Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Tue, 24 Mar 2015 21:39:00 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.2 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes Erectile Dysfunction: Kegel Exercises and Other Tips For Lasting Longer In Bed http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kegel-exercises-last-longer-bed/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kegel-exercises-last-longer-bed/#comments Tue, 24 Mar 2015 21:39:00 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18788 I want to talk about Erectile Dysfunction, commonly referred to as ED, is the inability to achieve and sustain an erection suitable for sexual intercourse. I have a couple of great resources below that can help you if you are … keep reading

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I want to talk about Erectile Dysfunction, commonly referred to as ED, is the inability to achieve and sustain an erection suitable for sexual intercourse. I have a couple of great resources below that can help you if you are suffering from ED.

According to the National Institutes of Health, approximately 5% of 40-year-old men and between 15% and 25% of 65-year-old men experience ED on a long-term basis.

Failure to achieve an erection less than 20% of the time is not unusual and treatment is rarely needed.

Failure to achieve an erection more than 50% of the time, however, generally indicates there is a problem requiring treatment.

If you happen to experience ED every once in awhile (20% or less), then I have a couple of great resources for you.

Resource #1

Video instructions on how to do Kegel exercises. Kegel exercises strengthen the bulbocavernosus muscle. This important muscle does three jobs: it allows the penis to engorge with blood during erection, it pumps during ejaculation, and it helps empty the urethra after urination.

Even if you don’t experience any signs of ED, Kegel exercises are still great to do so that you can strengthen your muscles. Strong pelvic muscles can translate to lasting longer which means more pleasure!

Resource #2

David Shades Program on how to overcome ED, PE, and DE without pills, shots or potions.

I had asked around my “expert circles” for a good resource that will help with ED and about 7 people recommended David’s program.

Now, I don’t have ED. So I can’t completely provide a testimonial for this resource.  I can however provide a testimonial for David and I know that he would never create anything that was not amazing quality.

You can check out his product by clicking here

NOTE: This link will take you a sales video that will tell you all about David’s program.

I know that ED is a real thing and that having any symptoms of ED can drastically effect your sex life and your overall psychological state.

Hopefully these resources help!

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5 Habits of Charismatic People http://www.winggirlmethod.com/5-habits-charismatic-people/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/5-habits-charismatic-people/#comments Mon, 16 Mar 2015 18:57:01 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18776 For the past month I have been obsessed with Body Language and The Habits of Charismatic People. I’m obsessed with it because I am considering creating a very cool new program on attractive body language (more on that later). While … keep reading

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For the past month I have been obsessed with Body Language and The Habits of Charismatic People. I’m obsessed with it because I am considering creating a very cool new program on attractive body language (more on that later).

While researching body language and the habits of charismatic people, I stumbled upon an amazing and beautiful woman named Vanessa Van Edwards who also happens to be a body language expert.

I wanted to share one of her videos with you on the 5 habits of charismatic people because I know you can definitely use this to help you be more successful when dating and interacting with the opposite sex.

Watch the video below and then tell me what you think. My comments are below:

So how can you use Vanessa’s findings in your dating life???  The answer is, VERY EASILY.  I’ll go over what you learned from her video and then tell you how to use this in your own life.

In the video you learned:

1. To ask better questions and LISTEN (see a list of awesome questions here)

2. To not focus on being perfect because perfect people are annoying and not liked as much as people with little imperfections

3. Don’t use negative words to talk about others because your date will associate those negative words about others.

4. See the positives in others

5. Show your hands and be open

6.  EYE CONTACT, EYE CONTACT, EYE CONTACT

So how do you use this information?  You make sure that all of your conversations and interactions include these 6 things.  When you talk to a member of the opposite sex, be positive, listen, make eye contact, show your hands, ask open ended/good questions and don’t worry about being perfect.

And if you need help doing any of these things, I can help.  Read more here…

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How To Avoid The Friend Zone: Q & A With Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/avoid-friend-zone-q-marni/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/avoid-friend-zone-q-marni/#comments Thu, 12 Mar 2015 21:05:13 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18773 I love when I get to share my coaching success stories with you guys! This one is awesome because the guy who wrote me COMPLETELY dodged the dreaded Friend Zone and set himself up for success with a woman (and … keep reading

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I love when I get to share my coaching success stories with you guys!

