Signs She's Good In Bed (And Two Myths You Need To Know)
“I wonder what she’s like in bed”
“Is she good in bed?”
Here’s the truth. Being good in bed has nothing to do with how good looking you are.
In fact, I’ve found that many really good looking guys aren’t that great in bed. Having a lot of sex does not equate to being good in the bedroom.
Some people are good in bed, some are average and some are awful. Women have their own ways of sussing out whether or not a guy is good in bed.
But how can a man tell if a woman will be a kinky sex machine, a dominant diva, a lazy lover, or “it’s a man's job to work more in the bedroom kind of girl?”
I know you must think about this when you’re into a girl. Let's decipher whether or not a girl is good in bed.
I'll share 10 signs that a woman is going to rock your world in the bedroom.
First, let's talk about things that are NOT clues. These clues might make you think she is but they're not.
She talks about sex a lot doesn't mean she's good in bed
With these women, it seems like she says, “That’s what she says!” to everything and can’t stop making sexual references at everything you see or talk about like your favorite past time activities when you say “let’s do it,” or even at penis-shaped foods.
While this may be an indication of her being more sexually open, it doesn’t really mean she’ll be GREAT in bed.
Unfortunately, some women think that the only way to get good attention from men is to BE sexual.
They think that being sexy means TALKING ABOUT IT all the time.
As an example, I’m going to use an older reference here.
But did you ever see American beauty?
Mina Suvari's character talked about sex all the time. She was crude and sexual.
In fact, she had people fooled into thinking she was a downright sex addict, but in the end, it turned out she was a virgin.
Many women use sex talk as a way to cover up their lack of experience. We all know lack of experience does not mean great in bed.
If she can talk the talk about sex with you, AWESOME. But don’t be fooled into thinking she can actually walk the walk.
She’s got a high number of notches on her bedpost
All women know that having a high number of sexual conquests means NOTHING in judging whether or not a guy will be great in bed.
But do YOU know that about WOMEN?
I’ve heard a lot of guys make assumptions about women with high numbers being AMAZING in bed which is nothing but a myth!
Just like men, women get around too. A woman who can jump from lover to lover might mean that she isn’t taking the time to “perfect” her craft.
It’s like playing sports; you can spend one day playing a game of basketball with your friends, then the next day baseball, and then volleyball.
Unless you commit time and practice to learn what the opposite sex wants, you (or she) will not become the best of lovers.
So if you hear she’s never had a serious boyfriend, be forewarned because it may mean that she’s never had the time to practice becoming an ANIMAL in the sack.
Now that we have that cleared up, here are the 10 signs she’s good in bed.
She carries herself with confidence and sex appeal
A woman that walks around and carries her body like it’s something to adore and behold means that she treats her body good which also means she’ll be just as excited to treat your body good too.
When a woman knows EXACTLY what to wear and how to maximize her sex appeal, it means she’s very in tune with her own sexual prowess. Women who know how to flaunt it rarely come up short when it comes to pleasing men.
These are the ladies who pride themselves on knowing EXACTLY how you wanna be touched, what you want to see, and all the dirty things you want them to do to you (or to themselves, or to their girlfriends that they bring into bed with you).
So if she’s just oozing with sex appeal just from looking at her, chances are she’s packing even more heat and fire underneath it all.
She’s not afraid to let loose communicates that she's good in bed
A girl who doesn’t care if people see her singing Miley Cyrus at the top of her lungs or isn’t afraid to go skydiving has lower inhibitions than most.
A woman who isn’t concerned about what other people think or how she will look isn't going to worry about what she looks like in bed; if she’s sexy enough, or be self-conscious in general.
She’ll be more inclined to be in the moment rather than in her head wondering if you like her. This will make your romp that much more fun and enjoyable without awkward silences and without you having to wonder if you’re giving her a good time.
These are the girls who aren’t afraid to try new things with you, take your suggestion, or tell you how to drive THEM wild in return.
She’s a touchy, feely, sensual woman
A girl who rubs her (arms, shoulders, neck, legs) in your presence thoroughly enjoys her own sense of touch.
She will “prep” herself for it by touching herself until YOU take over. Especially, if she's looking forward to you touching her later.
If she initiates physical contact or reciprocates yours, she understands that the earlier you start the sexual vibe, the more time tension has to build, and the bigger the eventual release.
She may touch your shoulder, caress your arm, and/or hold your hand when she leans in close and talks to you.
