I know, I know, women are tough to understand. Trust me, I am one of them and I have a hard time understanding myself sometimes.
My job is to help you avoid making mistakes with women to make life easier for you. I have been putting out mini quizzes on Facebook to see what things men may need my assistance with. Check the one I put out today focused on: What does it mean when a woman says NOTHING?
When a woman says “nothing,” what she is really saying is something is wrong and:
1. I don’t know what it is.
2. I do know what it is, but I want you to pull it out of me because I’m nervous to say it out loud.
3. You should know considering YOU did this to me.
Who knew that NOTHING could have so much oomf behind it! Above, I gave my all in one solution to help you when you run into the dreaded “NOTHING”.
NOTE: When a woman does this, she is not trying to be bitchy, manipulative, or intentionally hurt you. It’s actually not even about you. It’s about her. If you can realize that and stay grounded or unaffected, you will win with her every time!
Solution: Best thing to do in this situation is approach her, touch her softly and tell her you care about her and you’re not going anywhere until you’re sure everything is OK. – GOLD!
But what if she still does not tell you what’s wrong and remains standoffish?
Solution #2: If she is still being stubborn and childish you confidently say to her “I care about you and I’m here to help, but I don’t want to be your punching bag. I’ll be in the other room and when you are ready to come talk to me calmly, I’ll be there for you.”
I love when my husband does this. In the moment, it totally upsets me but it gives me the leadership and support I need in that moment to snap out of my funk. The most important thing that you want to express to a woman during that time is that you still care for her and she will never mess that up. That is what we are most afraid of. You disliking us or messing up perfection.
Want more female behavior decoded? Check out What’s Inside A Woman’s Mind. 44 beautiful women, completely exposing what they want, so you can give it to them. Read More!