This one is awesome because the guy who wrote me COMPLETELY dodged the dreaded Friend Zone and set himself up for success with a woman (and ALL others)!!

In my video below “How to Avoid the Friend Zone”, I share his experience and show you EXACTLY what he did right. And I want you to have the same success with any woman you’re after.

Watch the video to hear what he did:

This guy followed 2 simple (but ESSENTIAL!!) guidelines perfectly.

#1. He consistently flirted with the girl in question, never letting the sexual tension drop.
Though she was attracted to him, she was basically treating him like a girl friend; someone to be there for her while she made up her mind about the situation. Before you get too mad at all women for being this way, we do have a good reason for it :) …We’re INSECURE!

We don’t want to feel like nobody wants us at the end of the day so we try to protect ourselves.

Well this smart guy wasn’t going to fall prey to that classic Friend Zone move.

He made absolutely sure that she not only saw him in a sexual light, but that he was direct in his intentions toward her.

Women have to know: if we want a puppy dog, we should go out and buy one ;}

This guy made sure she knew he wanted her and wasn’t going to settle for less. He didn’t compromise his wants and desires in order to please her or keep hanging out with her. And we girls know that there is basically nothing more ATTRACTIVE than that!!

#2. This guy stuck to his convictions and put the ball in her court.

As I explain in the video, the girl was being wishy-washy (as women tend to be…). He told her, in so many words, You know how I feel. Call me when you’ve made up your mind.

I LOVE this because it’s the definition of manning up!! And so do all women ;)

What this guy did is made it clear he was not going to play her game. With the first guideline, he made his desires known to her. And with the second, he showed her that he wasn’t going to hang around waiting for her to “pick him over her ex.”

This totally works in his favor: It’s sexy. It’s masculine. The girl is probably wondering what she’s missing not being with him.

Even though the outcome wasn’t what the guy had hoped for, the important thing was that he proved that sticking to his masculine convictions made him a BETTER man, with a STRONG sense of self-worth, self-respect, and it also set him up for success with women in the future.

So I want you to remember, YOU are the only one who can put YOU in the friend zone!!

Act like a real man and she will have no choice but to see you that way.

Want to learn how to get out of the friend zone and stay out forever??? Read more here…

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How To Pleasure A Woman: Sex Advice For Men From A Lesbian http://www.winggirlmethod.com/pleasure-woman-sex-advice-men-lesbian/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/pleasure-woman-sex-advice-men-lesbian/#comments Fri, 06 Mar 2015 16:54:49 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18754 Want advice on how to pleasure a woman??  Then you gotta go to the source to get real tips and sex advice!  Which is why I asked Jess the lesbian to give you her best tips on how to pleasure … keep reading

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Want advice on how to pleasure a woman??  Then you gotta go to the source to get real tips and sex advice!  Which is why I asked Jess the lesbian to give you her best tips on how to pleasure a woman.

Watch this video get real sex advice from a lesbian!

Want more sex advice??  Hear what former Suicide Girl Darrah de Jour says she likes in the bedroom.  Click here to find out!

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Contributor: DatingAdvice.com http://www.winggirlmethod.com/contributor-datingadvice-com/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/contributor-datingadvice-com/#comments Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:16:38 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18748 Marni is now a regular contributor for DatingAdvice.com Check out her latest video here: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/5-correct-ways-to-flirt-with-women

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Marni is now a regular contributor for DatingAdvice.com

Check out her latest video here:

http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/5-correct-ways-to-flirt-with-women

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How To Turn Around Rejection With Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/turn-around-rejection-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/turn-around-rejection-women/#comments Sun, 01 Mar 2015 20:20:03 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18734 I just got an awesome email from one my clients with an example of what to say to a woman, when she has rejected you online. You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you (hopefully … keep reading

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I just got an awesome email from one my clients with an example of what to say to a woman, when she has rejected you online.

You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you (hopefully with my help that never happens, but just in case).

You can use a variation of this on women you meet in real life or online.  The example below is an online example and it’s awesome.

Example:

Hey Marni,

I just have to share a little success with you because your direction made this happen.

I was writing to this girl online and I stupidly was asking her boring, general questions. This is before I learned how to do it right.

