How To Talk To Women

The most common questions I receive from men all over the world are about How To Talk To Women? And it got me thinking why is this question so common? Why are men so confused on how to talk to women and then I realized it was because the way that men talk to one another and the way women talk are totally different.

When women talk, they look for connectors, emotional connectors. So men that understand this about women, have an upper hand over other males.

So what I am going to do, with the help of my friend Bill, from PUA Forums, is teach you a few tools to use so that you can connect to women in conversation and will never again have to ask me how to talk to women.

Bill discusses what he uses to remember to connect with women when talking with them. He remembers to  Listen, Confirm and Affirm which I thought was genius and as a woman I can say these actions are definitely appreciated and rewarded at any stage, be it attracting, dating, relationship or marriage.  Connecting to women does not stop once you get her number.

Here is a brief summary of Listen ,Confirm and Affirm

Learn – Learn something about a woman by asking a question or by having her tell you something about herself

Confirm – Confirm you have heard her by talking about the topic at hand for example giving your own take on the topic either by sharing a story or expanding on hers

Affirm – Affirm that because of this “thing” she has told you makes you like her more

Listen to the full audio (16 minutes) that gives a much longer description with exact examples on how to talk to women and how to connect to them through conversation.  After you are done listening to the video, Click Here to see another one of Bill’s famous moves called The Whiskey Kiss!

To watch a video on how to perform the Whiskey Kiss Click Here!

How To Work A Room: Starting Conversations With Women

Want to know 3 easy ways to Start Conversations With Women? It’s actually pretty easy as long as you use one of the 3 conversation starters outlined below. I found these tips in this month’s Men’s Health Magazine.

3 Great Tips for starting conversation with women and chatting up – and charming – any woman whether you’re at an office function or a cocktail party.

What Do I Talk To Women About?

What do I talk to women about?

ANYTHING

There is no wrong conversation to have with a woman. Well maybe except how you are a big fan of XXX rated porn. But even that, with the right woman, may be a perfectly normal conversation.

The thing is that you must stop thinking about what SHE wants to talk about. Think about what you want to talk about and go from there.  Throughout your life you have had many conversations before right? In fact I am sure most of them have been very successful and even easy!  That means you already have the skills you are just freaking out because you THINK that conversation with women needs to be different. It doesn’t!

The only thing you need to be careful of is that you are present in the conversation.  That means that you are listening, engaging and present.  Not off in never never land, fixating on whether or not she is into you.

To warm up your conversation tools, I have a mini assignment for you.

I want you to write down 10 questions which can be anything from “So are you from around here?” to “What was your favorite toy when you were a child?”. Up to you.  Then go PRACTICE these questions.  Practice at home in front of the mirror, in public with live human beings and on real women.  The more you practice and use your conversation tool the easier conversation will come to you.  The more you do it the more natural it will feel and the more automatic it will become.

To help others, post some of your questions. This way you can get feedback and also help others who may not be able to come up with questions.

Remember, these questions have to work for you.