Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Thu, 05 Mar 2015 16:39:43 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.2 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes Contributor: DatingAdvice.com http://www.winggirlmethod.com/contributor-datingadvice-com/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/contributor-datingadvice-com/#comments Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:16:38 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18748 Marni is now a regular contributor for DatingAdvice.com Check out her latest video here: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/5-correct-ways-to-flirt-with-women

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Marni is now a regular contributor for DatingAdvice.com

Check out her latest video here:

http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/5-correct-ways-to-flirt-with-women

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How To Turn Around Rejection With Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/turn-around-rejection-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/turn-around-rejection-women/#comments Sun, 01 Mar 2015 20:20:03 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18734 I just got an awesome email from one my clients with an example of what to say to a woman, when she has rejected you online. You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you (hopefully … keep reading

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I just got an awesome email from one my clients with an example of what to say to a woman, when she has rejected you online.

You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you (hopefully with my help that never happens, but just in case).

You can use a variation of this on women you meet in real life or online.  The example below is an online example and it’s awesome.

Example:

Hey Marni,

I just have to share a little success with you because your direction made this happen.

I was writing to this girl online and I stupidly was asking her boring, general questions. This is before I learned how to do it right.

She had been giving me one word “not interested answers” and then she just abruptly disappeared.  So I sent this comment to her: “thanks for talking. just FYI I sure there are a lot of creeps out there & you’re an attractive women, but I’m NOT a game player. just wanted to get to know you a little more (not trying to get you into bed). Let me know when you’re online next time maybe we can talk like real people. If not interested in talking just let me know you won’t hurt my feelings. (besides you are a little to old :) Have a good day.”

I instantly I got a pop up message that said ok lets talk online now! And we did.

That was the first phone number, positive reaction I’d gotten from a woman in years.

Thanks so much for your help.- J

LOVE getting emails like that.

The reason why J’s response got such a reaction from this woman was because it was direct, firm and authentic.

J, stated his intentions and also called this woman out instead of trying to placate to her. He didn’t seem worried about ruffling feathers or losing her entirely.

It was bold and it made J sound like he was a man that knew what he wanted and wasn’t going to settle for anything less.

Super sexy. PLUS he teased her about not being that good looking. I loved that part.

All in all, amazing and a great example of how to handle a woman losing interest or possibly rejecting  you. Never Get Rejected Again!

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Why Women Date Jerks http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-date-jerks/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-date-jerks/#comments Sun, 01 Mar 2015 19:32:43 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18744 Want beautiful women in your life but not sure how to get them?? I’ll show you how to get women begging you to be theirs: In just 30 days you will learn how to get everything you have ever wanted … keep reading

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Want beautiful women in your life but not sure how to get them?? I’ll show you how to get women begging you to be theirs:

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how to get everything you have ever wanted from women. Learn more now!
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You’ve heard it over and over again, and it seems to be true…

Women always fall for jerks.

Well GUESS WHAT? This is a total myth and I’m going to tell you why. It’s NOT the jerky traits that women are drawn to with those guys.

It’s that guys that happen to be jerks very often possess the other qualities that make women so damn attracted to them. Qualities like confidence, a strong sense of self-worth, and playfulness when they interact with women.

I want to share one of my videos with you, called “Why Women Like Jerks”. It’s posted below.

It explains everything you need to know about adopting all the POSITIVE traits of a jerk while still maintaining your good-guy nature :)

So check out my video here and learn how to man up and stop being a wimp around women (1:30)…

AND also find out why you should stay away from the girls who actually ARE attracted to jerks (1:58). They are bad news.

I mean really, why should the a**holes have all the fun?? It’s about time you finished FIRST.

Watch the video below:

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Why Women Test You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-test/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-test/#comments Fri, 27 Feb 2015 19:20:55 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18740 [Video Below] Why does it always seem like we women are putting you through a mental and emotional obstacle course when they’re getting to know you?? Offering up “tests” and constantly grading you to see if you pass? And if … keep reading

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[Video Below] Why does it always seem like we women are putting you through a mental and emotional obstacle course when they’re getting to know you??

Offering up “tests” and constantly grading you to see if you pass?

And if you say or do the wrong thing…

We make it seem like you’ve totally blown it?

I promise we are not just being sadistic.

We really don’t “test” you to be cruel or to try to make your life a living hell, all for the sake of dating us.

We ARE trying to get you to prove SOMETHING to us, however.

In my video below, I explain exactly why women test men, and how you can pass this test with flying colors. At minute 2 in the video, I show you why this testing we do is actually motivated by our own INSECURITY.