She had been giving me one word “not interested answers” and then she just abruptly disappeared.  So I sent this comment to her: “thanks for talking. just FYI I sure there are a lot of creeps out there & you’re an attractive women, but I’m NOT a game player. just wanted to get to know you a little more (not trying to get you into bed). Let me know when you’re online next time maybe we can talk like real people. If not interested in talking just let me know you won’t hurt my feelings. (besides you are a little to old :) Have a good day.”

I instantly I got a pop up message that said ok lets talk online now! And we did.

That was the first phone number, positive reaction I’d gotten from a woman in years.

Thanks so much for your help.- J

LOVE getting emails like that.

The reason why J’s response got such a reaction from this woman was because it was direct, firm and authentic.

J, stated his intentions and also called this woman out instead of trying to placate to her. He didn’t seem worried about ruffling feathers or losing her entirely.

It was bold and it made J sound like he was a man that knew what he wanted and wasn’t going to settle for anything less.

Super sexy. PLUS he teased her about not being that good looking. I loved that part.

All in all, amazing and a great example of how to handle a woman losing interest or possibly rejecting  you. Never Get Rejected Again!

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Why Women Date Jerks http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-date-jerks/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-date-jerks/#comments Sun, 01 Mar 2015 19:32:43 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18744 Want beautiful women in your life but not sure how to get them?? I’ll show you how to get women begging you to be theirs: In just 30 days you will learn how to get everything you have ever wanted … keep reading

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Want beautiful women in your life but not sure how to get them?? I’ll show you how to get women begging you to be theirs:

In just 30 days you will learn
how to get everything you have ever wanted from women. Learn more now!
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You’ve heard it over and over again, and it seems to be true…

Women always fall for jerks.

Well GUESS WHAT? This is a total myth and I’m going to tell you why. It’s NOT the jerky traits that women are drawn to with those guys.

It’s that guys that happen to be jerks very often possess the other qualities that make women so damn attracted to them. Qualities like confidence, a strong sense of self-worth, and playfulness when they interact with women.

I want to share one of my videos with you, called “Why Women Like Jerks”. It’s posted below.

It explains everything you need to know about adopting all the POSITIVE traits of a jerk while still maintaining your good-guy nature :)

So check out my video here and learn how to man up and stop being a wimp around women (1:30)…

AND also find out why you should stay away from the girls who actually ARE attracted to jerks (1:58). They are bad news.

I mean really, why should the a**holes have all the fun?? It’s about time you finished FIRST.

Watch the video below:

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Why Women Test You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-test/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-test/#comments Fri, 27 Feb 2015 19:20:55 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18740 [Video Below] Why does it always seem like we women are putting you through a mental and emotional obstacle course when they’re getting to know you?? Offering up “tests” and constantly grading you to see if you pass? And if … keep reading

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[Video Below] Why does it always seem like we women are putting you through a mental and emotional obstacle course when they’re getting to know you??

Offering up “tests” and constantly grading you to see if you pass?

And if you say or do the wrong thing…

We make it seem like you’ve totally blown it?

I promise we are not just being sadistic.

We really don’t “test” you to be cruel or to try to make your life a living hell, all for the sake of dating us.

We ARE trying to get you to prove SOMETHING to us, however.

In my video below, I explain exactly why women test men, and how you can pass this test with flying colors. At minute 2 in the video, I show you why this testing we do is actually motivated by our own INSECURITY.

We desperately want to make sure that you like us, care about us, that we have value in your eyes.

A great example that I use is when a woman is flirting with you and, say, makes a playful comment about having a THREESOME with you and another woman (@ 5:55).

You COULD respond by playing along and telling her how hot that sounds.

DON’T do that… she’s not just flirting with you: she’s TESTING you! This moment is your opportunity to PROVE you’re into her in a powerful way…

How? By saying something like, “Why would I want another girl? You’re all the woman I need.”

WOAH! Even writing that I got the chills. Because that’s how I wish men would respond to me.

So check out my video here for all these tips and more and discover why women test you AND how to pass each test with flying colors.

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Getting Sexual Via Text http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/#comments Tue, 24 Feb 2015 18:07:11 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18727 Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days. In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to … keep reading

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Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days.

In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to seduce women and get them over to your place, all by sending texts.

Turning the Conversation Sexual

If you don’t know this now, it is my duty to tell you that it is your job as the man to escalate the conversation to a sexual place. One of the biggest problems that I’ve seen guys have is making that simple transition from innocent conversation to sexual conversation. There is one great technique that Race taught me called “directive misinterpretation.”

