Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com Thu, 02 Jul 2015 01:01:19 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.2 Copyright © Wing Girl Method 2012 marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) marni@winggirlmethod.com (Marni's Wing Girl Method) 1440 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/wp-content/uploads/marni-podcast-144.jpg Marni's Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.com 144 144 http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheWingGirlMethod I'm Marni, and I've spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. I'm about to tell you everything you need to know about women so that you can attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want. Including the things that women would never want you to know ;-) For more info go to: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni's Wing Girl Method Marni's Wing Girl Method marni@winggirlmethod.com no yes Ask Women Podcast Episode 111: Misconceptions Women Have About Men That Are Ruining Your Dating Life http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-episode-111-misconceptions-women-have-about-men-that-are-ruining-your-dating-life/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ask-women-podcast-episode-111-misconceptions-women-have-about-men-that-are-ruining-your-dating-life/#comments Thu, 02 Jul 2015 00:49:35 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19043 I’ve heard this statement time and time again: “women have it sooooo much easier. They just have to walk into a room and pick the guy they want.” But is that really true?? Is it REALLY easier for women to … keep reading

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I’ve heard this statement time and time again:

“women have it sooooo much easier. They just have to walk into a room and pick the guy they want.”

But is that really true?? Is it REALLY easier for women to date and have sex than it is for men?

Listen to this weeks episode of Ask Women to find out

We had the always awesome, dating coach to women – the “other MarnI”, Marni Batista on the show to share with us the struggles, frustrations and confusions women have about men and dating that you may be shocked by.

We also had this guy Graham on the show who seemed to like us until we hit a sensitive button for him with women and gold digging

But even so, this guy and dating coach to women delivered a pretty awesome show that ended in a BIG debate that I would love to hear your thoughts on.

Please take a listen and let me know your opinion.

The topics we covered on this show were:

1. Does money really matter to women? And how does it matter?

2. Is dating, sex etc… easier for women?

3. Top things women don’t understand about men

4. How to date younger women

5. How to be a leader with women

6. How to avoid being seen as a pushover, wuss with women

7. Misconceptions women have about men that may be ruining your dating life

And much more!!

I hope you enjoy it!

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How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-act-like-a-bad-boy-but-actually-be-good/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-act-like-a-bad-boy-but-actually-be-good/#comments Wed, 01 Jul 2015 01:42:18 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19037 How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good (Or what I like to call:  Learning from Fifty Shades of Grey*) So, is there an art to shedding the “nice guy” moniker in a woman’s eyes? Absolutely! What … keep reading

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How to Act like a Bad Boy but Actually Be Good

(Or what I like to call:  Learning from Fifty Shades of Grey*)

So, is there an art to shedding the “nice guy” moniker in a woman’s eyes? Absolutely!

What the Bad Boy Isn’t

Let me start by saying that a bad boy is not creepy or mean! EVER! Abusive and hurtful behavior will NEVER be acceptable to anyone, and you will end up with a restraining order instead of a date.

So how do you act like a bad boy? Well, I have already established that our friend Mr. Nice Guy can be a doormat and not very interesting to women (see article on that by clicking here), however, don’t lose that guy completely because you will need him for balance.

The Unattainable Media Standards

Every woman between the ages of 16 and 90 has read Fifty Shades of Grey, so right now most women have what I like to call Christian Grey syndrome. They somehow manage to compare the men they date to him. They find this type of bad boy appealing because he is a tortured soul who is not beyond redemption. He is also an amazingly hot billionaire, who flies his own helicopter and owns half of the world.

To begin, I have to tell you, you are not in his “league” or however you want to phrase it. No one is. Nevertheless, he is (almost) the perfect balance of bad boy and good boy. There are things you can learn from his character.

If you haven’t read the book or a girlfriend didn’t drag you to the movie, don’t worry, I’ll give you the down low on what the takeaways are.

Take the Lead!

A bad boy is a leader in all situations. Christian Grey runs the show from the very beginning and lays out exactly how a relationship is going to be. He doesn’t do this with brutal force but with brutal honesty. He lets the woman know what he is upfront and lets her decide. (In this case, he provides her with a contract, which states that she will be his love slave, but REALLY guys, I can tell you this much –  not happening for you unless you DO fly your own helicopter and own a skyscraper.)

My takeaway:  be truthful about what you want and expect. If a woman doesn’t like it, she can walk away, and you don’t have to waste anyone’s time.

Be Independent!

A bad boy is independent and rules his world. Ok, the comparison case is not apples to apples. The guy is also super rich, but you don’t have to be. You just cannot have your mother doing your laundry or cooking for you. Women love to nurture men, but we definitely do not want to be washing your boxers or packing you a lunch!

Establish yourself by doing something that makes you happy and BE dedicated to the things you love. It’s not specifically the rich part that women love; it is the personal success. So, if you are passionate about what you do, you are rich in many ways and women see that side as independent and prosperous.

Another important thing to say here is that you should not give up your favorite pastime or hobby. If you enjoy watching football on Sundays, invite her to be part of it or tell her you will see her Monday. Going back to our Fifty Shades analogy, I thought the best thing about our friend Mr. Grey was that he took his woman gliding in a plane, played piano for her and showed her his other interests. (Besides the “secret room”)

My takeaway:  Here is where some guys become doormats. DON’T DO IT!!! Don’t give in. If a woman is not impressed by your successes (income or profession) or interested in your life run – don’t walk.

I can tell you that a woman who is worth having will respect what you do for a living and for fun. She doesn’t have to always be a part of it but SHE MUST respect it.

Show Your Strength

If you think a bad boy is made of muscles and willing to fight off everyone. You are wrong.

I’m not going to lie to you. If you have a rockin’ body that you work hard to attain, show it off – Woman love to look at a rock-hard body! However, you do not need to be Channing Tatum to rock a woman’s world.

Listen up — This is the Balance Part!

Confidence along with emotional balance is key. Strength starts inside and works its way to the outside. Men do not need rock hard abs to make a woman happy. (A Homer Simpson gut however, is not appealing.) What we want is a man who makes us feel safe and secure.

This is why Christian Grey is a bad boy all women WANT. He will do his own thing, be his own man and stand up for his convictions, all while he is flirting with us, talking dirty to us and challenging us to be adventurous and spontaneous in and out of bed.

My Takeaway: Deep down inside I know women really do want the Christian Grey guy who will defend them, hold their hair back while they are throwing up from too many shots of tequila and carry them off to bed to teach them things they never even knew they wanted.

(Spoiler Alert)

I told you that you could learn from this guy. Carry yourself with his confidence. Show your strength. Be interesting and use his blend of seduction and nice guy.

However, there is a moral to our Fifty Shades comparison. Mr. Grey is emotionally empty, and a bit disturbed. At the end of the story, his woman walked out on him. (To be continued)

Don’t be that man. If you have emotional issues – get help first.

My BIGGEST takeaway: Tell and show a woman you care OR don’t waste your time or hers.

