Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Fri, 30 Jan 2015 14:47:54 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.2 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes #1 Secret To Approaching Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/#comments Thu, 22 Jan 2015 17:30:10 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18635 Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you) The secret is: MINDSET!!! I know it’s not what you were expecting at … keep reading

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Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you)

The secret is: MINDSET!!!

I know it’s not what you were expecting at all but hear me out for a second.

No woman wants to be a approached by a guy who is:

1. Nervous

2. In his head

3. Doubting himself

4. Caring too much about what she wants or thinks

5. Thinking he’s not good enough for her or coming up with some other belief/excuse as to why he can’t approach her.

I can go on and on but you see where I am going with this.Men who have a negative mindset when approaching are instantly labelled as CREEPY by women.

And you don’t want to be creepy right?

Because you are not creepy.

You are the furthest thing from creepy.

I know that…

You know that…

Your friends and family know that…

But sadly, women that you are approaching don’t know that.

And it’s not their fault because how would they ever know that you weren’t creepy unless you showed them that you weren’t creepy.

I have an exercise to help you eliminate the creep and get the perfect mindset before you start approaching women.

As I said at the beginning of this email, the #1 secret to successful approaching is having a positive, solid MINDSET!And this exercise is going to help you easily get that mindset.

I’m going to call this exercise the Lena Dunham.  She’s the creator of the show Girls on HBO.

Why am I calling this exercise the Lena Dunham?

Because that girl is that girl is chunky and super awkward BUT because she has a kick ass mindset I don’t see any of those things in her.
All I see is awesome, super creative and very successful.
EXERCISE:
Re-frame how you talk to yourself and how you think about yourself.
This is just 1 of the exercises that you’ll find in all my programs and it’s great.
If you don’t think or talk nicely about yourself, don’t expect others to do so.
For the next week, I want you to be in control of what your brain and mouth are telling women about the way you view yourself and the MINDSET that you  have.
To start having a healthy mindset before approaching do the following:

1. Notice when you think or say negative things about yourself or about a situation.E.g. I can’t approach her. She’s too hot. She’ll reject me.2. Re-frame what you think or say.E.g. That girl is cute. I’m going to approach her and we’ll see what happens.

You can even go to a more positive level and say “That girl better watch out cause I here I come.”

It’s just 2 simple steps!!!All you gotta do is catch yourself being “creepy” or having a bad mind set and then laugh to yourself and re-frame it.

Now go try this exercise at least 5 times per day.And I don’t want to hear the excuse of “But there aren’t people around me to approach”.

#1 – Yes there are and if there aren’t there are ways to make them around you.

#2 – STOP MAKING EXCUSES and just do. That is the #2 secret to approaching. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

TRUST ME!

Now go do it. And if you want more help with knowing how to approach or what to say once you approach, then check out How To Become A Man Women Want.It’s a program I created that walks you through every step you need to check off your list to make approaching and talking to women super easy.

Check it out here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/how-to-become-a-man-women-want-6

On this page you’ll see a video that tells you what to do to make women want and explains more about the program.Now go get a good mindset so that women can start to see you as sexy NOT creepy.

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36 Questions To Ask Women That Make Her Want You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/36-questions-ask-women-make-want/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/36-questions-ask-women-make-want/#comments Tue, 20 Jan 2015 22:42:32 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18629 I just got sent this interesting article called “How to fall in love with anyone: Ask 36 questions and stare into their eyes for four minutes”. Apparently the New York Times recently published a story about a study that discovered … keep reading

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I just got sent this interesting article called “How to fall in love with anyone: Ask 36 questions and stare into their eyes for four minutes”.

Apparently the New York Times recently published a story about a study that discovered that if you put two people in a lab together where they ask each other 36 questions and then stare deeply into each others eyes, they will fall in love.

The article that I was forwarded was another article written by a woman, attempting to disprove this study by doing everything the study said to do but NOT fall in love.   Sadly and also happy for this woman, she failed to disprove the study but instead found love from one of her guy friends who she had never seen as dating potential.

I totally get why this study works and why the outcome has been so wonderful. If more people asked questions, like the 36 questions in this study, dates would be more fun and more successful.

I’ve pasted the below for you to see and would love to hear what you think about them and why you think these 36 questions plus eye contact, elicits such a strong response.

THE 36 QUESTIONS TO FALL LOVE

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … “

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

The reason why these questions get the response they do from both men and women is because they cut through the bullshit that people usually talk about on dates.  They allow each person to show the other person the most raw, real, authentic and vulnerable version of themselves.

I would try to incorporate some of these questions into your next date. Make a game of it. Tell the woman you are on a date with about this New York Times article (so she’ll think you’re smart) and then tell her you want to play a game and see if it works.

Then ask a few of the questions and have her ask you them as well. Listen, respond and see what happens.

Not sure how to incorporate these questions into your dates or in your approaches? I can show you how to do it. Watch my video on how to talk to women here: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-talk-to-women-using-osa/

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How To Easily Talk To Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/#comments Wed, 14 Jan 2015 17:32:35 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18615 Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awesome … keep reading

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Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny…

It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!!

Not anymore. Because my awesome Wing Girl Jessica has created a simple, 3 step conversation mechanism that makes conversation come easy, no matter who you are talking to or what you are talking about.  AND can make women more interested in you in a matter of seconds.