We desperately want to make sure that you like us, care about us, that we have value in your eyes.

A great example that I use is when a woman is flirting with you and, say, makes a playful comment about having a THREESOME with you and another woman (@ 5:55).

You COULD respond by playing along and telling her how hot that sounds.

DON’T do that… she’s not just flirting with you: she’s TESTING you! This moment is your opportunity to PROVE you’re into her in a powerful way…

How? By saying something like, “Why would I want another girl? You’re all the woman I need.”

WOAH! Even writing that I got the chills. Because that’s how I wish men would respond to me.

So check out my video here for all these tips and more and discover why women test you AND how to pass each test with flying colors.

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Getting Sexual Via Text http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/#comments Tue, 24 Feb 2015 18:07:11 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18727 Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days. In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to … keep reading

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Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days.

In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to seduce women and get them over to your place, all by sending texts.

Turning the Conversation Sexual

If you don’t know this now, it is my duty to tell you that it is your job as the man to escalate the conversation to a sexual place. One of the biggest problems that I’ve seen guys have is making that simple transition from innocent conversation to sexual conversation. There is one great technique that Race taught me called “directive misinterpretation.”

Every text that a woman sends provides you with an opportunity to take something she says and turn it around to make it sexual. Some of my favorite techniques include:

  • Sexual Innuendos
  • “That’s What She Said” Texts
  • Tease her for having a dirty mind
  • Accuse of her trying to seduce you

Sexual Innuendos

Sexual innuendos are statements that talk about, or describe something non-sexual in a way that alludes to something sexual. Sexual innuendos are the foundation to creating and building sexual tension extremely quickly via text. Because it is so easy to incorporate them into your text, these should be the backbone of your sexual texts starting immediately.

If you’ve ever seen “The Office,” you’re familiar with the ‘That’s What She Said’ game, in which the main character says “that’s what she says” after something that can be taken sexually. Whenever she’s texting you about something that is “harder,” “bigger,” “smaller,” etc. than expected, drop a “That’s what she said” text into the mix.

The reason that sexual innuendos are so great is because they allow you subtly introduce sexuality in such a way that seems fun and innocent. It’s very sad that in our culture, talking about sex is very taboo, and this allows for a safe way for people to get sexual via text.

However, it should be noted that beautiful women are very used to getting sexual texts from many men, and using her sexuality as a way to influence and get what she wants. Your mindset should be very loose and relaxed while getting sexual with girls via text. Remember – this is no big deal, because you are used to this.

Keeping it light and playful and fun will ensure that you always have fun getting sexual via text. Use these ideas correctly, and you’ll be transitioning from sexting to sex in no time…

To learn more about how to seduce beautiful women using only your phone, check out Race’s new book “Text 2 Sex.”

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Dear Mr. Nice Guy. You’ll Always Finish First. http://www.winggirlmethod.com/dear-mr-nice-guy-youll-always-finish-first/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/dear-mr-nice-guy-youll-always-finish-first/#comments Tue, 17 Feb 2015 21:36:14 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18724 OMG I love the article I’ve posted below. Believe it or not, my dad sent it to me. YES, big reveal. I have a father     He’s definitely a Nice Guy and I’m glad he is. Read the article below … keep reading

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OMG I love the article I’ve posted below. Believe it or not, my dad sent it to me. YES, big reveal. I have a father ;-)     He’s definitely a Nice Guy and I’m glad he is.

Read the article below because it’s awesome and I agree with everything Laura, the writer, says:

An Open Letter To All The Nice Guys Out There:
Don’t Stop Trying

Dear Mr. Nice Guy,

Contrary to popular belief that you might finish last in this world, you absolutely come first for me. And not just for me, for a lot of other girls, too.

We want you, Mr. Nice Guy. We want the honorable man who is motivated by the kindness of his heart, not by what he can wager in return. The guy who doesn’t expect a reward for being a good person. Who especially doesn’t see himself as a woman’s means to an end.

So stop reading here if you think being the nice guy is as surface-level as paying for dinner or walking her home or telling her she looks beautiful. These gestures don’t automatically make you kind, especially if they’re backed by ulterior motives. You can pay for the meal, but still be cruel company. You can ensure she makes it home safely and simultaneously make her feel uncomfortable. It’s less about your actions and more about the quality of your intentions.

Most guys who are convinced they are nice, aren’t. Girls can smell the difference. Truly nice guys have honest, pure objectives. They won’t be angry if you don’t sleep with them afterwards or put that kind of pressure on you in the first place. They want to be in your company simply because they enjoy being in your presence. And yes, that’s enough for us, too.

