Are you a reasonably attractive guy with a good job? If so, you might think you’re a pretty good catch,which is why you’re frustrated at your lack of success with women. THIS could be killing your chances.
A lot of guys think if they had a great career, women would automatically find them attractive.
For example, one of my current students is a doctor. More specifically, he’s a heart surgeon. So not only is he saving lives, he makes a lot of money in the process.
Add in the fact that he’s tall, good looking, and dresses well… and women should be fighting over him, right?
However that’s just not the case.
While he has no problem getting a woman’s attention…
It quickly descends into LJBF (let’s just be friends) territory.
And after talking to him for a few minutes, I understood why.
“What is it that you think women really want in a man?” I asked him.
“Well,” he replied, “I think what they really want is a guy who can be like their best friend.”
As we continued talking, it became clear he never takes any risks with women.
Everything he talks about is nice and polite.
He makes sure to compliment them. Asks lots of questions about their life.
And just generally is a very nice and pleasant guy. And women do like him.
They just aren’t attracted to him — even though on paper, he’s everything a woman should want.
The problem is, we DON’T want a guy who simply ticks all the boxes of being a great catch. We want a guy who also has the one thing this doctor is lacking:
A strong masculine presence.
Because that is the thing that creates magnetic attraction.
Not acting like our best friend and being overly nice and polite.
Feminine women are drawn to masculine men. That’s just how it works. However, I’m not talking about the typical definitions of masculinity.
Those are outdated and not really attractive to most women. Instead, there’s a new way to attract women with your natural masculine presence.
And when you know how to do this, it triggers our instinctive attraction for a man…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,