This conversation mechanism can even make talking about fruit in the product department interesting.  I swear!

I wanted Jessica to share a little bit about her system so that you can see just how easy it is to create easy, fun conversation in a matter of seconds with just about anyone. I asked her if she was open to doing an interview with me and she of course said yes.

I’ve posted the interview below so that you can listen. I apologize in advance because the quality is not great. I was having issues with my Skype. BUT that doesn’t take away from the amazing information that Jessica shares with on how to easily talk to women everywhere you go.

Listen Here or download below:

I would highly suggest checking out Jessica’s program because it’s awesome.  It explains in more detail what she and I talked about in our interview on how to easily talk to women.

Click here to find out more.

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http://www.winggirlmethod.com/easily-talk-women/feed/ 0 0:00:01 Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awes[...] Talking to women can be tough.  Hell, talking to anyone can be tough. Creating conversation out of thin air, coming up with something interesting to say, being funny… It’s a lot of freakin pressure right??!!! Not anymore. Because my awesome Wing Girl Jessica has created a simple, 3 step conversation mechanism that makes conversation come easy, no matter who you are talking to or what you are talking about.  AND can make women more interested in you in a matter of seconds. This conversation mechanism can even make talking about fruit in the product department interesting.  I swear! I wanted Jessica to share a little bit about her system so that you can see just how easy it is to create easy, fun conversation in a matter of seconds with just about anyone. I asked her if she was open to doing an interview with me and she of course said yes. I’ve posted the interview below so that you can listen. I apologize in advance because the quality is not great. I was having issues with my Skype. BUT that doesn’t take away from the amazing information that Jessica shares with on how to easily talk to women everywhere you go. Listen Here or download below: I would highly suggest checking out Jessica’s program because it’s awesome.  It explains in more detail what she and I talked about in our interview on how to easily talk to women. Click here to find out more. The post How To Easily Talk To Women appeared first on Marni's Wing Girl Method. The post How To Easily Talk To Women appeared first on Marni's Wing Girl Method. Podcast Marni's Wing Girl Method yes no
How Nerds Can Get Girls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-can-get-girls/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-can-get-girls/#comments Fri, 09 Jan 2015 19:14:20 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18584 Did you know that being nerdy is now the in thing??  Well it’s true.  Maybe it’s because of that show The Big Bang Theory but women are now totally turned on and attracted to nerdy men. I thought this article … keep reading

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Did you know that being nerdy is now the in thing??  Well it’s true.  Maybe it’s because of that show The Big Bang Theory but women are now totally turned on and attracted to nerdy men.

I thought this article on How Nerds Can Get Girls was awesome and wanted to share it with you.  My comments are at the end:

How Nerds Can Get Girls
By: Sebastian from www.globalseducer.com

Are you a lonely nerd? In case you are one of the few nerds left that are not disguised hipsters, you don’t have to be ashamed about it. I can confidently say that I am one of the biggest nerds on the planet. I might not wear glasses that are bigger than my head but I love Star Wars and everything that is somehow related to Science Fiction. I even finished my Master of Science with a first class honors degree.

I have never been in any sports club and if you would put me on an American football field I wouldn’t survive the first three seconds. Nevertheless, I am extremely successful with women and at the moment I am in a relationship with the most wonderful girl you can imagine.

How is this possible?

Well, I chose another path than most nerds choose. Whenever I talk fellow nerds about dating related topics they always tell me how much they want to stop being nerds and start to be the cool guys who get the girls.

I love to look at their baffled faces whenever I tell them that the best they can do to get girls is to celebrate the fact that they are nerds. You can’t and you shouldn’t abandon your personality just because you think that this is what holds you back from attracting your dream girl.

The truth is that being a nerd doesn’t hold you back. The only thing that holds you back is the mis-belief that girls don’t like nerds. Let’s debunk this myth once and for all.

Don’t Become an Asshole

All guys who get the hot girls are assholes and jerks, right? Sorry but this is not true. There is a popular mis-belief among nerds who never had success with women that they need to become complete assholes in order to attract amazing girls into their life.

About two years ago I thought the same. I always saw those incredibly beautiful girls who ended up dating complete idiots. However, the more I learned about women, the more I realized that they don’t date those guys because they are assholes, but because they have certain characteristics that you don’t show.

No emotionally healthy woman wants to date a guy who treats her bad and no intelligent woman wants to end up in a relationship with a guy who is dumb as bread. The reason why they date those guys is because those men are confident, honest and because they are the only guys who have the balls to approach women.

You don’t have to become an asshole. All you have to do is to gain the confidence to approach women. I talked to a lot of my female friends about this topic and most of them told me that they would date a nerd. The only problem girls have is that they never meet one, because the typical nerd is too afraid to approach them.

Embrace Your Passion

What if you are attracted to a girl who doesn’t even know the difference between Star Wars and Star Trek?

That’s also no problem. As long as she gets the feeling that you are a passionate guy, it doesn’t really matter if she shares this passion. Girls are instinctively attracted to guys who are passionate about something. The number one reason why successful men are so attractive to women is because they are passionate about what they do.

You have to understand that men are driven by logical thinking and women are driven by emotions. It doesn’t matter if you trigger positive emotions inside a woman by enthusiastically telling her about your love for Star Wars or about your love for rap music.