Because being nice doesn’t mean you are weaker. And this is where the confusion happens. You can be masculine, tough and assertive while at the same time good-hearted and well-intentioned. It’s kind of like having a rough or intimidating exterior, but being a total sweetheart on the inside.

That’s the kind of mystery and excitement we women are attracted to — not this notion of a bad boy who brings drama and pain. We don’t want the unavailable bad boy who has burned us countless times. We’re smart girls and we know better than that. We know the good ones when we spot them.

And to that point, there’s a difference between nice guys who get taken advantage of and nice guys who take advantage. One showers a woman with superficial displays of affection like free food and drinks, while the other showers a woman with passion and curiosity. Guess which guy sticks around?

It’s not that we don’t want you, Mr. Nice Guy. It’s that it’s really hard to find you. So, in the meantime, we date a bunch of not-as-nice-guys in hopes that maybe we’ll find you when we least expect it. We’re holding out for you though, so don’t give up on us Nice Girls because you think being an assh*le is better.

After all this waiting around and failed relationships, we want the good guys who are uncomplicated and sweet. The girls who say they do but don’t or who can’t appreciate these men aren’t good girls, either.

These are the girls who discourage Mr. Nice Guys like yourself from pursuing more women. These girls aren’t ready for a relationship like the one we have been preparing all these years for.

Nice guys are the ones who don’t have to question their actions. Who are smart enough to know that when it didn’t work out with an ex that it wasn’t because they were too nice. Both good and bad people experience terrible things and failed relationships, which is independent of their character. One has no bearing on the other.

We recognize that it’s harder to play the kind, loving man than it is to play the hardened bad boy. It’s harder to live every day with integrity and morality than it is to cut corners and cheat. But that sense of self and respect is way sexier than any liar or cheater. We appreciate you.

So, Mr. Nice Guy, what’s it going to be? Are you going to give up being nice and toughen yourself from love, as you’re so tempted to do? If you want to prove you’re not as weak as you may think you come across, you’ll keep putting yourself out there for us. Because we nice girls haven’t given up on you.

I know one day we’ll cross paths. I know it might not be head-over-heels or drama or fireworks. I know it will be heart-warming and genuine.

And to me, that sounds nice.

– Laura

Article from: http://goodmenproject.com

Marni’s Comments:  I love everything that Laura said and she’s so right.  Hopefully this article gave you a clear cut description of the type of man women want and respect all at the same time. It’s the kind of guy we pray for and hope we meet.  The kind of guy that we want to be with. The kind of man we women want!!!!

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How To Be A Good Kisser http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kissing-get-her-fired-up-about-you/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kissing-get-her-fired-up-about-you/#comments Wed, 11 Feb 2015 23:39:12 +0000 marissa madsen http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18661 Have you ever had a great date with a woman who seemed to be really digging you, and then after the kiss, it was all downhill from there? She seemed to lose interest and maybe stopped returning your calls? If … keep reading

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Have you ever had a great date with a woman who seemed to be really digging you, and then after the kiss, it was all downhill from there? She seemed to lose interest and maybe stopped returning your calls?

If the date went great, the answer to her sudden change of heart lies in that goodnight kiss you gave her.

Your kiss can make or break you with a woman! And I’m not talking about your tongue technique. There’s more to a kiss than meets the eye (or the lips…), and I want to share that secret with you.

YOU have the power to make her feel that spark… it’s time to HARNESS it.

I found this really cool video (that I’ve posted below) from Vsauce called Why Do We Kiss? that shows how kissing is like a TASTE TEST for potential lovers.

It gives our bodies and minds clues about what kind of mate a person will be. Strong, confident, caring, passionate…

A good kiss makes a woman feel bonded to you, and like those tiny pink spoons they use for samples at Baskin Robbins, it’s just not enough and we have to come back for more!!

I got to thinking about the really good kisses I’ve had. The ones that made me perk up and say, “Hey, there’s something different about this guy… something BETTER than the rest… and I’ve got to find out what it is. (By kissing him more!!)

The video made me realize: If the other guys just made ONE change to the way they kissed, it would have replaced the fizzle with fire.

Here’s the secret: Focus on what you want your kiss to SAY to a woman, and she will feel it like a bolt of lightning. Watch the video; it’s science! If you are focusing on: “Ooh ya, I’ll move my mouth around like that, that’s hot”, it won’t be enough to be memorable. It’ll just be superficial fluff. And she can get that from any guy, in any club, on any night of the week.

The kiss is your mode of silent communication, and is more powerful than ANYTHING else you said to her that night using your words. Locking lips is your chance to express your innermost desires to her, so make sure you’re sending the right message.