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How To Influence Girls and Make Them Like You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/win-girls-hearts/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/win-girls-hearts/#comments Tue, 30 Jun 2015 01:06:15 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19031 The Field Guide To Building A Cult Or Connecting With Women All the way back in 1936, a book was published that would affect the future in ways the author most likely never saw coming. Warren Buffett (who’s worth $72.3 … keep reading

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The Field Guide To Building A Cult Or Connecting With Women

All the way back in 1936, a book was published that would affect the future in ways the author most likely never saw coming.

Warren Buffett (who’s worth $72.3 billion dollars as I write this) has a certification that he completed this book hanging in his office right now.

Charles Manson read this book in prison and used what he learned to manipulate women into killing for him.

Whoever got their hands on this book, whether they knew it or not, could use it for great good or evil.

Some men used it to make fortunes, some to build a cult of women to kill for him and others to just… get laid.

The little book they used to do all of this was “How To Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.

Don’t let the innocent looking title fool you. This is powerful stuff and people like you and me have been using it since the ’30s to get people to do their bidding.

Now, while there’s a million and one ways you can use this info for evil schemes… I’m going to show you (through example) how you can use it to connect with women on a deep level.

There were 6 main principles in the book and if you use them correctly and GENUINELY on a girl of your choosing, she’ll feel the deepest of connections with you.

I have to warn you though:

When I say “evil schemes” I’m not trying to be cute.

Cult-leaders like Charles Manson have used these same techniques to completely and utterly dominate the minds of his followers.

So I urge you to only use this for good.

Capisce? :)

Let’s move along.

Say you’re on a first date with someone, you’re at a little cafe downtown.

She’s sitting across from you, sipping a white chocolate Mocha frap.

You want this date to work out so friggin’ bad. Your head is filled with a thousand thoughts at the same time.

Thinking of all the little tips and techniques you’ve picked up online. Maybe they’re MY tips and techniques.

She’s moving her mouth but you can’t make out the words she’s saying. You’re too busy figuring out her next move.

You’ve got this glazed look in your eye like you’re spaced out… she notices.

She pauses after what she was saying and she’s looking straight at you.

“Is she waiting for me to something? Oh no… I barely listened to what she was saying… I was too busy thinking about my next move… did she say something about her dog? Shit…” you think to yourself.

You’re in deep trouble.

And this ladies and germs brings me to…

Principle 1: Be genuinely interested in her.

Say you had read this article BEFORE you went on the date and you were genuinely interested in what she had to say.

Rather than being stuck in your own head and worrying about your next “Ultra Ninja PUA Move 5000 TM”, you would have heard this:

“Aw look at that cute little puppy outside! I’ve always wanted a dog but I’m so worried that I won’t have the time to care of it…”

“I could’ve sworn you were a cat person…” you reply.

Bam… you’ve got her laughing and you’ve built a connection with an inside joke you could use later.

And while we’re on the topic of laughing…

Principle 2: Smile.

What do you think drives a deeper connection if you would have made that cat lady joke:

  1. A) You say the joke and stare at her completely dead-pan. Now that I say it… I think it would come across as either insulting or creepy. No bueno!
  2. B) You say the joke but this time, you flash her a cocky and light-hearted smile. You come across as charming, light-hearted and sexy. Win!

The difference between being creepy/insulting and sexy/charming is a smile.

Moving on!

The next principle is a game-changer.

It’s so easy to do and almost insignificant but if you do it right… you’ll make her tingle and she won’t even know WHY.

How?

With one word.

Principle 3: Remember that her name is to her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

I’m not sure of the psychological reason behind it but there’s something intoxicating about hearing someone say your name.

Don’t believe me?

Think of the last time someone said your name during sex.

It sent you right over the edge didn’t it?

I suspect that it has something to do with the ego and how we ALL like getting our ego rubbed.

Which leads me to the next principle:

Principle 4: Be a good listener. Encourage her to to talk about herself.

One of the biggest problems guys face is that they don’t know how to make conversation with girls they don’t know.

“But what do I say?” is the #1 question I get from men. More than any other question by a long shot.

And it’s a devastatingly simple question to answer.

Let her talk about HERSELF by asking questions.

Women love talking about themselves, it’s no secret.

You open the door for them to do just that by asking questions.

Now make sure you don’t break Principle 1.

Ask questions about her that genuinely interest you, don’t fake it because she’ll know.

And even more so, you want to be actually listening to her and interested in what she has to say because you have to…

Principle 5: Talk in terms of her interests.

If you can follow Principle 4 & 5, you’ll never have a problem having deep and meaningful conversations with not just women but anybody you meet.

Relate back to what she’s talking about and add your 2 cents.

You’ll learn more about each other in a date or two than the average dating couple does in months.

And since you asked her questions that genuinely interest you about her, you’ll have no problem relating back to it.

This is the one-two punch and you’ll be like Muhammad Ali in the ring in his prime.

She’ll feel like she knew in a past life and the connection you’ll have with her will be deep and unshakeable.

And you’ll…

Principle 6: Make her feel important and do it sincerely.

This one is easy to misinterpret.

Don’t put her on a pedestal and worship the ground she walks on.

Make her feel important by letting her earn your attention.

Give her sincere compliments, not shallow or over the top praises.

“You know Samantha…” he said with a smile.

“I’ve never met a girl as weird and charming as you.”

That’s the kind of thing girls read in books like 50 Shades of Grey… and they FAWN over it.

They want a man (<— important!) to make them feel like a woman.

They want to be in the fairy tale. You just have to make them the main character and you have to be the man they’re chasing after.

Well, that wraps up the 6 principles to building a deep connection with the girl of your choice.

I hope you use this for good and not to build a cult.

First time I’ve had to write that ha!

If you want to pick up the classic original book, you can buy it on Amazon here for cheap

Or if you want a course that’s built around principles like this then you should get the book AND my course How To Become A Man Women Want. Just Click here to read more.

Either way you can’t go wrong.

Marni

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5 Reasons Why Hot Women LOVE Nerds http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-rule/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/nerds-rule/#comments Mon, 29 Jun 2015 18:57:30 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19026 I rarely have guest writers on my blog, especially male writers BUT I had to post this blog. It’s written by an Anonymous Silicon Valley Founder and self proclaimed, nerd. I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this … keep reading

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I rarely have guest writers on my blog, especially male writers BUT I had to post this blog. It’s written by an Anonymous Silicon Valley Founder and self proclaimed, nerd.

I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this article!

Let me know what you think.

 

5 Reasons Why Hot Women LOVE Nerds

I am a nerd, and I have an elite sex life.

Wait – what?

It gets crazier: I don’t make much of an effort, either. All I do is stay true to myself, maintain my values, and chill out.

Let me explain: I am not a pickup artist. I don’t manipulate people or follow particular routines. I don’t go after every girl. I’ve dabbled in all that junk, and it’s not who I am.

Then, I discovered something crazy: By staying true to my [nerdy] self – and understanding women a tiny bit (see below) – I found myself with an unstoppable sex life. To be honest, the only thing limiting me is my time.

“Exactly what kind of women is this nerd dating,” you may be asking. Beautiful women. More than good-looking, these women have stimulating personalities, fascinating lives, and deep perspectives. And they’re damn sexy.

