Tips For Meeting Women and Combating Rejection: Get The Mentality of a Salesman

I always say that you have to have the mentality of a strong, confident, successful sales man to survive in the world of dating.

Why? Because dating and meeting women require you to have the ability to laugh in the face of rejection and realize that rejection is not a bad thing, it’s a great thing.  Seriously.

A couple of month’s back I spoke at the Global Pick Up Conference with about 25 other men.  Each of those men had a very similar story about how they rose to be a top expert in dating and meeting women. They attributed their success to their acceptance of rejection.

Their stories all went something like this:  “I used to be the horrible with women.  I didn’t get dates, I didn’t have sex and the only women whose attention I could get were a 6 or lower.  So I started practicing.  I went out every night, I approached trying a bunch of different styles and I figured out what worked for me.  I got rejected over and over and OVER again and then suddenly things started clicking.  Women started responding more favorably.  I was still getting rejected but I was also getting accepted.”

And their stories build from there.  They reveal how they didn’t learn to beat rejection but they learned to accept it, move past it and try again.  Very similar to what successful salesmen do.  Always remember the best of the best have all had failures.

I subscribe to several different online newspapers and I stumbled upon a great article this morning on Inc.com that talks about the psychology of successful people in sales.  It labels them as Happy Losers. I loved this idea and it sparked this post.

I suggest you go read this article cause it has some great points about how to handle rejection. To read the full article go to: Inc.com

How Sexy It Is To Be Direct With Women

I want to show you an example of how sexy it is to women when a man is direct.

I recently saw the move Vicki Christina Barcelona, staring Penelope Cruz, Scarlett Johansson and Javier Bardem.

The movie is about 2 women who go traveling for the summer to explore new things and find themselves. During their travels they meet a man played by Javier Bardem.

Javier’s character is sexy, straightforward, direct and again SEXY.

Their first interaction with him is at a restaurant where he comes up to their table and asks them, very directly, if they would like to come with him on a trip. He states that it would be filled with fun, good wine, good food and GREAT SEX. He really said it just like that.

After he said this, I could feel the libido’s of all the women I was watching with start to get rise and get excited. This is every woman’s dream.

Yes, I know, Javier is a handsome man but it was not just his looks that got us excited it was the way he made his offer.

Now this is an extreme example of a man being direct but it is an important one.

Javier’s character wanted something. He was direct and offered it and was okay if it was declined.

SEXY, HOT AND SOOOO ATTRACTIVE!!

This is what I hope you are able to accomplish. Doing things for you and not for women.

Definitely check out this movie if not for just Javier but the kiss between Scarlette Johansson and Penelope Cruz . Click here or click the image below to get the movie.

Let me know what you think.