So the next time you find yourself out with an awesome chick and she gives you those eyes that say, “I want to taste test you”, here’s what you do. When you lean in, focus on what you want her to know about you. You’re masculine, confident, like you’re taking care of her with that kiss… strong, like you KNOW that there is something going on between you two that is more than just physical attraction. It’s simple: get her hooked on you and she will want to come back for more. Hell…she’ll YEARN for it.

Happy smooching!

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6 Habits Keeping You In The Friend Zone http://www.winggirlmethod.com/6-habits-keeping-friend-zone/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/6-habits-keeping-friend-zone/#comments Tue, 10 Feb 2015 17:35:47 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18693 Just found this great article on the 6 habits keeping you in the friend zone. I agree with EVERYTHING said in the article.  Read it and let me know what you think: 6 Habits Keeping You in the Friend zone … keep reading

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Just found this great article on the 6 habits keeping you in the friend zone. I agree with EVERYTHING said in the article.  Read it and let me know what you think:

6 Habits Keeping You in the Friend zone

When you’re a dating instructor you meet all kinds of men with all kinds of love-life problems. I’ve met 50 year old divorcees looking to get their groove back on and I’ve met college kids trying to bang their hot professors. But the types of men that I deal with the most are those stuck in the dreaded friend zone. Which doesn’t surprise me at all.

You see, what a lot of men don’t understand is that a woman’s sexual attraction mechanism is almost auto-pilot driven. This is why you can never talk a woman into sleeping with you. In fact, most women, at least on a subconscious level, know within the first few minutes of talking to you if they see you as a potential romantic or sexual partner. And the men who find themselves stuck in the so called friend zone are those who carry habits that do the very opposite of what triggers a woman’s attraction mechanism.

So if you’ve found yourself stuck in the friend zone, crushing majorly on a cute girl who only calls you to complain about the guys she wishes she was dating; you might want to read on and see if you’ve been committing any of the following six attraction sins.

Being too meek

There are two types of men in the world. The type of men who know what they want in life, and go after those things fearlessly and unapologetically, and the type of men who hang around the fringes hoping for a sign that the moment is right. Unsurprisingly, it’s the second type that often gets stuck knee-deep in the friend zone.

You see, every time you hesitate in your interactions with women;be it to approach her, ask for her number, setup a date or kiss her; you might be telling yourself that you’re waiting for the right moment or a green light from her. But what you’re really doing is telling her that you’re too timid and afraid to make a move. And this isn’t something that women find attractive. There is literally no woman in the world who dreams of a man who’ll try to befriend her for months before working up the courage to tell her that he likes her. These are the men who end up getting demoted to the friend zone.

So be bold, take risks and put yourself on the line. When you’re trying to setup a date with an attractive woman don’t, tell her that there’s a great restaurant that you two should check out. Tell her that you know of a posh restaurant where the two of you can play footsy under the table, get drunk and, if all goes well, make out and embarrass the snobbish patrons.

Being too available

Being a challenge can be hard; especially when you’re so into a girl. It’s normal to want to spend every waking minute hanging out with her. But here’s the thing. Most attractive women have dozens of men pursuing them at any given moment. They pretty much have their pick. So what they really crave is the adventure of pursuing a man who is a challenge .It’s just human nature. We want the things that we’re not sure we can have.

A girl might find you attractive, but as soon as she knows she can have you easily, you lose most of your allure, and you end up in the friend zone. So be a bit unavailable. Start small and work your way up. Stop leaving your Facebook chat signed in 24/7. Stop checking your Whats App messages every few minutes. Find a hobby. Keep yourself busy. Have a life; an exciting one, preferably. And soon you’ll find women flocking to be a part of it.

Being too clingy

A huge mistake that lot of men make is that the moment they get even the slightest sign of interest, they latch on to her tighter than a barnacle. For example, a girl might talk to you at a bar or a pub, and even find you interesting and attractive. But the moment that she realizes that you’re not leaving her side for anything she’ll start feeling claustrophobic and reevaluate her romantic intentions towards you.

So do both of yourselves a favor and give her the gift of missing you a bit. Remember; when you’re in the process of attracting a woman every minute you two spend together needs to feel special. And being too clingy is the most sure-fire way to ruin a potentially successful seduction.

Showing too little interest

OK, so probably 90% of men know that showing too much interest too soon can be a bad thing. But did you know that showing too little interest can also backfire on you? Let me explain. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking that they should never show interest in a woman that they find attractive. But what they’re missing is the powerful difference between genuine interest and generic interest. Generic interest is when you tell a girl that her hair looks nice. Genuine interest is when you tell a girl that you love the way she twirls her hair when she gets nervous or excited.