I find it funny that nerds who’ve mastered theoretical math or software programming still haven’t discovered their enormous advantage over most dudes when it comes to dating. Most nerds accept the Hollywood dogma – hot girls go for meatheads – like it’s Newton’s Second Law. How silly.

High quality girls – those with both brains and beauty – are drawn to nerds like bowling balls to Earth’s surface. We just have to not get in their way.

Here’s why hot women love nerds:

1. We Have Passions

Nerds aren’t defined by superficial things, like how we dress or our raw IQ: being a nerd is to be passionate about something.

Being passionate about something – anything outside of making money – is extremely rare for women to find. As one journalist recently lamented about the influx of very successful men to her city, “They thought the ability to buy someone an expensive meal made them interesting.”

Gorgeous, intelligent women find nerds incredibly refreshing in a world of men who may have a six pack and a nice car, but lack substance.

As one woman told me – after what was an incredible one-night stand – what turned her on the most was when I started talking about my passions. She didn’t necessarily understand them – but she loved the energy I radiated.

Genuine, independent passion is rare – and it’s the definition of being a nerd.

2. We Couldn’t Care Less What Others Think

One blond midwestern lawyer told me after we both had a few glasses of wine, was that she found it extremely attractive that I didn’t posture or try to showcase my achievements. Most men she encountered in her city went unnaturally out of their way to hint at their success. To women, that’s always transparent.

Growing up as a nerd, you learn an important lesson: life is just better when you don’t pay attention to what others think of you. As adults, that ends up being an incredibly unique trait – one that women absolutely notice.

3. We Stay Humble

Nerds crave to be around people who are better and smarter than they are; that’s where we learn most. We’re happiest when the people we’re with challenge us. Only truly secure, confident people can live life this way.

Nerds are humble, but not pushovers. When we believe in something, we certainly make it known. Secure, confident humility is extremely attractive.

Turns out there’s scores of brilliant, accomplished women out there, too. Fortunately for us,normal men find their independence too threatening to date. As nerds, we enjoy being around anyone who challenge us with new perspectives. And those women enjoy being challenged as well – and know how (unfortunately) rare men like us are.

4. We Have Our Shit Together

Nerds have their act together. We have good values and live by principles. We respect others, because we have empathy. We prefer genuine friendships rather than being social butterflies. Our intelligence permits us to choose lucrative careers that make us genuinely happy.

Nerds have our shit together more than the general population of men. It’s probably why they’re so threatened by us – and call us nerds. Fair trade by me.

5. We Learn Damn Fast

At this point you’re thinking, okay, great, so why does the dating world not seem to favor nerds?

What stands between your average chess champion, hardware engineer, or mathematics professor and the dreamy women around them? It’s simple: we just have to not get in their way.

We’re inherently attractive by our nature; we just need to learn the basics of the process – and open the floodgates.

Nerds are, by nature, fast learners. We take pleasure in learning hard things, and we’ve done it many times. Sure, women can be complicated, but come on – we’ve hacked more complicated systems. (No offense, women!)

There’s a few basic things most of us haven’t thought about:

– Women want sex as much or more than you do

– There’s no magic: Women want you to lead them through a simple, consistent path, without skipping stages (gradually – but not necessarily slowly).

– Women need you to initiate – from saying hi to getting a number all the way to taking off her clothes. And if you do it right, there’s never any need for courage or acting, just being yourself.

– We need to get out there – be easy to find and interact with, whether on Tinder, OKCupid, Facebook, or real life.

– Understand that you’re not going to have chemistry with all women – and that the smart thing is not to care.

– We could do a few small things to be more attractive (hint, this is easy, totally under your control, and has nothing to do with genetics)

All of these are incredibly easy to achieve and require almost no courage or training. It’s just another topic to hack.

As nerds, we’ve got an enormous advantage over the general population when it comes to dating attractive women. The best part? All we have to do is be ourselves.

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Marni’s comments:

I fully agree and endorse all that is said in this article! Especially the last few bullet points mentioned by Mr. Anonymous.

Would LOVE to know your thoughts on this article.  Just your comments below and tell me what you think.

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What Does Being A Nice Guy Actually Mean? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/what-does-being-a-nice-guy-actually-mean/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/what-does-being-a-nice-guy-actually-mean/#comments Fri, 26 Jun 2015 19:07:48 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19018 What Does Being a Nice Guy Actually Mean? Are you the nice guy? Do you constantly let her have her way? Do you go out of your way to please her? Does every relationship you have end with the F-Word … keep reading

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What Does Being a Nice Guy Actually Mean?

Are you the nice guy? Do you constantly let her have her way? Do you go out of your way to please her? Does every relationship you have end with the F-Word – FRIENDS?

“Nice Guy” is a Matter of Perspective, Yours and Hers

His Definition:

Nice Guy: Noun, Informal. A likable man who is generally pleasant to be around who avoids conflict in order to please those around him. Enjoys an anxiety-free environment and will make others happy to ensure a peaceful co-existence.

I know you think that you are being a gentleman by giving into her every whim. I know that you want to go out of your way to make her happy, never wanting to argue, always letting her win.

However, in reality Mr. Nice Guy, you lose! You are being a doormat. If you look deep inside yourself, you probably don’t want to rock the boat out of your own fear of losing her. Yet, the only woman who appreciates this guy is her mother.

There is a reason this guy doesn’t get the girl. Generally, women don’t want to date a doormat. If they need one, there are plenty of cute ones at IKEA.

I see this guy every day in my business, and I know you can change. I am not asking you to become a complete scumbag, because that doesn’t work either. You need to change your definition of Mr. Nice Guy by understanding what a woman really wants.

Change your Definition of Nice Guy and Get the Girl!

I hear women say, “I need a nice guy” all the time. As a woman, I know what they mean and I can assure you it is not your version of Nice Guy.

In the song Yeah! by Usher, there is a line, “We want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. “

Well I hate to shock you – but women are no different!

Her Definition:

Nice Guy: Noun, Informal. A man who exudes confidence and oozes sex. The guy who is in control while treating her like a lady in the street and makes her want to be a freak in the bed

So how do you get there Mr. Nice Guy? Let me help.

Stop trying so hard to be nice and be yourself.

Women know you’re a man and they know you want sex. You just have to learn to provide the subtle clues while being a nice guy.

You can build sexual tension in a nice way.

While you are busy being nice, let that little bad boy out every now and then. I am not telling you to get all perverted but innuendo, and well thought out touchés, can go a long way.

Don’t be a doormat!

I can’t say this enough! Women enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as the man does. If you allow her to walk all over you – she will. And guess what, she will get bored and eventually use the dreaded F-word.

So what is the true definition of a nice guy? A man who can balance kindness with sex appeal

Women actually do like a man who will not tolerate her crap! But you need to find the right balance. There is a true art to being Mr. Bad Boy – Nice Guy. Do you have it?

Let me know what you think it is in the comment section below.

