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How To Look Confident Around Women

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I got a question recently that read like this: “Marni, I’m a huge fan. I read your newsletter every day but… I’m still absolutely terrified to approach women. What can I do? How to look confident around women?”

It’s a good question.  And it’s SO common among the men I work with. They read my newsletters. Watch my videos. Even do my programs. And they learn everything there is to know about attracting women. 

But when that one gorgeous stunner walks by… They just don’t find the confidence to go talk to her. Fear takes over. And they freeze. I’ve seen this happen to guys over and over. 

The good news is: The solution is simple. I have 3 go-to methods to help guys deal with the fear of approaching women. These 3 methods have always worked like a charm for the guys I work with.

So I thought I’ll write an article on it today so more men can try these 3 simple methods… And turn their fear into rock-solid confidence. You’ll never hesitate to approach beautiful women again after you finish reading this article. 

Here are my 3 go-to methods to beat approach anxiety and unlock confidence: 

Method #1: The Mindset Tweak

Whenever I’m working with a guy who’s scared to approach women… The first thing I notice is that his mindset is in the wrong place. More accurately, he puts a LOT of pressure on the mind. He has huge expectations of himself. He wants to guarantee that the approach is a big success.

And by big success, he typically means… He wants to introduce himself to the girl by saying something clever… Something that hooks her attention…

He wants the conversation to be super interesting for the girl, wants to make her laugh, wants her to be turned on by him, and wants to walk away with her number and a guaranteed date… These are the expectations he has. 

And look, it’s understandable. Most guys who see a pretty woman they wanna talk to… will hope for similar things… But the problem is, these are massive expectations. And it puts an ungodly amount of pressure on your brain.

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After all, you’re giving it so many goals to focus on. Our brain wasn’t built to multitask like that. It gets overwhelming when you focus on too many things at once. So here’s what I say to a guy in this situation… 

First of all… I teach him the O.S.A method. The O.S.A method shows guys how to start a conversation with a woman in practically any situation. In other words… It’s a conversation-starting technique that works in any setting, in any situation. This takes care of the whole “I don’t know what to say to her” problem. 

If you wanna learn more about it, you can watch this video where I reveal the OSA technique in detail. It’s very simple. And I think you’ll love it. 

Anyways, so after I teach the guy the OSA technique…  I tell him to change his focus and focus ONLY on approaching the girl. Focus on just making contact. That’s it. If you wanna walk away right after you start the conversation, that’s absolutely fine. Just focus on making that approach. Making contact. That’s it. 

Once the guy makes this simple tweak to his mindset… Something wonderful happens. He feels lighter. The weight of his massive expectations has been removed from his shoulder. Suddenly, he feels a subtle sense of confidence in himself. He feels like he can do it and can talk to the pretty girl. It’s not that hard. So he walks up to the girl and makes contact.

Now what’s even more interesting is that… The first couple of approaches he might walk away right after making contact… But… By approach 5, 6 or 7… He’s comfortable enough to push it more. Meaning, he talks more and starts to engage in a longer conversation. Without me telling him to do it. I’ve seen this pattern play out many times. And it’s wonderful.

You can see that the anxiety has reduced a lot. And a new sense of confidence has developed. And all it took was a simple tweak to his mindset. Try it. And you’ll see similar results too. 

Method #2: The Fear Transfer 

Like I said before, it’s very common for men to be TERRIFIED of approaching women but… Do you know what you should be more afraid of? NOT approaching. Every time you become too scared to act, I want you to think of and be afraid of what you’ll miss out on if you don’t approach.

  • What if you miss out on the girl of your dreams?
  • What if she was actually looking forward to meet a guy like you?
  • What if you missed out on one of the best dates of your life? Or the best relationship of your life? Or the best sex of your life? 

Look, fear can be great if you use it as a tool. If you channel it in the right direction. And that’s what this technique is all about. Instead of fearing what she might think of you… Fear what you might miss out on. Fear the regret you’ll have walking away having said nothing. 

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In fact, it might even help to remember incidents where you walked away from a pretty girl… and instantly regretted it. Relive that regret. Use it to your advantage. If you do this right, something will snap inside of you. And suddenly your mind’s gonna be like… “Screw it, let’s just do it” or “Let’s see what happens” 

You’ll get a sudden boost of motivation and drive. That will push you to do the approach. Once again, a very effective method. Definitely worth trying. 

Method #3: Confidence Through Competence  

One thing I always ask my guys is this: “Are you scared of the approach or… Are you scared because you don’t know what to say or do?”

Most of the time, what’s disguised as fear of the actual approach is actually just not knowing what to do. It’s very common. A guy thinks he’s scared of talking to women… But in reality, it’s just that he doesn’t know what to say to her… 

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How to hold a conversation that generates interest and attraction. Once he learns exactly what to say and do in a conversation… Exactly how to create attraction… The fear vanishes. His new level of competence gives him rock solid confidence. And it’s true for anything in life. 

If you don’t know how to drive, you’ll be extremely nervous if asked to handle a car. But once you learn exactly what to do, you become more comfortable. More confident. Gaining competence is always the fastest way to build unshakable confidence.

