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I just got an email from Don, who is one of my clients that is part of my email coaching group…. And I instantly thought “I have to share this with you” because it is that amazing.
I’m not sure if you are dating online or using any dating apps but if you are, I have the best line to use if you get rejected by a woman.
It’s playful, confident, honest and will immediately catch a woman’s attention.
I’m just going to share what Don wrote to me because it will sound much better coming from him.
Don’s Rejection Busting Line
So I have been online dating on a paid Web page. So I ask a woman out and I received a response that she is seeing someone.
Suddenly I remembered how you said to handle rejection, and this is what I said.
“No problem at all. . I did not know God actually made two amazing men, who know? I thought I was the only one. Congrats, and I wish you the best .
I immediately got a response saying “wow, best response ever. .”
So WHY is this the best line to use if you get rejected by a woman?? It’s the best line because it shows a woman 3 things:
1. You weren’t overly invested in her a.k.a you are not needy
2. You are not afraid of her and say what you want a.k.a you have confidence and have balls!
3. You are funny and playful a.k.a you don’t take yourself too seriously
Responses like this make a woman take pause and think “Ummm…. Did I just make a mistake? Am I missing out on this guy?” Trust me, it throws us for a loop. Which is exactly what happened. When I wrote to Don asking him if I could share this with you he gave me an update saying that they’ve still been chatting and he will be asking her out shortly.
When a guy doesn’t crumble into a little ball after we reject him, we immediately second guess ourselves.
Before even seeing what the girl wrote back, I immediately thought in my head “that’s freaking awesome”. Plus I showed it to 4 of my Wing Girls and they said the same thing.
This type of line is Wing Girl approved and by far one of the best lines to use if you get rejected by a woman online.
“Just a followup. We continued chatting online until tonight when I told her that she needed to give me her number.
She did instantly (guys stop giving out your number to get hers) grow a pair and tell her you want her number! MINDSET.. You want her number, and if she is lucky, she will get yours, when you decide to text her.
BTW Marni, we have a date tomorrow, and it all started with a rejection and simple tips from my wing girl..”
BOOM!!!! Even though I get emails like this almost every day this one really made me happy!