Not sure if you knew this or not but for the past 10 days I was in Europe. First the amazing Paris, then breathtaking Florence. I was there for a little R&R as well as some coaching.
I have to say that on this trip I had one huge myth crushed for me. The myth that Italian men are masters with women. Turns out, they are not! They too make the same mistakes that sooooooo many men make in the US, Canada, UK etc….
To paint a picture, I'll tell you a story about this one situation I witnessed where this one guy made the same mistake that I know you make when approaching women.
So I was out for dinner and went to sit outside with my girlfriend when 2 VERY cute girls walked up to check out the menu.
As these girls are checking out the menu, 3 cute Italian guys walk by. 1 of them sees the girls and signals to his friends that he's spotted hot girls and is going to approach. I was so excited to actually witness a real live approach from an Italian.
So the guy walks up and stands right beside the 2 girls and then….
The bonehead just stands there waiting for the girls to turn around and initiate conversation with them. I was like “This is how Italian men approach women and start talking to them???”.
I get uncomfortable watching this, the girls are uncomfortable and the guy is super uncomfortable as he just stands there for literally 30 seconds waiting.
Finally I butt in, trying to be his Wing Girl and start telling them how great the food is and they should definitely go inside and ask the guy if he's been here before thinking the guy would jump on board with what I said. BUT NOTHING!!!!!!
The girls thanked me, looked at the guy who still said nothing, looked back at me with a confused look on their face and then walked inside.
I looked over at his friends, shrugged my shoulders and smiled. They of course laughed and then gave their friend a hard time as he walked back to them.
That guy was crushed and I felt horrible for him. Good thing his friends were there to help him laugh it off. I literally was about to go over to him and start coaching him, but I remembered that I was on vacation and let it go.
Now, I look at this story as an interesting experience. Even though my belief that Italian men are masters with women was shattered. It showed me that men around the world have the exact same fears when it comes to approaching women AND they make the same mistake when approaching women.
The mistake being that this guy expected the women to initiate a conversation even though he was the one who approached them.
Those girls were NEVER going to be the aggressors and initiate conversation. If they did then his attraction level would instantly plunge to a new level of low. They would take on the masculine role and he would become the female. NOT GOOD and certainly not attractive.
So what should this guy have done?? How could he have initiated ATTRACTIVE conversation with these women?
He could have used my method, OSA – Observation, Sharing, and Asking.
I think I've sent you this free video before, but I want to send it to you again as a refresher. It's a 7-minute video that will break down for you, exactly how to approach and talk to ANY woman in ANY situation.
Just click the play button below to watch it so you can see how to approach women & start talking to them:
Now that you have seen OSA, it's time to try it out on your own. Know that I have been using OSA for over a decade, so it comes quite naturally to me. It will be challenging at first, but I promise if you keep practicing you will own it within a week.
For the next week, approach EVERYONE using OSA. Even your friends. You should be using OSA on at least 10 people each day.
If you can't find 10 people, get off your butt and go to a grocery store. There are people everywhere
I want you to really notice how it feels when you talk this way with people. I also want you to take notice of how others are reacting. I have given OSA to over 10,000 men as a tool for how to talk to women and each of them has thanked me. I know you will too
If you have any questions, post them below and I will be sure to answer them!
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