Every text that a woman sends provides you with an opportunity to take something she says and turn it around to make it sexual. Some of my favorite techniques include:

  • Sexual Innuendos
  • “That’s What She Said” Texts
  • Tease her for having a dirty mind
  • Accuse of her trying to seduce you

Sexual Innuendos

Sexual innuendos are statements that talk about, or describe something non-sexual in a way that alludes to something sexual. Sexual innuendos are the foundation to creating and building sexual tension extremely quickly via text. Because it is so easy to incorporate them into your text, these should be the backbone of your sexual texts starting immediately.

If you’ve ever seen “The Office,” you’re familiar with the ‘That’s What She Said’ game, in which the main character says “that’s what she says” after something that can be taken sexually. Whenever she’s texting you about something that is “harder,” “bigger,” “smaller,” etc. than expected, drop a “That’s what she said” text into the mix.

The reason that sexual innuendos are so great is because they allow you subtly introduce sexuality in such a way that seems fun and innocent. It’s very sad that in our culture, talking about sex is very taboo, and this allows for a safe way for people to get sexual via text.

However, it should be noted that beautiful women are very used to getting sexual texts from many men, and using her sexuality as a way to influence and get what she wants. Your mindset should be very loose and relaxed while getting sexual with girls via text. Remember – this is no big deal, because you are used to this.

Keeping it light and playful and fun will ensure that you always have fun getting sexual via text. Use these ideas correctly, and you’ll be transitioning from sexting to sex in no time…

To learn more about how to seduce beautiful women using only your phone, check out Race’s new book “Text 2 Sex.”

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Dear Mr. Nice Guy. You’ll Always Finish First. http://www.winggirlmethod.com/dear-mr-nice-guy-youll-always-finish-first/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/dear-mr-nice-guy-youll-always-finish-first/#comments Tue, 17 Feb 2015 21:36:14 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18724 OMG I love the article I’ve posted below. Believe it or not, my dad sent it to me. YES, big reveal. I have a father     He’s definitely a Nice Guy and I’m glad he is. Read the article below … keep reading

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OMG I love the article I’ve posted below. Believe it or not, my dad sent it to me. YES, big reveal. I have a father ;-)     He’s definitely a Nice Guy and I’m glad he is.

Read the article below because it’s awesome and I agree with everything Laura, the writer, says:

An Open Letter To All The Nice Guys Out There:
Don’t Stop Trying

Dear Mr. Nice Guy,

Contrary to popular belief that you might finish last in this world, you absolutely come first for me. And not just for me, for a lot of other girls, too.

We want you, Mr. Nice Guy. We want the honorable man who is motivated by the kindness of his heart, not by what he can wager in return. The guy who doesn’t expect a reward for being a good person. Who especially doesn’t see himself as a woman’s means to an end.

So stop reading here if you think being the nice guy is as surface-level as paying for dinner or walking her home or telling her she looks beautiful. These gestures don’t automatically make you kind, especially if they’re backed by ulterior motives. You can pay for the meal, but still be cruel company. You can ensure she makes it home safely and simultaneously make her feel uncomfortable. It’s less about your actions and more about the quality of your intentions.

Most guys who are convinced they are nice, aren’t. Girls can smell the difference. Truly nice guys have honest, pure objectives. They won’t be angry if you don’t sleep with them afterwards or put that kind of pressure on you in the first place. They want to be in your company simply because they enjoy being in your presence. And yes, that’s enough for us, too.

Because being nice doesn’t mean you are weaker. And this is where the confusion happens. You can be masculine, tough and assertive while at the same time good-hearted and well-intentioned. It’s kind of like having a rough or intimidating exterior, but being a total sweetheart on the inside.

That’s the kind of mystery and excitement we women are attracted to — not this notion of a bad boy who brings drama and pain. We don’t want the unavailable bad boy who has burned us countless times. We’re smart girls and we know better than that. We know the good ones when we spot them.

And to that point, there’s a difference between nice guys who get taken advantage of and nice guys who take advantage. One showers a woman with superficial displays of affection like free food and drinks, while the other showers a woman with passion and curiosity. Guess which guy sticks around?

