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Live Example of How To Talk To Women & Make Them Feel You Using OSA

 July 16, 2012

I stumbled across some footage that was shot earlier this year at an event I spoke at for a group of 100.  Wanted to share it with you, because it gives a great example of my “method for conversation” which I call OSA (Observation, Sharing and Asking).

I put quotations around “method for conversation” because, if you know me well, you know I am not into method’s, routines or techniques.  But I do realize that everyone needs a starting point for guidance.

OSA, is not a routine, it’s a way of talking to women so that you can express yourself and let them feel you. So important in communication with women.  It’s also a way to talk to women and focus on YOU and YOUR world, rather then attempting to jump into a woman’s world.

I talk about OSA in full detail in my programs How To Become A Man Women Want  (click here for more details) and The INSIDhER (click here for more details).

Watch this video and tell me what you think!

So what did you think? If you liked this video please share it with friends and write a comment below.

  • Jamiel Cotman

    O

    No

    HE

    DIDN’T

    Start off by saying, “You’re the cutest girl in this Museum.” What happened to the, ‘don’t put her on a pedestal’ theory/thing?

    When I first got into pickup I knew better than that. I think the pedestal theory was the first principle I learned. It goes something like…

    …attractive women are used to getting compliments, undue attention, gifts, and overall Queen-like treatment from guys who want something, so guys who don’t do these things [i.e., a bad boy] tends to stand out to her.

    It’s the underlying belief that women won’t like me unless they have some type of incentive [meal,gift, compliment, undue attention].

    Of course it’s just a basic, but it was all I had and all I used when starting out.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Hey Jamiel

      I’m glad to hear that you’re escaping this mindset: “It’s the underlying belief that women won’t like me unless they have some type of incentive [meal,gift, compliment, undue attention].”

      Believe that people will want to be with you, for you, and that’s what makes you really valuable to someone else

      Good luck

      Marni :)

  • http://www.upgradingyourself.com JR

    Funny how you can actually feel this guys level of confidence rise up from just the beginning to the end of this short video. It actually goes to show you how easy making conversation really can be.

  • Raaj

    Its like no hold’s barred with the explicit language! But good examples used all the same to demonstrate the “method”..

    • Marni Wing Girl

      I’m glad you enjoyed this one Raaj

      Marni :)

  • Marc

    This is the kind of 1-on-1 I need but I don’t have anyone to practice. I’ll also feel very embarrassed.

    • Marc

      Excuse me, I meant practice with. My mistake.

  • daisy

    I love love this video because it really is so informative the OSA its going to be a tool that I will use daily. These videos truly make me feel confident each and every one thanks so manri your the best.

    • Marni Wing Girl

      Great to hear Daisy!
      Keep at it.
      Marni :)

  • mc

    I like this video. It has black curtains that are really black ;-)