How To Flirt With Women: The Right Way To Flirt & Tease

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Just a quickie!

So you know how I sent you that video the other day on how to pass tests with women? Click Here to watch it.

Well, one of my clients who I will call E, wrote me right after he read it and wanted to share a story with me that I now want to share with you.

I’m sharing it because it is the PERFECT example of how to flirt and tease women the right way so that they become attracted to you rather than turned off.

Here’s E’s story:

My buddy, his girlfriend, and her friend were tailgating before a big football game while we were in college. (Big Ten School.) These girls were in a sorority we always paired with. The friend was a 6 foot tall Abercrombie model, gorgeous black girl.

I talked to her a bit at the tailgate, she, her friend and my buddy all went to watch the game at a bar on campus. I caught up with them later.

When I first flirted with the girl, it was really awkward. The two girls leave to have one of those bathroom talks where you know they’re complaining…about you.

Meanwhile, my buddy started ranting at me “Eddie, what is your deal? You have no reason to act so dorky around girls, you’re a good looking guy damn it, what’s your deal?”

These girls come back, I realize that it cannot get worse, so I start to flirt and tease her.

She sits down and leans away and I say “So that’s the best put down you have?” with a smirk on my face.

She looks at me shocked

Me: “Please do better than that, you are too easy”

She folds her arms and rolls her eyes

Me: “Oh shit! The arms folded move? I can handle that..but you
rolled your eyes, I am screwed now!”

She flips me off

Me: “Awww, you like me but don’t want to admit it!”

She faces me, looks me in the eye and just says “Fuck you!” (Not
angry, the kind of anger when you’re teasing them and just NAIL it.)

Me: “You are so cute when your mad, please keep this up.”

Crosses her legs again

Me: “Oh, now you just want to look proper to impress me.?

She yells sheepishly “What do you want me to do?????”

Me: “I was hoping for a half decent put down, didn’t they teach you
one at those model shoots?”

She laid her head on my shoulder like a puppy said cooed “I like
you”.

We made out.

The key here is I had fun with it. Girls know they’re crazy and what they really want is a guy who has fun with them in those moments, not one who tries to fix them or crumbles emotionally.

Marni, I just want to say over the past 2 weeks of actually implementing what you teach from How To Become A Man Women Want, I’ve realized that the reason I struggled with women is that I was so stuck in my head I was totally oblivious to what was going on.

More often than not, women were trying to flirt with me, and I wouldn’t flirt back. Thanks!
-E

******

This is the best example of flirting and teasing which is why I wanted to share it with you.

I could not have written a better example myself!

E held his own. Kept it light, fun and always had a smirk on his face.

Talking to women like this does not take a lot. It just requires you to not be afraid to lose her.

E – you got balls and I love it ;-)

E’s the kind of man that I am always attracted to. One that is not afraid to stand up to me and one that can “bite” back.  Shows me he’s a real man who can handle me and understand me.

Now it’s your turn to go out and try flirting with women like this. I want you to be very careful of the fine line between flirting and teasing AND being a jerk.

If you need more guidance, do what E did and go get my program How To Become A Man Women Want.  It teaches you step by step how to approach and talk to women so that they become attracted to you!!!

Go here to learn more:

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/offers/how-to-become-a-man-women-want

 

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  • Drew

    Wow,

    firstly I’ll admit I’m too much a thinker and not much of an actor (as in taking action, not the tv/movie type). I’m reading this thinking…she flipped him off, physically and verbally…that would have fudged my gears and my brain would have gone on a spasm.

    What I’m getting from this is, teasing girls is all well and good. Its like the horse play guys do with each other…except it needs to be less vulgar, it almost seemed like something you’d do in kindergarten.

    Marni,
    I feel like E ended up teasing the girl as if he was in kindergarten…O.o could it be that simple? hmm…

    • Cheeky Mary

      Yes it needs to be lighthearted and cute. You need to state that she is being a drama queen but never use those words…call her out on her drama and laugh it off.

