Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Mon, 31 Aug 2015 22:31:42 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.4 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes Best Dating Apps 2015 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/best-dating-apps-2015/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/best-dating-apps-2015/#comments Thu, 27 Aug 2015 00:28:31 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19230 It’s 2015 and if you are not using at least ONE dating app then you, my friend, are not only an old fuddy-duddy BUT you are also missing out on countless opportunities to meet, date and “get to know” awesome … keep reading

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It’s 2015 and if you are not using at least ONE dating app then you, my friend, are not only an old fuddy-duddy BUT you are also missing out on countless opportunities to meet, date and “get to know” awesome people.

I scoured the internet, asked tons of my single girlfriends, and even tested out some of these myself so that I could give you the ultimate list of the best dating apps in 2015.  I wanted to find apps for everyone. Whether you are older, younger, a dog lover, catholic, conservative, racy… There is an app for you and I’ve listed them below.

NOTE: How I selected the apps below was that I was looking for ease of use, general concept and the number of people using the app. I also cut and pasted a lot of the descriptions straight from other sites since they were pretty generic :-)

I would love to hear about any apps that you have tried that are not on the list.  To add to this list just make a comment below. I’m sure many people will appreciate it!

Best Dating Apps 2015

Bumble

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From the minds of previous Tinder executives comes Bumble, a newly released iOS app that lets women run the show. Like Tinder, Bumble lets users swipe right to approve and left to decline. If two users mutually swipe each other right, they are allowed to chat, but here’s the kicker: Only women can initiate the conversation, and they only have 24 hours to do so before the connection disappears.

Tastebuds

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Tastebuds puts a spin on your run-of-the-mill online dating app by making the experience about music. You’re matched up with people in your location based on a shared interest in the same kind of music! The app allows you to add your favorite bands or scan your iPhone music library to begin and go from there. According to the site, a lot of people use it to make new friends and concert buddies as well as to find dates.

Score

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Score works to pair up users with real emotional compatibility based on matching scores. The scores given depend on answers to “quirky” questions, such as the definition of sexy. If you’re looking for something unconventional and a little wacky, try Score for yourself — it’s available on both iOS and Android.

Happn

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This one claims to be “the app to discover the people you’ve crossed paths with, the people you like, [and] the people you’d like to find again.” How does Happn work? Every time you cross paths with someone in real life, their profile shows up on your timeline. When you’ve both liked each other, you have a Crush, which lets you begin a conversation. Bonus: It just integrated music to its platform to allow users to add songs onto their profiles and send songs to their Crushes!

Tinder

Tinder has attracted a lot of attention thanks to how easy it is to set-up and use. All you need to do is log-in with your Facebook account, and Tinder will upload your first name your photos, your interests, and your age from your profile to create a Tinder profile. You can then anonymously browse potential matches near you, swiping right if you’re interested in the person you’re currently seeing, or swiping left if you reject them. You can also tap on their profile picture to see any other photos they have, if mutual friends, or common interests you have. If you both swiped right, Tinder will let you know that it’s a mutual thing and offers to let you send a message, and maybe set-up a date. Tinder’s received positive reviews thanks to its emphasis on privacy and minimal initial emotional investment, since you only find out about the interested ones without the pain of rejection.

Hinge

Hinge tries to take the awkward randomness out of meeting people online by making sure that it introduces you to people that you share mutual Facebook friends with, hopefully cutting out the creep factor and trying to make sure that you have a good chance of having people, experiences and interests in common. Users log in with their Facebook accounts, enter preferences, sexual orientation, location, and age. Every day at noon, the app supplies you with a field of potential matches. And, of course, because you know friends in common, you’re both more accountable and less likely to act like jerks when faced with the prospect of real world social blowback.

Loveflutter

Tired of superficial dating profile pics? Loveflutter asks users to lead with a quirky or interesting fact about themselves superimposed over a blurred out image, which only reveals more information if you hold on the prospective match’s profile. If the factoid piques your interest, you can drill down to discover mutual friends, matching or similar interests and other info to help you decide whether to like or pass. Loveflutter also tries to be a helpful matchmaker with its Suggest A Date feature, which recommends quirky places nearby to hold a date from a curated list of locations.

Fliqpic

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Have you always wanted to be able to see your potential date IRL before actually going out? Say no more: Fliqpic is close enough, allowing you to live video chat potential love interests before deciding to pursue them any further. It’s pretty safe to assume that catfishing is minimal on this app — we’re all about that!

Tindog

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Dog-lovers, meet your potential soulmate on Tindog, the dating service for pet owners. On this platform, you’ll discover other canines and their owners in your area, and you can swipe right if you’re interested! (Sound like something you know?) Never walk your dog alone again; you might just find puppy love on this one.

Once

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Ever feel completely overwhelmed by all the matches or messages you get on dating apps? Sometimes there are so many, you don’t even know where to start! Once, available on Google Play and Apple, solves that problem by providing you with just one match per day. You have 24 hours to decide if you like each other, and then you can go from there. It’s a nice break from all the faces being thrown at yours.

Align

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If you read about your zodiac sign day in and day out, you have to check out Align — available on iOS — in which the connection between romantic compatibility and astrology is explored. Meet the person of your dreams, who may just depending on the alignment of the stars!

At First Sight

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The Bachelor host Chris Harrison introduced dating app At First Sight, a joint venture between him and the franchise’s creator, Mike Fleiss. What sets this smartphone app (available on Android) apart from all the other online dating apps out there is that it uses video profiles. With the popularity of the Vine app, it’s no surprise that this is the next evolution of online dating.

Coffee Meets Bagel

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Coffee Meets Bagel uses Facebook to match you with a friend of a friend. It uses a game-like interface to make the experience fun, and it sounds a lot safer to date at least a friend of a friend than a total stranger, right? The site boasts that it’s “designed for singles who want to find something real with little or no effort.”

Grouper Social Club

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Grouper is a website and iPhone app that sets you and your friends up on a group date by connecting to your Facebook profile. It matches up three guys and three girls (or same-sex couplings) based on your age, education, job, interests, and “general lifestyle.” Basically, you pick your wing girls, and the site selects the date, location, and guys (it also provides a round of free drinks). I could see how the group dates would involve less pressure and more fun, but I’d guess it probably leads to more friendships than serious relationships.

Pure

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Coining itself as the “Uber for Dates,” Pure is all about immediacy, stating that it aims to “cut to the chase” — “it’s all about real dates right now, and making real-life connections.” The app is free initially, then you have to pay for continued use. This is basically how it works: You post a meeting request that lasts for one hour and, if somebody takes you up on your offer, you are able to then accept or decline, depending on whether you like what you see or not.

HowAboutWe

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You may know the HowAboutWe dating app as the one that lets you find and put out date ideas in your area, but two features were added that make the process even easier: Speed Date allows you to browse photos and dates that you can skip over or double tap if you’re interested, and Date Map helps you search and find all those local date ideas on an interactive map!

Hitch

Hitch is betting on the adage that “friends know better” by letting your friends set up matches for you. Once users log in with their Facebook accounts, they can then match their friends together through built-in anonymous chat. All you get is the age and gender of your match, as well as the mutual acquaintance that matched you, along with a short message. If you hit it off in the chat, you can send a Reveal Request to find out more about your match. Whether you’re single and looking for a match or somebody looking to play matchmaker for two friends, there’s something for you to love in Hitch.

Down

Down, formerly known as Bang With Friends, got a lot of buzz last year when it first came out. After logging in with your Facebook account, you then go through your Facebook friends (and their friends) and start tagging which ones you find sexy. If there is a mutual interest, Down will let you know, and then it’s up to you and your friend to decide on what your next step is. Down promises that your interactions with the app will be kept safe and anonymous, and that your Facebook friends won’t know about your choices if you don’t want them to. It’s like passing a note in high school asking if they like you or not, except the question is R-rated.

 

What Apps Are You Using?? 

I would love to hear of any apps you are using that you love/hate.  Write your reviews in the comments below :-)

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Can You Date Women At Work? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/rules-for-dating-your-co-workers/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/rules-for-dating-your-co-workers/#comments Sun, 23 Aug 2015 18:29:59 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19221 The office can present a great opportunity for you to find someone who shares many interests, so I say never leave this prospective dating pool untapped. But remember; you need to handle the good, the bad and even the ugly … keep reading

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The office can present a great opportunity for you to find someone who shares many interests, so I say never leave this prospective dating pool untapped. But remember; you need to handle the good, the bad and even the ugly with dignity. If you can’t do that – find another place to meet potential dates.

The other day I had lunch with two my fellow Wing Girls, Jennifer and Katie. They both shared dating at work experiences with me. Jennifer actually met her boyfriend of five years at work and that surprised Katie because she ended up having to quit a job after dating someone in her office.

I asked my friends to share their stories with you to provide perspective.

You can meet women at work! Just follow my tips at the end of the stories.

When it Works – Jennifer and Sam

I am an office manager in a sales office. I always made it a policy not to date the salesmen I worked with directly. Then one day Sam joined our group. He turned out to be a great guy and we had so much in common. We had to attend the same work functions and travel as a team. Sometimes we would go to lunch or running errands together and for six months we were work buddies.