All you have to do in order to communicate to a woman that being in a relationship with you will be a passionate experience is to show her that you are a passionate man.

 

Think About the Girls You Want to Attract

If you read one science book per day and your favorite video game is World of Warcraft you should think about what kind of girls you want to attract into your life. I know how tempting it can be when you see one of those hot girls who wear more makeup than a drag queen but do you really want to date those girls?

Especially nerds who have no experience with women would nearly do everything to show all the people who ever made fun of them how awesome they are. I know from my own experience that dating a girl just to brag with her will eventually backfire.

Besides not dating women for bragging purposes, you should also think about what women you really want. Don’t sell yourself short. Imagine how your life would look like if you would have a girlfriend who has never read a book in her life.

Back in the days when I was completely unsuccessful with women I thought that no girl would ever want to date a guy who considers Luke Skywalker as his childhood hero. Guess which movie I watched last weekend with my girlfriend?

Not all girls on this planet live for their fingernails and Miley Cyrus. If you stay true to your nerdy side you will eventually attracted the girls into your life who love you for being the nerd you are.

Marni’s Comments:  I love this article because it’s so in line with everything I teach at The Wing Girl Method.  The key points to take away from this article are that no matter what kind of “type” of guy you are, you gotta own it. Be happy about it and not be afraid that being that type of guy is going to turn women off.

If you are a nerd, be a nerd.

If you are a jock, be a jock.

If you are a music junky, be a music junky!!!

Men who own who they are, get girls.

Want to know how to approach and talk to women?  Then click here to check out my program How To Become A Man Women Want and I’ll teach you how to use your nerdiness to your benefit ;-)

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Mock Date With A Wing Girl (SKYPE) http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mock-date-wing-girl-skype/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mock-date-wing-girl-skype/#comments Mon, 05 Jan 2015 23:20:34 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18572 Have you ever wondered why you never heard from a girl again, when you thought there was definitely SOMETHING there? Want to know if you are a good date or bad date? Sign up for a Mock Date with a … keep reading

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Have you ever wondered why you never heard from a girl again, when you thought there was definitely SOMETHING there? Want to know if you are a good date or bad date? Sign up for a Mock Date with a Wing Girl and find out where you are going wrong and how you can change it.  Includes: 30 minute mock date over skype, video of your mock date and a full analysis report on your dates reactions, thoughts and full experience of being with you as well as follow up instructions and exercises.

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Why Women Love Jerks – Or Do They? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-love-jerks/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-love-jerks/#comments Mon, 05 Jan 2015 20:55:26 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18565 A new friend and wing girl of mine, Duana C. Welch, Ph.D. is going to explain the scientific reason behind why women love jerks! Read her article below and I would love to hear what you think! Why Women Love … keep reading

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A new friend and wing girl of mine, Duana C. Welch, Ph.D. is going to explain the scientific reason behind why women love jerks!

Read her article below and I would love to hear what you think!

Why Women Love Jerks~and what you can do about it

Do women truly prefer jerks~men who treat them rudely, who act like they could take ‘em or leave ‘em, or who actually do take them…then leave them?

I myself prefer good, true, honest, loving, kind, faithful men—most especially the nice guy I married.  I’d choose him again and again.

And yet we all know women who can’t seem to get excited about or stay with anyone but a jerk.  So yes, it’s true: Some women want jerks.  The bigger question is why.

The Status

Think back to your high school days.  Now shudder.  Now remember the guy who got all the girls.  Yeah, him.  I’ll bet he was a jerk.

Chicks dig status.  In high school, status comes from having the quickest wit or the most athletic prowess, or both.  All humor is pain redefined.  The funniest guy in high school is typically hilarious at others’ expense.  And jocks are not always known for throwing their weight around in the kindest possible ways.

The Money

The reason girls love status is the same one women do: In study after study, it’s associated with a man’s ability to provide and protect.  Just as the toughest jock would have made a great protector in the ancient past—where all human mating psychology comes from—women today are drawn to whoever gets them and their kids/genes to survive.  In today’s terms, that means money.

And jerks have money.  Across a series of studies, the “jerk perk” is worth about $10k a year on average, or 18% more than more agreeable male peers.  They aren’t better employees, but they have no hesitations about putting themselves or their interests forward.  And that leads to ka-ching.

The Panties

There’s an industry directed at teaching men to be jerks—to alternately fake long-term interest, feign indifference, and/or pretend they’ve got more money (or degrees, cars, houses) than they really do.   The idea is that women find jerks exciting in a moist-panties kinda way, giving jerks sex they’d never lavish on nice guys.

There’s probably something to it, if a quick lay is all you’re after.

In extensive research, some women who’ve already secured a husband will pick up some on the side based at least partly on the fling’s resources.   This desire for a guy with goods—even if he’s not a good guy—may also inspire the occasional unpartnered woman to have casual sex.  A cocky attitude may of itself tell a woman a guy has the resources, and lying can cover the rest.

Your Mission

And now we get to the part where I’m supposed to tell you what to do about all this.  So here it is:

Keep being a nice guy.

If you’re reading all this, you’re probably a nice guy.  Maybe you’re tired of being friend-zoned, or watching how easy it is for other guys to get sex.  You might have been hurt one too many times.