      • Drew

        Well put, brilliant actually. I guess its best to not take anything personally as well…don’t know why we’re so geared to do that…at least I grew up that way…I have thickened my skin some what now though. Still a ways to go, always.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Drew,
      The interesting things about kids in kindergarten is that they’re organic, they act on impulse.
      The grown up version is impulse plus polish- putting the animal into the social.
      Marni :)

  • Red

    I have to call bullshit on this one, This is pretty much exactly what I do. The best reaction is usually a walk away. The worst, they become completely crazy and start screaming and swinging. Before you say I’m going too far or being too mean, I’m not, on many many occasions their girlfriends apologize to me for their friend being a bitch and end up in a screaming match with them.

    • Cheeky mary

      Sounds like you are doing all this without a smile/smirk on your face or your insults are convincing. You need to be cute about it. It takes work

      • Red

        I asked my best friend (a lesbian) about this today. She said “You don’t do cute, you would probably look ill if you tried, and it just wouldn’t work because it’s not you”.  She always says I should just be myself but has been present for many of my failures whilst being myself, I asked about that, she said “you’re scary, you’re screwed” she also said “they’ll have to get to know you first so they’re not scared” To which I pointed that we become friends and then they don’t want to go any further. She  replied “get a hooker, or just go be a mountain man and get used to being a virgin”.  A prostitute is out of the question, if I can’t get it honest I don’t want it. So I’m guess I’ll start looking for a mountain.

        Take it easy,
        Red

        • kosygin

          Hey Red: You have to ask your lesbian friend exactly what she means by this “you’re scary, you’re screwed” bullshit. She laid this on you–so ask her what the hell she’s talking about. She’s telling you to be a hermit–that’s unacceptable. There are a lot of ugly guys out there, and a lot of big guys out there–and they’re not treated that way. You have the right to be treated like a human being and not some fucking ogre. It’s all games; and it’s all bullshit.

          • Red

            I’m sure she meant it in the best possible way. She just meant people have to get to me to realize I’m not as mean as I look. My dad used to tell me I look like I have “I will kill you” stamped on my forhead. My mom has said if she was sitting in her car in a parking lot and saw me walking towards her she would lock her doors and drive away as fast as she could. I don’t mind being ogre like, it cuts out a lot of the everyday bullshit. The only time it’s problematic is when trying to meet women. Besides I’d be well suited as a hermit.

      • Red

        Did you read my whole statement?

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Red,
      Sorry but, I don’t really understand your situation.
      Maybe if the other women present think that you’re in the right you should focus on them.
      Marni :)

  • unknown

    I think part you guys missed is that he was already a familiar person/guy to them so they new of him from tailgating party’s. So he was in a lot easier then trying this on a women he didn’t know. So he had some idea who she was already. Unlike a perfect stranger. Not say it might not work but still have be little careful.

    • Notdead

      Looking over all these comments i have come to the conclusion that you “men”; using that loosely; are thinking to much. as it was stated he knew her already, they went to school together “These girls were in a sorority we always paired with. ” that statement also implies that he may have seen her on more than that one occasion, even if he did not, she was friends with his buddies girlfriend, she know he was alive, and for the speed of the encounter; I ll take a shot in the dark and say may have been interested in him a little before the conversation. as for all the comments about the mindset of not caring if you lose her, ” go into battle expecting to die and you will surely live, expect to live and surely you will die” in layman’s terms, if you have nothing to lose you wont hold back, but more importantly you wont worry. If you believe there is something to lose then at the first sign things, are going bad your looking for an exit, and really when it comes to approaching girls you don’t know, I ask you this what do you have to lose guys? a bruised ego wont kill you.

      • Joe

        Notdead
        .
        You come here and start insulting people?
        “”Loosely” calling us “men”?
        .
        I guess all men have to be fearless, Billionnaire, Al-Qaeda killing, muscle bound, gods.
        .
        Don’t insult people you don’t know.
        .
        I guess you have never had to actually ask anyone out. Try it sometime. Rejection doesn’t feel good.

  • Rylai Crestfall

    That looks like a fabricated story

    • Cheeky Mary

      whether it is or isn’t, this is the truth. It’s why we test you dumb asses. I was attracted to a guy who did all of that and I haven’t found a guy good enough for me in years. He wasn’t that special to look at but he wasn’t scared of my assertiveness, he bit back. Yum

      • Ding Chavez

        Your tests are useless. They tend to lock out guys who either don’t know they are being tested or don’t know the proper “answers” for the tests. You probably haven’t found a guy “good enough” because you keep disqualifying them.
        .
        You people should announce when you are testing us.
        .
        Would you go to a University and expect that your final will come at the start of the semester before the prof has taught anything?
        .
        I personally don’t care for flirting and teasing and such nonsense. I guess it is an acquired taste.
        .
        Most men aren’t scared of assertiveness. I actually prefer it. Get rid of your tests, they are working against you.