Then we went to Vegas on a business trip and after a few days of partying and drinking, we could no longer deny that we were attracted to each other. We ended up hooking up during the trip and we were good with the whole thing. We decided to date but keep our personal life out of the office. After about a year, even our boss caught on and we were “outed”. But there was no company policy against it and eventually it was just common knowledge that we were a couple.

We have dated for five years and we are getting married next year. It was not always easy but our determination to keep our personal lives out of the office was ultimately what kept us together. For us, it was fun living separate lives and we even had a rule about fighting: “First rule about fight club is – never talk about fight club at work.”

Well, now we have come full circle. I recently took a new job and if I am honest, I miss seeing Sam during the day. But I love my new job as a sales analyst and now we look forward to when we see each other at the end of the day.

When it Goes Terribly Wrong – Katie and Steve

Last year I was working as a pharmaceutical sales rep for a big company. I met Steve at a company event and we hit it off immediately. He asked me for my phone number and we set up a dinner date that weekend. He seemed (at the time) open and real. I remember thinking to myself he is so confident and charismatic.

After a few dates, we started to get a bit more serious and we were sleeping together. About two months into the relationship, we agreed to be monogamous. It felt right and we were having a great time. But as we neared the six-month mark things started to change. Steve would come by my office a few times a day and if I was out on sales calls, he wanted to know what doctors I had met with or what colleagues I took to lunch. Then he became creepy. He was all up in my business every day. He would make snarky comments about my skirt being too short and one day he said something to my boss about my “long lunches”.

That was it! I told him that we were done – finished – OVER! Did he get the hint? NO! He would meet me at my car and ask me to forgive him. He would send me flowers at the office. He would text me all day. Finally, my boss asked me what was going on and when I told him the truth, he informed me that it was against company policy to date coworkers. (Too late buddy!)

My boss finally had a conversation with Steve, telling him to keep it away for the office, but things were never the same. I ended up leaving a job that I really liked because I just had to get away from the whole nightmare. I landed on my feet vowing to NEVER EVER date a coworker EVER AGAIN!

The Rules

attract-women-wing-womanSo we have two completely different outcomes of inter-office dating. But I think you can see what worked and what didn’t. Here are the rules for dating a coworker:

  1. Keep it private – no one should be able to tell that you are dating each other.
  2. Keep it professional – do not sabotage her career or yours.
  3. Keep it playful – agree to secret dates and under the radar flirting.
  4. Keep it peaceful – if it doesn’t work out, walk away but maintain your composure ALWAYS.

If you can follow these pretty simple rules, then any funny business at the office will be super fun and highly pleasurable :-)

Not sure how to transition from co-workers to more??  Then check out my method for approaching, attracting and getting the women you want.  Click here to read more.

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Top Tips For Taking A Good Dick Pic http://www.winggirlmethod.com/top-tips-for-taking-a-good-dick-pic/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/top-tips-for-taking-a-good-dick-pic/#comments Mon, 17 Aug 2015 17:54:22 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19218 If you are single and dating today… then most likely you are going to come up against this modern dilemma… Do I send a woman a dick pic?… And if I do… What is the best pic to send????!!! Hey, … keep reading

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If you are single and dating today… then most likely you are going to come up against this modern dilemma…

Do I send a woman a dick pic?… And if I do… What is the best pic to send????!!!

Hey, you may think this topic is crude or unladylike… BUT it’s a needed conversation because more and more women are asking for them and I want you to be armed and ready.

If it’s too risque for you then DO NOT READ on!!!

But if you want to be able to send a good dick pic when a woman asks you for it, then read on…

Here is my newest blog from my awesome Wing Girl, Alex:

“Oh, the dick pic!”
It is a phenomenon that began as soon as cell phones got cameras.

Historically, men have been the initiators when it comes to sending dick pics to women. They take a picture of their private parts and send it off to women with a sexy saying, a joke, or with nothing at all—just a picture to speak full volumes of said dick. I once had a guy send a picture of his dick with a Febreeze spray can held up next to it, to show the similarity in size and thickness. He definitely didn’t need to caption that picture. However, it seems that the tides may be changing and now women, yes, women, are requesting dick pics from men.

Have I requested a dick pic from a guy? Yes. But I was dating the guy at the time and had been dating him for a while.

Have I heard of women requesting dick pics from guys? Absolutely and apparently it’s a huge phenomenon right now…. Which means if you’re going to send one, you better know how to send a good one!!

So here are my Top Tips For Taking A Good Dick Pick

  • Don’t take a picture of a limp dick. Funny, but not attractive.
  • Make sure your pants are off. No one wants a dick pic of you just sticking your phone down your pants to take a pic.
  • Try not to take a pic of it in the mirror. Sometimes there’s a glare and the picture quality doesn’t seem as good.
  • Laying down and taking a dick pic selfie with your face in the background winking or giving a sexy smirk—always a good choice.
  • Holding your dick while taking the pic—kind of hot.
  • Give your lady the full show, not just the tip in your dick pic (though if you do that, add a joke about barely “sticking the tip in”)

Having said all of that, beyond the single girls you just met or just started chatting with, women who you are dating might have a different reason for requesting the dick pick.

When I was dating my ex, I began to notice that he liked requesting nude pictures of me or pictures of different parts of my body.

Eventually, I began asking him to send pictures of his dick, however, it may not be for the reason you may think.

For me, a picture of a guy’s private parts doesn’t do a lot for me in terms of “turning me on.” I’m more of a “home-movie” type of girl. Having said that, I realized the importance of asking the guy that I liked and loved for a picture of his dick. It made him more confident.

I could tell that every time I asked for a picture of it, he would puff up just a little bit more and felt really confident in his sexiness. I know that he was insecure about certain parts of his physicality, but it seemed like complimenting his dick with a request for a picture of it made him feel sexier and less insecure about his other body parts. So I continued asking for them, for him and for us.

Now maybe you know that you’re insecure about that part of your body. It’s a legitimate insecurity. Maybe you’re shy or scared to send a pic. What if she doesn’t like it? Don’t worry, because girls aren’t as worried about what your dick looks like so much as what it can do.

Truly!

Just like women are insecure about our boobs… you don’t care that they are small or big, you just want to hold them! Same with dicks. So breathe, remind yourself that you are two mature adults, and feel confident (or pretend to until you actually feel confident) and then send the pic.

Eventually, I noticed that in some ways asking for dick pics from my ex made certain parts of our relationship better too. He was more confident so sex got better. (Another reason you shouldn’t feel shy to send the pic). It also brought thrill and excitement to a long-term relationship. (Reason number 3). And since we didn’t live in the same city all the time, it allowed us to see those parts that we yearned for.

Now, it may be disappointing to hear that I didn’t “get off” on his dick pics like my ex may have gotten off on nude pictures of me, but I think there is something more important to focus on here.

If a girl asks for a dick pic from you, whether she be a girl you are dating, then understand that she might really like you. Her reasons may not be the same as my reasons, but a woman won’t ask for something like that if she doesn’t care about you in some way. That “care” may be in the terms of love or intense “like” or it may be in the terms of foreplay, building up the intensity between you before the two of you tumble in bed.

Maybe she’s trying to build up your confidence or maybe she loves the sexiness and thrill of asking for dick pics, but whatever is the reason, enjoy it! And send those pics of your dick. Not only will she enjoy them in her own way, but you will enjoy sending those pics! Why? Because you will feel pretty good about yourself when she gives you compliments.

Just admit it, we all enjoy being complimented for our sexy bits.

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EXCLUSIVE FOOTAGE: Behind The Scenes of The Ask Women Podcast http://www.winggirlmethod.com/exclusive-footage-behind-the-scenes-of-the-ask-women-podcast/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/exclusive-footage-behind-the-scenes-of-the-ask-women-podcast/#comments Fri, 14 Aug 2015 19:23:40 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19213 See me and Kristen from behind the scenes of The Ask Women Podcast!!! ==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/bhs-ask-women/ First, I want to say that Kristen and I are so thankful for all of the support you have given The Ask Women Podcast. We’re not … keep reading

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See me and Kristen from behind the scenes of The Ask Women Podcast!!!

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First, I want to say that Kristen and I are so thankful for all of the support you have given The Ask Women Podcast.

We’re not fools and know that without your support we could have never gotten to 117 episodes of The Ask Women Podcast where we continue to help 10’s of 1000’s of men around the world understand women.

Second, we wanted to do something special for you…

It’s something that will help us stay on the air so that we can continue to provide you kick ass information about women for FREE.

Kristen and I decided it would be really cool to create a behind the scenes video of The Ask Women Podcast so that you could see all the little things that happen before, during and after the show.

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1. A video of a FULL episode of The Ask Women Podcast with guest Dr. Emily Morse from Sex with Emily

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#1 Most Obvious Sign She’s Flirting That Most Guys Miss http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-most-obvious-sign-shes-flirting-that-most-guys-miss/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-most-obvious-sign-shes-flirting-that-most-guys-miss/#comments Mon, 03 Aug 2015 13:42:09 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19202 The other day I was on the phone with Alex, my awesome Wing Girl and she started telling me this story about a guy she met at a cookout, at her parents house… And how she felt like she was … keep reading

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The other day I was on the phone with Alex, my awesome Wing Girl and she started telling me this story about a guy she met at a cookout, at her parents house…

And how she felt like she was throwing herself at him by doing this one thing that all women do when they want a man to notice them…. BUT this guy didn’t seem to pick up on it.