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Take Advantage of Me?? http://www.winggirlmethod.com/take-advantage-of-me/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/take-advantage-of-me/#comments Thu, 25 Jun 2015 19:46:23 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=19003 How many times have you wished you could go back in time? Maybe you screwed up with a girl. Said the wrong thing. Everything falling apart and you wish you could just take it all back. How much would you … keep reading

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How many times have you wished you could go back in time?

Maybe you screwed up with a girl. Said the wrong thing. Everything falling apart and you wish you could just take it all back.

How much would you pay to be able to send a single email to yourself in the past?

If you’re like most people… a lot. Some would say, all their life savings.

Here’s the thing though.

The reason you’d pay so much is because you’ve gained wisdom from making mistakes.

That’s how we learn!!

Sometimes we wish we could get a do-over but the truth is, our embarrassing, heart-crushing mistakes are what makes us who we are.

In the end, it’s what make our lives worth living.

I see this every single day working with my clients.

Between them, I think I’ve pretty much seen every possible mistake with women.

A couple of days ago I told you about Brian. A 67-year-old man who lost everything, trying to start over late in life.

His wife of many many years, gone.

His career of 30 years, gone.

Imagine building a life for 64 years and having it all disappear in the span of a month or two.

Heartbreaking, soul-destroying.

But Brian’s a fighter. Currently 67 years young, he reached out to me for help getting back in the game. And he’s kicking ass and taking names.

Now let me ask you a question.

How much do you think Brian would pay to be able to send an email from me to his past self?

A fortune, right?

To save him from all that pain and heartache?

So here’s the deal.

I’m trying a little experiment today.

Some guys have told me that they’re in a pretty tricky situation right now and they’d love my take on it, but they don’t want to commit to my full email coaching program at $99 per month.

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Right now, I’m super busy with a ton of commitments I have with my current coaching program, but I still want you to get the same benefits they get, even if you’re not ready to commit to the full program.

So instead of charging you $99 per month where you can ask me 15 questions…

… you can ask me your ONE most pressing, most important question, right now for just $7.99.

Right now I’m letting you take advantage of me and my hectic schedule (shame on you!) … for a limited time.

To get started, click the link below:

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I’m not sure how long I’m able to keep this offer open before my inbox gets too flooded for me to be able to keep up.

If you’re in a situation right now where you’re unsure what you need to do next, this could be a great opportunity for you.

Like having your future self tell you exactly what you need to focus on. But instead of giving up  your life savings, just a couple of bucks.

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I look forward to hearing from you!

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Guys almost never do this (but women LOVE it!) http://www.winggirlmethod.com/guys-almost-never-do-this-but-women-love-it/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/guys-almost-never-do-this-but-women-love-it/#comments Tue, 23 Jun 2015 19:08:34 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18998 “What would happen if he said THAT to you as he went in for the kiss?” I asked. “OMG… I would love that.” they said in rapid succession, bursting at the seams. I was sort of amazed at how much … keep reading

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“What would happen if he said THAT to you as he went in for the kiss?” I asked.

“OMG… I would love that.” they said in rapid succession, bursting at the seams.

I was sort of amazed at how much they were blushing and smiling from ME (another girl!) saying these words to them.

It’s like they couldn’t contain themselves.

It got me wondering about what would happen if a guy would say this stuff to a girl with even just a bit interest in him.

You’re sitting there right now biting your nails trying to figure out what these words were aren’t you?

I’m such a tease lol.

Before I give away the farm and tell you what I said to them and why it worked so well, I want to paint you a picture of what I think the PUA community is dead wrong about.

And you’ve probably had a sneaking suspicion about this too.

What do most PUA “gooroos” preach from the peak of the mountain at the top of their lungs?

BE ALPHA NO MATTER WHAT.

Be aloof. Act like nothing phases you. Fake it til you make it. Pretend you have 10 hot pieces of ass waiting for you at home.

NO MATTER WHAT.

Let me paint you a picture of how it comes across to every girl you have tried this on, are currently trying it on and will try it on:

You’re out on a first date with a girl you met recently. She’s definitely the most beautiful girl you’ve ever been out with.

She’s so smoking that you can hear this a slow song playing in your head when she walks in the room.

You’re nervous and intimidated the entire date but you’re about win an Oscar for your performance.

There’s only one problem with this whole act.

She can SENSE you’re nervous. It’s all over you.

It’s all in your “micro-expressions”.

Micro-expressions are the little cues people give off in social situations that our brains pick up on.

You ever gotten a bad vibe from someone and you just don’t know why? Bingo.

To add fuel to the fire, you’re trying super hard to cover it all up.

Her brain is going haywire with all of your INCONGRUENCE.

She gets turned off without even knowing why and you’re left with your Golden Globe and the PUA gooroos patting you on the back for “keeping it alpha”.

But… let’s switch gears.

What if we changed a few things in this scenario.

We’re not going to change the fact that you’re scared shitless or the fact that you’re intimidated by her hotness.

All we’re going to do is take away the “act”, we’re going to let you be confident in your fear.

Think of it like: “Yeah I’m intimidated but I still know I’m awesome.”

What happens then?

Well remember those magic words at the beginning of the blog that had the girls melting?

Do you want to know what I told them?

We were talking about guys going in for the first kiss and I asked:

“What do you think about a guy, looking you in the eye, telling you that you make him nervous and that he really wants to kiss you right now?”

And they blushed like little school girls and said OMG I would love that.  I can still see their eyes light up, intense blushing and huge smiles plastered all over their face.

Like MAGIC and all you’re doing is being completely honest and up front about what you want.

What they didn’t want was someone who was scared AND/OR hid it or cowered in a corner, crying to himself.

You won’t get the Academy Award but you’ll get the girl.

The last female friend you’ll ever need,

Marni

P.S. What if you lost everything you’ve ever known and had to start from scratch at 67 years old?

That’s exactly what happened to one of my readers.

Tomorrow, I’m going to give you a peek into the advice that I gave him that will change your life and get your the women of your dreams.

Stay tuned.

P.P.S If you think being honest and congruent is hard work, you couldn’t be more wrong.

Being yourself is your default state but with years and years of social conditioning it’s easy to lose sight of that.

Here’s a great example of a kid with more swag and, dare I say it, balls then 98% of guys out there:

Follow this little munchkins example.

P.P.S.

I’m like Oprah with the P.S.es today I’m just handing ’em out!

I had to sneak this one in here because if this email resonated with you then there’s something you should check out.

If getting comfortable with yourself is something you think you really need to work on then you need to get your hands on this: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/020/

Yes, this is a shameless plug BUT I’m putting it in here because the second part of that course is dedicated to everything this email was about.

Here’s what’s you’ll find:

  • How to understand, accept and be comfortable with who you really are at the core-especially in the presence of a beautiful woman (This is HOT, especially because most guys try to change who they are or impress us)
  • Discover what YOU want, who YOU want, what YOUR boundaries are with women (and how to unleash your natural “male charisma” so that women are automatically drawn to you)
  • Figure out what about you and your unique personality is most appealing to women-and how to highlight those parts of you for maximum attraction in minimum time!