Here’s the deal, though.  Being rejected is part of your job description—jerk or not.  Nothing is going to save you from that.  Men are the pursuers, and by definition, most women aren’t going to be into most guys who approach, regardless of strategy.

Jerks probably do get laid more easily in casual sex scenarios.  But they don’t get or stay married more easily; they aren’t loved more, or longer.  Factually, their lives and loves are crappier—not happier.

In numerous studies, jerks are, by their own admission, less relationship-oriented, friendly, forgiving, trusting, helpful, warm, caring, cooperative, and sympathetic than non-jerks—precisely the opposite of the kind, loving, loyal heart women in 37 cultures and countries say they absolutely require in a mate. Jerks are less well-liked, they have more stress, and they have suckier lives, other than the money.

Plus, even the nicest guys make more money per year, on average, than women of any personality description.  So nice guys are still competitive financially.

And money isn’t everything.  In many decades of science, it’s clear that once you have enough money for the basics, you won’t be substantially happier with more.

No, everything is actually the way two people in love relate to one another.

Jerks aren’t into relating.  But nice guys tend to show a woman that they genuinely like and care about her.  They take the brave risks of saying that they’re in love, and backing it up with their behavior.  I can’t overstate this: In studies, the most attractive thing you can do is to openly admire the person you’re with.  Liking leads to liking.

Basically, women are attracted to jerks because they believe jerks command resources; the qualities jerks have that lead to that assumption are self-confidence; the ability to walk away from anything that does not meet their standards (i.e.,self-confidence); and the ability to risk themselves in flirting with a woman even if she does not at first seem interested (also self-confidence).  There’s never been a cologne called Desperation–and there never will be.  Self-confidence is the sexiest thing on the planet, and women are drawn to it.  Nurture your self-worth and you can get the girl without being, or even faking being, a jerk.

So, nice guys, keep being nice.  If you’re going to change something, change your idea that somehow, being a jerk will give you a better life or love, or guaranteed success with women.  It won’t.

In reviewing 40+ years of solid science on long-term love, here’s what I know for sure: If you can find and be someone kind and respectful, your relationship will work well, and if you can’t it won’t.  Getting together with a woman who needs you to be a jerk so she’ll be into you is a guarantee of misery.

Upshot?  Your character counts.  Nice guys finish first in every way that matters.  Be one, openly.

And good riddance to anyone who wanted you to be a jerk.

By: Duana C. Welch, Ph.D., is the author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, releasing on January 7, 2015.  See more at http://www.lovefactually.co

WHAT DID YOU THINK?  Leave a comment below and let me know what you thought of this article. Do you agree? If not, why not? Share :-)

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The Chick-Tionary http://www.winggirlmethod.com/chick-tionary-hidden-meaning-behind-women-say/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/chick-tionary-hidden-meaning-behind-women-say/#comments Fri, 12 Dec 2014 23:31:07 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18541 The Chick-tionary: The Hidden Meaning Behind What Women Say & Do This manual gives the full run down of ALL THE THINGS women say that confuses men, written in dictionary format Includes: Bonus MP3 Interviews with beautiful women revealing what … keep reading

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The Chick-tionary: The Hidden Meaning Behind What Women Say & Do

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How To Avoid Being Clingy With Women: The Cling Distractor http://www.winggirlmethod.com/avoid-clingy-women-cling-distractor/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/avoid-clingy-women-cling-distractor/#comments Wed, 19 Nov 2014 03:12:43 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18498 “He just liked me too much” is exactly what my Wing Girl Karla told me after I asked her “he sounds great, why aren’t you into him?” Words like Karla’s must frustrate you to no end. And I’m sure you’re … keep reading

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“He just liked me too much” is exactly what my Wing Girl Karla told me after I asked her “he sounds great, why aren’t you into him?”

Words like Karla’s must frustrate you to no end.

And I’m sure you’re thinking, how is it bad if a guy likes a girl too much??
Isn’t that what women want???

Well…

No.

We don’t want you to like us too much, especially in the beginning.

We don’t want you to focus all your attention on us and forget about the life you had created prior to meeting us.

We don’t want you to text us throughout the day, call us every night and try to make plans every day.

At least we don’t want any of this before we feel the same way about you.

Confusing right??

Basically, what I’m trying to get at is that we don’t want a man to be sooooo into us, sooooo fast.

It feels needy.

Weak.

AND CLINGY!!!

Which are all things that are not attractive to us women.

So what do you do to avoid being seen as needy or weak or CLINGY??

You learn self control, patience and how to sooth your emotional needs.

In other words you learn not to pounce on a woman and give her time to miss you, wonder if you like her and be curious as to whether or not she’ll hear from you again.

This is exactly what Karla said to me after I asked her to explain what this guy should have done with her so that she didn’t lose her attraction for him.

There are many ways you can refocus your pouncing desires, so that they don’t land on a woman you just started seeing.

Something I do and that I recommend to ALL my clients is to select a friend that can be your “Cling Distractor“.

Yep. You heard me right.

A Cling Distractor.

This is a friend that you text or call or hang out with whenever you get an itch/urge to contact the girl you just met or just started dating.

This friend is given the sole responsibility of giving you that fix you need to calm your urge to pounce and possibly become to clingy.