It was then that I realized…. Maybe guys don’t know how obvious this sign actually is.

So I asked Alex to share her story with you about Mr. Cookout man and tell you about this obvious sign that most men don’t notice… BUT if they did, their dating lives would be boosted through the roof.

Read her story below AND I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments section.

#1 Most Obvious Sign She’s Flirting That Most Guys Miss
By Alex

Yesterday, I met a guy. I met him once before but it was years ago and I didn’t really interact with him much, not like I did yesterday. He’s an attractive single guy, though I will admit I’ve never actually gone out with a guy like him; a country boy from my hometown. But I’m single so why not get to know different kinds of guys? I figured it’s just another way to see what I like and to be more open-minded in the dating sphere. So in the spirit of just getting to know someone I decided to flirt with him, or as best as I could flirt with my family around.

Did I mention that this was a cookout at my parent’s house? No one wants to flirt with someone in front of their parents or other family members, or at least I don’t, so I was trying to keep it subtle. As the evening went on, me and this guy developed a friendly banter between us, mostly brought on by a cornhole tossing game that was going on in the backyard.

The banter was friendly but also filled with sarcastic comments by us both. Maybe a few sexual innuendos here and there. But I still couldn’t figure out if he knew I was flirting with him. I thought he might have realized it because at one point I was in the pool alone and he joined me and we continued teasing and joking.

However, by the end of the evening he still hadn’t asked me for my number or brought up hanging out again, though he did say he looked forward to seeing me the next week (we do this washer tournament every Wednesday at a different house) so we could continue our joking which he assured me would be even more intense because he now knew me better. I thought about putting my number in his phone without him knowing, taking the first step as a woman because I know guys get frustrated with women not making the first move and I’ve had good success making the first move in the past. However, I talked myself out of it.

I wanted to see what he would do because I wasn’t quite sure if he was into me as I was into him. How confusing this dating world is! Also, I was curious to see how he would ultimately react to a girl that flirted with him. Maybe he planned on asking me out by the end of the evening? What if I ruined the whole thing by putting my number in his phone? Or perhaps, he wasn’t into me because he’s already talking to some other girl that no one knows about?

Anyways, I decided I’d give him an opportunity when he was leaving to ask me to hang out or get my number. He had to carry his ice cooler to his car and I made it a point to have me and him end up alone on the side of our house. And…nothing. He didn’t ask me out.

So I decided to share this story with you for a few reasons. First, I wanted to show you that as women we like to “plan” things. Notice how I worked all evening to flirt with him? And I did so subtly? And do you think I ended up in that pool alone? No! When my mom got out of the pool, I stayed in for a few minutes and waited to see what the guy I was interested in would do—and guess what, he got in the pool. I also “planned” for us to be alone when he left to see if he’d ask me out.

Now it may seem crazy that I or any other woman would “plan” our flirting or interactions, and as I write this I know it sounds crazy and silly, but I just wanted to show you that that is what women do. So if you are interacting with a woman, she’s flirting and you keep running into each other, it’s not always by accident—she’s might be into you! Ask her to hang out!

Secondly, I wanted to make sure that you know that flirting isn’t always obvious. I didn’t flutter my eyelashes, I didn’t put my hand on his arm, I didn’t feel his biceps, and I didn’t even compliment him. Actually, we were engaged in a sort of “mean teasing.” We dissed each other’s performance in the toss game, made jokes about the other’s intelligence, and teased each other over a number of other things.

This is not the flirting that you might expect from every woman, but as a confident woman I love challenging guys I’m interested in with a verbal exchange. I want to see if they can come back with witty responses, funny comments, or sarcastic jokes. It shows me, and women like me, that a guy can handle a conversation with us, can challenge us mentally and are on our level of intelligence. My main point: flirting is not something that can be fit into a box and it isn’t some stereotypical interaction illustrated on TV or movies. So if you experience flirting like this, know that it is flirting and the girl is into you! Ask her out!

Well, as for me and this guy, I know that I will see him next Wednesday, and possibly Friday. If he doesn’t contact me via social media by this late evening, I plan on adding him on Facebook and just see where it goes from there. See, girls sometimes make the first move. As Marni would tell you and as I know all too well, what do I really have to lose?

Chick-TionaryTo learn more about the signs women give men and the hidden meanings behind everything they say and do…. get a copy of The Chick-tionary.

You may be missing out on so many opportunities with women without even knowing it.

Find out more by clicking here.

Let me know what you think about Alex’s story.  Do you see how this was a flirting sign? Do you think you’ve missed this flirting sign before? If so, WHY?

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Texting 101: Texts To Send That Make Her Respond http://www.winggirlmethod.com/texting-101-texts-to-send-that-make-her-respond/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/texting-101-texts-to-send-that-make-her-respond/#comments Wed, 29 Jul 2015 16:02:12 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19184 So these last few blogs I’ve been posting have taught you all about how to build sexual tension and sustain it so you can get the woman of your choice hot, bothered and ready to do WHATEVER you want… But … keep reading

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So these last few blogs I’ve been posting have taught you all about how to build sexual tension and sustain it so you can get the woman of your choice hot, bothered and ready to do WHATEVER you want…

But there’s been a catch to all of it that I only realized recently.

You need to be in-person for any of my tips to work or that leaves a huge HOLE in your game plan.

Why?

Because picture this:

Let’s say you’ve just approached a girl and built up attraction, all the stuff I usually teach you.

But you’re in a mall in the middle of the day… building sexual tension/escalating just doesn’t make sense and the logistics just aren’t there.

So you get her number.

You go home, sit down on the couch with your phone in your hand and a wave of anxiety hits you square in the chest.

You aren’t in the flow of conversation anymore… you’re like a fish out of water…

When do I text?

What do I say to get the convo going again?

How do I ask her out? AHHHHH!

You’re stumped.

You pace around for a few hours and finally gather up your courage… you send her a text.

“Hey… it was really nice meeting you today :)”

Yeah… that’s good you think to yourself.

You wait around a couple of minutes, constantly looking at your phone to see if you get a text back.

And like a message from God himself, your phone lights up and it’s like a weight lifted off your shoulders.

“Hey! Yes, it was! :)” the message lights up your screen.

And that’s when it hits you…

Oh no – you’re going to have to keep coming up with stuff to send her…

So you do what most guys do.

You send text after text, coming up with the next clever thing to say.

And then something weird happens.

Out of nowhere, the time between her texts takes longer.

5 minutes… 10 minutes… 15 minutes… 30 minutes…

It’s like a fight to keep her attention and it feels like you’re drowning.

And that’s when it stabs you right in the heart.

She stops answering.

So what happened?

That’s what I’m going to help you figure out.

Let me explain…. OR let my friend Race explain to you because he has spent YEARS researching, practicing and perfecting the art of texting.

He is going to explain to you WHY she stops responding, how to get her re-engaged AND 45 seconds into this video, I’m about to show you, he tells you exactly what to text her!!

Watch the video here:==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/text-her-this

PLEASE use his sample text as guidance as it’s for a younger audience BUT the theory behind it, is what works with every woman.

Just a quick “you should know this about me” note:

Whenever I introduce you to expert friends of mine and make recommendations, they are 100% validated recommendations.

I’ve talked to a ton of other “experts”, read their materials and go through a ton of programs and courses so I can figure out what’s actually good and what isn’t so you don’t have to go through that struggle.

And let me tell you… it’s not pretty out there.
9 out of every 10 programs I go through aren’t even worth the hard drive space on my computer.

So when I’m telling you something is GOOD, I mean it’s good and I give it my Wing Girl stamp of approval.

My friend Race has cracked the “text code” in his kick ass texting program, Text That Girl.

I’ve gone through it a bajillion times and I always give it glowing endorsements (that’s something I almost never do).

I’ve actually used the program in my personal life and I’ve noticed that even my own texts are improving!

I get better responses more often, the people I’m texting are much more engaged, and most importantly, it’s fun! :)

Here’s just a tiny bit of what you’ll learn in Race’s program:

“Like-magic” copy and paste texts that’ll take you from the first text all the way to hooking up with her (all you have to do is literally COPY these proven texts word for word, I’ve tried them and they work!)

Are the girls you’re asking out constantly canceling on you at the last second? Use Race’s “anti-flake” text to guarantee she never misses a date again!

Every guy has that one girl in their contacts that just stopped responding to their texts. Race’s “ego-stroker” text makes a girl so insanely curious, she won’t be able to do anything BUT text you back, no matter how distant and aloof she’s become.

Did you accidentally scare her away or insult her? You guessed it, Race uses something he calls his “time machine” texts that work like the “Undo” button on your computer, taking you back to the point in the relationship before you messed up.

And much, much more.

Listen:

I don’t take your attention and time for granted so when I make a recommendation, you know I’ve gone through great lengths to make sure it was completely legit.

If for nothing more, Race’s story is mind-blowing and he gives away a text you can copy right now to use with any girl in your contact list.

