Hang on because I’m about to reveal 3 reasons women test men…. and none of them are the reasons you think!
Contrary to popular belief, women do not test men for sport. They test men because of their own insecurities and to protect themselves from potential harm.
What’s that you say Marni??? You mean women aren’t horrible, manipulative biatches who are out to get me???
Absolutely NOT. 99% of all women are not actively sitting around scheming up ways to have you fail them.
In fact, I detest when men ask me if a woman is testing them. Because it’s soooo the opposite of what actually is happening in almost all the cases.
When you label an action that a woman does as her testing you, it implies that us women are maliciously doing these things hoping you’ll fail.
Here’s a truth about women. We simply don’t have the time or the stomach for that. ESPECIALLY if we like you.
Most often what you view as a test is simply a way for us to see how much YOU like us and who you are as a man.
So don’t panic if a woman asks you a question, which you feel is designed to test you… As long as you answer it with calmness and certainty you will be a rock star in her eyes.
I’ve seen so many guys get riled up thinking that a woman was out to get them. These guys get angry and defensive and I’ll tell you, that is the exact opposite response we’re hoping to get out of you.
The belief that women cruely test men is one of the most damaging misconceptions “pick-up artist” gurus have inflicted on men.
“PUA” gurus taught men that women love the power of making men “jump through hoops,” and get off somehow, having men perform menial tasks for them.
In reality, most women just want to be assured that they’re not being manipulated or setting themselves up to be hurt. Many women, in fact, don’t even consciously realize that they are doing these things.
Most likely because the intention behind their question or their action is something that is the complete opposite to test.
The trick to passing these “tests” as you call them, is to stay emotionally grounded.
Respond to her, but don’t change your internal state because of what she is saying.
Women can smell panic, and panic can trigger thoughts in her that may deem you un-dateable or one to be wary of. .
I’ve posted a great video example of a man staying emotionally grounded when being “tested” by a woman.
It’s a video of their first meeting and he handles her “tests” perfectly to a point that it not only attracts her but it triggers her to go home with him immediately.
When you handle any situation that you feel is a “test” with calm, steady grace and little bit of wit, you will become her Hero.
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