Am I Into This Girl?

As a follow up to my last post “Why Do Women Give Out Their Phone Number and Not Answer?” I wanted to talk about a huge issue that I hear from my clients all time.

The issue is that a lot of my clients (men) are so focused on whether or not a woman likes them, that they forget to ask themselves

“Am I into this girl?”

This is one of the most important questions you can ever ask yourself because it will stop you from getting all wrapped up in “the game” and keep you focused on reality.

The next time that you go and approach a random girl I want you to focus on her rather than yourself.

Ask yourself the following questions:

1. Do I find her interesting?

2. Is she engaging me?

3. Do I like her?

4. Am I attracted to her?

Remember, this whole process of meeting people and approaching them is about finding someone who is right for you.

Not about making everyone like you.

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Pick-Up Artist or Artist of the Science Behind Social Dynamics?

Are the pick-up artists of the world slowly molding into Artist of the Science behind Social Dynamics?

I think so.

A lot of the leading male “PUA’s” out there have embraced the idea that inner/natural game is the key to success and that pick up lines and routines are just forms of manipulation. Manipulation against women but also against themselves.

This is a belief that myself and The Wing Girl Method have held for a very long time.

I wanted to tell you about a man/client/user I have been interacting with a for over a year now through email.

He first came to me bitter and angry at women challenging my abilities to assist him. At first, I told him that I had no interest in being challenged but I would be ready to assist him when he was ready to receive information.

I think the response caught him off guard and he quickly softened and became open. I think I was the first honest and blunt women he had ever encountered, just a guess

Over the year, he has changed considerably and sends me quotes from his psych courses and insightful notions that he now believes.

He sent me a note this morning that I thought I would pass on to #1 toot my own horn, but also show you how a man who was once angry can slowly transform into an open well balanced human being.

“I guess I’m practicing on leading – not reaction seeking. Trying to convey that they’re (women) just as equal as I am that what I say is really not as important as I’m making it out to be. I do remember the post where you said your responses, 95% of the time dictate the response, or feeling of the other person.

The only thing different than me in comparison to other guys is my intentions are perfectly pure. I’m intruiged by social dynamics because I understand how important it is to hold a relationship. I believe unhealthy minds attract unhealthy people – and healthy to healthy. At the moment, I’m building myself up because like you said – women want a MAN not a passive male who is constantly evaluating himself and making sure his performance will please her.

I really want you to know that your posts helped me a lot, it opened my eyes and softened my point of view towards others and influenced me to understand others. I’m driven to make others comfortable – to not do nice actions purely to get positive results. You’ve changed my personality completely as well as other – I don’t want to say pick-up artists, it sounds corny – artists of the science behind social dynamics.”

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Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men?

Of course we do. We just want to be able to make the choice to have sex.

Speaking for myself, as a woman, I like sex. It’s fun and it feels good. What’s not to like.

I will be honest and tell you that I am a good girl who used to be very prude when I was younger.

The reason i was so prude was that I was uncomfortable. Uncomfortable with boys, my body and myself.

Not a good combo if I ever wanted to have a mind blowing sex life.

When I was 18 I went backpacking and safely kissed my way up the east coast until I met a very special guy who totally broke me out of my shell.

The first time we were making out he said to me “I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop.”

I can tell you there was no hand slapping and I got very comfortable.

The reason for this was because I felt that I was in charge of my sexuality. I was getting to make the choice and that alone put me at ease.

Women want to be sexual. Women want to be sexy and women want to live out crazy sexual fantasies but they need to feel safe and secure.

They want to know that they are the ones making the choice and not being forced or pushed into being sexual.

I never want to feel judged or pressured. I don’t want to be tossed in the slut category and therefore I am very conscious of who I give my sexuality to.

Women want to be unlocked. Trust me. Even the purest of pure want an adventure.

As men, you can give women a safe place to be sexual. Just like my backpacking friend did for me.

Next time you are getting intimate with a woman, try his move and I promise you will get great results.

Too Much Outer Game =’s BAD NEWS

If you signed for The Wing Girl Method’s newsletter filled with great tips and tools to attract women, you would have received an article that I wrote about a year ago. This article is about one of my clients that was obsessed with outer game.

Obsessed to the point where he found himself constantly losing women.

Don’t get me wrong, I love outer game.

It is fun, engaging and easy.

Usually when I am out for a night and I interact with a guy we banter, I do my dance for him, he does his dance for me and it is fun.

It only becomes an issue when there is nothing past the outer game but an empty man.

BORING, UNATTRACTIVE and NOT SEXY AT ALL.

If a man is all about outer game he is basically equivalent a magician.

A magician is there to entertain for the evening then disappear from your life but will continue to do his show night after night after night.

One of the men who signed up for The Wing Girl Methods newsletter and received the full article on Outer Game wrote me today and added his two cents in response to the article. I thought his input was a great addition and feedback that would be helpful to you.

“This is so real. i’ve lost so many women due to over gaming. and really, i think it was really out of fear. fear that if I didn’t
have her utterly captivated and laughing and if i wasn’t escalating sexually that i would lose her.

It’s funny (and a bit tragic) that when i learned these things – i became so enamored with the tools that i lost touch with my own body, my own feeling of things. and when i’d rewind i could notice that “hmm. . . that interaction felt off . . . i pushed too hard . . . i missed the transition point . . . i came across as eager and try hard.” painful to see but good to learn.

I love the banter and the flirting too. and i find it’s good to pepper it into interactions as a spice but not the whole meal.

i really am loving your stuff. thanks so much for doing it.”

What this man has said was that only working on his outer game took him so far out of his body that he was not able to enjoy the actual connections he was attempting to make.

Routines can work. They can break you into conversation but they can’t keep a person engaged for longer than an evening.

