Pick-Up Artist or Artist of the Science Behind Social Dynamics?

Are the pick-up artists of the world slowly molding into Artist of the Science behind Social Dynamics?

I think so.

A lot of the leading male “PUA’s” out there have embraced the idea that inner/natural game is the key to success and that pick up lines and routines are just forms of manipulation. Manipulation against women but also against themselves.

This is a belief that myself and The Wing Girl Method have held for a very long time.

I wanted to tell you about a man/client/user I have been interacting with a for over a year now through email.

He first came to me bitter and angry at women challenging my abilities to assist him. At first, I told him that I had no interest in being challenged but I would be ready to assist him when he was ready to receive information.

I think the response caught him off guard and he quickly softened and became open. I think I was the first honest and blunt women he had ever encountered, just a guess

Over the year, he has changed considerably and sends me quotes from his psych courses and insightful notions that he now believes.

He sent me a note this morning that I thought I would pass on to #1 toot my own horn, but also show you how a man who was once angry can slowly transform into an open well balanced human being.

“I guess I’m practicing on leading – not reaction seeking. Trying to convey that they’re (women) just as equal as I am that what I say is really not as important as I’m making it out to be. I do remember the post where you said your responses, 95% of the time dictate the response, or feeling of the other person.

The only thing different than me in comparison to other guys is my intentions are perfectly pure. I’m intruiged by social dynamics because I understand how important it is to hold a relationship. I believe unhealthy minds attract unhealthy people – and healthy to healthy. At the moment, I’m building myself up because like you said – women want a MAN not a passive male who is constantly evaluating himself and making sure his performance will please her.

I really want you to know that your posts helped me a lot, it opened my eyes and softened my point of view towards others and influenced me to understand others. I’m driven to make others comfortable – to not do nice actions purely to get positive results. You’ve changed my personality completely as well as other – I don’t want to say pick-up artists, it sounds corny – artists of the science behind social dynamics.”

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