ANNOUNCEMENT: I got a weekly gig with Scorch, Boston’s #1 rated afternoon personality. From now on I will be a weekly guest on P.F.G, part of Rock 101 fm‘s weekly line-up! I have actually been on the show several times over the past few weeks and I am having a blast. Check out my most [...]

What Women Find Attractive and Unattractive?  The answer revealed! Last night I was partaking in my usual Monday night, guilty pleasure of watching the Bachelor Pad.  In case you don’t know the Bachelor Pad is a spin off of the Bachelor series where they take ex contestants, put them in a house and have them [...]

Want to know the #1 Secret To Dating Younger Women? I get at least 2-3 emails a week from men asking whether or not they can date girls who are younger than them. I always find this to be such a strange question because there should never be any limitations on who you can and [...]

Every day I talk with another man who says ” well I guess I am just going to have to settle for what I can get with women.” and I say to them STOP SETTLING FOR WOMEN YOU DONT WANT! Start getting the women you do want instead! There is no need to settle and [...]

Why do women flake on plans? Have you ever made plans with a women and then 30 minutes before meeting she sends you a text saying “Totally forgot. I have plans to meet my grandmother and can’t make it” or “Seems work has called me in last minute. Can we reschedule?” I am pretty sure [...]

Do-Able vs. Date-Able, What Do Women Want? For me it’s dark, vibey hair.  That’s the first thing that catches my twinkling, single eyes when I walk into a bar, film event, concert, whatever.  Maybe it was working in the music industry or spending a lot of time in granola Santa Cruz, but guys with shaggy-ish [...]

I have been that girl who has given my number with absolutely no intention of answering the phone.

I know it’s wrong but it’s so much easier and less awkward to give out my number then to say “sorry I’m so not into you and I will never answer my phone when you call. I do not want to go out with you.”

Why oh why do you keep ending up in the friend zone? I am sure this is a question you are constantly asking yourself. Let me try to explain why this keeps happening to you by using an everyday example so that it may be easier for you to understand. My friend is having a [...]

Learn to spot the subtle signals women give when they are interested in you.

For those of you who don’t know what “Peacocking” is, it is the action of dressing to stand out, or to have an item of clothing or an accessory that looks interesting, allowing the girl to comment on it if she is interested in starting a conversation with you. As a woman I know what [...]