You can tell this friend that they are your Cling Distractor or not. But use them to distract you and your emotions from becoming too clingy.

It’s not always a complete fixer of soothing your urge, but it’s definitely a distraction that could save you from coming on to strong with this girl and being seen as CLINGY.

Select your Cling Distractor well in advance of getting into a situation with a girl so that you have him or her from the start.

I can even be your Cling Distractor.

I’m already doing this for a lot of guys and some of my girlfriends.

If you want me as your Cling Distractor go here:

==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/email-coaching-program/

That link takes you to a page to sign up for my email coaching program. But you can also use this service to have me as your Cling Distractor.

You can email me when you feel an urge to reach out to a girl you just met or just started to date.

It stops you from over contacting the new girl and saves you screwing things up by over texting, becoming needy or getting too clingy.

Trust me. Getting a Cling Distractor will be the best thing you ever did.

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Serial killers make GREAT boyfriends.

What?!

Now before you say, “Marni, are you CRAZY?!”, hear me out.

Because in just a moment I’ll explain what that controversial statement is all about…

But first I need to confirm that you haven’t been living under a rock these last couple of years, because if you not you’ll have heard of a little book called 50 Shades of Grey.

It’s basically an erotic novel that’s sold over 100 million copies and the book’s main character, Christian Grey, is the ultimate bad boy.

The book’s success has shown us there’s heaps to learn about the type of man women really want from the fictional characters they fantasize about.

Why?

Because characters are the reason why both men and women fall in love with books, movies and TV series. NOT special effects and silly plot twists. No characters = no story.

50 Shades of Grey sold millions of copies because women fell in love with the male protagonist, Christian Grey.

He’s a dark, manipulative and controlling man who goes against everything society tells you women want, yet Anastasia (his lover) falls desperately in love with him.

Now any logical person would think he must be a wild card. An anomaly.

The majority of fictional boyfriends women dream of dating can’t possibly be all like this?

To answer this question once and for all, my friends over at Dating Metrics went on a mission to uncover the truth.

Since women love expressing their infatuation for fictional TV boyfriends in lengthy articles online, they trawled through dozens of “most dateable TV character” list and looked for patterns…

53 lists and 444 votes later they made a controversial discovery that was more disturbing than you could possibly imagine…

TV Vampires, Psychopaths & Serial Killers: Perfect Boyfriend Material?

If the fact that only 14% of these guys are “nice” isn’t the biggest wake up call you’ve ever had – then I honestly don’t know what is.

**I put quotations around nice because when describing men nice doesn’t hold a true definition.  NICE translate to weak or wimp or not being bold. 

Bad boys don’t just dominate the results. They clean up.

Keep in mind that Bad boys DOES NOT MEAN A*holes. Very different category of man.

To get the same success with women that these Bad Boys receive, all you need to do is adopt some of these bad boy traits and you’ll be well on your way to becoming perfect boyfriend material.

10 Bad Boy Traits that Get the Girls:

1. Manly Man – Women like manly men who lead, so give them direction. You’re a man who gets what he wants. Quit saying “maybe” and start using more assertive vocabulary like “let’s”, “I want” etc to show women you’re in control.

2. Protector – Stand up for what you believe in, even if that means disagreeing with the woman you like. When you show you’re incorruptible, that you’re not a pushover and will protect what you believe in at all costs women will respect you and be drawn to you.

3. Put Yourself First – When you put yourself first women will never think to put you last.

4. Set Your Own Rules – Stick you your own beliefs, ignore society’s constraints and stop asking for permission or approval.

5. Be Elusive and Indifferent – The less emotion you give off the more emotion women will try to extract from you. Maintain an elusive “I don’t give a sh*t” attitude and you’ll get women wondering about you.

6. Be Unpredictable – Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and unpredictable. Mix it up. Become less available, less consistent and more spontaneous to keep women on their toes.

7. A Challenge to Tie Down – The less you need other people, the more other people will need you. So as soon as you give off the vibe that you don’t need women to make your life complete, women will come flocking.

8. Take More Risks – Taking risks is always better than playing it safe because you’ll stand out amongst overly cautious guys. Women aren’t interested in guys who can’t push their emotional buttons, so adopt a “nothing to lose” attitude and start teasing women more when they least expect it.

9. Dress The Part – Your outer style and the way you put yourself together is 1 clear indicator of what kind of man you are.  Dress the part of a well groomed, put together bad boy and women will see you that way.

10. Unleash Your Sexual Desire – If you’re sexually attracted to a woman do not hint mildly that you’re interested in sexual relations. That’s not sexy. Instead, express yourself, because unapologetically showing sexual desire is extremely arousing for women.

To be honest, I really wish I could change the way that both men and women view the term BAD BOY because to me, bad boy just =’s awesome, confident, leading man who values himself and owns who he is and what he wants.

I guess “bad boy” is just a shorter way of saying that, ha. B

UT the thing is that Bad Boy just gives it a negative spin that guys can confuse with being an A**hole.

As you can see above, in the listed 10 Bad Boy Traits That Get Girls, traits desired by woman have nothing to do with being “bad” or “rude” or “mean” or an “a**hole”. In fact, it’s quite the opposite.