Anyways, here’s that link again Oprah-style: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/020/
Alright I’m done, peace!

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#1 Place To Meet Women: The Grocery Store http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-place-to-meet-women-the-grocery-store/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/1-place-to-meet-women-the-grocery-store/#comments Mon, 22 Jun 2015 20:57:25 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18952 Want to know the #1 Place to meet women that, I guarantee, most men are tapping into?? It’s the grocery store!!!!  I swear. My new Wing Girl, Alex, explains why.  Read on…. The Untapped Dating Potential of a Grocery Store … keep reading

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Want to know the #1 Place to meet women that, I guarantee, most men are tapping into?? It’s the grocery store!!!!  I swear. My new Wing Girl, Alex, explains why.  Read on….


The Untapped Dating Potential of a Grocery Store

By: Wing Girl Alex Temblador (25)

I have this fantasy… I want to be hit on at a grocery store.

Probably not what you had in mind when you heard the word “fantasy.” But you are still interested. A grocery store? Yes, you heard that right. A regular grocery store.

This “fantasy” is actually more of a theory. I have this theory that a grocery store is the perfect meeting spot. I can find out everything that I want to know about a guy based off of where he shops and what kind of food he is buying. I’ve discussed it for four years now with female family members and friends and they all agree, they would love to be approached by a guy at a grocery store.

Each time I see an attractive man at a grocery store, I smile, I give him multiple looks, I “accidentally” run into him several times, but not one of those men have ever taken the bait and approached me. For that matter, I haven’t even had guys I wasn’t attracted to come up and hit on me at the grocery store. I’ve seriously seen zero grocery store action.

Perhaps, men just don’t know that I, a woman, want to be hit on at a grocery store. So here I am, men, from the mouth of a woman, telling you to go up and talk to the attractive girl you see at the grocery store.

There are many reasons why a grocery store is a perfect place for you to meet someone. More importantly, a grocery store provides great ways to approach that beautiful woman browsing the pasta section. I guarantee that once you read through these reasons and check out the tips on how to approach your grocery store crush, you will start seeing the grocery store as a brand new opportunity.

  1. Most single women are going to be doing their grocery shopping alone.

Hate going up to a group of girls alone at the bar only to be shot down by, not just the one that you were seeking out, but all of them? Well, with a grocery store, you don’t have to worry about that. Single women usually shop alone at the grocery store so the intimidation factor is much lower than at a bar or a club.

  1. Look at the type of basket she is using at the grocery store.

A woman pushing a cart rather than carrying a basket is the best kind of woman to approach at a grocery store. A woman pushing a cart is refilling her kitchen cupboards and will be taking her time around the store. Need a second to gather your courage? No problem, because unlike the girl who grabs a grocery basket and is zipping through the aisles grabbing a short list of items, a woman pushing a grocery cart is taking her time and that means you have more time to approach her. Women who are not in a rush are more likely to be open to speaking with you.

  1. Women aren’t expecting to be hit on at a grocery store.

When a woman goes to the club on a Friday night or hits the bar on a Saturday night, we dress ourselves up, do our make up with care, buy a new dress, and sashay into the night absolutely expecting to get hit on, and most likely by men who creep us out or make us feel uncomfortable.

When a woman goes to the grocery store, we are not expecting to get hit on. We are only looking for food.

Let me give you a hypothetical situation using myself. I just got off of an 8-hour work day. I’m tired. My makeup has worn off. My hair isn’t as fluffed and neat as it was when I fixed it this morning. I dribbled a bit of salad dressing on my pants at lunch and am praying no one notices. I do not feel cute or pretty or beautiful when I push the cart through the Trader Joe’s.

Then, a man approaches me with confidence and a smile.

“Hi, I don’t mean to bother you, but is that a fleur-de-lis tattoo?” (I have a fleur-de-lis tattoo).

I nod, “Yeah, it is.”

He chuckles. “Whoever did it, did a good job. Or maybe you just make it look good.” My body gets all tingly and all of a sudden I feel ten times better than I did and more open to talking to this man because he just complimented me at a time when I was not expecting it.

Women guard themselves against compliments at the club. If we show interest in every nice thing someone says at a bar, we might not ever be left alone. But when we aren’t feeling over-the-top confident about ourselves at the grocery store and you come up to us, give us a compliment, we are more open to continuing a small conversation. Later, when you bump into us in the frozen food aisle, we are probably going to feel a little more flirty and confident enough to give you our phone number when you ask.

  1. You are at a place that allows you to bond over one interest that you inevitably have in common.

No matter what kind of activities you are interested in and no matter what kind of activities she is interested in, you and a woman can always bond over one thing: food. Everyone eats food and everyone has a “food story” or an opinion about food. So the easiest way to approach a woman at a grocery store is by using food.

You see a girl holding two different bags of chips, trying to make a decision. Walk up to her and say something like, “Oh, this a tough one. Cheetos are a classic. But on the other hand, Ruffles do go better with any kind of dip. And then with Cheetos, there’s the whole getting orange smears on your clothes and crumbs sticking to your fingers.”

Be playful! She will understand that you are making a joke and will probably go along with it.

Or maybe the cute girl you noticed earlier walks by you when you are looking at the cheeses. You stop her politely, “Excuse me. Do you have any idea how Gouda tastes? My boss is coming over and I’m trying to impress him. What do you think?”

Women love to give advice! And with that advice might bring on some conversation, flirting, and a date.

Food can be good for you in multiple ways!

  1. There are great locations to approach a woman at the grocery store.

Standing in line for the check-out is the best place to approach a woman. She’s not going to move from that line, unless you are making her very uncomfortable. (But you wouldn’t do that, not with all of the amazing advice from this site.) So if the lines are really long that day and the person checking out is moving slow, you may have 5 minutes to talk with this woman.

And you don’t even have to “approach” her. You just have to get in line behind her with your grocery basket to check out. Just make sure you don’t make it seem like you are stalking her in the grocery store, waiting for that moment she goes to pay for her items. Stay calm, be cool, and pretend you went to that line because you are done shopping and it looked like it was the fastest moving line.

Another great location to go up and talk to a woman would be the wine section. Give a good wine suggestion. A man who knows wine, that’s sexy and tells a woman you appreciate the finer things in life.

Lastly, the deli section. You are all waiting in line for the deli guy to call your number. Ask her what deli meat she suggests and see what she says. Then before she knows it, you’re making her laugh, you’ve bonded over deli meat and cheeses, and you’ve made plans to meet up for coffee that weekend.

  1. Look for opportunities to be a gentleman.

I think men forget that women do appreciate a gentleman because women forget they appreciate a gentleman. Even if it seems like girls always go for the bad guys, eventually most women look for the nice guy, the kind guy who helps others and is considerate. A grocery store is a perfect place to put some gentleman-like moves on a lovely lady.

If you see she is having a tough time carrying her bags to her car, offer to help her. Did the handle on her paper bag just break? Hurry, quickly run over and gather all of her items before she dies of embarrassment. She will be so thankful. She can’t reach a box of green tea on the top shelf? Offer to get it for her.

