Sexual tension. Can you feel it? Sexual tension is that amazing feeling you have between you and a woman that distinguishes you from a guy she’s friends with vs. a guy she wants to get busy with.
Most guys suffer with women because they don’t know how to spark or create sexual tension. And without that sexual tension, you can’t be anything more than friends.
So I’m going to give you 6 of the easiest ways to create sexual tension with a girl… And make her see you as a potential lover or boyfriend. Any guy can do these things because they are very simple and straightforward. So pay attention and keep reading.
Here are the 6 easiest ways to create sexual tension with a woman:
Method 1: Get Closer to Her
We naturally stand close to people we feel connected to. We get shoulder-to-shoulder with our friends at a bar. Or sit right next to family on a couch.
But here’s the cool thing… It works in reverse too. We start to feel connected to those whom we allow into our physical space.
And tons of research proves it. When we are roughly within four feet of someone, we automatically spark a more personal connection. The key is that you get close to a girl in a non-threatening manner.
For example… If you’ve just met and you’re standing a foot away facing her head-on, that feels intimidating. But if you position yourself diagonally to her, you can get just as close without it feeling overwhelming.
If you’re in a bar or coffee shop… or any location with seating available… Get a place with chairs that you can pull to her side… rather than sitting across from her.
Whenever you have the option, you should sit right next to her. And don’t leave an awkward six-foot gap. Get closer. Finally, being physically close has many other benefits. In loud environments, it’s easier to hear each other without awkwardly leaning in.
And women are more likely to open up… when they feel they are in a private bubble with you. And most importantly of all, you can start touching each other in natural ways when you’re close.
Method #2: Hold Physical Contact a Little Longer
When you and a woman are getting to know each other, you’ll often casually touch. That may be a quick hand on the arm to emphasize something or on the shoulder while laughing at a joke.
Problem is, that’s how we touch friends. Poking a girl or patting her on the arm isn’t going to get her turned on. So as you build a connection, you need to amp up your touching.
Take this scenario for example. You’re on a date with a woman. Things are going well. You’re getting along so far. Halfway into a date, you’re fascinated by a story she’s sharing. So you rest your hand on hers for a few extra seconds while listening.
That little extra bit of touch will instantly amplify tension. Similarly… Maybe you’re sitting next to each other and your legs keep grazing against each other. At some point, let your leg rest against hers for 5-10 seconds while chatting.
Once again, you will create more tension. When you say goodbye or see her again, you might hug her for a tiny bit longer. Just a few extra seconds can signal your strong romantic intent. And she can experience how good it feels to be close to you… and start to desire more of it.
Method #3: Slow It Down
The tone, speed, and inflection of your voice sub-communicates a lot of information. A single word or sentence can have very different meanings with slight adjustments. And you can apply this principle to create a sexual vibe with women.
Let’s say you’re with a girl in a more intimate environment, like a dark restaurant, on a walk, or at one of your houses. Try lowering your speaking volume, even to an almost whisper… as you sit or stand closer together. Speak a little slower, too.
Doing this makes your voice have some roughness… gives it a gravelly texture… which all of us women find irresistible. She’ll get the vibe you’re feeling more close to her and you want to keep getting more personal. It’ll encourage her to start communicating that way to you and bump up the natural tension.
Method #4: Smile and Gaze Deeply
Try this when you’ve been chatting with a woman for a while. While she’s talking, smile at her and look deep into her eyes. A good mental cue is to try to notice the color of her iris. Maintain eye contact for a few seconds longer than you normally would.
And trust me, that anticipation will give her butterflies. This little move is just wildly sexy to a woman. It’s like something right out of a romance novel.
Method #5: Check Out Her Lips
All of us unconsciously look at someone’s lips when we’re attracted to them… or want to kiss them. But most men struggle with a lot of anxiety and shame around showing sexual interest. So they actively avoid checking out a woman’s lips… so they don’t come off as creepy.
But doing this can show a lot of confidence. And have women eagerly waiting for your next move. In fact, this simple move actually drives a lot of women wild.
As things get more personal and flirtatious in conversation, slowly move your gaze down from eyes to her lips for a couple seconds… and then back up again. It’s a small but bold way to signal you want to kiss her. And the anticipation of what’s to come will make her go crazy.
Method #6: Slow Down Before The Kiss
The first kiss is that powerful moment when you both act upon your desires. It’s the climax to a great romance you created together. Women want that first time to be special and memorable.
So giving her a final dramatic build-up beforehand… makes the payoff so much better. A lot of guys get too nervous before a kiss. So they go from looking at a girl to kissing her in one second — killing all of that precious tension.
You don’t wanna do that. Instead, let there be a slow buildup. Finish your sentence if you were saying something to her, then pause and look deep into her eyes.
Slowly step towards her or bring her closer by the hand or with your arm around her back. Hold that for a second and then bring yourselves even closer together.
If she’s ready to kiss, that final moment before you embrace is unbelievably hot. She feels you confidently moving things forward and starts to get aroused imagining what it’s about to be like. Then kiss her.
Don’t just give her a peck, enjoy a solid kiss for a couple of seconds. Gently pull away and return to whatever you were doing or talking about. I swear if you do it exactly like I just described it, this will be a moment she can’t forget.
Because once again, this is the stuff right out of a romance novel. She has probably had fantasies about having a first kiss like this. And when you do it this way, you make one hell of an impression in her mind. And of course, the sexual attraction goes through the roof.
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