When asked, women often respond the number one thing they want in a man is confidence! I asked Ms. USA 2004, Shandi Finnessey this question twice and she kept saying “confidence.” So, I explored the root of this common answer among women. Why is confidence so important! Here's where the answer was hidden:
In nature, when weakness is displayed it is attacked. The lion hunts the slowest gazelle, the one that is the easiest prey. The shark attacks the fish that has erratic swimming movement or looks injured. Kids in school often pick on the kid who won't fight back or shows weakness. Humans are also wired to attack weakness by nature. How often does the jock or the Prom queen get bullied? Never.
Confidence is nature's signal that “I am not weak.” When you display body language and speak with certainty like a man, you are sending females a primal signal that “I am not weak and when things become difficult, I will have them under control.” Confidence can also come in the form of Pseudo-Confidence. Pseudo means “false.” Women can sense false confidence, nature teaches them that too. So, it has to be REAL confidence.
So, ask yourself: “Do I look like the slowest gazelle?” or “Do show signs of being the floundering fish?” If the answer is “yes”, then that might have something to do with you lack of success with women.
e yourself, be real, and don't look like the weakest Gazelle 🙂
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