Did I tell you I bought a house??
Well, I did and I'm super excited about it slash scared out of my mind.
It needs a full renovation and it's going to take a about a year to build it…
But I'm sure you don't want to hear about my construction loans and mortgage fees…. although I got a great rate 😉
I'm writing you because I had a great experience with a contractor we're considering hiring that I wanted to share with you.
He was the perfect example of how a man's looks can morph in a woman's eyes, once he opens his mouth.
I want to give you a clear picture of this guy so you can see what I saw.
Picture John Candy but a little bit more rugged. Bearded, burly and big.
That was this contractor.
When he first walked in, I didn't think much of him in terms of his looks. In fact, I probably thought this guy is not so attractive.
Just being honest.
But after 3 minutes of talking to him, I found myself seeking his approval and trying to make myself look and SEEM more attractive.
So what was it about Mr. Candy that made me change my behavior so quickly?
AND why did I suddenly find him so attractive when at first meeting I actually found him UNATTRACTIVE?
What made him go from Ugh to Hmmmm… was his attitude and the way he projected himself. It was his “I'm not trying to you or say things I think you'll like just so you'll like me” attitude.
He spoke freely and honestly and didn't seem to care if I liked him or not.
This is not to say he was rude or crass but I could tell he just owned who he was and that included his thoughts. He was not editing or filtering for my benefit or to appease me… As many men do.
So when he finally did compliment me, I took pride in receiving his compliment because it didn't feel fake. It was a sincere compliment from someone who valued themselves and didn’t just compliment me to compliment me.
THAT made me feel special and “sexy” and extremely feminine all at once.
I know for a fact that this same compliment, if said by someone else, wouldn’t have felt as good.
Key Takeaway from this article is…
To sum this up, the reason he became so attractive was because he was being unapologetic for being himself, and is selective in a way with who/what he compliments for.
So, his word has more weight now.
Spinning that to the dating context, that's part of why a man being selective causes the lady (that he chooses to give attention to) feel sexy, special and FEMININE!
You can have this same effect on women… AND don't you dare reply back to me with some bogus excuse as to why this can't happen for you.
Owning who you are and being proud of it is possible for EVERYONE even if you don't have the abs of an abercrombie model, the cash of a mogul and the face of a greek god.
You too can be Mr. Candy and make any woman want you!!!
Not sure how to do this? I can help 🙂
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