Being with the wrong woman will ruin your life and destroy your mental peace. Every day will bring new drama and you don't want that. That's why I want to help you select the right woman to date or be in a relationship with by sharing the 10 green flags to look for in a woman.
If you spot these green flags in a woman while getting to know her, she is a keeper. You can continue to escalate your relationship with her. So pay attention and read till the very end so you don't miss any of these 10 green flags to look for in a woman. Let's get into it. Here are the 10 biggest green flags to look for in a woman.
#1) Genuinely Desires You
You don't want to be with a woman who's not fully into you. You shouldn't be with someone who makes you wait for days for a text back. Who flakes on you last moment, does not reschedule, and gives you mixed signals. Who doesn't even make an effort to get to know you and hear what you have to say.
This might sound like common sense to you but you'd be surprised how many guys keep chasing women who will not invest back. They believe they can change her mind. They can turn her around. If they just did one more thing, they could get her. And yes in theory, I guess it could be done but it's such a waste of freaking time and any self-respecting man would find it insulting to chase a woman who clearly isn't interested.
That's not how healthy relationships are built or how they begin. If she's not genuinely interested in you, move on to somebody who is. And believe me, there are more than enough beautiful women out there who would be interested in you. You might not know them yet but they exist and you stop wasting your time on these other women. You'll be able to see them. Remember that.
#2) She Takes Care of Herself
This includes going to the gym, eating healthy, and taking care of her body as well as taking care of herself emotionally. If she relies on you to make her feel good and you're the only source of happiness in her life, the only source of happiness is you, you're going to end up in a terrible relationship.
She should know how to deal with her feelings and take charge of her own emotional well-being alongside her physical well-being as well. Plus only a person who puts effort into taking care of themselves is fully capable of taking care of others. And in a relationship, you're gonna have to take care of each other to an extent. Does that make sense?
#3) She Doesn't Seek Attention From Other Men
If she's posting revealing photos on social media or flirting with guys in person, chances are she craves male attention, right? And that's never going to end well for you. She could decide any day that she's tired of you and she'll find someone else to feed her massive need for validation.
So it's always better to be with a girl who does not seek that attention from other men. Also, pay attention to that because she may not be getting that right attention from you. Which is why she might be doing it. But if she is getting attention from you and she's still seeking it, there's something going on there.
#4) She Has a Healthy Relationship With Her Parents
So studies show that people who have healthy relationships with their parents tend to have better long-term romantic partnerships. For a girl, it's especially important that she has a good relationship with her father. If she respects her father and has a close bond with him, her relationship with men in general is usually healthy. Which will make your life much easier and save you a lot of trouble.
Doesn't mean you can't be with women who don't have good relationships with their father but it's a bigger green flag than the other way.
#5) She Shows Gratitude
If you're paying for her on a first date, buying a gift, or doing something nice for her, pay attention to whether she shows gratitude and says thank you. This is a really good sign of a positive character. It shows that she doesn't take your efforts for granted and appreciates you for the things that you do.
The women who don't say thanks and show appreciation in these scenarios probably feel entitled to these things and you won't have a healthy relationship with a woman like that.
#6) She Speaks Well of Others
Beware of women who talk badly about friends, family, co-workers, or exes because it could be an indicator that she might be the one who doesn't play well with others. You want to be with someone who's uplifting and positive and speaks well about other people.
These are huge green flags. Especially the people who are close in her life. This shows that she has a good character and most likely has good relationships with other people which makes it more likely for you to have a good relationship with her.
Also, take note of how they interact with people they don't care to form a relationship with. So the way they treat the other people around you, the bartender, the cab driver, the people sitting at the table, or behind you at the theater, does this person treat others with consideration and respect? Or are they selfish and rude? Rudeness is often an indication of how they'll treat you once they get comfort over time so don't ignore those snide remarks.
#7) She Communicates Openly
It's no secret that open communication is key to a healthy relationship. So you need to look for a woman who openly shares her thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs with you. Maybe with some coaxing but we'll do it. Someone who doesn't give you mixed signals or plays a bunch of mind games with you.
Sure, sometimes women can find it hard to open up. I don't do that myself. Especially in the early stages of courtship but if you create a safe space for her to take a genuine interest in knowing her, her thoughts, and her feelings, she will open up. She will usually open up to you. And if she still doesn't communicate openly, probably not a very good sign.
Also, watch if her actions match her words. If she does what she says, she will. That's a good sign. If it shows that she has integrity and that she'll make a reliable partner.
#8) She Remembers Things About You
If a woman remembers small details about her life, that's a very good sign. It shows that she cares enough to pay attention and make an effort to recall what you've shared with her. When she remembers details about you that you mentioned in passing, it really shows she listens to you and that she's highly invested in you.
And this goes back to our point about genuine desire which was point number one. Remembering that little details is a clear sign that she truly desires you and wants to be with you.
#9) She Supports Your Life Apart From Her
In the beginning stages of a relationship, it's natural to want to spend as much time together as possible. However, it's important that you're able to spend time apart without your partner getting upset. So you don't want to be with someone who is insecure and possessive and needs to spend every minute of the day with you.
That will make it difficult for you to keep up with the activities and other relationships that bring you joy and satisfaction. And quite frankly, drive you crazy. Plus this type of behavior will often lead to a string of terrible problems in a long relationship and you don't want that. It's better to be with someone who supports you in having your own life separate from them. So hopefully, you can give that back to her.
#10) She Supports Your Goals
This is obvious but still so important to mention. The right woman will motivate you to go after what you want. She will be your biggest fan, your cheerleader, and she will support you. She will want you to succeed in life and help you in any way that you can. And if you meet someone who meets those criteria, it's a very good sign that she will make a great partner, especially for a long-term partner.
All right, that concludes our list of green flags to look for in a woman. However, it's important to note that if you want to attract a woman who has these green flags, who's a real catch, and who will make you a very happy man, you need to have the green flags that women look for and are drawn to.
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