Too Much Outer Game =’s BAD NEWS

If you signed for The Wing Girl Method’s newsletter filled with great tips and tools to attract women, you would have received an article that I wrote about a year ago. This article is about one of my clients that was obsessed with outer game.

Obsessed to the point where he found himself constantly losing women.

Don’t get me wrong, I love outer game.

It is fun, engaging and easy.

Usually when I am out for a night and I interact with a guy we banter, I do my dance for him, he does his dance for me and it is fun.

It only becomes an issue when there is nothing past the outer game but an empty man.

BORING, UNATTRACTIVE and NOT SEXY AT ALL.

If a man is all about outer game he is basically equivalent a magician.

A magician is there to entertain for the evening then disappear from your life but will continue to do his show night after night after night.

One of the men who signed up for The Wing Girl Methods newsletter and received the full article on Outer Game wrote me today and added his two cents in response to the article. I thought his input was a great addition and feedback that would be helpful to you.

“This is so real. i’ve lost so many women due to over gaming. and really, i think it was really out of fear. fear that if I didn’t
have her utterly captivated and laughing and if i wasn’t escalating sexually that i would lose her.

It’s funny (and a bit tragic) that when i learned these things – i became so enamored with the tools that i lost touch with my own body, my own feeling of things. and when i’d rewind i could notice that “hmm. . . that interaction felt off . . . i pushed too hard . . . i missed the transition point . . . i came across as eager and try hard.” painful to see but good to learn.

I love the banter and the flirting too. and i find it’s good to pepper it into interactions as a spice but not the whole meal.

i really am loving your stuff. thanks so much for doing it.”

What this man has said was that only working on his outer game took him so far out of his body that he was not able to enjoy the actual connections he was attempting to make.

Routines can work. They can break you into conversation but they can’t keep a person engaged for longer than an evening.

It is so important to have a balance of inner game and outer game. When you are truly balanced you will see it is not a game at all but YOU. A confident, self assured, whole YOU.

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Stuck In The Friend Zone Again?

Why oh why do you keep ending up in the friend zone? I am sure this is a question you are constantly asking yourself.

Let me try to explain why this keeps happening to you by using an everyday example so that it may be easier for you to understand.

My friend is having a barbecue and has tons of meat on the grill and I say to him “Can I have that white piece of meat that is on the top shelf?”. He may look at me confused and I may have to explain my request.

Now what if I were to say “Can you I have that piece of chicken on the top shelf second from the left?”.

There is no room for confusion. He knows what I want and can give me exactly what I am asking for.

See where I am going with this?

I find that a lot of men are not very clear in asking a woman for what they want. If you want a woman to see you sexually ask for it.

Don’t try to be sneaky and ask to be a friend. Because you know what’s going to happen don’t you?

YOU WILL BE THE FRIEND.

This is a form of manipulation, an unconscious form but still a form.

So next time you meet a woman be very clear on what you are looking for and I can guarantee you will not find yourself in the friend zone.

Remember the only one sticking you in the friend zone is you.

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