It’s a way of awakening her senses and women who are in touch with their own bodies aren’t afraid to get down and dirty with them or with you.
She's a good kisser
If you think a girl is a great kisser, chances are she’s even BETTER in bed.
Kissing is like dancing in that it takes two people to connect and move with one another.
If you find a girl that can match your lips and tongue in perfect, tantalizing unison, chances are you’re gonna get an even BETTER deal once your bodies connect.
It takes all kinds. If you like the way she kisses you, then she's good for you.
She's a good dancer screams she's good in bed
Even if you're not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of her horizontal skills.
Women who are good dancers are a great example. They know how to move their bodies to the beat and enjoy letting loose in the moment.
This is a clear indication of a woman who is in tune with her body, knows JUST how to move it in the moment, and WILL move and grind and gyrate just as seductively in bed as she will on the dance floor.
She’s open to any suggestions you have/she’ll try anything
A girl who is generally open to suggestions OUTSIDE the sack will most likely be just the same way in bed.
These are the ladies who’ll never “knock anything till they try it,” the ones who aren’t afraid to experiment in bed, and the ones who have no problem trying out their own mind-blowing tricks on YOU.
She REALLY enjoys her food and takes her time with it
This may sound a little off, but satiating one’s hunger is on par with satisfying one’s sexual urges.
A woman who takes the time to really taste and enjoy her food. This woman can moan in delight while she savors her food. Then she's probably a woman who can spend time appreciating and enjoying sex just as well.
You won't always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or provide some other obvious oral showcase.
Still, whenever things are going in her mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest sexual metaphors.
Does she pummel through her meal in less than ten seconds? Or does she take the time to savor each and every bite before picking up another bite? Closing her eyes and saying, “Mmmm” with every enjoyable taste, taking no less than ten minutes to eat her meal?
The image of a woman eating an ice cream cone or seductively licking a lollipop actually does hold true here. A woman who respects her food and how it makes her feel will definitely appreciate how good you make her feel in bed.
She has no problem telling you what she likes and doesn’t like and is eager to hear your likes and dislikes as well
An outspoken woman is one who is in tune with what she likes and what she doesn’t like. She also has no problem letting a man know.
This means you’re not going to have to wonder if you’re doing a good job. You won't wonder if she’s having a good time, or if she wants you to do something different, or if she’s into this new move you try.
She will tell you and not in a bitchy way either, but in an “Ooh baby, I LOOOOVE when you do that!” or “Oh it gets me really hot when you do THIS.”
And a woman who has taken the time to learn what her sexual wants and needs are will be just as inviting to hearing yours as well.
She works out
Physical conditioning is fundamental to good sex. It’s also a way for a woman to take care of her body and have it functioning at optimal levels.
A woman who takes care of her body, usually has higher self-esteem. She feels more physically confident (aka sexier about herself).
She conditions her prized assets, is proud of how she looks. And knows how to keep herself functioning at her best, both in and out of the bedroom.
After physical chemistry, probably the biggest factor that goes into whether you'll have good sex with someone is the physical shape you are both in.
After all, it's not only for aesthetic reasons that men today admire tight abs and strong thighs in a woman.
She takes the time to pamper her own body shows she's good in bed
She knows how to work her body into great shape. This woman also knows how to take care of her body and do what makes her feel good. A woman who knows how to make her own body feel good is going to be just as eager to return the favor to you.
This says she enjoys the pleasure of touch and isn’t afraid to bask in it. She’s even more inclined to be a great lay if she’s just as eager to give you back massages and foot rubs.
A woman who has no problem rubbing down her man gets even more turned on by being able to please HIS body.
So there you have it! The 10 most telltale signs of knowing if a woman will be AMAZING in bed.
Even if a woman gives off a sexual vibe in any of the ways mentioned here, remember that these are all just SIGNS.
The best way to tell if she’s great in bed is to get in there and be great in bed YOURSELF!
We both know that trying to understand women is definitely not the easiest thing in the world.
Yet knowledge is power and with these 10 signs, you’re now half-way there to becoming every woman’s ultimate fantasy.
Now it’s time for you to go and figure out what it takes to give off all the right signs.
Signs that will make ANY woman want to see what you're like in bed.
The best way to find out if a woman is great in bed is to GET into bed with her, but you will need to make sure you have what it takes to get the woman of your dreams wanting you JUST AS BAD as you want her.
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