When it comes to meeting women… If you know exactly what to say and do… If you have a blueprint of it in your mind… You’ll never be scared to talk to girls. In fact, you’d be excited every time a pretty lady walks by. You’ll know that you have what it takes to engage her in an interesting conversation and potentially walk away with a date. 

Now, I know what you’re thinking… But Marni, how do I become more competent at talking to girls? And the answer is simple. You work with me and one of my Wing Girls and you practice with me or one of my Wing Girls on a weekly basis. And learn exactly how to have a flirty conversation.

You practice in a safe environment where you're not interacting with the girl that you're really interested in. You're interacting with one of my wing girls who is going to:

  1. Let you practice
  2. Give you feedback
  3. Give you the tweaks that you need to be able to talk to women effortlessly and successfully

So that you can build and create lasting attraction. I want to teach you how to do this. I want to work with you. My wing girls want to do this for you. We want to teach you all of this stuff.

So to find out more about this, click this link and sign up for one of our free strategy sessions with my Wing Girls and we will tell you all about how to get you that safe practice that will make you a king in conversation.

I’m sure you’ll love it.

How to Foreplay: 7 Moves That Make Women Go Wild

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If you want to blow her mind in the bedroom, give her those toe-curling orgasms, and truly know how to foreplay, you need to be an expert at getting her in the mood.

Most men don’t understand this. They quickly go for penetration and hardly spend any time on foreplay. The problem with that is… Women need more time to get turned on. 

Unlike men, we need a build-up. Our bodies and minds need to be teased and stimulated for a longer time… And only then we can truly enjoy the sex. Which means if your goal is to give your partner the best she ever had… If you want to drive her wild in the bedroom… You need to take your time and make the right moves. 

And in this article, I’ll tell you what those moves are. You’re about to discover 7 incredibly sexy foreplay moves that all women crave in the bedroom… If you even make a few of these moves and you do them right… She’ll be desperate to wrap her legs around you and draw you in… 

In fact, she’ll be so turned on… It will skyrocket the chances of her having one of those spine-tingling, toe-curling orgasms. And she’ll keep coming back to you for more. Again and again. So get ready to be a sexual rockstar. Foreplay is something most guys suck at. 

By reading this article and learning a few of these expert moves, you’ll positively stand out to every woman you ever sleep with. I recommend you avoid all distractions and pay attention. I’m sure you’ll find this very useful. Here are the 7 foreplay moves that make women go wild: 

Move #1: Start Outside The Bedroom 

Women love spontaneity when it comes to foreplay. A great way to add spontaneity is to start foreplay at the kitchen, office, garage or somewhere where you typically don’t do it. Somewhere unexpected.

For instance, if you’re let’s say you guys are alone in an elevator. You could grab her waist and pull her close to you. Then, proceed to give her a little kiss on the cheeks or whisper sweet nothings into her ears. You could even slide your hand inside her top and caress her body a little bit. 

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Moves like these in such an unexpected situation will do two things. First, it’ll catch her by surprise. (And it’ll be a pleasant surprise, of course). Secondly, it will start to turn her on. She will start anticipating the things you might do later. And that anticipation will start to drive her crazy. 

Even some light-hearted flirting, whether in public or in private, is a great way to start the foreplay outside the bedroom. And it’s a time tested way to turn women on. 

Move #2: Talk Dirty 

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again… Dirty talk is one of the most effective ways to turn a woman on. It’s ridiculously powerful when done right. You can have a girl soaking wet and desperate to have you inside her… Just with dirty talk alone. 

Trust me, this is a skill that will supercharge any sexual interaction in seconds. Most men tend to be silent during sex. Some might moan and grunt, which is nice. But only a few know how to use the power of words to send shivers down a woman’s spine. The right words and phrases can really send a woman over the edge. So dirty talk is something you should definitely add to sexual arsenal. 

Move #3: Use Your Tongue 

Passionate kisses are one of the best parts of foreplay. The long and slow ones usually go nowhere. If you want to heat up things a little, use your tongue when kissing your girl. Deep tongue kissing will always work in your favor. Use your tongue to touch her lips, tongue and kiss her with some force and passion. Show her how much you want her with your kiss. 

When done right, kisses like that will definitely make her wet down there. Just ensure that you do not go overboard with the use of your tongue because slobbering will only turn her off. And make sure you start off light and then engage your tongue to turn up the heat. As long as you do those two things, you’re gonna be fine. 

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Move #4: Kiss Her Neck 

This is a basic one. But worth mentioning because women simply love this. The neck is a very sensitive area for us. So don’t forget it. Kiss her on the neck. In fact, if she’s okay with it, you might even try some light nibbling. Nothing too aggressive of course. Be very gentle. This can add some spice and passion to neck kisses. And most women will appreciate it. 

Moreover… The most sensitive part of a neck is always the area that connects the neck to the shoulder. So make sure you kiss her there. You can even open your mouth and suck on that area softly. Or gently bite her there. That feels pretty good for most women. And lastly, don’t rush. Spend some time on the neck area. It really gets us going. Trust me. 

