Can Older Men Date Younger Women?

You better believe it.

I get at least 2-3 emails a week from men asking whether or not they can date girls who are younger than them.

I always find this to be such a strange question because there should never be any limitations on who you can and cannot date.

Listen, if the girl is 16 I am obviously going to advise against it but if she is legal and you connect then I play ball!

The real question I like to throw back at these men is why are you are putting boundaries around your social life.

As I have always said, stop thinking about what complete strangers (women) want and start going after what you want. The only thing that stops you from getting what you want is your own head. So if you think that a younger women will not be interested in you then she won’t be. How could she be?

Thinking that younger women will not be attracted to you is an issue with YOU not women. The longer you have this belief the longer you will not be dating younger women.

The way to get rid of this belief is simple. Just throw it out the window and stop letting your insecurity about your age be your crutch or defense mechanism.

I can tell you that I have a lot of female friends who prefer dating older men.

I thought it would be interesting to interview them and see why they preferred dating older men compared to men their own age.

“Older men are like a breath of fresh air. Most of the men that are my age (26) are not comfortable in their skin yet. They are still figuring themselves out. I did that 3 years ago and am ready to be with someone that is a little more mature, independent and confident.” – Melissa 26

“I like to date men who are in their late 30’s – early 40’s. They are less headaches and are more open to communicating because they are not worried about looking cool and being macho. Plus they know who they are or are at least closer to getting there then men my own age.” – Jennifer 27

“I have dated younger men and I have dated older men and I definitely prefer dating older men. They are just better. Men who are younger or my age don’t really interest me. I find it easier to connect to older men.” – Belinda 35

Everyone around you is an option and therefore women young or old will be attracted to you as long as you are attracted to yourself.

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They feel that older men are more mature and comfortable in their own skin compared the men that are their age.

Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men?

Of course we do. We just want to be able to make the choice to have sex.

Speaking for myself, as a woman, I like sex. It’s fun and it feels good. What’s not to like.

I will be honest and tell you that I am a good girl who used to be very prude when I was younger.

The reason i was so prude was that I was uncomfortable. Uncomfortable with boys, my body and myself.

Not a good combo if I ever wanted to have a mind blowing sex life.

When I was 18 I went backpacking and safely kissed my way up the east coast until I met a very special guy who totally broke me out of my shell.

The first time we were making out he said to me “I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop.”

I can tell you there was no hand slapping and I got very comfortable.

The reason for this was because I felt that I was in charge of my sexuality. I was getting to make the choice and that alone put me at ease.

Women want to be sexual. Women want to be sexy and women want to live out crazy sexual fantasies but they need to feel safe and secure.

They want to know that they are the ones making the choice and not being forced or pushed into being sexual.

I never want to feel judged or pressured. I don’t want to be tossed in the slut category and therefore I am very conscious of who I give my sexuality to.

Women want to be unlocked. Trust me. Even the purest of pure want an adventure.

As men, you can give women a safe place to be sexual. Just like my backpacking friend did for me.

Next time you are getting intimate with a woman, try his move and I promise you will get great results.

Too Much Outer Game =’s BAD NEWS

If you signed for The Wing Girl Method’s newsletter filled with great tips and tools to attract women, you would have received an article that I wrote about a year ago. This article is about one of my clients that was obsessed with outer game.

Obsessed to the point where he found himself constantly losing women.

Don’t get me wrong, I love outer game.

It is fun, engaging and easy.

Usually when I am out for a night and I interact with a guy we banter, I do my dance for him, he does his dance for me and it is fun.

It only becomes an issue when there is nothing past the outer game but an empty man.

BORING, UNATTRACTIVE and NOT SEXY AT ALL.

If a man is all about outer game he is basically equivalent a magician.

A magician is there to entertain for the evening then disappear from your life but will continue to do his show night after night after night.

One of the men who signed up for The Wing Girl Methods newsletter and received the full article on Outer Game wrote me today and added his two cents in response to the article. I thought his input was a great addition and feedback that would be helpful to you.

“This is so real. i’ve lost so many women due to over gaming. and really, i think it was really out of fear. fear that if I didn’t
have her utterly captivated and laughing and if i wasn’t escalating sexually that i would lose her.

It’s funny (and a bit tragic) that when i learned these things – i became so enamored with the tools that i lost touch with my own body, my own feeling of things. and when i’d rewind i could notice that “hmm. . . that interaction felt off . . . i pushed too hard . . . i missed the transition point . . . i came across as eager and try hard.” painful to see but good to learn.

I love the banter and the flirting too. and i find it’s good to pepper it into interactions as a spice but not the whole meal.

i really am loving your stuff. thanks so much for doing it.”

What this man has said was that only working on his outer game took him so far out of his body that he was not able to enjoy the actual connections he was attempting to make.

Routines can work. They can break you into conversation but they can’t keep a person engaged for longer than an evening.

It is so important to have a balance of inner game and outer game. When you are truly balanced you will see it is not a game at all but YOU. A confident, self assured, whole YOU.

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How Sexy It Is To Be Direct With Women

I want to show you an example of how sexy it is to women when a man is direct.

I recently saw the move Vicki Christina Barcelona, staring Penelope Cruz, Scarlett Johansson and Javier Bardem.

The movie is about 2 women who go traveling for the summer to explore new things and find themselves. During their travels they meet a man played by Javier Bardem.

Javier’s character is sexy, straightforward, direct and again SEXY.

Their first interaction with him is at a restaurant where he comes up to their table and asks them, very directly, if they would like to come with him on a trip. He states that it would be filled with fun, good wine, good food and GREAT SEX. He really said it just like that.

After he said this, I could feel the libido’s of all the women I was watching with start to get rise and get excited. This is every woman’s dream.

Yes, I know, Javier is a handsome man but it was not just his looks that got us excited it was the way he made his offer.

Now this is an extreme example of a man being direct but it is an important one.

Javier’s character wanted something. He was direct and offered it and was okay if it was declined.

SEXY, HOT AND SOOOO ATTRACTIVE!!

This is what I hope you are able to accomplish. Doing things for you and not for women.

Definitely check out this movie if not for just Javier but the kiss between Scarlette Johansson and Penelope Cruz . Click here or click the image below to get the movie.

Let me know what you think.

Welcome to the Wing Girl Method

Hello, and welcome to the Wing Girl Method. I’m Marni, the owner and creator of The Wing Girl Method.

My Wing Girls and I created this site to teach you all about WHAT WOMEN WANT in a man so you can use this information to more effectively attract women.

The Wing Girl Method is the first program to provide men with a female perspective on how to attract a woman.

My team of Wing Girls and I are able to tell you what women want in a man simply because we are women. What turns women on, what turns wommen off and what attracts women to you.

The Wing Girls and I have made it our goal to teach you every secret there is to know about how to attract women. We believe a man that truly understands women is a man with complete power. The power to make women fall head over heels.

Women are going to hate me when they discover what I am about to start teaching you. Through these blog posts, our dating tips newsletters, our wing girl services and our relationship advice products available through our website, I am going to reveal every secret that women have tried to keep hidden for years.

I am doing this because I believe it is time for nice guys to finish first.

No more becoming “The Friend”, no more wishing she was yours. It is time to get every woman you have ever wanted to crave you.

One thing I will tell you is that “GAME” is just like any other skill. It requires time, practice and dedication.

Just like any other program or lesson, it will only work if you work at it.

If your goal is to be with more women, to become a player, a pickup artist, or a PUA … then it is your job to take the right steps to make this happen.

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