How To Smile At A Woman – First Step To Being Attractive
11. Oct, 2011 
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Learn the first step to being attractive to women!
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The first step to being attractive to women is very simple: you just need to smile more!
I’m not talking cheesy smile, like the picture to the left. As a woman, that smile says to me “needy, eager and not enough man for me”. Which translates into A GUY I DO NOT WANT! Even if that’s not who he is, it’s what his smile says about him.
I’m talking sexy smile, The smile that says something behind it. George Clooney is the KING of this type of smile. This is the smile that gets you dates, sex and overall attention from women.
But WHY is smiling so important?
Flashing a smile, when you see a cute woman walking past, lets her know that you’re interested in getting to know her better. It also says “I’m confident and I’ve got things to smile about”.
A smile is the universal signal for ‘I’m a happy, positive person, come say ‘hello’!’.
So you should get into the habit of smiling: lots. Smile at beautiful women in the mall, at an art class, at the gym, at work, in a coffee shop, in a bar, and start engaging them in conversations, getting numbers and dates!
It sounds so easy (and it is) but I get that smiling is not an automatic reflex for everyone. But like other skills or reflux we don’t have naturally, we can do a little work and train ourselves to do it.
For example, I used to have a habit that when I would be really interested in what people were saying to me, I would frow my brow. I didn’t realize that I did this and didn’t realize that my frowed brow sent a message to people that I was judging them, or communicated to them that I didn’t like them. So, I worked on it and made a conscious effort to not frow my brow.
Now I couldn’t remember, right off the bat, not to frow my brow: as frowning had been a habit of mine for years. So I used a little trick to remind me to soften my brow and keep smiling!
Back when I wanted to get over my approach anxiety, I used to wear a rubber band around my wrist, that I would snap to remind me to not be afraid and get back into my body. Now that my approach anxiety is gone, I used the rubber band on my wrist as a reminder to ease up that brow and smile. It took a few weeks of me snapping my wristband to remember what to do, but soon my frown pretty much vanished.
I soon noticed that people seemed more relaxed around me, and responded more warmly to me. This is because I was giving out signals that I was approachable, and that I was appreciating what they were saying.
Smiles are great communicators, and do a lot of the hard work of approaching a woman for you.
So if you have trouble remembering to smile, or have a natural ‘frown face’ when you meet new people; you need to work out your own technique to get smiling.
If you have a face that has a serious expression (even when inwardly you’re feeling happy) then you may need to find your own version of my reminder-wristband. Maybe try another special accessory or item, or every time you become conscious that you didn’t smile take ten seconds to put a smile across your face, so you get into the habit of beaming.
Learn To Have The Sexy Smile Women Are Attracted To.
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- Go watch any George Clooney movie and watch how to smiles at women
- Go sit in front of your mirror and practice doing that same smile, but obviously give your own spin to it. Do this for 1 week.
- Find 3 females (co-workers, friends, sister) and ask them what your smile says to them
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Smiling may not seem natural now, but just like any new skill, you can learn to incorporate it more often. Once your natural instinct is to smile when you see a woman that you like, you’ll start getting a lot more smiles back, and (hopefully) a lot more great interactions, numbers and dates with the women you want. You will have mastered the first step to becoming a more attractive man.
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Taking advantage of your gender to men are you Marni??
What’s really funny, Women do smile at me first from all ages! I think a lot of them are just being polite.
Again, the biggest reason we don’t do this is because we dont want the smile not to be returned because were not attractive and hot looking enough.
The actual technical art of smiling though is one of the hardest ones to master, this is my biggest challenge at the moment. Because Marni is correct, a cheesy, approval-seeking smile and your looked at like a piece of dirt even if that woman would otherwise find you cute and sexy. On the other hand, flash the smile right and the ladies love you…
Possibly the most underrated aspect of day game, cheers Marni for bringing it up, I just returned from the gym and the shops and because I havent mastered my smile, didnt use it to any women I walked by and consciously thought about it, so very relevant at the moment.
You are very welcome Mark. Thanks for posting.
For now – All you gotta do is smile. That’s the first step. Second step is tweaking.
You can even ask women on the streets. Say, what did you think when I smiled at you. It’s not a line, it’s general interest and research during your research phase.
Marni, how much of it is general hotness and how much of it is the WAY you smile?
Dont know if you get The Only Way Is Essex over in Canada but a couple of episodes ago there was a great example of a perfectly executed smile as Mark Wright walked by a hot blonde girl in the street. Then again, hes extremely hot looking….
May splurge 300 of my hard earned kroner next pay cheque to get your advice on my smiling, as I dont have the balls yet to ask this to random women. Will this offer be on indefintely?
I really can’t smile right now.
I went mountain biking since I followed Marni’s advice to be proactive
,and I went off a dirt jump and smacked my mouth on the ground, so now my upper lip is cut and swollen and it hurts to smile. My chin is scraped and the spot under my nose is black,shoulder hurts, knee hurts..lol. Shit happens, could have been worse.
Was funny cause these little 10 year old kids came running over “Are you alright? Is your nose broken? Then this little girl came over and gave me a small bag of ice with anyone asking her to do so
“Go watch any George Clooney movie and watch how to smiles at women”
It’s kind of hard to smile like him without looking like him.
All you got to do is smirk.
Watch the end of “The Wild One” with Marlon Brando.
The look he gives the girl when he gives her the trophy.
I think it’s important to smile less with your mouth and more with your eyes, which isn’t easy because you can’t fake it. You actually have to feel happy and sexy inside and have enough of it to give out a surplus to those around you.
Something amazing I learned recently was with the women who seem cold and unreceptive. As soon as I adopted the attitude “You aren’t smiling at me? Well screw you, I’m enjoying myself and giving out this feeling regardless. Nothing you can do will dampen my mood.” I was finding that the ice would quickly melt and they’d start smiling back.
I agree it’s very hard if you’re radiating a genuine smile for someone not to eventually smile back
Marni,
The correct terminology is “furrow” your brow, not “frow”. Excellent advice on smiling, though. I’ll be sure to slap George’s grin on my face tonight.
Hearty Thanks, dear Marni.
George Clononey is an ideal example of an suave
& poised masculine. Very centered & ontriguing.
A tremendous real life role model, to guide us.
A veritible blessing for to point it out.
Something still tell me that one could have a far more
– potent & enigmatic – smile than his.
Thank for the directions indeed…
Calm,
Hearty Thanks, dear Marni.
George Clononey is an ideal example of an suave
& poised masculine. ( Very centered & intriguing )
A tremendous real life role model, to guide us.
A veritible blessing for you to point it out.
Something still tell me that one could have a far more
– potent & enigmatic – smile than his.
Thank for the directions indeed…
Calm,
I’ve found that the smirk a.k.a “george clooney smile” works best for me. Even if sometimes I don’t get a response back from women. I think it this works at its best when as a man, you don’t expect nothing back in return.
Like how you descirbed that smile Farley, and yes you should do things for you… not just to get a certain response
I don’t smile at women first, they smile at me first instead, I give a smirk back but I’m not attracted to the women that smile at me.
I find too that many women smile at me and i dont find them attractive at all. Maybe a step up is Not a step down:) Recently i did get a welcomed smile, learned one thing that i need to be quick to follow with it regardless of whats all happening.
Also find that theres times smiles aren’t easy, ie there not right there to flash, w/ Clooney it seems to be akin to his normal expression. gonna get a mirror and tach it to my desk
I like this idea Ric. If you get a smile it’s always worth approaching. Even if you’re not very attracted to the woman, you may change your mind if you hit it offf…or she may have cute friends that she could introduce you too