Move #5: Undress Her 

Another great foreplay move is the act of under-dressing. After you have kissed her passionately and touched her gently in the most sensitive areas, undress her slowly. The next time you are making out with your girl do not let her take off her clothes. Do it for her.

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Many women find this incredibly hot. In fact, women are quite disappointed if the guy is too excited about the end result and she has to take her own clothes off in a haste. It’s a small thing, but it can have a big impact. 

Move #6: Play With Her Breasts 

It sucks when a guy doesn’t spend enough time on the breasts. It’s such a sensitive area full of pleasurable nerve endings. Most men seem more than happy to spend a good amount of time on other foreplay activities and areas, but they kind of just see the boobs, fondle or kiss them for a while, and then move on, rarely return. 

Do you know that many women can reach orgasm for breast play alone? It’s that sensitive of an area. If you just spend a little more time fondling, kissing, or even gently nibbling on her breasts, I can guarantee you that she’ll absolutely love it. 

In fact, come back to it once in a while. Don’t just do your thing once and move on. Give them a second or even a third round of lovin’. Trust me, we really like it. 

Move #7: Multitask 

Women always appreciate a little bit of multitasking. For instance, if you are fingering your girl, don’t just lie down there creepily. Use the other hand to fondle her breasts or just kiss her. Don’t just lie down and stare at her.

Similarly… If you’re kissing her on the lips… You can start fondling her breasts with your hands. You can place your hand on her neck and choke her a little bit. Or you can even start undressing her slowly. The point is, to find ways to multitask whenever possible. It maximizes the stimulation of her body. Which turns her on faster. 

Of course, you don’t have to always multitask. But once in a while, especially when you’re fingering, kissing or going down on her, it can be really helpful.

By the way, speaking of going down on her, you might’ve noticed that I haven’t included oral sex in this list of foreplay moves. Some consider it foreplay. Some don’t. But the reason I’ve left it out of this list is that I already have an entire video which reveals the 8 oral sex moves that make women scream in pleasure. It’s a part of my How to Be a Sexual Rock Start playlist. You can check it out here. 

You’ll also find the video about the “6 dirty things women want men to do in bed” in that playlist. That’s the video where I discuss how to talk dirty in the bedroom. If that’s something you want to learn, have a look at that video as well. 

Before I end this one though… I need to tell you one more thing… The key to foreplay, as you might’ve already noticed, is taking things slow. I’ve said this already and I’ll say it one more time… Women take time to get turned on. So you need to be patient. Nothing pisses women off more than a guy who’s over-eager and doesn’t take the time to turn her on. 

My best-selling program, The F Formula, can help you find out more about how to turn a woman on. It reveals shows you how to make a woman crave you sexually using a few simple words and actions. If you want the power to turn women on at your will, you should have a look at that program.

1000s of guys have already used the F Formula to attract, date and sleep with beautiful women of their choice. There’s no reason why it can’t do the same for you. The best part is: The program gets straight to the point. It tells you exactly what to say and what to do to turn women on. And everything is broken down into simple steps so you can master it as fast as possible.

There’s nothing complicated. And there’s no guesswork whatsoever. It’s like having a remote control that creates a sexual desire within a woman at the press of a button. You’ll see that yourself. Check out the F Formula. I’m sure you’ll love it.

How To Start A Conversation With A Woman | These 7 Conversation Starters Attract All Women

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The question that I get all the time is “Marni, how to start a conversation with a woman? What is the best way to start a conversation with a woman? What is the best line I can use?”

And it's a good question. Because if you have no idea what to say to a woman before you approach her, you're likely to overthink and get nervous and not say anything at all.

And that can be heartbreaking if you really liked the girl that you saw, you were attracted to her.

I want to give you seven tried and true ways to start a conversation with a woman that you find attractive. So just pick and choose any of these seven easy openers and you are good to go.

You'd never miss a chance to talk to a woman you like ever again. Because you're going to have a line. So pay attention, take notes and read this article till the end, because these seven openers are going to come in very handy.

Here are the seven tried and true ways to start a conversation with a woman you like. And I took these from a lot of people out there, and things that have worked on me too.

Disarming Questions

This is where you ask a very simple question, just to get the ball rolling. Something anyone can answer without hesitation, or just say, I don't know.

So for example, if you're out on the streets and you spot a pretty girl walking by, you could go up to her and ask:

“Hey, excuse me. Do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?”

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Right, simple question anybody can ask. Disarming question. If you're at a networking event or a party or some social gathering and you see somebody you're attracted to, you could ask a very simple question.

“Hey, do you know where the restroom is?”

“Where's the bar?”

“Do you know where we're going next?”

“Do you know what to find something to eat? I'm absolutely starving.”

The simple stuff anybody can answer. It's just the icebreaker. Now, the real secret to making this method work is the follow-up.

You can't just ask the simple question, get an answer, and then walk away. Or expect her to carry on the conversation.