Move your cart when she needs to walk by you. Let her go in front of you in the check-out line. Insist on it when she says, “No, it’s okay. I can wait.” You’ve just won a smile and maybe a phone number.

Be confident, be sexy, but be a gentleman at the grocery store.

Have I convinced you yet in the untapped potential of a grocery store? Think about it like this. When someone asks a woman, “How did you meet your boyfriend?” Do you really think she wants to say, “He bought me tequila shots at the bar”?

Or would she rather say, “I felt horrible after a long day of work, but I had to go grocery shopping. He let me go in front of him in the check-out line and then told me that I looked good in this new red blouse I had on. He was cute, so I let him help me carry my bags to my car. They weren’t even heavy.”

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What Women Are Looking For On A First Date http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-looking-first-date/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/women-looking-first-date/#comments Fri, 19 Jun 2015 01:19:02 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18891 You go on a first date. Do everything right. You make her laugh. You touch her just the right way and she seems to be touching back. The date ends and you are 100% sure that there will be a … keep reading

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You go on a first date.

Do everything right.

You make her laugh.

You touch her just the right way and she seems to be touching back.

The date ends and you are 100% sure that there will be a second date and that she felt the same connection you did.

So you contact her to arrange for the second date and you hear nothing from her. Dead air.

Or you get a text message from her telling you she just wasn’t feeling it but you are a “great guy”.

What the hell right?? You want to know where you went wrong and why she didn’t feel the same connection you thought you did.

As a guy you may see an attractive women in front of you, have a nice conversation for an hour or so, and assume that she’ll be equally interested in a second date. Problem is that women are often looking out for a much broader range of qualities that make you a keeper.

You may not even consider these points when you’re looking for a date: but women will be evaluating on whether they believe you have the right qualities to be a good match for them; whether you have the charisma to keep them interested; and what you can bring to their life long term.

To help you put the pieces of the puzzle together I asked 5 sexy, successful, single ladies to give you their HONEST opinions about what they’re looking out for on a first date and what makes them want a 2nd:

Ria, 27, sales executive

Brittney, 28, admin coordinator

Haley, 31, retail consultant

Rebecca, 29, finance

Sarah, 34, accountant

Q: Imagine you’ve just met a guy for your first ‘official’ date: what’s the first thing you’re looking out for?

Haley: I look for how much of a ‘man’ he is in organizing the date. I once had a guy ask me to make all the decisions as to where we’re going, what I wanted to do etc. and it just felt really dull! Kind of like I was hanging out with my younger brother!

Brittney: Confidence. I want a guy to take the lead! I want to sit across the table from someone that feels like a man to me so that I can feel like a lady.  Ya know?

Sarah: I’m looking for a gentleman, someone who has manners, and is respectful. I don’t want to go out with an immature guy, or a rude one!

Rebecca: I have dated a bunch of guys with no direction or ambition and their looking for me to point them in the right direction. This is NOT what I want from a first date, even if I only want to sleep with them.  Lack of ambition is a huge turn off for me. Doesn’t mean he has to have money. It simply means he needs to see a path in front of him and is working his way down that path. 

Ria: I’m looking for connection. I want to feel something when I go on a date.  I’ve been on a ton of dates where me and the guy have a lot in common but there is no spark there.  That spark is essential for me.

Q: Do you know during the 1st date if there’s going to be a 2nd date?

Haley: Honestly, YES.  I know pretty quickly if I am feeling a connection. I’ve been surprised mid date before but that doesn’t happen very often.

Sarah: I also know pretty early if the date is going to go anywhere. But I will say it also depends on what I want at that point in time.  If I’m on a date and I’m in the “I’m happy I’m single” mode, I may be more open to the guy. But if I’m in “I’m looking for my next boyfriend” mode, I decide pretty quickly. Doesn’t mean I won’t have fun on the date. I just won’t want a 2nd one if I’m not feeling that chemistry or a strong connection and desire to see him again.

Rebecca: I wish I could say that I was really open minded and non-judgmental but I’m not when it comes to guys I date.  I know within the first 5 minutes if I want to see this guy again.  I usually try my best to wrap up the date quickly and not lead him on in any way so that there is no confusion at the end of the date but sometimes it’s tough. Like when I really get along with the guy but I don’t feel anything more for him.  I’m sure he’s thinking, “We’re having a great date” while I’m thinking, “I totally want you to be my new best friend”.

Ria: Sometimes I go on dates where I really get along with a guy and I really wish I felt something more for him but I don’t.  It just isn’t clicking for me and I don’t know why.  I never say anything because I always assume he can feel it too.

Brittany: There are times when I knew before the date even started that there was not going to be a second one.  But then I feel guilty cancelling.

Q: You went out, and you didn’t connect with him. What do you do next?

Brittney: Let it die! Avoid calls, say you’re busy and hope he gives up? I know that sounds horrible but it seems nicer than just flat out telling a guy that he isn’t rocking your world.

Sarah: You have to make excuses sometimes: just to be polite.

Ria: I’ll usually blame myself! I may say I’m not into relationships right now, which is true, I’m not into having a relationship with him but of course if the right guy came along, I’d probably change my mind!

Rebecca: I wish I could say I act like the bigger women.  I tend to avoid for as long as I can and then send a message saying I’ve met someone else.  It’s horrible I know.  I hate hurting someone’s feelings.

Haely: I’ll usually send a text, when he contacts me again, saying I just wasn’t feeling it.

Facts are that men and women have very different ideas of what makes for a great first date: which is why you may think it’s a done deal, when she’s not ready for round 2.

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Weird “flip switch” in women’s brains that make them crave you [Part 3/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/flip-switch-make-women-crave-you/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/flip-switch-make-women-crave-you/#comments Thu, 18 Jun 2015 01:29:59 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18886 Over the past 2 days we’ve covered so many things: The difference between Mr. Creep and the type of guy who women find irresistible How to make your intentions known without being awkward and creepy How to set yourself apart … keep reading

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Over the past 2 days we’ve covered so many things:

  • The difference between Mr. Creep and the type of guy who women find irresistible
  • How to make your intentions known without being awkward and creepy
  • How to set yourself apart from 99% of the guys out there
  • How to smoothly build sexual tension to the point of getting any woman red-hot and ready to go
  • And much more…

In this final part (you can see part 1 here & part 2 here) I want to tell you about the “ultimate” secret to charming the pants off of your dream girl.

It’s called… The Hero Switch.

When you flip this switch, women instantly start seeing you as their ultimate hero. They start coming up with reasons why they NEED you.

They become addicted to you.

And they will start chasing YOU.

If you know how to flip this switch, all the “pick-up techniques,” opening lines, routines and cheesy tricks fly out the window.

It all becomes irrelevant.

All you need to do is flip this switch, and women will CRAVE you.

I guarantee it.

How do I know?

It worked on ME!

And I developed a system so any man can easily learn to do the same.

This is something you need to see TODAY:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/special/htb/010/

This system has worked for thousands of men all over the world, including “real-life 40-year-old virgins”, and men from all walks of life…

If you’ve been looking for that “missing link,” I guarantee you won’t be disappointed.