Do you wish that when a woman saw you she thought “now that’s the kind of guy I want to be with.”  The kind of guy that make her toes curl and has her excited to talk to you?? The “bad boy” she craves??

Read this: How To Get Bad Boy Traits That Get Girls

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Which one do you like? (Pictures of Marni The Wing Girl) http://www.winggirlmethod.com/one-like-pictures-marni-wing-girl/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/one-like-pictures-marni-wing-girl/#comments Wed, 12 Nov 2014 16:48:27 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18473 I need your help! I did a photo shoot the other day and I need your help picking the best picture of me for my website.  I’m also going to use these pictures for media stuff as well but I … keep reading

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I need your help!

I did a photo shoot the other day and I need your help picking the best picture of me for my website.  I’m also going to use these pictures for media stuff as well but I want to pick a really good new picture for my site.

I can’t keep using one from 3 years ago, ha.

I’ve posted my 7 favorite pictures from the photo shoot below and I would LOVE if you could tell me which ones you like best.  Actually, I would love to hear your top 3!!!

Just let me know in the comments below or email me: winggirl@winggirlmethod.com

Thanks in advance.  This would really really help me a lot and I’ll owe you big time :-)
NOTE: These are still proofs, which is why the word “proof” is on them, ha.

Photos By: Bobby Quillard

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What Do You Think? Be honest! Which ones do you like best? Let me know by writing your response in the comments section below.

 

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Questions To Ask On Dates http://www.winggirlmethod.com/questions-ask-dates/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/questions-ask-dates/#comments Thu, 06 Nov 2014 15:59:57 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18462 Just got off the phone with one of my private coaching clients who is getting prepped for a speed dating event tonight.  I typically practice conversation and leadership skills with guys to help them be prepped before they go on … keep reading

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Just got off the phone with one of my private coaching clients who is getting prepped for a speed dating event tonight.  I typically practice conversation and leadership skills with guys to help them be prepped before they go on dates or a to events.  My client is kind of goofy so I wanted to find him some fun, quirky questions he could ask at the event.  It’s always great to have some conversation ideas in your back pocket, just in case you get stuck.

I stumbled on this great article a site called NY Easy Dates, that gave 10 Quirky Questions To Ask When Speed Dating.  (That I know can also be used on dates)

I think they are awesome and wanted to share them.  Would LOVE if you could add your own in the comments section below.

10 quirky questions to help you both enjoy your short time together, and to help your date remember you when it comes to making selections:

  1. If you were a stalker, would you be really good at it? (This helps you find out if he or she is determined and resourceful!)
  2. What would be your reaction if you were told that you had to marry the first person you ever had a crush on? (Everyone has a funny first love story…)
  3. What embarrassing incident would you absolutely refuse to tell me about? No, go on, you can tell me, I feel we’ve become close. (If he/she tells you, and the date doesn’t work out, then you can always post it on the internet)
  4. Which television program would you refuse to give up for a date with me? (if he/she says FOX News, it?s probably not going to work out).
  5. What country would you most recommend that I visit? For example, after we?ve broken up, and you would prefer me on the other side of the world?
  6. If people were thrown in jail for bad habits, what (or who) would you be thrown in jail for? (Might as well know early what these issues are)
  7. When something cool happens in a movie, are you one of those who clap, or one of those who smile condescendingly at the clappers?
  8. If I knew your full name, and googled it, will I be more likely to want to date you, or less likely, or remain completely uninformed?
  9. At the Olympic Games for people with excellent dating histories, would you win a medal?
  10. What would be your chosen superpower? Would you use it for good or evil?

The reason why these questions are so good, is because they immediately trigger a woman’s primal brain.  A.K.A – This will capture her attention. At least for another 30 seconds.

NOTE: Once you ask one of these questions and a woman responds, YOU MUST do the following:

- Let her know she’s been heard.  For now, you can simply repeat back what she has said to you. “Really? You wish you were invisible?”

- THEN you share.  DO NOT ask another question. Notice the CAPS. That means I’m serious ;-) .  If you ask another question and do not share, it will literally suck any spark out of her.  E.g. – “I would want to be able to fly.  Ever since I was 4 years old I had these dreams about flying…”.

Try it, love it and make it happen.

DON’T FORGET to make a comment below and add in your favorite questions to ask on a date.

 

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Does Penis Size Matter To Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/penis-size-matter-to-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/penis-size-matter-to-women/#comments Wed, 05 Nov 2014 23:45:06 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18456 Ahhh!! The age old debate of whether or not penis size matters to women.  I’ve tackled this topic many times and have always come to the conclusion that NO penis size does not matter. The thing is that many men … keep reading

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Ahhh!! The age old debate of whether or not penis size matters to women.  I’ve tackled this topic many times and have always come to the conclusion that NO penis size does not matter.

The thing is that many men still believe that penis size matters to women. So this time, I brought in the science guns to tackle this topic.  A new friend and wing girl of mine, Duana C. Welch, Ph.D. is going to explain the scientific reason behind why penis size does NOT matter to women. At least not the way you think it does.

Read her article below and I would love to hear what you think!

Penis Size: When it matters, when it doesn’t, and what to do about it

Want a bigger penis?

You’ve got company.

In studies, almost half of self-defined “average-size” men are worried about their penile dimensions.   The question guys ask me most often is whether their junk is too teeny.  Some have even sent pix!  (Yes, really.  No, please do not send yours.)