You need to change topics and follow them up in a very relaxed and casual manner. So if you're out and you break the conversation, you're asking for directions, then after she gives you her answer, you can say:

“Thanks, where are you from by the way?”

That's like a segway bridge. Let's say she says:

“I'm from Toronto.”

You reply with:

“Oh, that's nice. I'm from Texas. My name is John, by the way. Nice to meet you.”

And just like that, you're in a conversation with a woman. It started, it's on. They can drive it forward in any direction you like and get to know her better. Ask for her number, all that good stuff. It is ridiculously simple but it can work like a charm every time.

The Prop-Based Opener

This is where you comment on something a girl is holding or wearing like a prop. Or something in your shared environment.

What you say could be a question or even just like a statement. So for example, if you're at an art gallery and you see a beautiful woman looking at a painting, you could walk up next to her and say:

“Wow, that painting is amazing.”

Given that you're close to her and loud enough, she'll definitely look at you and say something like,

“Yeah, it is.”


And that's your opportunity to start a conversation and get the conversation going. You can turn to her and introduce herself afterward.

“Hey, I'm so-and-so, nice to meet you.”

You see how easy it is. Another example could be if you notice a woman holding a drink at the bar, right? You could ask her:

“So what are you drinking? Is it good?”

Okay, do you see how easy this is? It's just talking. There's no need to be clever or quick on your feet. Just notice a prop, make a comment, like spit it out of your mouth and then you're good. And that should be enough to break the ice.

The Situational Opener

This is quite similar to the prop-based opener. With the situational opener, all you need to do is comment on something that is happening around you both at that moment.

These are all observations. So if you're at a bar and a rock band is playing, say something about it to her. It could be a question or a statement, your opinion. For example:

“Have you heard these guys play before? It's a bit loud in here, isn't it?”

Another example could be if you're in a college classroom and the professor is giving a boring lecture, which happens quite often, you could talk to the girl right next to you and make a comment about how bored you are and what you wish you can do instead of attending class.

Once again, it's such simple stuff and I wish it was more simple. Any guy can do this. All you have to do is be observant and then open your mouth, speak up.

The Opinion Opener

And this is a classic, a trick, I guess, or a way of starting a conversation. It's a clever one. With an opinion opener, what you do is you go up to a woman and ask for her opinion or advice on something, which actually I find very engaging.

So for example, if you're standing in line at a coffee shop and you see somebody that you're attracted to, you could ask her:

“Hey, I'm new to this coffee shop. What are your recommendations on what I should order? What's your opinion?”

If you're at a clothing store, you could pick up a shirt or something and go to the girl and say:

“Hey, can I get your honest opinion? Would this look weird on me? Would I look weird in this shirt?”

Very similarly. You could also put on two different colognes and on each of your wrists and ask a girl which one smells better, right?

That gets you touching and getting close. I mean, the sky's the limit with opinion openers. You can ask anything that you like.

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“Hey, have you ever watched the show Friends? Well, who do you like better, Joey or Chandler?”

“Listen, I want your honest opinion on something. What do women really like? Do they like a bad boy or do they like a gentleman?”

And I'm sure you can think of some yourself. And I encourage you to think of some yourself. Remember the point is to ask for advice before an opinion, and once you break the ice with that and get the girl talking, you can then introduce yourself, switch topics, and move on to other things.

Okay. It's just breaking in.

The Cold Read

This is a great one to start a conversation with a woman. A cold read is where you make a general statement about a woman's personality background or emotional state. You're reading her.

The key phrase is a general statement. You don't want to get too specific because that's really creepy. But general.

So let me show you how it works. So let's say there was a cute girl at your gym and you could walk up to her and make a generic guess about her background and say:

“You don't look like you're from this neighborhood.”

Okay. So it's very simple. Similarly, if you find a beautiful woman in a social event, you could walk up to her and make a cold read about her personality. You could say something like:

“You seem like a creative girl, you definitely have an artistic vibe.”

If you see a cute girl sitting alone at the bar, you could sit beside her, and say something like:

“Wow, you look really bored. What happened?”


That's a cold read about her emotional state, about who she is. Do you see how easy this is? You can use this on like every woman. It's a guessing game basically.

All you have to do is make a generic guess about the girl's personality, background, or emotional state. And that's it.

Now, the reason it works like magic is threefold. First, it's different. It stands out. Hardly any people start a conversation with a cold read about somebody. Secondly, it's highly personal and whatever is personalized, it gets people's attention. The third, sparks curiosity. If someone makes a random guess about you, you can't help but wonder what made that other person think that way. Whether you're right or wrong, doesn't matter,

The very act of making the guess and telling it to her is going to grab her attention and pique her curiosity. And if you're right, she'll confirm it and probably ask how can you know that about her, right?

Or she'll expand on your guess and share stuff about her:

“Oh my God. I'm not from this neighborhood.”

If you're wrong, she'll correct you and ask you what made you think that about her?

“I am from this neighborhood. Why did you say that?”

Either way, she'll be pulled into the conversation and you can drive it from there to work ever you want.