Check it out here:http://www.winggirlmethod.com/text-her-this

Let me know when you have some crazy texting stories! :)

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How To Make Women Comfortable With Sex http://www.winggirlmethod.com/make-women-comfortable-with-sex/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/make-women-comfortable-with-sex/#comments Tue, 28 Jul 2015 01:50:40 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19182 Yesterday I left you with a bit of a cliffhanger on how to build sexual tension… If you haven’t checked the blog out yet, I suggest you find it because it was gold. (Click here to read it) Before I … keep reading

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Yesterday I left you with a bit of a cliffhanger on how to build sexual tension…

If you haven’t checked the blog out yet, I suggest you find it because it was gold. (Click here to read it)

Before I get to part 2, I’m going to tell a story about myself.  You may have heard this story, but it’s a great story with an awesome lesson:

This may come as no surprise to most of you but growing up most of my friends were guys.

Being considered “one of the guys”, I would hear all about their conquests and it turned me into a jaded PRUDE.

I didn’t want to become like the girls I’d heard about, that were being taken advantage of and then tossed aside because they weren’t “girlfriend material”.

I was terrified and I put a “barrier up” that no one could break through.

Until I met this one guy who unleashed the sexual beast within me, the sexual beast that lurks inside of every woman that craves and desires to be let out.

So what did this guy do?

Here goes:

We were making out in the heat of the moment and things were getting more intense.

I was on the verge of pulling away when he stops, puts his hand across from mine and says – “This is my hand… and this is your hand… if you are uncomfortable with ANYTHING I’m doing and want me to stop… just slap my hand.”

And he literally took my hand and made it slap his!

Now this was a MAN. A man who had already proven to be comfortable with himself and completely confident.

A man that I wanted to be with.

And when he said those words to me it made me feel – and here’s the key takeaway – comfortable and secure.

I didn’t feel pressured.

I didn’t feel judged.

And let me tell you something… I didn’t slap his hand ONCE and I went farther with him that night than I had ever gone before.

All because he did something that most men ignore because they’re too scared of being rejected so they go in, guns blazing.

In fact, I’ve been with other men who either get frazzled if I get uncomfortable and pull away.

OR…  they completely ignore my discomfort and push themselves on me further, which makes me pull even further away and view them in a negative light.

If you’ve properly built attraction and she’s feeling you, and then out of the blue it seems like she’s rejecting you when you try to take things to the next level…

9 times out of 10 it’s because you didn’t put her in a comfortable state where she felt secure, comfortable and completely free of judgement.

It’s that simple.

So other than using the “hand-slapping,” which I think is pure gold by the way… because it worked on yours truly, obviously…

Another tip I would give you is advance things sexually in baby steps.

Ease her into things.

Let her know that you’re taking the lead but she’s the one with the foot on the gas pedal.

You’ll go as fast she wants you to go.

Think of a suave James Bond versus a frat boy rushing to get his jollies off.

Do you see the difference?

I would LOVE to hear what you think about what I’ve said in this blog.  Do you agree, disagree? Have you tried doing this with women? What were the results?

Just comment below and let me know!

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Opening Lines That Work http://www.winggirlmethod.com/opening-lines-that-work/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/opening-lines-that-work/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2015 16:33:58 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19188 If you’ve been reading my blog, watching my instant download programs OR listening to my podcast, you know that I am NOT a fan of canned lines and openers.  WHY?  Because as a woman, I know it’s about WHAT  you … keep reading

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If you’ve been reading my blog, watching my instant download programs OR listening to my podcast, you know that I am NOT a fan of canned lines and openers.  WHY?  Because as a woman, I know it’s about WHAT  you say, not how you say it.

But I also know that everyone needs training wheels to hone a new skill, which is why I asked my awesome Wing Girl Alex to provide her advice on opening lines that work.  Alex is super cute, SINGLE and awesome.

PLUS – she gets hit on all the time and gets to see a lot of examples of opening lines that work and opening lines that fail miserably.

Not only does Alex share what lines do and do not work on girls like her… She has also provided a description of what she calls “The Dive In Method” for starting conversation that works best on her.  (NOTE: I’ve been teaching the Dive In Method for years but I call it OSA)

Opening Lines That Work & An Introduction To The Dive In-Opening Line
By: Alex

This weekend I matched with someone on Tinder. Exciting, right? Wrong. Soon after matching with this guy, he messaged me this opening line:

“20 bucks says I spank you in horse.”

What did that even mean? It sounded like a sexual come on gone bad because of auto correct.  I think he meant to say, “I spank you like a horse.” Or maybe, “in horse” is a sex position? All I know is that it sounds degrading. Why did he think that was appropriate to say to a total stranger?

I texted my best friend and told her about this Tinder nightmare. She laughed and said, “Give him a chance.” To which I replied, “No.”

She texted back, “Maybe that’s the best opening line he could come up with?”

“’Hello’ is a pretty simple opening line. Not a chance of me writing back.” I said.

Sorry, I know you wish I was this awesome girl who just gave 2nd and 3rd and 4th chances to creepsters, even if they are not meaning to be creepsters… but I don’t.  And neither do most real women.

Later, I got to thinking about this and about all the opening lines that I have received over the years, which ones worked and which ones didn’t.

I think by now, I have heard it all.

I’ve had guys be really mean in their opening lines and say things like:

Guy–“So you and your friends are too good to talk to me?”

This was the first thing he had said to us… We haven’t even been given a chance to talk to you.

Guy #2—“Why do you have that mean look on your face?”

I was just walking down the street… Am I supposed to smile all the time?

Guy #3—“Standing there looking all bougie” (Pronounced “Boo-she,” slang for “bourgeoisie”)

How is my posture conveying that? And why do I feel like I’m in third grade and he’s the boy on the playground pushing me down and then later trying to kiss me on the cheek?

I’m a pretty happy girl, in fact people make fun of me for it.  But isn’t it interesting how my initial gut reaction to these opening lines were anger, frustration and the strong desire to punch something??

Probably one of the most common opening lines that I get is, “Hey, what are you?” I’m half Mexican American, half white, but my facial features make it very difficult to tell what my ethnicity or race is, so people love guessing about my cultural background. However, opening with, “What are you,” isn’t a great line. To me, it sounds kind of rude. “What are you” sounds as if you are asking me for some kind of classification or my species. “Um…human?” Though, it is a legitimate question so save it for five minutes into a conversation and bring it up like this: “You’re look is so interesting. What’s your racial and ethnic background?”

Pick up lines are the worst, too.

“Did it hurt?” said Man.

“Did what hurt?” replies Woman.

“When you fell from Heaven,” Man said with a smile.

Can we retire this line already?

I don’t recommend pick-up lines. Nothing about them are cute, sexy, or attractive. As women, we’ve heard them all. They’re not flattering. We know you’ve used them a billion times on other women. They don’t make us feel special or excited to know you. Rather, they make us look for the quickest exit away from you.

UNLESS executed correctly. And when I say correctly, what I really mean is him making it very clear that he knows he is using a classic “pick up line” and is ironically using it OR playfully using it and then calling it out.

For example, I have to give props to this guy who approached me a few months ago with the best pick-up line ever. As I was walking by, he had this confused look on his face as if he was trying to figure out who I was. So I looked at him a little closer. Did I know him?

He stopped me and said, “Hey, didn’t I match with you on Tinder?”

“I don’t think so?” At this point, I’m racking my brain trying to remember. Did we match? I don’t recall him on Tinder. He didn’t exactly look like the kind of guy I would swipe right on.

“What’s your name again?” he asked me.

“Alex,” I said.

“Yes, Alex. I knew that was you!”

I’m still confused. I can’t remember this guy at all. “What’s your name?” I ask.

He gives me his name and then laughs. “I’m just messing with you. We didn’t match on Tinder.”

I was completely blown away. First, his acting was amazing. Secondly, that was the most creative opening line that I’ve ever heard. And if my friends hadn’t pulled me along, I might have stayed and chatted with him because I can respect a guy with creativity.

For the most part, “Hello” is not the best opening line either (though it’s not really bad either). If I’m walking by and a guy says, “Hello,” I’ll usually say, “Hi!” then smile, and continue walking because the guy just left it at “hello,” and didn’t say anything else. I’ve seen my friends do the same thing. I think as women we feel uncomfortable when a guy just says “hello” and leaves it up to us to continue the conversation. We don’t usually start conversations with guys, so we don’t know what to do or say which isn’t fair to men, but I can’t help that.

When a guy begins with “Hello,” I have a pretty good idea where the conversation is going—toward awkwardness. No one likes the awkward aspect of introducing oneself and “Hello” is the kind of opening that makes me have to do that. When a guy says, “hello,” I know that he will soon say, “What’s your name?” and then we have to exchange names. Then he will probably ask me what kind of work I do and then I have to ask him what he does. That conversation is as awkward as a fifteen-year-old boy trying to unsnap a girl’s bra for the first time. Let’s spice it up!

I like when a guy starts talking to me like we are old friends or as if they are talking to a guy friend at a sports bar. Skip the awkwardness and comment on something that is going on around us so we can start a conversation, get to laughing, or bond over something we see. How about using an opening line like, “Hey, what are you drinking” or “The bartender takes forever here.” Then five minutes later we can introduce ourselves and it will be less awkward because by then I will feel comfortable around you and will be willing to give you my name and learn yours. Let’s call this the dive in-opening line.