It’s not that we don’t want you, Mr. Nice Guy. It’s that it’s really hard to find you. So, in the meantime, we date a bunch of not-as-nice-guys in hopes that maybe we’ll find you when we least expect it. We’re holding out for you though, so don’t give up on us Nice Girls because you think being an assh*le is better.

After all this waiting around and failed relationships, we want the good guys who are uncomplicated and sweet. The girls who say they do but don’t or who can’t appreciate these men aren’t good girls, either.

These are the girls who discourage Mr. Nice Guys like yourself from pursuing more women. These girls aren’t ready for a relationship like the one we have been preparing all these years for.

Nice guys are the ones who don’t have to question their actions. Who are smart enough to know that when it didn’t work out with an ex that it wasn’t because they were too nice. Both good and bad people experience terrible things and failed relationships, which is independent of their character. One has no bearing on the other.

We recognize that it’s harder to play the kind, loving man than it is to play the hardened bad boy. It’s harder to live every day with integrity and morality than it is to cut corners and cheat. But that sense of self and respect is way sexier than any liar or cheater. We appreciate you.

So, Mr. Nice Guy, what’s it going to be? Are you going to give up being nice and toughen yourself from love, as you’re so tempted to do? If you want to prove you’re not as weak as you may think you come across, you’ll keep putting yourself out there for us. Because we nice girls haven’t given up on you.

I know one day we’ll cross paths. I know it might not be head-over-heels or drama or fireworks. I know it will be heart-warming and genuine.

And to me, that sounds nice.

– Laura

Article from: http://goodmenproject.com

Marni’s Comments:  I love everything that Laura said and she’s so right.  Hopefully this article gave you a clear cut description of the type of man women want and respect all at the same time. It’s the kind of guy we pray for and hope we meet.  The kind of guy that we want to be with. The kind of man we women want!!!!

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How To Be A Good Kisser http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kissing-get-her-fired-up-about-you/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/kissing-get-her-fired-up-about-you/#comments Wed, 11 Feb 2015 23:39:12 +0000 marissa madsen http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18661 Have you ever had a great date with a woman who seemed to be really digging you, and then after the kiss, it was all downhill from there? She seemed to lose interest and maybe stopped returning your calls? If … keep reading

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Have you ever had a great date with a woman who seemed to be really digging you, and then after the kiss, it was all downhill from there? She seemed to lose interest and maybe stopped returning your calls?

If the date went great, the answer to her sudden change of heart lies in that goodnight kiss you gave her.

Your kiss can make or break you with a woman! And I’m not talking about your tongue technique. There’s more to a kiss than meets the eye (or the lips…), and I want to share that secret with you.

YOU have the power to make her feel that spark… it’s time to HARNESS it.

I found this really cool video (that I’ve posted below) from Vsauce called Why Do We Kiss? that shows how kissing is like a TASTE TEST for potential lovers.

It gives our bodies and minds clues about what kind of mate a person will be. Strong, confident, caring, passionate…

A good kiss makes a woman feel bonded to you, and like those tiny pink spoons they use for samples at Baskin Robbins, it’s just not enough and we have to come back for more!!

I got to thinking about the really good kisses I’ve had. The ones that made me perk up and say, “Hey, there’s something different about this guy… something BETTER than the rest… and I’ve got to find out what it is. (By kissing him more!!)

The video made me realize: If the other guys just made ONE change to the way they kissed, it would have replaced the fizzle with fire.

Here’s the secret: Focus on what you want your kiss to SAY to a woman, and she will feel it like a bolt of lightning. Watch the video; it’s science! If you are focusing on: “Ooh ya, I’ll move my mouth around like that, that’s hot”, it won’t be enough to be memorable. It’ll just be superficial fluff. And she can get that from any guy, in any club, on any night of the week.

The kiss is your mode of silent communication, and is more powerful than ANYTHING else you said to her that night using your words. Locking lips is your chance to express your innermost desires to her, so make sure you’re sending the right message.

So the next time you find yourself out with an awesome chick and she gives you those eyes that say, “I want to taste test you”, here’s what you do. When you lean in, focus on what you want her to know about you. You’re masculine, confident, like you’re taking care of her with that kiss… strong, like you KNOW that there is something going on between you two that is more than just physical attraction. It’s simple: get her hooked on you and she will want to come back for more. Hell…she’ll YEARN for it.