You see, a girl might find you attractive and might see you as a potential romantic or sexual partner, but if you don’t show her that you notice and appreciate the unique things that make her ‘her’, she won’t have a reason to pursue a romantic or sexual outcome with you. And she’d be forced to put you in the friend zone.

Being non-sexual

So when is the right time to introduce a sexual vibe to your interactions with women? A day? A week? A month? The answer might surprise you but, I think you should do so as soon as you can. You see what happens when you hold off on introducing any sort of sexual energy to an interaction with a woman is that any sexual advances you may make in the future will feel too sudden and forced. And even worse, the spark will be gone.

So even if a girl does find you attractive the chances of her trying to initiate a sexual vibe are low. And if you don’t do so yourself, the chances are that she’ll gradually start to get bored and slowly relegate you to the friend zone.

Not making your intentions clear

At the end of the day it doesn’t matter what you want from your love life, all that matters is that you communicate your expectations and intentions clearly. It doesn’t matter if you’re on the lookout for a one night stand or a long term relationship, what’s important is that you communicate this to the girl that you’re interested in. If you are too vague, she’ll feel like she’s in the passenger seat of a car without a driver and she won’t feel secure pursuing the interaction with you. And in the end she’ll have to automatically keep you in the friend zone for her own sake.

By Patrick Banks:  Dating coach and owner of Wingman Magazine

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The Friend Zone Through Female Eyes http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-female-eyes/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-female-eyes/#comments Mon, 09 Feb 2015 23:00:29 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18658 “Her and her boyfriend finally broke up…so I decide to tell her how I felt and she was ANGRY!” I couldn’t help but nod and understand exactly why. My one client has a habit of “waiting around” for women that … keep reading

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“Her and her boyfriend finally broke up…so I decide to tell her how I felt and she was ANGRY!”

I couldn’t help but nod and understand exactly why.

My one client has a habit of “waiting around” for women that he’s interested in…

In fact he has a LIST!

And sure enough, one of his “friends” that he’s had feelings for suddenly became single…

So he thought, “NOW’s the time to tell her how I feel!”

Now, while most women wouldn’t get ANGRY when hearing you’ve had feelings for us this entire time…

It’ll all make sense when you understand WHY.

I remember watching this movie “The Whole 9 Yards” with Bruce Willis playing a hit man…

And in it, Bruce Willis’ character described how he once became BEST FRIENDS with a “target” in order to get to him at his deepest core…

To find out his vulnerabilities and use them to his advantage so he knew him WELL ENOUGH to one day “make his move”

(And kill him duh)

Well sure enough, instead of killing him, Bruce Willis ends up telling his “best friend” what’s REALLY been going on the whole time…

And what does the best friend do?

He shoots Bruce Willis!

(Don’t worry I didn’t give away the ending you’re fine!)

My point is…

If you knew somebody was getting close
to you…

Being there for you…listening when you’re upset…helping out when you needed it…

Only to find out they had an ulterior motive the ENTIRE TIME…

How would YOU feel?

When you “finally come clean” about your feelings for us…

And we TRUSTED YOU as a close confidante who wanted nothing more in return besides our friendship…

And now it turns out you’ve wanted US the whole time?

Well…some of us ladies get angry.

Like my client’s “friend.”

The problem is, most guys don’t wanna “come clean” about how they feel because they think it’ll push her away…

Some think it might be disrespectful to the guy…

Others are waiting for “the right time.”

And if you’re a guy that’s holding in how you feel in hopes to make it better for HER…

You’re just screwing YOURSELF in the end…

Mostly because you’re not being up front about how you really feel…and that’s not fair to YOU!

Friend Zone BookFind Out How To Get Out of The Friend Zone By Being Up Front:

=> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-2

Now on the OTHER END of the spectrum…some guys end up losing her COMPLETELY by being up front…

Mostly because they end up looking desperate and needy when they come clean.

But there’s a way to let her know how you feel…WITHOUT making her feel like she owes you something…

And WITHOUT her getting mad and thinking you’ve had this secret plan to GET HER all along.

And once you know how to come clean in a way that’s assertive instead of desperate…

THAT’S when she’ll start looking at you like the guy she should’ve been with all along

Become The Man She’s Always Wanted Tonight:

=>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-2

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The Science of The Friend Zone http://www.winggirlmethod.com/science-friend-zone/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/science-friend-zone/#comments Fri, 06 Feb 2015 16:13:50 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18654 I LOVE when I find awesome resources that give you a scientific explanation of why something is happening to you. Recently, a member of The Wing Girl Method sent me the below video that explains the science of the friend … keep reading

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I LOVE when I find awesome resources that give you a scientific explanation of why something is happening to you.