The Social Opener

Someone told me about this recently, and I'm not really sure who came up with it, so I can't give them credit right now, but it's absolutely amazing and I love it.

In any social environment, like networking events, parties, bars, clubs, college campuses, and so on, this opener works like magic. And all you have to do is walk up to the girl you like and say one easy line.

“Hey, I don't think I've met you. My name is John”

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Now I know that sounds ridiculously simple, but here's why it's so brilliant. When you say I don't think I've met you, you're basically communicating that you're a social and popular guy who would've met everybody.

You're someone who other people know, and it builds up your perceived status in front of this woman. Plus saying that you haven't met her yet also sub communicates that you're about to meet her now.

As in you're about to have a conversation right now and it removes all awkwardness and primes the girl for the conversation that is about to follow. So try it and you'll see that it works wonderfully.

The Direct Opener… Great Opener To Start A Conversation With A Woman

This one is really powerful and I absolutely love it. A lot of guys can't pull this off, but this is perhaps the only one on the list, which can help really spark attraction from the get-go. So here's how it works. And it's very simple. You just walk up to a girl you like, you stop her and say:

“Hey, I know this is completely random, but I think you're really cute. And I wanted to meet you.”

Direct, that's it, sexy. You can use it literally in any situation. And it's perhaps the best opening line of all time because it shows so much confidence and boldness. That's a hard thing to say and is incredibly sexy.

You're clearly letting the girl know that you're interested in her, stating your intent. There's no playing around. You're clear about your wants. You're being direct and most guys would be terrified to do that.

But you are different, right? You're courageous and confident enough to take a risk. So trust me, even if the woman is unavailable to date, she's going to respect you immensely for saying that to her.

And if the woman is single, nine times out of 10, this one line will actually turn her on a little bit. Just because it exudes so much confidence, how could it not?

Plus the part where you say, Hey, this is completely random. Also shows that you're socially aware. You're strangers so yeah, of course, it's random. You're addressing the elephant in the room and removing all awkwardness like you're taking a lot of ownership and that is perfection.

She is not going to stand there and wonder:

“Why is this guy here? What does he want?”

She'll know exactly where you stand. And this means it's very unlikely that she will ever put you in the friend zone. You're not acting friendly because you've introduced a romantic frame. You've told her you find her cute. She knows you're not there to be friends.

The only caveat for this opener is the delivery. Your delivery needs to be strong. And I don't know, I just like my eyes. They want to have it strong. You have to fully commit to it. That means projecting your voice. Open body language and a smile on your face. You get the delivery right, and you'll lay the foundation for a great conversation to follow.

These seven conversation starters should be more than enough to give you ideas and help you start a conversation with a woman anytime, anywhere, and with any girl you want.

If you're interested in knowing more about how to start a conversation with a woman, not run out of things to say, and build attraction as you go, I highly recommend you to check out the Banter Guide.

The Banter Guide is a one-of-a-kind program, reloaded with the most effective little tips, tricks, lines, whatever to think on your feet, make a girl smile or laugh, make anything you say sound fun and interesting.

It teaches you how to quickly come up with these things. So you come up with comebacks and teasing lines on the fly and continue conversations for as long as you want without being boring.

Plus a thumb rule. So basically, if you're serious about dating gorgeous high-quality women and want to talk to women in a naturally attractive way without being awkward, nervous, or creepy and come across as fun and playful and cool, it is worth checking out the Banter Guide.

I'm confident that you'll absolutely love it because all of my students do. I've had over 36,000 of them use this guide.

Click here and have a look at the Banter Guide.

Marni

6 Major Turn Offs For Women | These Will Ruin Your Chances

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Are you secretly killing your chances and doing these turn offs for women but just don't know it? Most men are the majority of guys that do certain things that push women away without them even knowing it. These turn offs for women might be the reason why you're single.

Which sucks. These subtle behaviors which might seem might not seem like a big deal end up being the curse that stops them from dating the women that they want.

And that is why in today's video, I want to show you these attraction killing behaviors, six of them to be precise so you know what they are and how to avoid them in the future.

I highly recommend that you pay attention to each one so that you don't miss anything. With that said, let's get right into it.

Here are the six subtle behaviors that you could be doing that push women away.

Overanalyzing

Have you ever spent hours or days trying to find the meaning of something a girl did? Maybe she texted you late one day, posted a picture with a guy, or gave you a shorter reply than usual, and then you started to freak out about what it meant.

On the other hand, while you interact with your crush, do you often second-guess your actions? Do you get inside your head and wonder endlessly about what to say or what not to say or what to do or what not to do?


Well, these are all signs of overanalyzing, of getting a little bit crazy. Something everyone has done at least a few times in their life, if not more, probably do once a week.

But the problem is when you get into the habit of overanalyzing stuff while dealing with women, you automatically become more nervous and fearful around them instead of presenting to her your real self. You're unable to communicate with her at all, at least not in a free and authentic way.

And as I've said a million times before, when women sense that you're too nervous or that you're not showing your real self, you drive them away. They are like instant turn offs for women.