Other examples of dive in-opening lines may be:

“Ever wonder why Starbucks employees always spell our names wrong?”

“Is that Apple watch worth it?”

“You really wear that short haircut well. Too many girls are afraid to rock a cut like that.”

“Know of any good bars near here?”

“This music is giving me flashbacks to my grunge phase.”

As you can see, dive in-opening lines don’t have to be funny. They can be, but most of all they should feel natural and comfortable when you say them. Use your environment when coming up with a dive-in opening line. This shouldn’t be something that you have to think too hard about. Just relax and chat.

The dive in-opening line shows women a few things about you. First, it shows that you are confident in who you are. You’re not stumbling over a “hello” or a pick-up line you heard on Family Guy. Secondly, it tells me that you are comfortable talking with a total stranger and that you aren’t intimidated by talking to someone you find attractive. Third, it shows that you are creative and can think on the spot. We like creative!

Fourth, this dive in-opening line makes us relax and feel less up tight. We hate turning down guys, hurting their feelings, or being pessimistic about a man’s approach toward us. I know it may not seem like that, but most women feel this way. Starting a conversation with a woman like you two are old friends will help her relax and make her more willing to speak to you. And the longer you can get her to speak to you, the better because it raises your chances of getting her number.

So skip the awkwardness, lose the pick-up lines, and drop “Hello” from your dating dictionary, and dive right into a conversation with me.

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How To Build Sexual Tension With Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-build-sexual-tension-with-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-build-sexual-tension-with-women/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2015 15:49:58 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19179 I’ve been getting a ton of emails about how to build and sustain sexual tension and excitement in your approaches and interactions. I can tell you first-hand that this is one of the most important dynamics in any interaction. Because … keep reading

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I’ve been getting a ton of emails about how to build and sustain sexual tension and excitement in your approaches and interactions.

I can tell you first-hand that this is one of the most important dynamics in any interaction.

Because if you’re not building sexual tension… the interaction just dies out and goes nowhere.

Or even worse… you get filed away in the Friend Zone cabinet, never to see the light of day again in her eyes.

Here’s what happens when you build sexual tension correctly:

She immediately sees you as a “sexual option”.

You no longer run the risk of appearing like a non-sexual entity otherwise known as “The Friend”.

If you’ve been building attraction over the course of the interaction and you move to build sexual tension, whatever attraction she felt for you will skyrocket 10x over because you’ve “turned up the heat”

There’s nothing sexier to a woman than a man who’s completely comfortable and confident in his sexuality and what he wants. As a bonus, if she isn’t interested (there’s no shame in this, by the way, not every girl is going to be interested in your for some reason or another) you’ll find out immediately and not waste your time.

Doesn’t that all seem awesome? :)

Well get ready because today I’m going to tell you exactly:

How To Build Sexual Tension And Excitement From The Get-Go

A word of caution first. These tips I’m about to give you are not a shortcut to getting girls to drop their panties at the first sight of you.

You still need to build attraction like I teach in my programs (you can find my de-facto course right here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/)

But if you want to build attraction AND tip the balance in your favor so you can have her hot and bothered within the first interaction… then read on.

Principle 1: Become a sexual and sexy man

This might seem like a vague principle, but it’s quite the opposite.

Let me explain what I mean by “become a sexual man” before you start walking down Main street in a pair of chaps, oozing sex and creeping women out 😉

If you’re building attraction, she’s interested in you and wants things to escalate… then she will subtly bring up the topic of sex one way or another. Or something semi-sexual.

Now what most guys will do is act shocked and freeze if a girl flirtatiously brings up sex.

But you’re not most guys. You’re a SEXUAL guy.

Which means you don’t become stupefied when a woman brings up sex.

Instead, you roll with it. Completely relaxed and comfortable with your sexuality.

“I love wearing thongs” she says.

The regular guy might try to laugh it off and shy away from the conversation.

You’re the sexual man so you charge head-on.

“So what color is your favorite thong?” you say with a smile.

Or you could even throw in a little joke like “Me too. I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.” with a little smirk and then say “so what color is your favorite thong.”

You can move from topic to topic, asexual or sexual.

This shows her that it’s not a big deal to you and you won’t judge her if she decides to make a move.

Principle 2: Lead and escalate

If you build attraction and then take her somewhere discreet where things COULD escalate and then you just build up the tension, most of the time… it WILL escalate.

3 things you can do to escalate the situation are:

Make touching each other a normal thing.

If you’ve never touched a girl in a casual way and she’s never touched you, there’s a pretty big gap from not touching to suddenly becoming intimate. Instead, if you’re used to touching each other and the sexual tension builds up… intimacy seems like the natural next step.

Strong eye contact is incredibly suggestive, sexy and it builds the sexual tension like nothing else. Use it!

Tell a risque story

“Marni, what do you mean a “risque” story?” you’re probably asking yourself.

So let’s say you’re in a secluded area, perfect territory for some naughty stuff.

You’ve built attraction, you’re building the sexual tension with the touching and the eye contact.

And now you drop this one on her – “Damn… this whole situation is reminding me of something.”

She’s curious.

“What? What does it remind you of?!” she asks.

“Nah… never mind.” you pretend like you’re hiding something.

“Oh no come on tell me!” she playfully hits you. (BIG ATTRACTION SIGN RIGHT THERE BY THE WAY)

“I don’t know if I wanna hurt your innocent little ears,” you smile coyly.

“If you don’t tell me, I’ll be mad” she pouts at you.

“Fine fine…” you say to her.

This is where you recount a sexy story of something that happened to you in the past.

Build up the tension. Don’t jump into the sex part right away. Lead up to it.

It’s even better if you don’t ever talk about “the sex part” and just talk around it.

This is how you put her in a sexual state and make her that much more comfortable with being sexual.  Easing her into it and allowing her to choose her own sexual path.  (Remember: As a man you are always leading NOT pushing).

Make sure you don’t judge the girl in the story or she’ll feel like she might become part of your story to the next girl.

It’s key to making her comfortable.

Principle 3: To be continued…

I’ve just realized while typing this that this is a LOT to take in and remember.

And I’m sure you’re bursting at the seams hungry for more enticing bits of info.

So here’s what I’ll do.

In my next blog, I’m going to expand on these principles and give you some more “hot and ready” info to getting her in the mood to do just about anything you want.

I’m going to be giving you the inside scoop on what it takes to get a girl completely comfortable to take things to the next level.

Stay tuned.

BTW – not sure if you saw, but I have a BIG debate happening on my blog right now that I think you may want to be a part of.

The debate is whether or not you think it’s good to compliment a woman on her looks.

Would love to hear what you think.

Go here to join in on the debate:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/

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Examples of How To Compliment A Woman The RIGHT WAY http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/examples-of-how-to-compliment-a-woman-the-right-way/#comments Mon, 20 Jul 2015 18:00:56 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19138 Not sure if you have seen any of the blog posts from my new Wing Girl Alex, BUT they have been getting a lot of attention, and other guys are loving them. Alex is 25, super cute, single and very … keep reading

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Not sure if you have seen any of the blog posts from my new Wing Girl Alex, BUT they have been getting a lot of attention, and other guys are loving them.

Alex is 25, super cute, single and very honest when it comes to the things men do that turn her off instantly.

Now Alex is really pretty. There is no way of not seeing how pretty she is. Whenever I’m out with her, she’ll have at least 3 guys come up to her and tell her how pretty she is.
And every time a guy tells her how pretty she is, she rolls her eyes, says thanks, and walks away.

Pretty rude right?

But then I started to notice that myself and my other girlfriends did the exact same thing.
Myself and my other friends may not have been so rude about it and would talk to the guy complimenting them. But we would all give that same sigh and then their body language would sink in this sad way.

I’m an analyzer, so I, of course, thought forever on WHY I had this reaction. And then I went to my girlfriends to ask them about it, and they all said the same thing about why a guy saying “you’re pretty” was such a big turn off.

My Wing Girl Alex described it best which is why I asked her to write a blog about it!

I’ve posted the blog below that tells you why telling a girl she’s pretty will never get you the reaction you want AND what you SHOULD compliment her on, that will make her instantly attracted to you.

Read this post with an open mind because I know how you may respond.  “women suck…. bitches all of them… he’s just trying to say something nice…”  or something along those lines.

I’m not saying that the reaction us women have to you complimenting us is RIGHT or FAIR. But it’s our biological, instinctual, gut reaction that we have little control over.  So read this with an open mind and understand that it’s just “what is”.

Telling Me I’m Pretty Is Too Easy
By: Alex

I worked at a bank two years ago.

We had a male customer that had just moved to the U.S. from the Middle East with his mother and sister with the help of a local Catholic church. The family was lovely, and I tried to make them feel welcomed as was my job to do as a teller.

One evening, the guy came to the bank with a bouquet of flowers for me. I wasn’t working that evening, so he came the next day in the drive-thru when I was working, gave me flowers, told me I was so beautiful and asked me out. I had never spoken to him for more than five minutes before this, and we had never shared any personal stories. Only exchanged words about his account and the basic, “Hi, how are you today,” “Fine, and you?”