It is so important to have a balance of inner game and outer game. When you are truly balanced you will see it is not a game at all but YOU. A confident, self assured, whole YOU.

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The Master Plan

I have said to you several times that as a man, being able to attract women is part of your genetic make up.

Why? So you can have sex and make babies.

So what is stopping you? It is that thing on the top of your shoulders called YOUR HEAD.

Your head tells you:

- I am too fat
- I am too bald
- I am not rich enough
- She will reject me
- I will have nothing interesting to say

It never ends.

I wanted to introduce you to a friend of mine Scot Mckay who has just completed a wonderful program called The Master Plan.

This program is all about how you, as a man, can tap into your natural ability to pickup and attract women.

It is a fantastic program with detailed examples, interviews with top specialists (including myself) and much more.

I have taken a clip from the interview between myself and Scot. We talk about what women want from men.

This is only 5 minutes of the 50 minute long interview that is part of The Master Plan and my interview is only a small piece of the entire program.

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Take a listen and go check out the entire program by clicking here.

Stuck In The Friend Zone Again?

Why oh why do you keep ending up in the friend zone? I am sure this is a question you are constantly asking yourself.

Let me try to explain why this keeps happening to you by using an everyday example so that it may be easier for you to understand.

My friend is having a barbecue and has tons of meat on the grill and I say to him “Can I have that white piece of meat that is on the top shelf?”. He may look at me confused and I may have to explain my request.

Now what if I were to say “Can you I have that piece of chicken on the top shelf second from the left?”.

There is no room for confusion. He knows what I want and can give me exactly what I am asking for.

See where I am going with this?

I find that a lot of men are not very clear in asking a woman for what they want. If you want a woman to see you sexually ask for it.

Don’t try to be sneaky and ask to be a friend. Because you know what’s going to happen don’t you?

YOU WILL BE THE FRIEND.

This is a form of manipulation, an unconscious form but still a form.

So next time you meet a woman be very clear on what you are looking for and I can guarantee you will not find yourself in the friend zone.

Remember the only one sticking you in the friend zone is you.

If you are living in or around Toronto, Canada you should come to The Wing Girl Method’s open house where we will discuss Avoiding The Friend Zone.

To read more details on the open house Click Here.

Should Men Buy Women Drinks?

Should you buy a woman a drink? Depends.

First ask yourself a few questions:

Are you buying this drink to be a gentleman?

Are you buying this drink cause it’s polite?

Are you buying this drink so that she won’t run away?

Are you buying this drink so she’ll like you?

If you answered YES to any of these questions then DO NOT BUY HER A DRINK.

I think it is really important to acknowledge when you are doing things for other people and when you are doing things for yourself. Women are attracted to men who do things for themselves.

This does not mean they like selfish men but women like men who are confident enough not to be lead by what others think or want. Not swayed by trying to please others.

So next time you think to offer a drink to women think about why you are doing it. If you are buying it because you want to and you have no “REASON” behind buying the drink then buy it.

If however you feel that buying a drink will automatically lead you somewhere with a women than 9 times out of 10 you will be sadly be disappointed.

Let me know what you think.

Carlos Xuma Interviews Marni

Carlos and Marni discuss the importance of setting boundaries with women.

Carlos Xuma is a well-known expert in the dating field. Xuma argues that most of the problems men face in romance and attraction stem from a gender disadvantage, as women are socialized to be collaborators and communicators from early childhood, and men are socialized as independent and competitors.

His unique methods of instruction start with rehabilitation of a man’s self-confidence. He describes the three primary parts of a man’s masculine confidence as: 1) Self-esteem (how worthy a man views himself), 2) Self-image (the roles or actions a man can and cannot envision himself performing), and 3) Self-confidence (how certain a man is about his world and abilities in general.)

For more info and programs from Carlos go to: http://innergame.carlosxuma.com/?aid=094343

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Welcome to the Wing Girl Method

Hello, and welcome to the Wing Girl Method. I’m Marni, the owner and creator of The Wing Girl Method.

My Wing Girls and I created this site to teach you all about WHAT WOMEN WANT in a man so you can use this information to more effectively attract women.

The Wing Girl Method is the first program to provide men with a female perspective on how to attract a woman.

My team of Wing Girls and I are able to tell you what women want in a man simply because we are women. What turns women on, what turns wommen off and what attracts women to you.

The Wing Girls and I have made it our goal to teach you every secret there is to know about how to attract women. We believe a man that truly understands women is a man with complete power. The power to make women fall head over heels.

Women are going to hate me when they discover what I am about to start teaching you. Through these blog posts, our dating tips newsletters, our wing girl services and our relationship advice products available through our website, I am going to reveal every secret that women have tried to keep hidden for years.

I am doing this because I believe it is time for nice guys to finish first.

No more becoming “The Friend”, no more wishing she was yours. It is time to get every woman you have ever wanted to crave you.

One thing I will tell you is that “GAME” is just like any other skill. It requires time, practice and dedication.

Just like any other program or lesson, it will only work if you work at it.

If your goal is to be with more women, to become a player, a pickup artist, or a PUA … then it is your job to take the right steps to make this happen.

You have already made the first step by reading this article.

The next step is taking the lessons you learn and put them to practice.

If you want to get a jump start on your progress I suggest checking out our “How to Become the Man Women Want” program.

No male can ever be with a woman if he is not the MAN that they want.

Stay tuned for more blog posts and newsletters in the coming weeks, with tons of useful information all written from a female perspective.

Topics such as how to balance your outer game with your inner game, being a man, how to avoid becoming the cash cow and increasing your options with women.

Are you ready to learn all about what women really want?

You better be …

The Wing Girls are here to assist and advise you throughout your process.

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