Comments on: How Women Use The Shit Test http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/ I Am Your Female Friend Who Will Help You Get The Girl Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:45:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-2027 Marni Mon, 05 Jul 2010 16:15:32 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-2027 Mark, Great question. Women show the same respect by using the same tactic that is requested in this article, EMOTIONAL CONTROL. It's about staying calm and not taking direct offense when your partner or person you are dating is having a weak moment. As a little insight, and a repeat of what I say throughout my materials, is that women want to be women and men want to be men. When women feel their most feminine around a man, they are the most attracted and vice versa. Mark,

Great question. Women show the same respect by using the same tactic that is requested in this article, EMOTIONAL CONTROL. It’s about staying calm and not taking direct offense when your partner or person you are dating is having a weak moment. As a little insight, and a repeat of what I say throughout my materials, is that women want to be women and men want to be men. When women feel their most feminine around a man, they are the most attracted and vice versa.

]]> By: Mark http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-2025 Mark Mon, 05 Jul 2010 05:10:18 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-2025 Good question indeed, Orit and nice side step. Now how does the woman show the man some respect? BTW Marni, thanks for a fantastic article that really gives an insight into the female POV, brilliant stuff. I'm sure the lass who said "don't give our secrets away" was light hearted about it. Orit this doesn't mean you're off the hook. Or if you're stumped Marni or one of the other girls can answer. Otherwise perhaps respect is a one way street. PS men, can you refrain from jumping in with an answer please? I want to hear the girls' POV on this one. Hope you all have a great day! Good question indeed, Orit and nice side step.

Now how does the woman show the man some respect?

BTW Marni, thanks for a fantastic article that really gives an insight into the female POV, brilliant stuff. I’m sure the lass who said “don’t give our secrets away” was light hearted about it.

Orit this doesn’t mean you’re off the hook. Or if you’re stumped Marni or one of the other girls can answer. Otherwise perhaps respect is a one way street.

PS men, can you refrain from jumping in with an answer please? I want to hear the girls’ POV on this one.

Hope you all have a great day!

]]> By: anthony http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1858 anthony Mon, 24 May 2010 06:14:43 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1858 A) I was about to get you a drink, but I didn’t want you to think I wanted to get you drunk B) She’s okay (then look at her like with desire), but you’re the hottest girl here (watch her blush) C) Of course I’m a player, just looking for the right woman to reform me (wink) D) What can I say, I’m no match for your wit, but I can drive a pretty fast Ferrari, can you? These are suggested answers given to their respective questions. And here is somethings women will reply in return. A) I just had one tonight. (You will then feel obligated to buy her a drink since you suggested you didn't buy her one in the first place because you were worried whe was going to get drunk) B)Thank you. (She is obligated to say something like this, but she doesn't really mean it since every other guy every night at every bar has said the same thing as that) C) I kinda like the idea here, but without the word player and a cheesy wink. Who winks? D)Why whould i respond like that way if i don't drive a Farrir? I think what the author was going for was to demonstrate how men and women think and how and why we play games. I love this. What the author missed was the actual real life interaction men and women have with words. An understanding is great. The next step is to actually have the words that make up the interaction which lead to communication of ideas and beleifs and all that is great and wonderful in a relationship. Lets look at some better examples of what the guy could have said: A) You) I don't even know you. Let's start with a name. You are? She answers You) Well ____ Why should I buy you a drink and not all the other women around here? B)Who her? Yeh she seems nice. (then move expressing that it was weird for her to ask) C)I'm social. D)Your cute. You remind me of my little cousin. Always being a wise ass. A) I was about to get you a drink, but I didn’t want you to think I wanted to get you drunk
B) She’s okay (then look at her like with desire), but you’re the hottest girl here (watch her blush)
C) Of course I’m a player, just looking for the right woman to reform me (wink)
D) What can I say, I’m no match for your wit, but I can drive a pretty fast Ferrari, can you?

These are suggested answers given to their respective questions. And here is somethings women will reply in return.

A) I just had one tonight. (You will then feel obligated to buy her a drink since you suggested you didn’t buy her one in the first place because you were worried whe was going to get drunk)
B)Thank you. (She is obligated to say something like this, but she doesn’t really mean it since every other guy every night at every bar has said the same thing as that)
C) I kinda like the idea here, but without the word player and a cheesy wink. Who winks?
D)Why whould i respond like that way if i don’t drive a Farrir?

I think what the author was going for was to demonstrate how men and women think and how and why we play games. I love this. What the author missed was the actual real life interaction men and women have with words. An understanding is great. The next step is to actually have the words that make up the interaction which lead to communication of ideas and beleifs and all that is great and wonderful in a relationship. Lets look at some better examples of what the guy could have said:

A) You) I don’t even know you. Let’s start with a name. You are?
She answers
You) Well ____ Why should I buy you a drink and not all the other women around here?
B)Who her? Yeh she seems nice. (then move expressing that it was weird for her to ask)
C)I’m social.
D)Your cute. You remind me of my little cousin. Always being a wise ass.