Recently, a member of The Wing Girl Method sent me the below video that explains the science of the friend zone.  I’m pretty sure you have been in the friend zone and this video explains WHY you are in the friend zone and what you can do to get out of it using a few scientific principles like:

1.The Scarcity Principle: An economic principle in which a limited supply of a good, coupled with a high demand for that good, results in a mismatch between the desired supply and demand equilibrium.

2. The Ben Franklin Effect: A person who has done or completed a favor for someone is more likely to do another favor for that person than they would be if they had received a favor from that person.

Watch the video and tell me what you think. Press play to watch:

Are you currently in the friend zone and desperately want to get out of it?

Find Out How To Get Out of The Friend Zone Here….  Read More

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#1 Secret To Approaching Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/#comments Thu, 22 Jan 2015 17:30:10 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18635 Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you) The secret is: MINDSET!!! I know it’s not what you were expecting at … keep reading

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Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you)

The secret is: MINDSET!!!

I know it’s not what you were expecting at all but hear me out for a second.

No woman wants to be a approached by a guy who is:

1. Nervous

2. In his head

3. Doubting himself

4. Caring too much about what she wants or thinks

5. Thinking he’s not good enough for her or coming up with some other belief/excuse as to why he can’t approach her.

I can go on and on but you see where I am going with this.Men who have a negative mindset when approaching are instantly labelled as CREEPY by women.

And you don’t want to be creepy right?

Because you are not creepy.

You are the furthest thing from creepy.

I know that…

You know that…

Your friends and family know that…

But sadly, women that you are approaching don’t know that.

And it’s not their fault because how would they ever know that you weren’t creepy unless you showed them that you weren’t creepy.

I have an exercise to help you eliminate the creep and get the perfect mindset before you start approaching women.

As I said at the beginning of this email, the #1 secret to successful approaching is having a positive, solid MINDSET!And this exercise is going to help you easily get that mindset.

I’m going to call this exercise the Lena Dunham.  She’s the creator of the show Girls on HBO.

Why am I calling this exercise the Lena Dunham?

Because that girl is that girl is chunky and super awkward BUT because she has a kick ass mindset I don’t see any of those things in her.
All I see is awesome, super creative and very successful.
EXERCISE:
Re-frame how you talk to yourself and how you think about yourself.
This is just 1 of the exercises that you’ll find in all my programs and it’s great.
If you don’t think or talk nicely about yourself, don’t expect others to do so.
For the next week, I want you to be in control of what your brain and mouth are telling women about the way you view yourself and the MINDSET that you  have.
To start having a healthy mindset before approaching do the following:

1. Notice when you think or say negative things about yourself or about a situation.E.g. I can’t approach her. She’s too hot. She’ll reject me.2. Re-frame what you think or say.E.g. That girl is cute. I’m going to approach her and we’ll see what happens.

You can even go to a more positive level and say “That girl better watch out cause I here I come.”

It’s just 2 simple steps!!!All you gotta do is catch yourself being “creepy” or having a bad mind set and then laugh to yourself and re-frame it.

Now go try this exercise at least 5 times per day.And I don’t want to hear the excuse of “But there aren’t people around me to approach”.

#1 – Yes there are and if there aren’t there are ways to make them around you.

#2 – STOP MAKING EXCUSES and just do. That is the #2 secret to approaching. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

TRUST ME!

Now go do it. And if you want more help with knowing how to approach or what to say once you approach, then check out How To Become A Man Women Want.It’s a program I created that walks you through every step you need to check off your list to make approaching and talking to women super easy.

Check it out here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/how-to-become-a-man-women-want-6

On this page you’ll see a video that tells you what to do to make women want and explains more about the program.Now go get a good mindset so that women can start to see you as sexy NOT creepy.

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36 Questions To Ask Women That Make Her Want You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/36-questions-ask-women-make-want/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/36-questions-ask-women-make-want/#comments Tue, 20 Jan 2015 22:42:32 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18629 I just got sent this interesting article called “How to fall in love with anyone: Ask 36 questions and stare into their eyes for four minutes”. Apparently the New York Times recently published a story about a study that discovered … keep reading

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I just got sent this interesting article called “How to fall in love with anyone: Ask 36 questions and stare into their eyes for four minutes”.