What’s Small?

In the official bell (ball?) curve of peni, scientific measurements show that:

–almost 70% of men’s peni are between 4.6 and 6.0 inches, erect, with a normal girth of 4.8 inches;

—13.5% of men’s penises are between 3.8 and 4.5 inches, and 13.5% are between 6.1 and 6.8 inches;

—and a very few (2.5% at each end of the distribution) are over 6.9 inches or under 3.7 inches long.

And size definitely matters–to men.  About 90% of men who think they’re small want a larger penis—as do nearly half of self-defined “average” guys, and 14% of self-described “large” men (greedy bastards!).  Sadly, 15% of self-judged “small” men even admit hiding their genitals during sex.

What Do Women Want? 

Apparently, most guys buy into the sales pitches promising Sex God status to the hugely endowed, believing the porn industry’s unfavorable comparisons with mere mortals, and the seemingly resultant ecstasy porn stars inspire in their onscreen lovers.

But what do women think about this?

Not much.

First, women’s perceptions of their partner’s size may be more generous than the real-life bell curve! 

Hard science finds that almost 67% of women say their guy’s penis is of average size, 27% say it’s large~and just 6% say it’s small. 

Let me say that again: A mere 6% of women say their guy’s penis is small.

Yet even then, “small” doesn’t necessarily equal “bad” in most women’s opinions.  Yeah, there are a few size queens out there—but not many. 

When size matters to women:

Women who have sex just for adventure—a tiny fraction of women!—admit they do it to see whether different sizes make for different sexual satisfaction. Interestingly, these women usually say they don’t like the biggest penises, because there’s not enough, um, wiggle room.

And a statistical few women require pressure against the cervix in order to have an orgasm—meaning they really do require some length, because during arousal, the vagina expands so the cervix takes 5-to-6 inches to reach.

And when it doesn’t:

But the vast majority of women are satisfied with their partner’s penis size.  In the USA, 84% of USA women are “very satisfied” with their partner’s size.  Just 14% want larger, and 2% want smaller.  One-third are satisfied even when they define their partner as “small”!

Upshot?  The vast majority of women are totally fine with their partner’s Penis Size.  And thus, men’s worries are (usually) pointless, as far as dimensions go.

That’s the science.  But it’s also my experience.  I’ve been writing about sex and relationships for many years; women and men in 30 countries read my blog; and never has even one woman approached me to complain about her partner’s size, nor to ask how she can get her man to be bigger.

Don’t you think that if this were a real concern for women, I would have heard from at least one by now?

What To Do: 

It’s true: Just like you guys, we women have sex primarily for physical pleasure, and we’ll often cheat on or leave a lame lay.  But the size of your dick is not what we equate with that!

Nope.  To judge your sexual prowess, we judge whether you make us orgasm.  Which is surprisingly unrelated to your penis, but is related to the following:

Your knowledge and attitude:

How well do you get to know a woman’s individual sexual needs and pleasures?

Every woman is different, a puzzle that no one strategy or technique will put together.  Some evolutionary psychologists even think this is a way for women to test whether you will love them enough to stick around.  Guys who figure us out pass the test.   Men who do Whatever The Hell It Takes pass the test.

Maybe that’s one reason women with smaller partners tend to be more sexually satisfied.  Their men know they can’t rely on their peni; they get creative, and put in all the effort to make sure their partner reaches climax.

Your relationship with The Clitoris:

Only a fourth of women ever come during penetration.  Ever.

That’s because of our size, not yours.  Specifically, the distance of a woman’s clit from her vagina is what helps her, or hinders her, from orgasming during intercourse.

So guys who are great lays focus their efforts on the outside of their partner’s body—on the clitoris, which every single penis and tongue and finger in existence can reach.

Still don’t believe me?  100% of women stimulate their clit every single time they masturbate, yet only 20% even occasionally put something in their vagina.

This hints that women think the clitoris is Supremely Important in orgasming.  You should, too.

Your relationship with your woman:

A huge part of sexual pleasure for many women is whether the emotional vibe is right; a technically great lover who is emotionally absent can be an empty experience.  When we’re in long-term relationship mode, we women want your heart and soul, too.

So—in short ;) I would advise you to understand that no man has universally got the endowment that women are universally looking for, because there is no “universal” here.  But most men have plenty for most women.

And all men can reach the parts of women that really bond us to you: our hearts and our clitorises.

Go forth with confidence and remember that your best sex organs—the ones women really want—are between your ears and within your heart.  Figure out what an individual woman wants, rather than what we all want—and then give it to her with love and enthusiasm.

You will be irresistible, and rightly so.

By: Duana C. Welch, Ph.D., is the author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, releasing on January 7, 2015.  See more at http://www.lovefactually.co

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What To Say When She Says I Have A Boyfriend http://www.winggirlmethod.com/say-says-boyfriend/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/say-says-boyfriend/#comments Mon, 03 Nov 2014 20:34:02 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18305 Watching glee last night and there was a PERFECT example of what to say when she says I have a boyfriend. This guy gives a great example of how to respond with confidence and comfort while clearly stating his attentions. … keep reading

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Watching glee last night and there was a PERFECT example of what to say when she says I have a boyfriend. This guy gives a great example of how to respond with confidence and comfort while clearly stating his attentions.