Being Too Negative

Nobody likes to hang out with a debbie downer. Someone who's predominantly negative all the time.

Meaning if you complain about things all the time or bring up the bad things that have happened to you or might happen in the future or the bad side of things or talk trash about people behind their back.

Well actually, not just women but anybody that you talk to is going to be put off by that. Because people love and create positivity.

There are already enough things in this world that people worry about. You don't want to be the source of more negativity. I mean a little bit of negativity is fine and kind of funny but all the time, no.

Yes, that doesn't mean you have to be Mr Positive all the time. Either you can and should be honest about how you feel and you have the right to express yourself freely. You should express yourself freely. All I'm saying is it's best not to be predominantly negative and that's when people, women start pushing you away.

And what's more, even studies have shown that women and people, in general, are drawn to other people who infuse a positive uplifting vibe in conversation. Just look at guys like Will Smith or Dwayne Johnson or Chris Pratt and look at how people react to them. That's the power of having a positive presence.

Not Giving Them Space

You see, the desire grows when you give a girl the space and time to think about you, to miss you. Yet, I've seen that many guys don't understand this or do this and once they have a crush on a girl, they try to spend as much time as possible. Talking to them, texting them, and trying to meet up with them.

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Now yes, spending time together is the key to strengthening a bond. But you also need to give them space to breathe, right? Time to miss you or else, you'll suffocate them. This is definitely one of the major turn offs for women.

Plus when you're unwilling to give a girl space, you also signal to her how desperate you are to have her that you're so nervous to lose her. You don't want to give her the space to possibly think for herself.

Needing Constant Validation

Just like jealousy, the problem with validation seeking is that it makes you look insecure and needy. The more you rely on other people to approve of you, to tell you how great you are, the harder it becomes to stay confident and express yourself freely.

Like you need others to feel good and without those two things, it's nearly impossible to make a woman fall for you. Women want a man who already knows his worth, right? Who knows that he's amazing but isn't arrogant or boastful about it.

We can sense that calm, cool, self-confidence in men who have it. And trust me, it's intoxicating. In fact, that belief in his self-worth and inner confidence that says “I know I'm awesome” is easily the sexiest thing a man can have.

Acting Jealous… Huge Turn Offs For Women

So when you're courting a woman, you might have times where she interacts with other guys. It's going to happen. Perfectly normal. She is free to do what she wants.

The problem is often guys get really insecure about that. I get it, doesn't make it good. So they'll constantly ask her about other men that she talks to.

You try to tell her how they are not worth hanging out with. Or they even try to stop her from talking to them and really just being herself. And trust me, these are all huge turn offs for women.

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No girl wants to be with a guy who is constantly jealous who is constantly stopping her from being her.

So now yes, if this girl gets too close with other guys and that's something that genuinely bothers you, you can let her know that. Just make sure to let her know in a calm and casual manner. Or you can even pull away from her and focus on other women, right?

If she's just like a really flirty girl who's always all over guys, then that may not be something you want in your life. You definitely have the right to do that. That's your boundary.

Those are your rules for yourself, respecting yourself. Sometimes that can even get her to come back and chase after you. Because she'll see how emotionally mature you are and that you're not needy at all. Which is a huge turn on.

But just know that showing any big signs of jealousy will not help at all and you'll definitely lose your chance with her.

Rushing to Escalate

Women take time to feel comfortable with a guy much more than guys do with women. This difference in the amount of time required for one to be comfortable often causes problems. Because I've seen that many guys will try to escalate things too quickly and instantly get rejected or friend-zoned, or ghosted by women.

And they think it's because they weren't attractive enough for the girl. Whereas their only fault was rushing into things.

They were good enough for the girl to begin with, but not giving her the time she needed to feel comfortable. And that's what led to failure.

Knowing when to escalate or make a move is a key skill that every man needs to possess but most men do not and it's not surprising, because women are difficult to read.

It's never easy to figure out if she's ready for the move that you're about to make. I get it. However, there is a simple solution to this problem.

There is a three-step flirting formula you can use on any woman to get her eager to escalate with you.

It's so powerful that you can use it to have any girl begging to kiss you within just minutes of meeting her. You can also even get her so turned on that she asks you to take her home and do whatever you want to her.

Yes, that sounds like an exaggeration but you can try this flirting formula for yourself. Then see if it happens or not. I've made a brief video on what this amazing formula is and how it works.

Thousands of guys who have seen this value-packed video report to me how it completely changed their lives with women. How knowing this powerful flirting formula made it super easy for them to date any woman they want, even the ones who they thought would never be interested in them.

So if you want the same thing for yourself and avoid doing these turn offs for women which I'm sure you do, you should see this video at least and start using the amazing formula right away. I am very sure that you will enjoy it.

Marni

How To Make A Woman Laugh? Use These 5 Killing Jokes

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5 Jokes That Kill With The Ladies In Any Situation And Turn Women On BIG TIME

I will tell you exactly how to make a woman laugh. Everyone knows that women find a sense of humor attractive.

There are so many different types of men that women like. But there's one type which stands head and shoulders above all.