]]> By: Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1845 Marni Mon, 17 May 2010 21:21:26 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1845 Absolutely Art! The more authentic and honest we are the better results we will get. It's all the crap in our mind and beliefs about what we "SHOULD" be that get us clouded and insecure. Absolutely Art! The more authentic and honest we are the better results we will get. It’s all the crap in our mind and beliefs about what we “SHOULD” be that get us clouded and insecure.

]]> By: Art http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1844 Art Mon, 17 May 2010 21:14:26 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1844 these are not "secrets"... we humans have been here for over 2000 years and there's nothing new under the sun.. just more real and true info being put into the mainstream community and more ppl being open and honest in times of so much dishonesty... the honest ppl want what's real..and tired of all the games for centuries.. that's all... we only have a short time in this life...let's get on with it! Right Marni? these are not “secrets”…
we humans have been here for over 2000 years and there’s nothing new under the sun..
just more real and true info being put into the mainstream community and more ppl being open and honest in times of so much dishonesty…
the honest ppl want what’s real..and tired of all the games for centuries.. that’s all…
we only have a short time in this life…let’s get on with it!
Right Marni?

]]> By: Jean-Paul Dorst http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1701 Jean-Paul Dorst Tue, 23 Mar 2010 00:34:08 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1701 I am 60 years old and I am dating women in my age range as well as women who are 20 to 30 years younger. Those women who are around my age or may be 10 years younger do not use the shit test with me. Typically they stay with me for up to 6 months. Then they leave me for good with the reason that I am too busy with my career and do not spend enough time with them. The ones who are much younger always use the shit test which I only passed once with a Chinese girl who actually was my girlfriend for 5 years before she moved to Vancouver. I am also usually more succesful with women who are French speaking. This could be because I feel more at home in French which is one of my mother tongues in addition to German. I am living in a Canadian province where only 6 % of the population speak French. How can I get the same results with the majority of English speaking Canadian women where I live? And why do only younger women apply the shit test? I am clueless! I am 60 years old and I am dating women in my age range as well as women who are 20 to 30 years younger. Those women who are around my age or may be 10 years younger do not use the shit test with me. Typically they stay with me for up to 6 months. Then they leave me for good with the reason that I am too busy with my career and do not spend enough time with them. The ones who are much younger always use the shit test which I only passed once with a Chinese girl who actually was my girlfriend for 5 years before she moved to Vancouver. I am also usually more succesful with women who are French speaking. This could be because I feel more at home in French which is one of my mother tongues in addition to German. I am living in a Canadian province where only 6 % of the population speak French. How can I get the same results with the majority of English speaking Canadian women where I live? And why do only younger women apply the shit test? I am clueless!

]]> By: Felix Barbossa http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1696 Felix Barbossa Fri, 19 Mar 2010 02:27:11 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1696 Tell me if this is a good line to handle any shit test? "Get off your pedestal or stop shitting on it. :)" Tell me if this is a good line to handle any shit test?

“Get off your pedestal or stop shitting on it. :) ”

]]> By: Marni http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1652 Marni Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:33:14 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1652 I think this is a great test and I have actually talked about this many times before in both my newsletters and on my blog. BUT this may not necessarily mean that she is a gold digger or of bad character, it may mean she was brought up differently. It may be in her experience that it is rude to offer to pay on a first date with a man. Again, all tests are great but they don't have to be deal breakers. I think this is a great test and I have actually talked about this many times before in both my newsletters and on my blog. BUT this may not necessarily mean that she is a gold digger or of bad character, it may mean she was brought up differently. It may be in her experience that it is rude to offer to pay on a first date with a man. Again, all tests are great but they don’t have to be deal breakers.

]]> By: David http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1649 David Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:15:22 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1649 I have one shit test for girls: When the check comes, does she reach for her purse? Don't worry, I'm paying and I'm not bitching about that part. But it would be nice to at least acknowledge that we could easily spend $400 per month on dinners and drinks if we go out once a week. But if a girl does pass my shit test..... Well, it's only happened once or twice so I don't even know what I would do. Yup, I'm bitter. I have one shit test for girls: When the check comes, does she reach for her purse? Don’t worry, I’m paying and I’m not bitching about that part. But it would be nice to at least acknowledge that we could easily spend $400 per month on dinners and drinks if we go out once a week.

But if a girl does pass my shit test….. Well, it’s only happened once or twice so I don’t even know what I would do.

Yup, I’m bitter.

]]> By: james http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-women-use-the-shit-test/comment-page-1/#comment-1634 james Fri, 05 Mar 2010 01:22:48 +0000 http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=3667#comment-1634 i Love women but my happiness came after my marriage in loving myself and doing things for myself like learning my grandfathers instrument (guitar) i am still learning and pursuing a degree in history also so i can work in a museum yes i would like to find a passionate woman who shares my interests however i speak my mind and demand the utmost honest upfront in a woman i do not play games i Love women but my happiness came after my marriage in loving myself and doing things for myself like learning my grandfathers instrument (guitar) i am still learning and pursuing a degree in history also so i can work in a museum yes i would like to find a passionate woman who shares my interests however i speak my mind and demand the utmost honest upfront in a woman i do not play games

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