So I was pretty surprised to receive the flowers and couldn’t understand why he was asking me out. He didn’t know me? I quickly learned it was because he thought I was the “prettiest woman in the world.” He even had a card with a poem that he had written about my beauty. I turned him down politely; I wasn’t very interested in dating at the time, and I wasn’t attracted to him.

A few days later, I was closing up the bank (alone) and had just closed the door to the bank when I saw a figure standing at my car. It was the same guy! With more flowers and waiting at my car (very creepily) to ask me out again. Now I was starting to get annoyed. I could have called the cops—since I didn’t know who he was at first, I could have thought he was a bank robber! He spouted off more statements of “You are so beautiful” and “the prettiest.” As you can guess, I never went out with the guy.

Actually that evening when I went home, I was really annoyed.

This guy wanted to date me for only one reason: how I look. He didn’t know me. He didn’t know anything about my personality—I could have been evil and cold-hearted. He didn’t know my passions, my dislikes, my weird habits, my hobbies, my education, or my beliefs, but he was so adamant to take me out because I was “so pretty.”

I was annoyed because telling me that I’m pretty is way too easy. He hadn’t taken the time to even figure out the kind of person I was before asking me out. Rather, he had already created this fantasy about me, that my physical appearance must match my personality, my soul, or reflect the kind of woman he wanted. I’ve had this happen multiple times.

Guys have painted this picture of how I am, positive or negative, in their minds based on my looks without even taking the time to get to know me.

I was on a date once with a guy, and we were talking about what we wanted for our futures. I said I wanted to move around the rest of my life and move my family with me. He argued that that wasn’t feasible, and I would have to settle down eventually in one spot. We debated on this, cordially of course. That wasn’t the only thing we disagreed on. My personality, beliefs, and views of the future and his were quite different. We would not have made a good match. But did that deter him from wanting to continue to go out with me? No. And I can only assume, due to his frequent comments on my appearance, that he only wanted to continue to go out with me because of how I looked.

Telling me, a confident woman, that I’m “pretty” or “beautiful” or “gorgeous” is too easy. If you want to ask me out, you got to do better than that. I’m not going to give you a second look because you complimented my looks, especially if I’m not physically attracted to you. Granted, I do enjoy compliments on my appearance, but I don’t need them and when they come from men. They just seem paper thin without any substance behind them, because I can’t tell if you even like the person that I am, or only like me because of how I look. I want compliments from a man that I’m in a serious relationship with; that’s what I enjoy. So if you want to win me over, or women like me, you need to step up your game and do what everyone else isn’t doing: not compliment me on my looks.

About a year ago, I went on a date with this guy I had matched with on Tinder. He looked cute in his pictures, though it was sort of difficult to know for sure. When we matched on the app, he sent me a message, and we talked a bit before he asked me out. It wasn’t until the day that we went on the date (maybe five days after we had started talking on the app) that I realized, he hadn’t once commented on my looks, hadn’t even referenced them! That intrigued me.

When I arrived at the date and saw him, I noticed that he was cute but not as attractive as I had thought he was. Still, I found myself not caring—this guy was different. During the dinner, he continued asking me about my passions and dreams and what I liked and disliked and we soon discovered that we were both ambitious with very similar interests and beliefs. It wasn’t until the end of the date that he even referenced my appearance, and when he did he didn’t even say the words “beautiful” or “pretty”! It was very subtle.
And I liked that.

Men who don’t compliment my looks when they are getting to know me or wanting to ask me out intrigue me, because they are doing something different than the masses. More importantly, when they aren’t focusing on my appearance, they are focusing on something most important: who I am as a person. Showing genuine interest in the kind of person that I am is the best, most sexy compliment you could give me. And engaging in good conversation about my ideals, goals, ambitions, and passions—well, now you’ve opened my eyes and I’m interested in you. That’s what will catch my attention. That is what will catch the attention of other girls and will give you the edge to date girls you never thought possible to date.

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Would LOVE to hear what you think about this post.

Chick-TionaryP.S. Don’t forget to check out The Chick-tionary: The Hidden Meaning Behind What Women Say & Do

This manual gives the full run down of ALL THE THINGS women say that confuses men, written in dictionary format. Go here to find out more and see a sample chapter of The Chick-tionary.

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Date Ideas – How to Create Fun Non-traditional Dates That Help Build Attraction and Connection http://www.winggirlmethod.com/date-ideas-how-to-create-fun-non-traditional-dates-that-help-build-attraction-and-connection/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/date-ideas-how-to-create-fun-non-traditional-dates-that-help-build-attraction-and-connection/#comments Wed, 15 Jul 2015 23:20:28 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19115 On many occasions, men come up to me and ask me “What’s the best place to take my girl to on a date?” Well, you see, dating is all about seeing if two people are able to find something that … keep reading

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On many occasions, men come up to me and ask me “What’s the best place to take my girl to on a date?”

Well, you see, dating is all about seeing if two people are able to find something that ties them together and to see if they can connect to each other. I feel that you should be true to yourself, so that the other person can see if they can and want to fit into your life.

A lot of men try too hard to impress a girl and lose themselves along the way.

In the beginning of things, she really is no one to you, well, at least no one who comes before you. You agree? Well then… stop being focused on her and start focusing on yourself.

If you feel like dancing then take her dancing.

If you want to play billiards, then take her out and enjoy a nice game of billiards.

The first date does not need to be expensive, and you do not need to show off anything. Just be yourself, but, of course, the date has to be fun and enjoyable for the both of you.

Dinner and a Movie – Not a Way to Go!

You are probably well familiar with a couple eating dinner and then heading off to see a movie. That’s a classic first date scenario, but you might be looking for something different this time.

Think about what you already know about your date and choose a place accordingly.

If you are already passed the first date stage and seeking some other date ideas, then this time focus a bit on her and her preferences.

Your date might like an active date where the two of you will play a game of sport, or she might like an adventurous date where both of you will feel like kids again and try doing something new and non-traditional that will help you to build attraction and connection.

As long as you are personal and put some actual thought into it, choosing a date idea will be fun.

One of the most important things is to think about what your date likes and dislikes, regardless of whether you barely know her, or if you have been friends for a long time. Your partner won’t enjoy herself if she feels like you did not invest any time in thinking things through. You should consider if she would like an active date or perhaps she would like to do something passive.

For instance, if your date doesn’t like nature all that much, don’t ruin your chances for something more with a picnic or a hike.

If she works as a waitress, avoid planning a date at a coffee shop, and just be well aware of her preferences.

Consider the things you already know about her, and just try to recall what you have talked about.

What does she love doing, and what does she hate?

Whatever you choose as your date option, my recommendation is not to take her to some fancy expensive dinner, not just yet.

Wait until you know she is worth it!

Marni

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What Always Makes Women Swipe Left On Tinder http://www.winggirlmethod.com/swipe-left-on-tinder/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/swipe-left-on-tinder/#comments Mon, 13 Jul 2015 21:09:47 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19109 Do you use Tinder or any of those other dating apps? Then you have to read the below post written by my cute new 24-year-old Wing Girl Alex. Alex reveals how she uses Tinder AND the mistakes guys make on … keep reading

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Do you use Tinder or any of those other dating apps? Then you have to read the below post written by my cute new 24-year-old Wing Girl Alex. Alex reveals how she uses Tinder AND the mistakes guys make on Tinder that make her swipe left.

What Always Makes Women Swipe Left On Tinder

By: Wing Girl Alex Temblador (25)

So I’m back on Tinder. It’s a love/hate relationship. Love that I have the chance to go on dates, meet some guys, and maybe find a relationship. Hate the profiles that I have to go through and deny because of men’s ridiculous choices with their photo deck and “About Me” section.

I started on Tinder about a year ago in Los Angeles and hated it for so many reasons. It’s not very easy to match with someone; it’s not very easy to get to know someone. Half the time, I chose only guys that were very attractive, and when we matched, I discovered that their looks did not reflect their personality. They were either total douchebags, sex fiends, misogynistic, or just plain weirdos. That part was my fault, and I’ve learned from it.

I took a six-month sabbatical from Tinder and then returned to the app a few weeks ago. And so far, it has sucked. Not because there aren’t any guys to match with. Not because I haven’t changed my own personal perspective on choosing guys (I don’t just choose guys that are Channing Tatum – hot anymore). Rather, the problem I am facing is that I’m swiping left (the action of denying or saying “no” to someone on Tinder) to so many guys because of their profile. Half the time I just want to throw my phone at the wall because the men on Tinder are not making it easy for me to swipe right.

There are certain basic principles that men should follow when using Tinder, basic principles that could get you a match. From my own experiences, I’ve noticed that over half of the men that come up on my Tinder, have set up their Tinder profiles in such horrible ways that I won’t even give them a second look and will swipe left. For all I know, that guy could have been an awesome guy to match with, but because of some very poor Tinder profile choices I don’t have the time or the desire to figure that out.

Tinder isn’t the best dating app for most people. Mostly because it limits a person to photographs and a tiny paragraph to explain who that person is. In plain terms, it’s a dating app with a primary focus on beauty and looks, an aspect that doesn’t help most guys. I’m going to share with you all of the things that will make a woman swipe left on Tinder. Things you SHOULD NOT DO with your Tinder profile, in hopes that you can learn what TO DO to get more matches.