Apparently the New York Times recently published a story about a study that discovered that if you put two people in a lab together where they ask each other 36 questions and then stare deeply into each others eyes, they will fall in love.

The article that I was forwarded was another article written by a woman, attempting to disprove this study by doing everything the study said to do but NOT fall in love.   Sadly and also happy for this woman, she failed to disprove the study but instead found love from one of her guy friends who she had never seen as dating potential.

I totally get why this study works and why the outcome has been so wonderful. If more people asked questions, like the 36 questions in this study, dates would be more fun and more successful.

I’ve pasted the below for you to see and would love to hear what you think about them and why you think these 36 questions plus eye contact, elicits such a strong response.

THE 36 QUESTIONS TO FALL LOVE

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … “

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

The reason why these questions get the response they do from both men and women is because they cut through the bullshit that people usually talk about on dates.  They allow each person to show the other person the most raw, real, authentic and vulnerable version of themselves.

I would try to incorporate some of these questions into your next date. Make a game of it. Tell the woman you are on a date with about this New York Times article (so she’ll think you’re smart) and then tell her you want to play a game and see if it works.

Then ask a few of the questions and have her ask you them as well. Listen, respond and see what happens.

Not sure how to incorporate these questions into your dates or in your approaches? I can show you how to do it. Watch my video on how to talk to women here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-talk-to-women-using-osa/

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How To Easily Talk To Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/#comments Wed, 14 Jan 2015 17:32:35 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18615 Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awesome … keep reading

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Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny…

It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!!

Not anymore. Because my awesome Wing Girl Jessica has created a simple, 3 step conversation mechanism that makes conversation come easy, no matter who you are talking to or what you are talking about.  AND can make women more interested in you in a matter of seconds.

This conversation mechanism can even make talking about fruit in the product department interesting.  I swear!

I wanted Jessica to share a little bit about her system so that you can see just how easy it is to create easy, fun conversation in a matter of seconds with just about anyone. I asked her if she was open to doing an interview with me and she of course said yes.

I’ve posted the interview below so that you can listen. I apologize in advance because the quality is not great. I was having issues with my Skype. BUT that doesn’t take away from the amazing information that Jessica shares with on how to easily talk to women everywhere you go.

Listen Here or download below:

I would highly suggest checking out Jessica’s program because it’s awesome.  It explains in more detail what she and I talked about in our interview on how to easily talk to women.

Click here to find out more.

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http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/feed/ 0 0:00:01 Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awes[...] Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awesome Wing Girl Jessica has created a simple, 3 step conversation mechanism that makes conversation come easy, no matter who you are talking to or what you are talking about.  AND can make women more interested in you in a matter of seconds. This conversation mechanism can even make talking about fruit in the product department interesting.  I swear! I wanted Jessica to share a little bit about her system so that you can see just how easy it is to create easy, fun conversation in a matter of seconds with just about anyone. I asked her if she was open to doing an interview with me and she of course said yes. I’ve posted the interview below so that you can listen. I apologize in advance because the quality is not great. I was having issues with my Skype. BUT that doesn’t take away from the amazing information that Jessica shares with on how to easily talk to women everywhere you go. Listen Here or download below: I would highly suggest checking out Jessica’s program because it’s awesome.  It explains in more detail what she and I talked about in our interview on how to easily talk to women. Click here to find out more. The post How To Easily Talk To Women appeared first on Marni's Wing Girl Method. The post How To Easily Talk To Women appeared first on Marni's Wing Girl Method. Podcast Marni's Wing Girl Method yes no
How Nerds Can Get Girls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-can-get-girls/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-can-get-girls/#comments Fri, 09 Jan 2015 19:14:20 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18584 Did you know that being nerdy is now the in thing??  Well it’s true.  Maybe it’s because of that show The Big Bang Theory but women are now totally turned on and attracted to nerdy men. I thought this article … keep reading

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Did you know that being nerdy is now the in thing??  Well it’s true.  Maybe it’s because of that show The Big Bang Theory but women are now totally turned on and attracted to nerdy men.

I thought this article on How Nerds Can Get Girls was awesome and wanted to share it with you.  My comments are at the end:

How Nerds Can Get Girls
By: Sebastian from www.globalseducer.com

Are you a lonely nerd? In case you are one of the few nerds left that are not disguised hipsters, you don’t have to be ashamed about it. I can confidently say that I am one of the biggest nerds on the planet. I might not wear glasses that are bigger than my head but I love Star Wars and everything that is somehow related to Science Fiction. I even finished my Master of Science with a first class honors degree.