Let me know what you think!

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These simple words drive her wild [Part 2/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/simple-words/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/simple-words/#comments Wed, 17 Jun 2015 01:21:03 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18881 Yesterday I introduced you to Emily, our fantasy girl next door. I introduced you to Robert, the smooth operator and Mr. Creep, self explanatory – OBVIOUSLY. (If you have no idea what I’m talking about, don’t panic! See part 1 … keep reading

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Yesterday I introduced you to Emily, our fantasy girl next door.

I introduced you to Robert, the smooth operator and Mr. Creep, self explanatory – OBVIOUSLY.

(If you have no idea what I’m talking about, don’t panic! See part 1 here. You’re very welcome.)

Their story is fictional but I see it in reality all too often.

Except Mr. Creep is 98% of YOUR competition out there.

Fortunately, that’s good news for you because if you follow the example I set with Robert you’ll be way ahead of all these guys out there.

But there’s a catch:

Robert is the perfect example of a man who knows how to get things GOING with flirting.

He opens the door but you need to know how to open her… well you know what I mean.

I want you to picture the most amazing Hollywood movie transition right here because we’re going right back into the HEAT of the story.

So, the night is almost over and Emily is having the time of her life with Robert.

He’s been charming, witty and completely grounded.

They’ve spent the night dancing and talking, she’s never been more pumped and exhausted at the same time.

He’s taken her to the back of the bar to sit down at a dimly lit booth.

“Man, you’ve really tired me out tonight” he says to her out of breath.

“Oh… I thought our night was just getting started…” she said teasingly.

You see, what most guys think is that sexual tension builds up in a matter of moments.

But that’s just how a guys brain works, they’re always ready to go at a moment’s notice.

A woman on the other hand… sexual tension builds up slowly but intensely.

Like burning red coals on a hot fire.

All throughout the night, Robert has been building the sexual tension up and all he has to do is release that valve.

Emily wants him so bad.

“So I’m guessing you’re not going to be able to give me anymore… fun tonight…?” she said to him.

She was testing him, to see how far she could go until he’d melt in her hands.

He looked her right in her eyes, completely unfazed.

“I don’t know, I guess we’ll have to wait and see.” he said unwavering.

Emily was about to explode.

She loved it when a guy wasn’t easily manipulated by whatever she said, she loved the CHASE.

“Well… do you like me?” she said, trying to get an answer out of him.

He was stepping into a minefield, one false move and BAM.

“I don’t know… what do you think?” he said to her.

Usually a guy would be so excited by this point, he’d have a hard time choosing where to look.

But Robert was different. He was locked into her eyes and she could feel herself tingling.

Without saying a word, he reached over and started rubbing on her inner thigh ever so gently.

“You really want me don’t you?” he whispered into her ear.

A tingle ran down her spine.

I’m not gonna tell you what she said because I think you get the message.

Short of a natural disaster, nothing could stop Robert from scoring that night.

And he did it all because he knew the simple secrets of how to build sexual tension…

If you can learn to do the same, you’ve got everything you need to build massive sexual tension with whichever woman you desire.

Even a girl like Emily.

I’ll tell you what they are in tomorrow’s email.

One little note to add on: 

A couple of years ago I did a crazy experiment where I invited 31 hot girls and 300 men into a room, and had the guys interact with the girls for 1 minute each.

After their interactions, I had the girls rate the guys on a scale of 1-10, where 1 means “ugh, get him away from me” and 10 means “I want him right now.”

36 guys got 9s and 10s from these hot girls… and they all had ONE thing in common that the other 264 guys didn’t.

And guess what? This one thing is something you can easily learn.

More tomorrow in the 3rd and final part of our little series. Keep your eyes peeled on your inbox!

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Mr. Creep vs Mr. Holy S@*t [Part 1/3] http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mr-creep-vs-mr-holy-st-part-13/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/mr-creep-vs-mr-holy-st-part-13/#comments Tue, 16 Jun 2015 19:18:53 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18877 Have you ever flirted with a girl and it was just FILLED with awkward silences, weird looks and went absolutely nowhere? What’s worse is that it left you discouraged, insecure and scared to try your luck with the next girl? … keep reading

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Have you ever flirted with a girl and it was just FILLED with awkward silences, weird looks and went absolutely nowhere?

What’s worse is that it left you discouraged, insecure and scared to try your luck with the next girl?

I’ll let you in on a little secret about that time you crashed and burned with that hot girl at the bar…

It was just as awkward for her as it was for you.

You’re probably sitting there thinking – “There’s no way in hell”.

But before you say that, let me take you into the mind of a pretty decent looking girl at a bar on a Friday night.

Let’s call our pretty hot, all around awesome girl Emily:

It’s Friday night and Emily just got “persuaded” to go out to one of her favorite bars by a group of her friends.

She didn’t really feel like going out but she decided to shut her friends up, throw on that sexy little dress she’s been wanting to wear all week and head to the bar.

On the way there, she’s mentally preparing herself to get hit on ALL night.

She’s single and looking but unfortunately for her, every guy that hits on her just seems… weird.

Ugh, she tries not to think of it.

The cab pulls up in front of the bar and the music is blaring out onto the street. Her friends are waiting for her at the door.

Endorphins hit her and suddenly she forgets all about getting hit on by creepy dudes.

She gets to the bar and orders her favorite drink, an “Orgasm”.

She braces herself for what’s coming next as she sees somebody nervously stumbling over to her at the bar out of the corner of her eye.

He stammers something out to her but she pretends not to hear him over the booming of the music playing.

Please leave, please – she thinks to herself.

He apparently mustered up some courage because the next time he spoke over to her, he overcompensated and almost popped her eardrum.

“H-h-hey, what are you drinking?” he said. He looked and sounded so nervous, he gave off the impression that he was going to throw up.

“Hi, it’s an Orgasm!” she said laughing a bit at the ridiculousness what she just said.

She was trying to be polite and at the same time give the guy an opening to be the cool, charming guy she was secretly hoping to meet tonight.

She was about to be disappointed.

“Oh is that what you came here for tonight?” he shouted over to her.

Oh my gosh.

Now this could have been seen as cocky or funny but the fact that his unwavering awkward stare didn’t break or that he didn’t seem able to blink while he stood there saying it… made it absolutely creepy to her.

She gave him a half-smile, rolled her eyes and turned her back to him, allowing him to disappear forever.

Rewind.

Right back to the moment where our favorite hot girl Emily gets back to the bar and orders her naughty drink.

She sees a guy approaching out of the corner of her eye and she braces herself.

This time is different.

He walks right up to her and confidently introduces himself.

“Hi, I’m Robert. What’s your name?” he extends his hand out, waiting for hers.

“Hey, Emily.” she reaches out for his hand.

Firm but soft… damn, she’s impressed!

“This is my first time here, what should I have?” he smiles at her and looks at her directly in her eyes as he points over to the bar.

His body language is so relaxed and grounded.

She can feel her cheeks start to tingle.

This guy is sexy…

“An Orgasm, definitely!” Emily says as she lifts her glass.