Happy smooching!

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6 Habits Keeping You In The Friend Zone http://www.winggirlmethod.com/6-habits-keeping-friend-zone/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/6-habits-keeping-friend-zone/#comments Tue, 10 Feb 2015 17:35:47 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18693 Just found this great article on the 6 habits keeping you in the friend zone. I agree with EVERYTHING said in the article.  Read it and let me know what you think: 6 Habits Keeping You in the Friend zone … keep reading

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Just found this great article on the 6 habits keeping you in the friend zone. I agree with EVERYTHING said in the article.  Read it and let me know what you think:

6 Habits Keeping You in the Friend zone

When you’re a dating instructor you meet all kinds of men with all kinds of love-life problems. I’ve met 50 year old divorcees looking to get their groove back on and I’ve met college kids trying to bang their hot professors. But the types of men that I deal with the most are those stuck in the dreaded friend zone. Which doesn’t surprise me at all.

You see, what a lot of men don’t understand is that a woman’s sexual attraction mechanism is almost auto-pilot driven. This is why you can never talk a woman into sleeping with you. In fact, most women, at least on a subconscious level, know within the first few minutes of talking to you if they see you as a potential romantic or sexual partner. And the men who find themselves stuck in the so called friend zone are those who carry habits that do the very opposite of what triggers a woman’s attraction mechanism.

So if you’ve found yourself stuck in the friend zone, crushing majorly on a cute girl who only calls you to complain about the guys she wishes she was dating; you might want to read on and see if you’ve been committing any of the following six attraction sins.

Being too meek

There are two types of men in the world. The type of men who know what they want in life, and go after those things fearlessly and unapologetically, and the type of men who hang around the fringes hoping for a sign that the moment is right. Unsurprisingly, it’s the second type that often gets stuck knee-deep in the friend zone.

You see, every time you hesitate in your interactions with women;be it to approach her, ask for her number, setup a date or kiss her; you might be telling yourself that you’re waiting for the right moment or a green light from her. But what you’re really doing is telling her that you’re too timid and afraid to make a move. And this isn’t something that women find attractive. There is literally no woman in the world who dreams of a man who’ll try to befriend her for months before working up the courage to tell her that he likes her. These are the men who end up getting demoted to the friend zone.

So be bold, take risks and put yourself on the line. When you’re trying to setup a date with an attractive woman don’t, tell her that there’s a great restaurant that you two should check out. Tell her that you know of a posh restaurant where the two of you can play footsy under the table, get drunk and, if all goes well, make out and embarrass the snobbish patrons.

Being too available

Being a challenge can be hard; especially when you’re so into a girl. It’s normal to want to spend every waking minute hanging out with her. But here’s the thing. Most attractive women have dozens of men pursuing them at any given moment. They pretty much have their pick. So what they really crave is the adventure of pursuing a man who is a challenge .It’s just human nature. We want the things that we’re not sure we can have.

A girl might find you attractive, but as soon as she knows she can have you easily, you lose most of your allure, and you end up in the friend zone. So be a bit unavailable. Start small and work your way up. Stop leaving your Facebook chat signed in 24/7. Stop checking your Whats App messages every few minutes. Find a hobby. Keep yourself busy. Have a life; an exciting one, preferably. And soon you’ll find women flocking to be a part of it.

Being too clingy

A huge mistake that lot of men make is that the moment they get even the slightest sign of interest, they latch on to her tighter than a barnacle. For example, a girl might talk to you at a bar or a pub, and even find you interesting and attractive. But the moment that she realizes that you’re not leaving her side for anything she’ll start feeling claustrophobic and reevaluate her romantic intentions towards you.

So do both of yourselves a favor and give her the gift of missing you a bit. Remember; when you’re in the process of attracting a woman every minute you two spend together needs to feel special. And being too clingy is the most sure-fire way to ruin a potentially successful seduction.

Showing too little interest

OK, so probably 90% of men know that showing too much interest too soon can be a bad thing. But did you know that showing too little interest can also backfire on you? Let me explain. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking that they should never show interest in a woman that they find attractive. But what they’re missing is the powerful difference between genuine interest and generic interest. Generic interest is when you tell a girl that her hair looks nice. Genuine interest is when you tell a girl that you love the way she twirls her hair when she gets nervous or excited.