Watch the FLV Version Here:

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Has this ever happened to you?

You’ve been hanging out with a girl, you’re into her, and you think she’s into you. Then one day you make a move and she tells you she just wants to be friends.
 
You’re blindsided! Your ego is bruised! You wonder how you could have gotten this wrong!

What happened was you misread her signs.

And it’s not your fault at all.

Because the signs women give are super subtle and very hard to pick up on. 

That’s why I asked my new Wing Girl, Marissa, to tell you how to tell if she wants you vs. just wants to be friends.

Marissa is awesome! She’s blond, she’s single, she gets hit on
all the time and I guarantee you would want to date her if you saw
her.

Who better to get advice from than a woman like her right?

FLIRTY OR FRIENDLY:
HOW TO TELL IF SHE WANTS YOU OR JUST WANTS TO BE YOUR FRIEND

By Marissa Madsen from the 20s vs 30s webisodes

I totally get how men can be baffled when it comes to women. We’re pretty damn confusing.  When are we being flirty vs. just being friendly?

A couple of really important things for you to know is:

1. Women can flirt with you even if they don’t want anything more from you.

2. Women actually believe that men and women can be friends. Which means that you may have the intention of approaching her because you want to date/sleep/be with her but her intention is simply friendship. Just because she LIKES you doesn’t mean she’s ATTRACTED to you.

When a girl is flirting with you, she’ll give you “extras”: Extra long eye contact, extra touches, she’ll try to get into long conversations or find excuses to hang out with you alone.

She’ll find ways to show you she’s open to something MORE. For example, agreeing to your suggested plans or responding to your texts/calls promptly with more an “Lol” or “ha”.

If she’s just being friendly, she won’t give you the “extras”, just the “basics”.

She’ll be nice, even physically affectionate, she’ll hang with you on her terms… but that’s it.

Also, if a girl isn’t feeling it, but thinks you ARE, she’ll give you LESS than the basics, to make sure you get the message. She’ll be polite, maybe even proper with you. She’ll give you platonic hugs or even hold off from touching you. She won’t try to get you alone. She may even talk to you about other guys she’s interested in, which if nothing else has gotten the message across, should drive the point home.

I know you may think that these behaviors are tests, but they are definitely not tests or signs to pursue harder.

They are signs that she’s not into you.

Now, these are guidelines. Remember that each woman is different and has their own individual BASELINE for how she acts with guys. You want to get to know her so you can figure out her “baseline”.

If she’s super affectionate with all of her guy friends, a big hug from her is not an indication that she wants you.

If she’s comfortable around her other guy friends, but then gets shy and blush-y around just YOU, then you can take that as a sign that you have a certain effect on her.

Find out her norm so you can see where you fall on the spectrum.

I recently had a guy friend reveal his feelings for me. I was surprised; I thought he could tell by my signs that I wasn’t into him!

I even suspected that he was attracted to me, so I tried extra hard to get the message across… giving him less than the basics.  But still, he told me he was sure there was something between us: Because of how I connect with him in conversation, how much I enjoy hanging out with him, how I’m so sweet to him and laugh at all his jokes…

Not only did my friend not pay attention to my baseline (I laugh at a lot of people’s jokes…), he had a serious case of tunnel vision.

He only took what he wanted from our interactions, never paying attention to my signs: I didn’t make plans with him alone, I would tell him about other guys I was into, I didn’t give him extra affection… the list goes on and on.

By learning the signs that women give you, getting out of your tunnel vision, and being aware of her baseline, you will have the upper hand in avoiding these sticky situations. STOP wasting time on someone who doesn’t want you.

Be a savvy sign-reader and you’ll find someone who DOES.

Want to learn the 13 Signs Women give that tell you it’s on???

Read them here:
==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/13-signs-shes-flirting-with-you/

 

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Ask Women Podcast Live Event At Hollywood Improv http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-live-event-hollywood-improv/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-live-event-hollywood-improv/#comments Wed, 08 Oct 2014 23:44:18 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18265 I cordially invite you to join me and the team from The Ask Women Podcast for our first ever LIVE recording of our podcast!! Get your tickets here: ==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/liveshow To be honest, you may have myself and Kristen all … keep reading

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I cordially invite you to join me and the team from The Ask Women Podcast for our first ever LIVE recording of our podcast!!

Get your tickets here:

==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/liveshow

To be honest, you may have myself and Kristen all to yourself since we already believe no one will come to this, ha.  Kidding!  I mean, our family will be there ;-)

But seriously, I would love to for you to come to this show which is being held at the historical Hollywood Improv on October 19th at 7pm.

Tickets are only $10 and that gives you a whole hour with Kristen and I plus our special voice of man for the night Greg Fitzsimmons PLUS another special guest.

You can also ask us questions and we’ll answer live and in person.

AND…

We are going to stick around after the show for a meet and greet just in case you want your questions answered privately and not for public consumption.

I would really love for you to come and support us in our first ever live taping of the Ask Women Podcast.

You can get full details on there show here;

==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/liveshow

And if you  have any questions for this specific show please send them to:

ask@askwomenpodcast.com with the subject title: I want to struggle with you!

Hopefully I’ll see you at the Live show!

Let me know if you are coming.

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