Women are cultured into thinking they need to be nice, sweet, and polite to EVERYONE…so naturally…we usually are…EVEN if we’re not interested in you.
Coincidentally, this can be really confusing to guys when they’re genuinely interested in a woman.
So in order to tell the difference whether she’s gazing adoringly at you or just smiling out of social obligation, I had one of my trusty wing girls write this awesome blog about the difference…
Here it is!
Smile Cheat Sheet: The Flirty Smile vs. The Polite Smile
By: Allysa Pappas
Everyone knows that awkward feeling when you catch someone’s eye and sort of give that half-smile – you know, that “Oops, now I have to acknowledge that I see you” smile. But how do you know if it means more? How do you know if she is actually flirting with you? Below I’m going to give you a quick Cheat Sheet on how to tell if the smile you’ve just received is a polite one or a flirty one!
I’m sure you’ve seen my video on “smirking” and this is something that all women do, and WILL do when they are trying to flirt with you. It’s subtle yet speaks volumes, and one of the biggest cheats I can give you. If she is smirking her eyes will be just slightly squinted, but still have some depth behind them, like there is something more she is trying to say. The smirk exudes confidence and that’s what you want to look for, a confident smile is a conscious smile, not one that is just being given to be nice.
BONUS: This works wonders for guys too… I urge you to practice and master the smirk and use it on women you come across, because what do women love? CONFIDENCE. Here is the video for reference: http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-smile-at-a-woman-to-make-her-want-you-2/
Do this with me right now. Turn your mouth into a tight half smile. Doesn’t feel genuine, does it? This is a great example of a polite smile that says “I’m literally just trying to not be rude because we accidentally caught each other’s eye”. A true, flirty smile will re-shape the face, and along with the eyes changing, you will see it in the cheeks. Practice these two versions in the mirror as well, you will notice how you face adapts to a real smile and can better gauge it when you’re on the receiving end.
Also, a flirtatious smile usually comes a half second after the eye contact. This smile is usually slow and sultry – think shy and sweet – not quick and forced. The speed of this type of smile is key because the longer you linger, and the longer she tries to keep your attention, the more intentional and deliberate it is.
I have to be honest. If I accidentally caught your eye and was smiling to be polite, I will make it my mission, as long as we are still in the same building, to avoid any possibility of that happening again. Promise. But, this cheat is simple – if a woman gives you a smile, looks away, and then looks back a second time, you know that she is not just trying to be polite, and that there is something about you that intrigues her. Even the most confident women get nervous and embarrassed easily, so by looking back over at you hoping to catch your eye again, we’re definitely giving you a bit of a signal.
So next time you’re out at the grocery store, gym, or bank, and you get a smile from across the room, consider these 3 cheats to help you tell if what you received means a little more than: “Oh shit”.
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