noun, Informal. A likable man who is generally pleasant to be around who avoids conflict in order to please those around him. Enjoys an anxiety-free environment and will make others happy to ensure a peaceful co-existence.

I know you think that you are being a gentleman by giving into her every whim. I know that you want to go out of your way to make her happy, never wanting to argue, always letting her win.

However, in reality Mr. Nice Guy, you lose! You are being a doormat. If you look deep inside yourself, you probably don’t want to rock the boat out of your own fear of losing her. Yet, the only woman who appreciates this guy is her mother.

There is a reason this guy doesn’t get the girl. Generally, women don’t want to date a doormat. If they need one, there are plenty of cute ones at IKEA.

I see this guy every day in my business, and I know you can change. I am not asking you to become a complete scumbag because that doesn’t work either. You need to change your definition of Mr. Nice Guy by understanding what a woman really wants.

Change your Definition of Nice Guy and Get the Girl!

I hear women say, “I need a nice guy” all the time. As a woman, I know what they mean, and I can assure you it is not your version of Nice Guy.

In the song Yeah! by Usher, there is a line, “We want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. “

Well, I hate to shock you – but women are no different!

Her Definition:

Nice Guy: Noun, Informal. A man who exudes confidence and oozes sex. The guy who is in control while treating her like a lady in the street, and makes her want to be a freak in the bed

So how do you get there Mr. Nice Guy? Let me help.

Stop trying so hard to be nice and be yourself.

Women know you’re a man, and they know you want sex. You just have to learn to provide the subtle clues while being a nice guy.

You can build sexual tension in a nice way.

While you are busy being nice, let that little bad boy out every now and then. I am not telling you to get all perverted, but innuendo and well thought out touchés, can go a long way.

Don’t be a doormat!

I can’t say this enough! Women enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as the man does. If you allow her to walk all over you – she will. And guess what, she will get bored and eventually use the dreaded F-word.

So what is the true definition of a nice guy? A man who can balance kindness with sex appeal

Women actually do like a man who will not tolerate her crap! But you need to find the right balance. There is a true art to being Mr. Bad Boy – Nice Guy. Do you have it?

Let me know what you think it is in the comment section below.

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Take Advantage of Me?? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/take-advantage-of-me/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/take-advantage-of-me/#comments Thu, 25 Jun 2015 19:46:23 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19003 How many times have you wished you could go back in time? Maybe you screwed up with a girl. Said the wrong thing. Everything is falling apart, and you wish you could just take it all back. How much would … keep reading

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How many times have you wished you could go back in time?

Maybe you screwed up with a girl. Said the wrong thing. Everything is falling apart, and you wish you could just take it all back.

How much would you pay to be able to send a single email to yourself in the past?

If you’re like most people… a lot! Some would say, all their life savings.

Here’s the thing, though.

The reason you’d pay so much is because you’ve gained wisdom from making mistakes.

That’s how we learn!!

Sometimes we wish we could get a do-over but the truth is, our embarrassing, heart-crushing mistakes are what makes us who we are.

In the end, it’s what make our lives worth living.

I see this every single day working with my clients.

Between them, I think I’ve pretty much seen every possible mistake with women.

A couple of days ago I told you about Brian. A 67-year-old man who lost everything, trying to start over late in life.

His wife of many many years, gone.

His career of 30 years, gone.

Imagine building a life for 64 years and having it all disappear in the span of a month or two.

Heartbreaking, soul-destroying.

But Brian’s a fighter. Currently 67 years young, he reached out to me for help getting back into the game. And he’s kicking ass and taking names.

Now let me ask you a question.

How much do you think Brian would pay to be able to send an email from me to his past self?

A fortune, right?

To save him from all that pain and heartache?

So here’s the deal.

I’m trying a little experiment today.

Some guys have told me that they’re in a pretty tricky situation right now and they’d love my take on it, but they don’t want to commit to my full email coaching program at $99 per month.

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Right now, I’m super busy with a ton of commitments I have with my current coaching program, but I still want you to get the same benefits they get, even if you’re not ready to commit to the full program.

So instead of charging you $99 per month where you can ask me 15 questions…

… you can ask me your ONE most pressing, most important question, right now for just $7.99.

Right now I’m letting you take advantage of me and my hectic schedule (shame on you!) … for a limited time.

To get started, click the link below:

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I’m not sure how long I’m able to keep this offer open before my inbox gets too flooded for me to be able to keep up.

If you’re in a situation right now where you’re unsure what you need to do next, this could be an excellent opportunity for you.

Like having your future self tell you exactly what you need to focus on. But instead of giving up your life savings, just a couple of bucks.

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I look forward to hearing from you!

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