“2 minutes in and you’re already hitting on me, jeez” he says to her as he laughs a bit.

Emily lights up and starts cracking up.

Smooth, charming and confident.

An Orgasm, indeed!

Do you see the difference between Robert and Mr. Creep?

Robert had confidence, wit and charm.

He let Emily chase him, implying that SHE was hitting on him.

That is the way you open a woman.

While Robert was clear in his intentions, he wasn’t over the top.

He let his body language and facial expressions deliver the fact that he was not a creep and that he was socially “okay”.

Whenever you’re about to approach a girl, you should always ask yourself…

“What would Robert do?” 😉(See Part 2 Here)

The last female friend you’ll ever need,

Marni

P.S. Pay attention: the difference between Robert and Mr. Creep has nothing to do with looks, money, or any of the things most guys think they need… it’s all in the BEHAVIOR… and behavior is something you can LEARN and get better at.

But beyond that, there’s ONE thing (hint: it’s a skill) that truly determines your success or failure in attracting the girl of your dreams.

Can you guess what it is? Comment in the comments sections below and let me know what you THINK it is!

I’ll reveal the answer on my blog tomorrow. I bet it’s not what you think it is!

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What To Do To Get Her Back – This Worked On Me http://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-back-worked/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-back-worked/#comments Thu, 04 Jun 2015 04:56:52 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18856 Lost her and desperately want to get her back?  I’m going to tell you EXACTLY what to do to get her back but I first wanted to share a story with you about my last break up… I was dating … keep reading

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Lost her and desperately want to get her back? 

I’m going to tell you EXACTLY what to do to get her back but I first wanted to share a story with you about my last break up…

I was dating this guy for a few months.  He was great and things were going perfectly…

And then things started popping up that didn’t feel right to me.  Things that tapped on my red flag radar.

Things like jealousy and his temper.

Things that I know can be worked on but at that point in time were not yet resolved.

He and I would talk about these things when they came up but things did not seem to change… and so I broke up with him.

For a couple of weeks we would talk and try to work things out but in my heart of hearts I knew I could not take him back BECAUSE there had not been enough time for things to change.

How can a bad temper and jealousy disappear in 3 days??  It can’t and therefore I was not going to take him back even though I really liked him.

But then this guy did something interesting… Something that I had never had a guy do with me before.

He told me he was going to take some time to work on these issues.  To really learn how to calm his jealousy and control his anger…Being the skeptic that I am, I doubted him at first  but then saw that he was serious about this and it made me happy.

It made me feel special and my respect for him was regained.

And then 3 months later he came back to me, post all his work, and told me about what he had learned…and we got back together!

IF you are currently looking to get back with a girl that you have lost, then ask yourself this…

Other than just wanting her back have things changed??
Meaning would this second round of being with other be different?
In order for woman to “take you back” you have to show that “this time’ will be different because XYZ…
So what is different?
What have you learned from your time apart?
What did you work on?

The sooner you know these answers…

The sooner you have a chance of getting back together.

For more tips on how women work The Hidden Meaning Behind What Women Say & Do check out The Chick-tionary Here:

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This manual gives the full run down of ALL THE THINGS women say that confuses men, written in dictionary format

 

Includes: Bonus MP3 Interviews with beautiful women revealing what the things they say to men really mean

Get it now!

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How To Tell If She Likes You and If You Should Pursue Her http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tell-likes-pursue/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tell-likes-pursue/#comments Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:46:49 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18852 Here’s a Quick Tip: If Women Don’t Respond To You… STOP CONTACTING THEM The Media has taught you that women like to be pursued. But the truth is… WE DON’T!! At least not by someone that we are not attracted … keep reading

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Here’s a Quick Tip: If Women Don’t Respond To You… STOP CONTACTING THEM

The Media has taught you that women like to be pursued. But the truth is… WE DON’T!!

At least not by someone that we are not attracted to, feel no connection to and are not excited by.

So how are you to know the difference between a woman that’s playing a little hard to get and a woman that wants you get the heck away from her???

You pay attention to how much she is giving back to you through her communication.

For example:

Is the woman you are “pursuing” writing you back in timely manner?

Meaning, she writes you back within a few hours. NOT a few days later telling you how she totally missed your message.Is she asking you questions about you and trying to get to know you better?Meaning, she’s sharing herself with you and telling you things about herself. NOT giving you one word responses that tell you absolutely nothing about who she is or what she wants.

Is she making it easy to get together with her?

Meaning, she agrees to go out on dates with you.  NOT flaking last minute or suggesting you hang out with a group of friends.Next time you are  confused about whether or not to continue pursuing a woman, ask yourself the above questions.  Your answers will tell you what to do.

NOTE: Something interesting about us women is that once a man stops showering us with attention and making it super easy for us….  We perk up and pay attention.

IF the girl you are pursuing is not giving you signs she wants to be pursued…. STOP PURSUING.

That may be just the thing that gets her to come around.

For more tips on How To Appear Confident With Women check out How To Become A Man Women Want here:

==>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/how-to-become-a-man-women-want-6/

Go from Mr. Nice to Mr. Holy SH&T in just 30 days!

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If You Want A GirlFriend Read This… How To Select The RIGHT Girl For You http://www.winggirlmethod.com/want-girlfriend-read/ http://www.winggirlmethod.com/want-girlfriend-read/#comments Fri, 29 May 2015 21:26:26 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18860 Can you tell if a woman is RIGHT for you?? Do you know what you want in a partner? Do you know how you want that woman to make you feel? Don’t worry if you answer no to all of … keep reading

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Can you tell if a woman is RIGHT for you??

Do you know what you want in a partner?

Do you know how you want that woman to make you feel?

Don’t worry if you answer no to all of these questions, because a few years ago I didn’t know either… AND actually most people don’t know the answers to these questions.

They think they do, but they’ve never actually taken the time to sit down and get very clear on what they want in a woman.

Whether or not you are looking for a girlfriend, marriage, sex…. whatever.  It’s still super important to get really clear on what it is you are looking for so that:

1. You can communicate your wants to women and quickly filter out women that are not RIGHT for you

2. You can ensure you don’t waste your time investing in the wrong women

3. You can confidently approach, talk to and date women because you now what you want

My friend Susan Bratton, a trusted hot sex advisor to millions of men and creator of Relationship Magic,  has written a short book on how to guarantee you select the right woman to be your girlfriend, a date or just a fun one night stand.

I had a chance to talk to Susan about this book and find out in more detail why it’s so important to know what you want in a woman so that you can select the RIGHT woman for you.

I’ve posted the video below.

Not sure if you will be able to see it here, depending on what device you are using to read this email…

But if you CAN’T see it here I’ve also posted it on my YouTube page.  Go here to watch it now:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJd9uoRsASs

To get a copy of Susan’s awesome book and discover what you want and how to guarantee you select the right girl for you go here:

==> http://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-girlfriend-now

This will take you to a page that will ask you to click on box to describe. Click on the appropriate box, enter your email and then you’ll be taken to a page to get her book :-)

Go here to get the book: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-girlfriend-now

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