I have never been in any sports club and if you would put me on an American football field I wouldn’t survive the first three seconds. Nevertheless, I am extremely successful with women and at the moment I am in a relationship with the most wonderful girl you can imagine.

How is this possible?

Well, I chose another path than most nerds choose. Whenever I talk fellow nerds about dating related topics they always tell me how much they want to stop being nerds and start to be the cool guys who get the girls.

I love to look at their baffled faces whenever I tell them that the best they can do to get girls is to celebrate the fact that they are nerds. You can’t and you shouldn’t abandon your personality just because you think that this is what holds you back from attracting your dream girl.

The truth is that being a nerd doesn’t hold you back. The only thing that holds you back is the mis-belief that girls don’t like nerds. Let’s debunk this myth once and for all.

Don’t Become an Asshole

All guys who get the hot girls are assholes and jerks, right? Sorry but this is not true. There is a popular mis-belief among nerds who never had success with women that they need to become complete assholes in order to attract amazing girls into their life.

About two years ago I thought the same. I always saw those incredibly beautiful girls who ended up dating complete idiots. However, the more I learned about women, the more I realized that they don’t date those guys because they are assholes, but because they have certain characteristics that you don’t show.

No emotionally healthy woman wants to date a guy who treats her bad and no intelligent woman wants to end up in a relationship with a guy who is dumb as bread. The reason why they date those guys is because those men are confident, honest and because they are the only guys who have the balls to approach women.

You don’t have to become an asshole. All you have to do is to gain the confidence to approach women. I talked to a lot of my female friends about this topic and most of them told me that they would date a nerd. The only problem girls have is that they never meet one, because the typical nerd is too afraid to approach them.

Embrace Your Passion

What if you are attracted to a girl who doesn’t even know the difference between Star Wars and Star Trek?

That’s also no problem. As long as she gets the feeling that you are a passionate guy, it doesn’t really matter if she shares this passion. Girls are instinctively attracted to guys who are passionate about something. The number one reason why successful men are so attractive to women is because they are passionate about what they do.

You have to understand that men are driven by logical thinking and women are driven by emotions. It doesn’t matter if you trigger positive emotions inside a woman by enthusiastically telling her about your love for Star Wars or about your love for rap music.

All you have to do in order to communicate to a woman that being in a relationship with you will be a passionate experience is to show her that you are a passionate man.

 

Think About the Girls You Want to Attract

If you read one science book per day and your favorite video game is World of Warcraft you should think about what kind of girls you want to attract into your life. I know how tempting it can be when you see one of those hot girls who wear more makeup than a drag queen but do you really want to date those girls?

Especially nerds who have no experience with women would nearly do everything to show all the people who ever made fun of them how awesome they are. I know from my own experience that dating a girl just to brag with her will eventually backfire.

Besides not dating women for bragging purposes, you should also think about what women you really want. Don’t sell yourself short. Imagine how your life would look like if you would have a girlfriend who has never read a book in her life.

Back in the days when I was completely unsuccessful with women I thought that no girl would ever want to date a guy who considers Luke Skywalker as his childhood hero. Guess which movie I watched last weekend with my girlfriend?

Not all girls on this planet live for their fingernails and Miley Cyrus. If you stay true to your nerdy side you will eventually attracted the girls into your life who love you for being the nerd you are.

Marni’s Comments:  I love this article because it’s so in line with everything I teach at The Wing Girl Method.  The key points to take away from this article are that no matter what kind of “type” of guy you are, you gotta own it. Be happy about it and not be afraid that being that type of guy is going to turn women off.

If you are a nerd, be a nerd.

If you are a jock, be a jock.

If you are a music junky, be a music junky!!!

Men who own who they are, get girls.

Want to know how to approach and talk to women?  Then click here to check out my program How To Become A Man Women Want and I’ll teach you how to use your nerdiness to your benefit ;-)

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Mock Date With A Wing Girl (SKYPE) http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mock-date-wing-girl-skype/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mock-date-wing-girl-skype/#comments Mon, 05 Jan 2015 23:20:34 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18572 Have you ever wondered why you never heard from a girl again, when you thought there was definitely SOMETHING there? Want to know if you are a good date or bad date? Sign up for a Mock Date with a … keep reading

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Have you ever wondered why you never heard from a girl again, when you thought there was definitely SOMETHING there? Want to know if you are a good date or bad date? Sign up for a Mock Date with a Wing Girl and find out where you are going wrong and how you can change it.  Includes: 30 minute mock date over skype, video of your mock date and a full analysis report on your dates reactions, thoughts and full experience of being with you as well as follow up instructions and exercises.

Learn more…

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