There are two major ingredients you need in order to get a woman to go out with you and avoid being“Friend Zoned.” Until and unless you learn what these two ingredients are, you’re bound to see more failure than success.
Tell me if this has ever happened to you… It’s the weekend. You go out to your favorite bar, maybe have a drink or two, and start conversations with a few women you find interesting…
They respond well, they’re polite and friendly… but you can’t help but feel they’re just not THAT into you. Their responses seem lukewarm. And before you know it, their friend whisks them away to the dance-floor and they’re gone in a flash.
Next time you see bump into them, they act like they never met you… Ouch.
Here’s another way this problem might show up:
Maybe you started talking to a girl from an online dating app. She’s replying but just the bare minimum. She’ll reply “haha” to your jokes but she doesn’t joke back… and when you ask her to meet up, she always has a polite, reasonable excuse.
Let’s be honest: if you’re very attracted to someone, you’ll find a way to meet up with them even if you’re very busy.
So what’s the issue? Why does it seem like YOU’RE the one who always has to chase?
Well, look at it this way:
Imagine you’re a very successful business owner. Business is booming. All your bills are paid and as far as finances go, you’re pretty much set. Someone comes up to you with a “brilliant” business idea and asks if you want to invest…
You might hear them out, but the chances of you investing a significant amount of money in this stranger’s idea is very small. Why?
Because someone in your position gets people approaching you CONSTANTLY. They always WANT something from you. So your guard is always up, and anything people approach you with, you’ll be highly skeptical by default.
You already have financial abundance. You don’t need them. They really need to work hard to prove themselves to you if you’re going to even consider investing your hard-earned time and money in their business.
So what does this have to do with becoming more successful with women?
You see, in this example, that beautiful girl at the bar is JUST like the successful business owner.
If she’s very attractive, she already has an abundance of men around her, vying for her attention. Every night she goes out, at least a dozen guys will try to talk to her…
And get this: even if she actually REALLY likes you, crawling into bed with you that night is still going to be pretty far down her list of priorities that night! She’s out to let loose, have fun with her friends and let the night take her on an adventure.
If she meets a cool, fun guy who can lead her through that adventure, she’ll be happy to go along… but she’s not going to leave her friends and go out of her way to go home with you.
Does that make sense?
Instead of trying to “get” her attention and interest, think of how you can help her accomplish what she already wants to do that night: have fun!
Almost every guy she meets that night will be trying to “get something” from her. Women have a very finely tuned sense for energy. And if you come across with a “taking” kind of energy, she’ll see that a mile away and it’s literally repulsing to women.
Instead of trying to take something from her, how can you just help her have fun?
Or, even better, how can YOU just have so much fun by yourself (with or without her) that she can’t help but be PULLED IN to your world?
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Your Wing Girl,