The one type of guy that absolutely no girl can resist is the funny and playful guy. The guy who can make a woman laugh.

This type of guy has a massive unfair advantage, whether it's over text or in person.

There's a reason why 89% of women say that a sense of humor is the number one trait they look for in a guy.

But what if you're not a natural-born funny guy? What if you can't come up with witty and clever things to say when talking to a girl? Or doesn't know how to make a woman laugh?

Well, these five joke types or five joke formats can be used in any conversation and make girls smile, giggle, and laugh.

And I'm gonna help you be funny even if you don't consider yourself funny right now and you will learn how to make a woman laugh with ease.

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These are five easy laugh tactics used by the world's top comedians, and today, you get to steal them for yourself.

As you start using them in your conversations with women, whether in text or person, you will see them pay more attention to you, engage with you, and start to really really like you.

An Overreaction

Sometimes, to be funny, all you need to do is react.

You don't have to say or do anything proactively. It's the way you react or overreact to something mundane or funny that makes you funny.

The trick is to commit to the reaction and be a bit over the top. So imagine a girl is telling you a long story of some sort.

Just to tease her a little bit, you could yawn or pretend to like, nod off, or something as if she's boring you to sleep, and this will definitely push her buttons a little bit which you want but will also make her laugh.

Just make sure you let her continue her story after you do your bit, and you'll be totally fine.

Here's another example of this overreaction joke type. Let's say a girl says something that you don't agree with, which I'm sure happens a lot.

Maybe she says:
“You know, I really love pineapple pizza.”

To use the overreaction tactic, you could just look at her in shock, stand up, and walk away.

Suggesting you can't even be near her after hearing what you just said. And trust me, that alone will get a really good laugh from her.

It's so simple, but it's so powerful, and it's so funny, honestly. This type of humor doesn't need to be super witty or clever in any way.

All you need to do is react to something exaggeratedly or absurdly.

The Deliberate Misinterpretation… Effective To Make A Woman Laugh

I've talked about this tactic in many different videos, but it's worth repeating because it's effective.

Deliberate misinterpretation is when you take something a person says and interpret it differently than they intended it. So here's an example.

A girl tells you:
“I don't sleep with guys on the first date, so don't get your hopes up.”

And you reply with:
“That's perfect. We can sleep together before the first date.”

Then see how you deliberately change the meaning of what she said.

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So here's another example.

A girl says to you:
“I don't like your shirt. It's weird.”

You could reply with:
“Look, I know you want to see me without this shirt on, but it's not like the perfect time or place for it.”

See how smooth and flirty that is. This type of joke rarely fails to get a laugh, and it's guaranteed to make a girl like you more instantly.

But you got to be in the moment to spot these opportunities. So if you listen to a girl carefully, you'll find many occasions to use deliberate misinterpretation and make her laugh.

Misdirection

Misdirection is when you say one thing and then say the immediate opposite. It's a classic two-part joke.

First, you say something to set expectations in one way. That's the setup, and then you break expectations by going in a totally different direction. So that's the punch line.

This might sound a bit complex now, but let me give you a couple of examples, and then I think you're totally going to get it instantly, or you'll have to watch this a few times, but here's example number one.

Imagine you're talking to a girl who's wearing a pair of torn jeans, and you could tell her:
“Wow, I love your jeans. It's got a really cool homeless vibe to it.”

Do you see what happened there?

First, you said I love your jeans implying that you love her jeans and she's super stylish, but in the second line, you immediately change direction and tease her by saying that it's got like that nice homeless vibe to it which is classic misdirection.

So you set expectations one way, and then you went the opposite direction. So here's another example.

Let's say you're on a date with the girl and you have a burger that you don't really like, which happens quite often.

You would say, or you could say:
“Wow, this burger is awesome. It seems like it's fresh out of the garbage disposal.”

Once again, you set expectations in one way, and then you went in the opposite direction, so that unexpected shift is what makes misdirection work so well.

When you contradict the premise you set in the first line or first few lines, you upset the expectations, so people are caught off guard by it, and they're like what, and it's hard not to smile or laugh.

It's one of the most effective tactics in the world of comedy, and if you use it in your own conversations with women, you're definitely going to be funny and definitely going to make them laugh.

Sarcasm… Popular Joke Type To Make A Woman Laugh

And probably the most popular joke type on this list of how to make a woman laugh.

I think you know how sarcasm works, and you simply say something you don't really mean or the opposite of what you actually mean. So, for example.

Let's say a girl asks you:
“How many girls have you been with?”
“How many girls are you dating?”

You could be sarcastic and say:
“Four today, but it could be five later.”

Or another example would be a girl who says to you:
“Are you trying to pick me up?”

And you could reply:
“Hell no, I'd never do that without your father's permission.”

These are cute.

Or if she asks:
“How old are you anyway?”

You could say:
“I just turned 97 today. Wish me a happy birthday.”

Very like simple stuff, right? But just owning it with a little bit of practice, you can become a sarcasm master.

You want to make sure you don't overdo sarcasm because that can be really annoying.