If you follow my advice, I can’t guarantee that you will match with someone you find attractive or interesting on Tinder. However, I’d rather give you a fighting chance, an opportunity against those other men who make stupid Tinder profile mistakes. A chance that just might get you that match, if you’re lucky.

  1. Obscure photos: I can’t even tell what you look like!

Why is every single one of your photos blurry? Or a picture of you from far away? Or has a bad camera glare? Or is a bunch of photos of you facing away? Or wearing a hat and sunglasses?

If I can’t tell what you look like in over half of your photos, I am swiping left. If your main photo is obscure, I will swipe left 95% of the time.

A nice, clear main photo of you might make a girl pause. If she pauses to take a look at the rest of your photos (which should also be clear), you have a higher chance of her swiping right. So your choice: obscure or not?

  1. Why is your first photo a quote, a drawing, or a landscape photo? Why is it not of YOU?

I want to see pictures of you. I don’t want a quote you saved from Pinterest or an image of a lovely landscape from your last vacation. Don’t waste my time with those. If you have to include a picture like that, maybe it’s a drawing that you did, or you’re into photography and you want to show off your skills, then include it later on in your photo deck, like your 5th or 6th photo.

  1. Which one of the five guys in your picture is you?

I hate when guys have like four pictures with them and their friends. I deplore when that picture is your main photo. Why are you making me work to figure out which one in the picture is you? Nobody has time for that. You should have one or two pictures (two pictures if you have six photos up) with you and your friends.

Yes, women do want to know you are socially competent, and you do have friends, but we don’t need to get to know your friends in your Tinder profile. We want to see you! And what if your best friend in your picture is hotter than you… I’m just saying.

  1. So many women in your pics. Is that your ex? Are you a player?

I think there is some insane misconception that has made its way among men: that women like to see pictures of you and other women on your Tinder profile. I can only come up with one reason why any guy would do this: He wants women to think that other women like him and, therefore, make you jealous or intrigued. Whatever the reason behind this, stop doing it!

I’m almost positive that some of these pictures that men put up are pics with their ex-girlfriends. That’s gross. When I see pictures with a lot of women in your Tinder profile, it is a turn-off.

I don’t want to talk to a player.

I don’t want a guy who hangs out with a lot of girls all the time.

Now I know some men put up pictures with their sister or other female family members, but how do I know that is your sister? Just keep those pictures to a bare minimum, like, zero.

  1. One picture? Creepy…

Why do you only have one picture of yourself on Tinder? Or two? That’s just creepy. Now you have me wondering if you’re a robot, a catfish, or just some creepy 80-year-old man pretending to be someone he isn’t.

  1. Mom pics, why?

What is this “mom pic” trend that has caught on? It’s cool that you get along with your mom, but it just makes yourself seem a tiny bit juvenile. All I can think is, “Mama’s Boy,” and how I’m not trying to compete with a mom for her son.

  1. Few animals other than a dog scream “manly.”

Pictures with you and your dog—that’s sexy. Pictures with your cat… just doesn’t say manly. I hate to say that because all animals are awesome, but there are just some animals that say things other than you are a manly, sociable man. Horses are sexy in a cowboy way and maybe snakes are in an alternative rock star-kind-of-way; but if you can, stick with dogs.

  1. Why do you look miserable? Lonely? Creepy?

I don’t want to date someone who is miserable in life. Make sure your pictures don’t reflect that. I’ve seen pictures of guys on Tinder who are hunched over in photos with a depressed look on their face.

That’s not attractive. It’s off-putting.

Do you have any pictures of you smiling? Happy? Something beyond creepy, lonely guy who people don’t feel comfortable around?

  1. The Don’ts of Selfies and Mirror Pictures.

Recently, I was looking through a guy’s Tinder profile, and I couldn’t stop laughing. He had two selfie mirror pictures, and both of those mirror pictures were taken at Walmart. I have nothing against Walmart, but why can’t you take those selfie mirror pics at home?

This brings up selfies. Men don’t take the best selfies. I’m sorry, it’s true. So, if you do post a selfie on Tinder, stop and take a look at it.

Are we looking up your nostrils? Throw it out.

Do your facial features look extremely disproportioned because of the way you held the camera? Throw it out.

Here’s a selfie trick that women do that could be beneficial to you. One side of your face is always slimmer than the other. Look in the mirror and figure it out. When you find out which side is slimmer, tilt you head slightly to the left or right, whichever way will show that side, and take a picture. Full on pictures can look nice, but slightly angular selfies will show off your best side, and remember, Tinder is mostly about looks.

  1. Abs, abs, abs.

Lots of girls like abs on guys. I like abs on guys. However, I don’t like seeing four pictures of your abs that you took in a mirror. It tells me that you might be too ‘into yourself’ and won’t be able to be into me. So limit those ab pictures to one. Maybe two.

  1. Your pictures give me zero information about you.

Sometimes you can’t say everything about yourself in your “About Me” section. The nice thing with Tinder is that your photographs can show me what you are interested in. I love seeing guys playing sports, on the lake with friends, at a baseball game, etc.

Don’t go overboard with this. If you have four out of six pictures of you with guns, I will probably think you’re some unstable, paranoid, or violent guy and I will swipe left. If you have five pictures of you at the gym, I might assume you’re a meathead whose only hobby is working out (which is just sad). Share your hobbies, just don’t overshare one over the others.

  1. Lying with your pictures.

My cousin went on her first Tinder date when she was visiting me in Los Angeles. She liked the guy she was chatting with, but she kept asking me,

“Is there something off with his pictures?”

“Do you think he is as tall as the pictures make him seem?”

When she went on the date, she found out he wasn’t. Later we discovered that in one of the pictures, he was standing on a few steps above a girl to make it seem like he was taller, and he cut the photo at the point that would prevent us from figuring that out.

Don’t lie with your photos. That’s not nice.

  1. Posing with kids.

I don’t have kids. I’m not ready for kids, and I don’t want to be a mother, so when I see Tinder pictures of guys with kids, I usually swipe left. Now, let me go further into this. First, if you have a kid and you want to share that in your pictures and be honest with women about who you are, do it! However, mention that the child in your pictures is your kid in your summary section. There are tons of women who find dads hot, so show that and be proud!

On the other hand, if you are a single guy with no kids, it would be beneficial to women if you did not post pictures of yourself and children. I think most guys think that posing with kids shows women that they could be good dads or that they like kids. Not every woman is looking for that right away. So I would say nix those photographs. If you really want to include a picture with your nephew or niece, write a disclaimer in your summary section, “This is my niece. Isn’t she cute?”

  1. Connect to IG, please!

If you have an Instagram, connect it to your Tinder profile. It shows a woman a little more about your personality such as what you do with your friends, quotes you find inspiring, and much more. I love when guys have their IG accounts on Tinder because I have a chance to see what we have in common.

  1. Don’t try to be funny if you’re not.

The summary section on Tinder is the last thing I look at and sometimes it’s the last thing between you and a swipe left or a swipe right.

I’ve noticed men try to be funny in these sections and half the time it doesn’t work. Sometimes, these “funny” things that guys write isn’t funny at all. Sometimes they are goofy, or corny, or turn out as misogynistic statements.

  1. Why is your summary about me and not you?

Some men have written some interesting things in their “About Me” section. What I find interesting is when they talk about women on Tinder rather than sharing information about themselves, which is what the whole section is meant for!

I’ve seen things like, “Why do I have to message you first?” “Women, stop going for the hot ones,” “I don’t understand y’all,” “Don’t be conceited, ladies,” etc. Why are you speaking to a gender? Why aren’t you just sharing information about yourself?

My advice for the “About Me” section: tell me what you like, what’s your passion, whether you want something serious or not, family, educational background, your profession, where you are from, and what you are looking for in a woman (but always be positive; don’t say, “I just want a girl with tattoos and isn’t bat shit crazy when she drinks”—yeah, I read that yesterday).

Hopefully, those are some helpful tips that you can take and apply to your Tinder profile.

One last thing… A while back I got to wondering how women’s Tinder profiles looked, so I did an experiment. I changed my profile settings to include “interested in women” along with men and then I started exploring. Women have way better Tinder profiles than men. I don’t think I came across one “unattractive” or “weird” or “crazy” looking woman on Tinder. So, I encourage you to change your profiles for just a few minutes and check out how the men of Tinder have set up their profiles (don’t worry, you can change it back later). Perhaps then you might understand why I, and many other women, have been swiping left so much.

Love Alex!

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O.S.A: The Idiot-Proof Method for Approaching Women [Part 3/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/o-s-a-the-idiot-proof-approaching-method-part-33/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/o-s-a-the-idiot-proof-approaching-method-part-33/#comments Thu, 09 Jul 2015 18:33:25 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19060 Hope you’ve been enjoying this mini-series on the O.S.A Method. If you’ve missed any of my blogs the last few days, then you should definitely go back and read ’em. Check out Part 1 here and Part 2 here: They’re … keep reading

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Hope you’ve been enjoying this mini-series on the O.S.A Method.

If you’ve missed any of my blogs the last few days, then you should definitely go back and read ’em.

Check out Part 1 here and Part 2 here:

They’re that good.