        • Parkey

          Experience is a cruel teacher – the exam first, then the lesson.

        • http://www.facebook.com/nikos.apollonio Nikos Apollonio

          I like this. Tired of games; why can’t women be straightforward and upbeat? And why do so many fall for jerks? Wind up getting hurt or worse.

      • skw

        I can tell a girl off all day long. But then they don’t want to be with you, when you actually tell the real truth to them. She made out with him because he was good looking, plain and simple, but she had some “drama need” also served. Who knows, probably some kind of daddy issues.

      • Marni Wing Girl

        It’s just the way we work! ;)
        Marni :)

      • Speaker of Truth

        OK, let me get this straight, women like you act like immature brats/bitches in order to find guys who in turn act like annoying dicks… well, good luck having any meaningful or gratifying relationships in your deranged world.. I for one am not going to act like a dick and I sure as hell have no interest in women who have bad attitudes and think high-school drama is “fun”. I’d much rather associate with people who are genuine and treat each other with respect, that’s where real connections and relationships sprout from.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Rylai,
      What kind of experiences have you had teasing women? I’d love to hear from you!
      Marni :)

  • kosygin

    I get it: Girl acts immature–Guy behaves like a dickhead: Match made in heaven.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Kosygin,
      Unfortunately, for a lot of us, that’s how it starts! People are scared and put up barriers- we test each other to see that someone is putting enough effort in that we should take those barriers down.
      Marni :)

  • Kevin

    You need bullet proof emotions, a woman will test you to see if you will cave or not.

    • Boydnar

      Exactly right, Kevin. I have said before that what women want is a man who is a psychological and emotional Rock Of Gibraltar. Women want men who are not emotionally REactive. They want men who are emotionally STABLE. Women see emotional STABILITY as both masculine and mature. Women instinctively know that THEY are the ones who live in their emotions and that we men should live in our heads. If a man is rational, thoughtful and stable, it allows the woman to be an emotional being. Women are attracted to what they are not.

      • skw

        “They want men who are emotionally STABLE. Women see emotional STABILITY as both masculine and mature.”

        “Women are attracted to what they are not.”

        Right, they want men to be everything they are not.

        But men cannot say they are attracted to a woman with a flat stomach , big tits and a hot ass, becuase GASP! that’s Sexist! How dare we objectify them!

        Yet they can objectify us all day long. Women get to stand on the rooftops and announce what they want with zero punity, men have to endure being called sexist and misogynist and all these other concocted terms.

        • Joe

          I don’t know what world you live in, sir, but a man should know what he wants and not be afraid to let others know about it. You don’t have to mention it all the time, just go for what you want and not settle for less.

          • Joe

            don’t settle***

      • Marni Wing Girl

        Hey Boydnar,
        Great points. This is especially true for dating, but relationships are about emotional connections and you shouldn’t hide these from a partner otherwise there is little point in a relationship at all.
        Marni :)

      • Ardiana the adventurer

        As for the long term, yes. Ideally, a woman would want to have sex with a bad boy to have his genes. Then marry a good guy, “Rock of Gibraltar” like you say to raise that child and maybe have a second child with him if there’s enough time. The best of both. 10% of children have fathers other than their biological fathers.
        ~AJ

  • skw

    One key point that was glossed over:

    “You have no reason to act so dorky around girls, you’re a good looking guy damn it, what’s your deal?”

    E was good looking, also,

    “It just requires you to not be afraid to lose her.”

    Yes, and how does one get to a GENUINE point of “not being afraid to lose her” ? This isn’t something someone can just BE, no more than a 4ft player can just “BE a 6ft tall basketball player”

    I poked fun at a woman the same way, she didn’t give me her number and never answered any of my emails after that. Oh and she didn’t put her head anywhere near my shoulder.

    how do you answer that one? how about putting that one up as a blog post? No, that doesn’t happen, you only force what you know, in spite of evidence to the contrary.