The Laugh Transfer

And to be honest, this isn't really a joke type per se, but it's the easiest tactic in the world to make someone laugh.

You see, if you laugh or smile yourself while telling a joke or a story, other people around you are bound to laugh.

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This happens due to the principle of emotional contagion, which says that human emotions are transferable from person to person, and humor or laughter is perhaps the most contagious.

So if you can self amuse yourself, make yourself laugh while saying something like entertaining yourself, that should be more than enough to get the girl laughing.

So there's no need to be clever. There's no quick wit necessary. Just plain self-amusement.

That's it, and thanks to emotional contagion, whatever you say will automatically become fun and funny.

And with that, we're done with our list of joke types or laughter tactics to make a woman laugh, and any one of these can help you be funnier and more entertaining in conversations with women and liven up your conversation.

But I have to mention there's actually one more way to become more fun and witty in conversation.

A faster way, a shortcut if you will, and you'll find it inside the Banter Guide, which I created.

The Banter Guide is a unique program designed to upgrade your wit, sense of humor, and conversation skills over a short weekend.

It dives deeper into joke formats and formulas that you can steal to become funnier. Plus, it shows you tricks to internalize these formulas, so you don't have to think about them in conversation.

You'll simply crack jokes and be witty and charming without any conscious thought, which is amazing.

The Banter Guide also has several little-known hacks to ensure you never run out of things to say in conversation and always have the right response.

Any one of these could save you from those dreaded awkward silences when chatting with a girl you like, and it reveals easy tricks to make up witty comebacks on the fly.

Tricks to make any story engaging and even some amazing last resort tactics to save a dying conversation or revive a dead conversation.

So overall, with this guide on your side, you can't possibly have any trouble talking to women, and there's no need to worry about opening lines, what to say and what not to say once you see what's inside the guide. Things to say will naturally come to you.

It has already helped over 21.000 of my students go from not being able to approach and talk to women to holding endless fun conversations with the hottest girls and walking away with solid numbers and confirmed dates. So there's no reason why I can't do the same thing for you.

Have a look at it. See if you're interested.

Marni

How To Turn Her On With Touch | Touch Her Like This To Drive Her Wild!

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Fingering Techniques For Men Who Want To Please Their Women

Want to learn how to turn her on with touch? We're going to talk about fingering tips, which happens to be one of my favorite topics.

Honestly, fingers are favorite for so many women. Yet, many guys fly right by this easy way to turn her on and get her ready for you… especially if you need a little breather from straining your neck. ; )

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Go Slow

The first thing that I can teach you, which is a great tip for fingerings is to go slow.

There are so many guys who really like to race to the finish line, but that is the last thing that any woman wants.

She wants to enjoy her sexual experience.

So take a step back, slow down, and start working your way up towards her vagina.

Before you start jumping right into it, you want to savor the experience of just being present with her. Look into her eyes. Let her relax.

This will calm her mind so that her body can loosen up and enjoy the sexual experience.

Teasing

I love to be teased and I don't really know a single woman who doesn't like to be teased.

You want to make sure that you give about three to five minutes and possibly even longer to properly tease a woman to get her excited and physically turned on.

Basically touch her everywhere except her vagina.

Squeeze her thighs, run your fingers up and down her body. Squeeze her butt. This will ignite her passion. Once she's turned one everything feels exciting and pleasurable.

She'll get excited by just the thought of you touching her which is exactly where you want her.

You will also get to know her body and what she likes and what turns her on beyond the obvious place.

How to turn her on with touch? Know thy clitoris!

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I know that some guys have trouble finding the clitoris, and I'm not saying that to you.

I might be doing this for other guys, but just in case, here's a little bit of a refresher.

What you want to do is you want to rub your hand down the center of her belly, the belly button to the pelvic region. And then once you hit something, then you want to pull your hand back until you get to the first dry spot. And you'll feel a little bit of a button right there.

That is the clitoris.

So now that you have found it, you want to know that this is the area that you want to concentrate on.

Rub it really softly either with the tips of your fingers or even better with the palm of your hand.

You don't want to be too aggressive with the way that you touch this sensitive spot.

The squish

Learn how to turn her on with touch with this underused technique. Let's talk about “The Squish”. Try this for about 30 seconds. You want to do this squishing thing where you rub on the top of the pelvic bone and the clitoris at the same time. It's called the squish because you're kind of squishing the vagina. When you rub the pelvic bone, it actually stimulates the G-spot at the same time that you're rubbing on the clitoris.

The combination of these techniques is bound to drive her wild.

But what's most important besides any technique that you do. Or even while you're doing these things to her is you want to pay attention to how it's making her feel. You want to listen to her body… and you want to listen to her.

Every woman is different and likes different things.

If you're in a relationship reading this so that you can learn to better please your woman…

Then definitely check out my program Beyond Attraction.

It shows you how to keep your relationship fresh outside of the bedroom so that she feels connected to you in the bedroom.

Click here to check that program out. 

A big component of turning a woman in on is having her emotionally connected to you. That makes for the steamiest sex of all! 

Till next time,

Marni

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