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How To Show Confident Body Language When Approaching A Woman Part 2

 November 16, 2011

Last week I sent out an article on how to show confident body language with women.  Tons of guys wrote in saying they loved the article and were thankful that I put it up there. Didn't realize this topic was in such high demand!

I had one of my past clients, Alastair write in and also comment on the article and let me know that he has been doing some extensive research work in the field of body language.

Here's what he wrote: The body language stuff has always interested me, alongside behavioral psychology. I've been studying both subjects for the last two years and I have to say that I love being able to utilize the skills in my communication with women.

After receiving this email, I asked Alastair if would be able to create a special report for me on how to show confident body language when approaching women.  I asked him to combine what he has learned through his schooling on body language, working with me and working with other great dating & attraction experts.

He agreed, because he is also learning to become a life coach and happily put together a quick and easy guide listing 9 Tips For Confident Body Language.

When I received it last week, I loved it and instantly wanted to share it with you.

Click Here to download Alastair's 9 Tips For Confident Body Language!

Want to see if your body language is telling women what you want it to??  Set up a strategy session with me and within minutes I will tell you exactly what women think of you and how your body language makes them feel.

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  • http://- Joel

    Thank you Marni!

    I have a question,can women sense,that you can read body language or something, without saying a word? Seems to me,that they can…women are cats? Right? They sense your vibe and energy?
    …or it’s just my imagination?

    Just curious…

    Thank you!

    Greets from Estonia!

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Joel

      Women are attune to body language, and it is a key way that you communicate with a woman ie. you could be saying the most confident thing, but if your body language displays insecurities then the message won’t get across correctly!

      So in a sense it is this combination of communication (what you say, how you say it, body language and expression) that gives the appearance of your ‘vibe’ as a whole

      I hope that clarifies things for you :-)

  • Thomas Zermani

    Marni

    How can buy the tapes that cover the topics on the next page.

    Thanks
    Tom Zermani

  • MUHAMMAD YASIR

    I have a question,can women sense,that you can read body language or something, without saying a word? Seems to me,that they can…women are cats? Right? They sense your vibe and energy?
    …or it’s just my imagination?

    • Kevin

      Of course they can sense your energy and vibe, that’s what women are all about.

  • christofer

    I think that most men can get a sense of
    whether or not a woman is friendly & open
    by studying her body language.However
    being adept at reading body language won’t
    necessarily translate into any sort of
    success.

  • Parkey

    That’s a pretty good report and thanks to Alastair for sharing it.

    Something that I’ve only recently started to fully appreciate is this idea of “sending”, that we’re constantly broadcasting our emotional state to everyone around us, especially women. Women are very empathic creatures and they absorb and take on whatever emotions they perceive in the people they’re interacting with.

    First point here is that I think there’s a dance going on, like in ballroom dancing, women are looking for men who lead them emotionally through good experiences. Often they will open the dance by appearing unfriendly and cold to test your lead, to see if they can lead you, which would be a bad thing.

    I discovered this when I was learning actual dancing. Some new partners would scowl at me and seem cold and unfriendly. It used to upset me. Then when I decided I didn’t care, that I was there to enjoy myself regardless I was shocked to find those frowns just melting away into smiles.

    The second point is I think that women need to be emotionally led into feeling attraction and arousal. I went for months and months being strong, confident, funny, and really started to connect with women for the first time in my life, but never did they feel attracted to me. Why? Because I wasn’t leading them there.

    If you look at a woman and think “you’re a lot of fun, I like you” she will have a completely different experience to if you look at her and think “you’re so sexy, I want you”. I can’t over emphasise this point. She can’t read your mind but emotional states are a different matter altogether. If you want her to feel something go there yourself first.

    If you feel nervous and scared… guess what will happen.

    I think being in the right headspace is absolutely crucial if you want good nonverbal communication.

    Would be interesting to hear Marni’s take on this.