    If i”m genuinely not afraid to lose her, I’d never talk to her in the first place. if I don’t want or need her company her body her sex, then I would never talk or approach in the first place, would I?

    • MD

      “One key point that was glossed over:

      “You have no reason to act so dorky around girls, you’re a good looking guy damn it, what’s your deal?”

      E was good looking”

      Yes, E was good looking by the sounds of it. And look at what this good looking guy called E was told “you have no reason to act so dorky around girls…” How E was acting was noticeably (he was called on it) impacting on how women perceived him. This implies that E’s actions and behaviour had more power than his looks had.

      “Yes, and how does one get to a GENUINE point of “not being afraid to
      lose her” ? This isn’t something someone can just BE, no more than a 4ft
      player can just “BE a 6ft tall basketball player”

      Are you afraid to lose something you do not have? Probably not. You don’t have a woman you’re talking to so how can you lose her? Whether you sleep with her or you don’t, she remains her own person. You don’t have her so you can’t lose her.

      “I poked fun at a woman the same way, she didn’t give me her number
      and never answered any of my emails after that. Oh and she didn’t put
      her head anywhere near my shoulder.

      how do you answer that one? how about putting that one up as a blog
      post? No, that doesn’t happen, you only force what you know, in spite of
      evidence to the contrary.”

      Respectfully, your evidence to the contrary is that a different woman acted in a different way to the way the woman in the story acted? How the woman you mention reacted would be governed by many different factors, some of which you control and some of which you don’t. Comparing what happened between you and the woman you speak of to what happened in this story doesn’t make logical sense Though pointing out an instance where you’ve used advice and it’s not worked is a fair point.

      “If i”m genuinely not afraid to lose her, I’d never talk to her in the
      first place. if I don’t want or need her company her body her sex, then
      I would never talk or approach in the first place, would I?”

      First of all, you do not have her so you cannot lose her. Secondly, why would you need her? How about simply talking to her because it’s fun or to make her feel good?

  • Parkey

    The danger, I think, of labelling what women do to assess guys as “tests” is that as a guy it puts you in a mindset that you have to have to spot a test and respond to it.

    Wrong. If you’re a strong guy you don’t live reactively. You just need to steer a straight and steady course, by your own internal compass not hers. Do that, and learn the right course, and you have it made.

  • StarSapphiresfan

    I’ve been looking at quite a number of blogs, but this is my first time responding on this particular subject. There are several of you guys out there that seem to cry so much over not being able to attract the “HOT GIRLS” you seem to want right away. At my age (I’m nearly 41), I’m getting even more “girl crazy” now than when I was far younger. I don’t give a damn about shade or size, they will be loved by me as much as I can give. Hell, I’m even willing to give some ladies involved in “grassroots roller derby” an “extra charge” to make their games even livelier. I’m still learning about the dynamics of male/female relations, but the journey has been quite rewarding thus far. Maybe if you guys were this “crazy”, you wouldn’t be here with your sob stories !!!

    • Marni Wing Girl

      An interesting approach.
      Makes you wonder what really does make a man attracted to woman.
      Marni :)

  • Arthur Chapata

    Great tips here. Thanks for the flirting tips!

    • Marni Wing Girl

      You’re welcome!
      Marni :)

  • Eagle

    How about stating the obvious. If a woman acts like a bitch I don’t care how good she looks. I’m not interested.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      That’s entirely up to you, Eagle. ‘Do you think she’s worth it?’ is a really important question.
      Marni :)

  • Speaker of Truth

    Yes, the above example does indeed illustrate something very well, but it’s certainly NOT flirting…. what it demonstrates vividly are the growing number of women who act like immature
    brats/bitches to find themselves with annoying
    dicks… well, good luck having any meaningful or gratifying
    relationships in that deranged world.. I for one am not going to act
    like a dick and I sure as hell have no interest in women who have bad
    attitudes and think high-school drama is “fun”, no matter how good looking you are. (I’ve turned down top models without a thought for this very reason.) I’d much rather
    associate with people who are genuine and treat each other with respect,
    that’s where real connections and relationships sprout from.

    it’s my sincere wishes that all those who still think and act in this ridiculous and negative manner take a look at themselves, decide to grow up, and join the rest of us in the civilized adult world. You may think you like it, but you’re only making yourself miserable.

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