But here’s a quick recap of what the first two parts of the O.S.A Method before I give you the last piece of the puzzle:

1. Observation: Make a statement about something you’re observing in your environment. Whether that be her or otherwise. Think of it like being a 5-year-old kid again who’s intrigued and curious about everything.

2. Sharing: Share something personal (opinion, thought, etc.) about the observation you’ve just made. If observation is giving her a piece of your reality, then sharing is letting her come along for the ride.

Obviously, there were a lot more intricacies (which is why you should go see parts 1 & 2 on my blog, duh!) but this the gist of the first two parts.

But here comes the 3rd and some would say most important part of the whole enchilada.

*Drum roll*

Part 3: Ask A Question

You’re a one-man show during the first two phases, but part 3 is about bridging the gap and getting her invested into the interaction.

Asking a question makes sure that this becomes a two-way dialogue instead of you blabbing on and on without any input from her.

Again, this whole OSA Method is to get the conversation started so you can find out if you’re interested in her.

And the only way to do that is to get her to open her mouth.

Now, there are a few things guys get wrong when asking questions so here’s what you should and shouldn’t do:

  1.  DO ask open-ended questions. Use the 5 W’s like journalists use to get the best interviews they can out of their subject. Who, what, where, why and how.
  2.  DON’T continue to ask questions that begin in “Do you…?” as in “Do you come here often?”. This makes it extremely easy for her just to say yes or no – and completely block you off from further conversation. I understand it is hard always to come up with an open question so you may need to use “Do you…” at first, but don’t follow up with another “Do you…” question.

These two rules make sure that you don’t go into “interview mode” and bombard her with question after question that she can just answer with yes or no.

Let’s take you through a full example of the whole process in action:

You see a girl in the mall with a scarf in 90-degree weather.

You’re thinking to yourself about how crazy hot it is, and that scarf is just ridiculous.

So as you pass her by you tell her, “What the hell? A scarf in this heat? (← Observation)

I’m wearing shorts and a tank top, and I’m STILL about to pull a Magic Mike because I’m so hot! (← Sharing)”

(Obviously you don’t have to use a stripper reference but you get bonus points if you do in my book 😉

And here comes the ask:

“How are you even dealing with it right now?”

Bam, conversation started, and she can’t answer yes or no because… it just wouldn’t make sense.

You’ve just injected yourself directly into the middle of a conversation, and she can’t put any barriers up because again – it wouldn’t make sense.

Simple and extremely effective. It’s why I love things like O.S.A so much.

They’re easy to remember and so much better to use in real-life situations.

Now there’s a whole second part to this OSA Method, which I call the LCA Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method, to literally, get her ADDICTED to you.

I could have used any adjective, but addiction is literally what happens in her brain when you use this stuff.

You can learn about it in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

Make sure you check it out.

I hope you enjoyed the mini-series and let me know if you use it.

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Yesterday I introduced you to The Wing Girl Method’s “indirectly direct” method for approaching women, the O.S.A. Method.

If you missed the blog post then you can see Part 1 here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/formula-for-approaching-women/

Or here’s a quick recap:

The O.S.A Method is an approach technique that allows you to quickly break into a conversation with a girl while completely removing formalities and taking away the “interviewer” mode of discussion.

Most guys just try to bombard a girl with random questions in an attempt to force their way into a conversation.

Yuck.

And to be honest, super annoying.

By using the O.S.A method, you’re completely throwing that out of the window while still being entirely clear in your intent.

It’s the best of both worlds which is why I love it so much… and so do women!

I also told you about the first part of the method – Observation.

Without going into too much detail, observation is letting a girl into your reality by making an observation about something in the world around you.

Think of it as being a 5-year old who’s curious and intrigued about everything.

So if she’s wearing a scarf in 90-degree weather and you think that’s ridiculous, you’d open the conversation with “A scarf in 90-degree weather?!”.

It could be an observation about her or just about anything in the environment.

The next part of the O.S.A method is – Sharing.

Sharing is where you add your 2 cents to whatever you made an observation about.

If the observation is giving her a piece of your reality, sharing is letting her come along for the ride.

Girls will subconsciously try to put the pieces together of what you’re saying, your body language and your tonality to get an idea of who you are.

And as long as you’re sharing, you’re pulling into your reality and getting her invested.

So what do you share exactly?

This is actually brain-dead easy…

First you follow the first rule of O.S.A where you make a statement about an observation that you’ve made then you share something personal about it.

Here’s an example:

You see the girl walking around the mall with the scarf in 90-degree weather.

You’re in shorts and a tank-top, and you’re still almost suffering a heat stroke.

So you make an observation and follow it up by sharing something personal:

“What the hell? A scarf in this heat? I’m wearing shorts and a tank top and I’m STILL about to pull a Magic Mike because I’m so hot!”

Your body language is relaxed, your gaze is firm and you’ve got a half-cocked smile on the whole time.

Do you see how effective this part is in reeling her in?

Now she knows something about you.

She knows you’re a funny, confident guy who knows about Magic Mike.

Now obviously you don’t have to be funny or make a male stripper reference.

But whatever it is that you DO share will give her a puzzle piece in building a painting of who you are.

You’ve also broken past all of her defenses and injected yourself in the middle of a conversation.

Neat huh?

That’s why I love little methods like this one.

It’s kind of nerdy, but they’re so easy to remember which makes it a breeze to apply in real life situations.

Now there’s a whole second part to this OSA Method, which I call the LCA Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method, to literally, get her ADDICTED to you.

I could have used any adjective, but addiction is literally what happens in her brain when you use this stuff.

You can learn about it in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

Anyways, tomorrow I’ll be posting the last part of the OSA method …

If you are not already signed up for my newsletters, I suggest signing up so that you don’t miss out on the last and final part of the O.S.A Method!

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WOW… my last few newsletters about being direct with women and clearly asking for what you want were like a roller-coaster of feedback. (If you missed them I’ll be posting them on my blog shortly)

Some of you were confused, some of you needed some explanation, but for those of you who got it…

I’m super excited to hear about how you used what I told you to get some action over 4th of July weekend. 😉

Now look, if you were confused, or you needed some explaining, or maybe being that direct just isn’t your schtick…

These next few emails are going to be a TREAT because I’m going to be unveiling The Wing Girl Method’s in-depth method for being “indirectly direct” while approaching a lady of your choice.

I say it’s “indirectly direct” because the way you’ll be approaching women and talking to them will be seemingly indirect, but will still show a clear intention…

The intention being “you’re cute. I want to talk to you and get to know more.”

If this is all going over your head right now, don’t worry because it shall all be explained over the next couple of days.

So without further ado…

The O.S.A. Method

The O.S.A. Method is the method that I created for my personal clients back in 2006, and it’s the best method for approaching women, and striking up a conversation.

In fact, it’s the approach that, of the 5,000+ women I’ve interviewed over the past decade, say they respond to the most.

It’s not a direct approach per se because you aren’t just coming out and saying what you want, BUT it allows you to:

1) Still be 100% genuine and clear in your intent (which is the foundation of direct approaches anyway)

2) Break into conversation with a woman and then decide whether or not you enjoy her, and still feel the attraction, because making an exit with this approach is as easy as pie

But I think the most important part of the O.S.A. Method is that it completely removes all annoying formalities. It takes away the “interviewer” mode of conversation that most guys attempt to go into, which makes women immediately put up barriers…

And barriers ain’t fun.

So what IS the O.S.A Method?

Well, as you’ve probably already guessed it’s an abbreviation (duh!) and the first letter stands for…

Observation.

Let me explain:

Picture for a moment you’re in the mall, and you see a pretty hot girl, nothing out of the ordinary right?

But you see that she’s wearing a scarf… in 90-degree weather.

So as you pass her by you simply make a statement about your observation, something like…

“A scarf in 90-degree weather?!”

You’ve got a giant smirk on your face, and your body language is relaxed and confident.

Your body language and tonality are 90% of how you communicate who you are, so you have to get that right but…

What you’ve just done by letting her in on YOUR observation is:

A) You’ve just cut directly into the middle of a conversation therefore skipping all formalities like “Hey my name is…” or “Can I talk to you for a second”.  She won’t (and more importantly, can’t) put barriers up because there’s nothing to actually put barriers up against. (<- super important!)  Instead, she’ll most likely just stare at you.

NOTE: Don’t take this as a bad thing. It just means you’ve gotten her attention.

B) You’ve just demonstrated confidence through your body language, tonality, and the fact that it takes major balls, and really awesome social skills to pull off being completely in your own “stream of consciousness”, and pulling her into it.

Oh and the observation doesn’t just have to be about her.

It could be about anything.

A simple shortcut: just state, out loud, EXACTLY what you’re already thinking.

Think of it as being a 5-year-old kid again without a filter who’s intrigued and curious about everything.

It’s that simple.

Tomorrow we’ll dive straight into the next part of the O.S.A Method, and if you do this one thing, you’ll completely suck her into YOUR world.

So keep an eye out for it!

Oh and before I go, if you like formulas like the O.S.A. Method that are not only powerful but easy to remember and apply in real world situations, then you should check out my L.C.A. Method.

They work hand in hand because while OSA cracks open the door and lets you get a foot in… Once you decide you’re interested in a girl, you use the LCA Method to literally get her ADDICTED to you.

You can learn about in my program “How To Become A Man Women Want” here:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

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