You see, a girl might find you attractive and might see you as a potential romantic or sexual partner, but if you don’t show her that you notice and appreciate the unique things that make her ‘her’, she won’t have a reason to pursue a romantic or sexual outcome with you. And she’d be forced to put you in the friend zone.

Being non-sexual

So when is the right time to introduce a sexual vibe to your interactions with women? A day? A week? A month? The answer might surprise you but, I think you should do so as soon as you can. You see what happens when you hold off on introducing any sort of sexual energy to an interaction with a woman is that any sexual advances you may make in the future will feel too sudden and forced. And even worse, the spark will be gone.

So even if a girl does find you attractive the chances of her trying to initiate a sexual vibe are low. And if you don’t do so yourself, the chances are that she’ll gradually start to get bored and slowly relegate you to the friend zone.

Not making your intentions clear

At the end of the day it doesn’t matter what you want from your love life, all that matters is that you communicate your expectations and intentions clearly. It doesn’t matter if you’re on the lookout for a one night stand or a long term relationship, what’s important is that you communicate this to the girl that you’re interested in. If you are too vague, she’ll feel like she’s in the passenger seat of a car without a driver and she won’t feel secure pursuing the interaction with you. And in the end she’ll have to automatically keep you in the friend zone for her own sake.

By Patrick Banks:  Dating coach and owner of Wingman Magazine

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The Friend Zone Through Female Eyes http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-female-eyes/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-female-eyes/#comments Mon, 09 Feb 2015 23:00:29 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18658 “Her and her boyfriend finally broke up…so I decide to tell her how I felt and she was ANGRY!” I couldn’t help but nod and understand exactly why. My one client has a habit of “waiting around” for women that … keep reading

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“Her and her boyfriend finally broke up…so I decide to tell her how I felt and she was ANGRY!”

I couldn’t help but nod and understand exactly why.

My one client has a habit of “waiting around” for women that he’s interested in…

In fact he has a LIST!

And sure enough, one of his “friends” that he’s had feelings for suddenly became single…

So he thought, “NOW’s the time to tell her how I feel!”

Now, while most women wouldn’t get ANGRY when hearing you’ve had feelings for us this entire time…

It’ll all make sense when you understand WHY.

I remember watching this movie “The Whole 9 Yards” with Bruce Willis playing a hit man…

And in it, Bruce Willis’ character described how he once became BEST FRIENDS with a “target” in order to get to him at his deepest core…

To find out his vulnerabilities and use them to his advantage so he knew him WELL ENOUGH to one day “make his move”

(And kill him duh)

Well sure enough, instead of killing him, Bruce Willis ends up telling his “best friend” what’s REALLY been going on the whole time…

And what does the best friend do?

He shoots Bruce Willis!

(Don’t worry I didn’t give away the ending you’re fine!)

My point is…

If you knew somebody was getting close
to you…

Being there for you…listening when you’re upset…helping out when you needed it…

Only to find out they had an ulterior motive the ENTIRE TIME…

How would YOU feel?

When you “finally come clean” about your feelings for us…

And we TRUSTED YOU as a close confidante who wanted nothing more in return besides our friendship…

And now it turns out you’ve wanted US the whole time?

Well…some of us ladies get angry.

Like my client’s “friend.”

The problem is, most guys don’t wanna “come clean” about how they feel because they think it’ll push her away…

Some think it might be disrespectful to the guy…

Others are waiting for “the right time.”

And if you’re a guy that’s holding in how you feel in hopes to make it better for HER…

You’re just screwing YOURSELF in the end…

Mostly because you’re not being up front about how you really feel…and that’s not fair to YOU!

Friend Zone BookFind Out How To Get Out of The Friend Zone By Being Up Front:

=> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-2

Now on the OTHER END of the spectrum…some guys end up losing her COMPLETELY by being up front…

Mostly because they end up looking desperate and needy when they come clean.

But there’s a way to let her know how you feel…WITHOUT making her feel like she owes you something…

And WITHOUT her getting mad and thinking you’ve had this secret plan to GET HER all along.

