How To Make Decisions in 60 Seconds or Less
29. Dec, 2011 
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Women LOVE men who are decisive and can easily make decisions. It’s the defining quality of a true man.
“A man who can make a decision in a split second, especially when under pressure, is the sexiest thing to me.” – Carly 27
Whether it’s the decision of where to go on the first few dates, what show to watch on TV or how to pack up your apartment on moving day. Decision making is a must have skill for any man who wants to attract and keep a woman interested.
“When a man can’t make an important decision, I think to myself, what do I even need you for. I know it’s harsh but it’s what I think.” – Jennifer 31
Recently, I had my own struggles with making decisions and stumbled upon this amazing resource for how to make decisions in 60 seconds.
Since finding it, it’s been a key resource that I give to all my private coaching clients. Check out what one of my clients said after receiving it:
Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. That is such a powerful piece. That resonated in my heart quite a bit… so simple and powerful. I just started looking at things in the past and asked myself was that me… and no for a lot of the negative stuff.
Thank you so much for this Marni!
-Randall
I got that email about 3 months ago and made a note to send you the decision making tool but then totally forgot.
Then I got this email an email from an email coaching client Shawn telling me he “was listening to the interview with Jake and there’s something I am guilty of . That is not making decisions especially in the beginning (with women) which later turned catastrophic.”
So I of course sent him the FREE tool for how to make decisions in 60 or less and he also loved it:
Marni,
This is a question I should have actively asked myself in my previous relationship. The question not only relate to male/female relationships but as the article indicates, it affects everyday life.
Moving forward, this is the type of approach I will take, not only for selecting and dealing with women, but also generally. As a matter of fact I tried it this morning and it was much easier than what I was doing before.
I may have told you that I recently developed a fear of approaching women at the train station. Well, this morning I never had on a rubber band but I imagined myself stinging myself with one, then asking myself “do I really want to stand here and not approach her?” after that I found myself moving up to her and played a prank. I asked her if she realized that an orange spot was on the back of her pants. She started looking for it then I smirked and told told her I was just joking, then she smiled, the train came at the same time. I never continued the interaction as she was not someone I was attracted to but I just did it to get over that fear and to train myself to say anything to anyone as long as it’s not disrespectful.
So, now I want to give this tool to you as well!
Discover how to make decisions in 60 seconds or less with this free tool. Click Here To Download It Instantly For FREE!
Use this tool for every decision you make moving forward. It’s been a life saver for me and it will be for you too!
Happy New Year!!!!!!
She’s not going to be like “OMG you made a quick desision…pull your pants down! lol
@Kevin…I have to agree with Marni on this
one.Women generally appreciate decisiveness/
ability to lead because it usually is accomp
agnied with other attractive alpha-male
traits.A woman never wants to hear from
a prospective male romantic partner “Well,
I don’t know…I’m not really sure..”
However,I agree with you…the effects of
displaying such decisiveness aren’t going
to be immediate.
Being sarcastic Chris.
So Marni, decisive to the point of ordering her meal from the menu, or decisive to the point of “Saturday Night, I’m taking you out.” What about the guy who’s considerate & wants to know what she wants (a question in every man’s mind, except for jerks, or players only looking to score).
“Women generally appreciate decisiveness/
ability to lead because it usually is accomp
agnied with other attractive alpha-male
traits.”
IT’S EVOLUTION, BABY!!!
- PEARL JAM.
Happy new year all! Yes decisiveness is sexy no doubt about it.
Marni, I hope you havent banned Skw – it would be seen as a grand failure on your part and as a fellow Canadian I wouldnt want that.
Skw – if you still can access this site, heres my advice for 2012 – instead of whining about your looks and saying YOU dotn care about fashion, just go for it – hit the gym again and dress in a style that both you like but is trendy as well.
Also, and I hope Marni doesnt overblow this with a “Mark you have a very good point” type of remark because LOOKS ARE IMPORTANT but I would say, skw, looks are to some extent more important if we make it that way. If you basically go to a girl with a lame line like here i am , of course that only works for hot model types. But if you connect theres a better chance.
yeah, like Carly 27′s and
Jennifer 31′s opinions are even real.
oh, if a man immediately decides that i’m sexy, i’m like totally ready and willing – Gabby, 72
the link doesn’t work… help please?