And once you know how to come clean in a way that’s assertive instead of desperate…

THAT’S when she’ll start looking at you like the guy she should’ve been with all along

Become The Man She’s Always Wanted Tonight:

=>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/friend-zone-2

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The Science of The Friend Zone http://www.winggirlmethod.com/science-friend-zone/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/science-friend-zone/#comments Fri, 06 Feb 2015 16:13:50 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18654 I LOVE when I find awesome resources that give you a scientific explanation of why something is happening to you. Recently, a member of The Wing Girl Method sent me the below video that explains the science of the friend … keep reading

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I LOVE when I find awesome resources that give you a scientific explanation of why something is happening to you.

Recently, a member of The Wing Girl Method sent me the below video that explains the science of the friend zone.  I’m pretty sure you have been in the friend zone and this video explains WHY you are in the friend zone and what you can do to get out of it using a few scientific principles like:

1.The Scarcity Principle: An economic principle in which a limited supply of a good, coupled with a high demand for that good, results in a mismatch between the desired supply and demand equilibrium.

2. The Ben Franklin Effect: A person who has done or completed a favor for someone is more likely to do another favor for that person than they would be if they had received a favor from that person.

Watch the video and tell me what you think. Press play to watch:

Are you currently in the friend zone and desperately want to get out of it?

Find Out How To Get Out of The Friend Zone Here….  Read More

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#1 Secret To Approaching Women http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-secret-approaching-women/#comments Thu, 22 Jan 2015 17:30:10 +0000 wingirls http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18635 Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you) The secret is: MINDSET!!! I know it’s not what you were expecting at … keep reading

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Want to know the #1 Secret to approaching women AND getting a woman to respond to you positively?? (meaning they want you and feel attraction towards you)

The secret is: MINDSET!!!

I know it’s not what you were expecting at all but hear me out for a second.

No woman wants to be a approached by a guy who is:

1. Nervous

2. In his head

3. Doubting himself

4. Caring too much about what she wants or thinks

5. Thinking he’s not good enough for her or coming up with some other belief/excuse as to why he can’t approach her.

I can go on and on but you see where I am going with this.Men who have a negative mindset when approaching are instantly labelled as CREEPY by women.

And you don’t want to be creepy right?

Because you are not creepy.

You are the furthest thing from creepy.

I know that…

You know that…

Your friends and family know that…

But sadly, women that you are approaching don’t know that.

And it’s not their fault because how would they ever know that you weren’t creepy unless you showed them that you weren’t creepy.

I have an exercise to help you eliminate the creep and get the perfect mindset before you start approaching women.

As I said at the beginning of this email, the #1 secret to successful approaching is having a positive, solid MINDSET!And this exercise is going to help you easily get that mindset.

I’m going to call this exercise the Lena Dunham.  She’s the creator of the show Girls on HBO.

Why am I calling this exercise the Lena Dunham?

Because that girl is that girl is chunky and super awkward BUT because she has a kick ass mindset I don’t see any of those things in her.
All I see is awesome, super creative and very successful.
EXERCISE:
Re-frame how you talk to yourself and how you think about yourself.
This is just 1 of the exercises that you’ll find in all my programs and it’s great.
If you don’t think or talk nicely about yourself, don’t expect others to do so.
For the next week, I want you to be in control of what your brain and mouth are telling women about the way you view yourself and the MINDSET that you  have.
To start having a healthy mindset before approaching do the following:

1. Notice when you think or say negative things about yourself or about a situation.E.g. I can’t approach her. She’s too hot. She’ll reject me.2. Re-frame what you think or say.E.g. That girl is cute. I’m going to approach her and we’ll see what happens.

You can even go to a more positive level and say “That girl better watch out cause I here I come.”

It’s just 2 simple steps!!!All you gotta do is catch yourself being “creepy” or having a bad mind set and then laugh to yourself and re-frame it.

Now go try this exercise at least 5 times per day.And I don’t want to hear the excuse of “But there aren’t people around me to approach”.

#1 – Yes there are and if there aren’t there are ways to make them around you.

#2 – STOP MAKING EXCUSES and just do. That is the #2 secret to approaching. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

TRUST ME!

Now go do it. And if you want more help with knowing how to approach or what to say once you approach, then check out How To Become A Man Women Want.It’s a program I created that walks you through every step you need to check off your list to make approaching and talking to women super easy.

Check it out here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/how-to-become-a-man-women-want-6

On this page you’ll see a video that tells you what to do to make women want and explains more about the program.Now go get a good mindset so that women can start to see you as sexy NOT creepy.

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