Confident Men Do THIS To Attract Women (And You Can Too)
Confident men do something that melts women that most men don't. Want to know what it is?
If you see a gorgeous woman with perfect curves, a cute smile wearing a very revealing red dress would you be able to walk up to her and start a conversation?
Or would you hesitate, feel nervous, doubt yourself, or lose confidence?
And as a result the chance to talk to her, date her, and sleep with her?
If you’re like most men, it's probably the latter.
How about instead I share with you a ninja move that will help reverse those nervous, doubtful feelings in under 30 seconds, so that next time you see that girl in that revealing dress, the option to NOT start a conversation and charm the dress off of her, isn’t even there.
Right now the sight of a gorgeous woman makes your knees go weak and your mind goes blank.
And not in a good way.
Confident men know how to conquer these thoughts
I’m guessing that generally when you see a gorgeous woman, you have thoughts like the following:
“This woman might reject me and tell me to leave her alone”
“She might not be interested in me”
“What if she thinks I’m not good-looking enough for her?”
These thoughts are No No’s if you ever want to succeed with women. They are definitely not thoughts that confident men have.
When you have thoughts like the ones I mentioned above and you feel nervous, it's because your chief focus is to “get” something from the girl.
Confident men don't focus on “getting”
Think about it this way.
If you’re worried she might reject you it means you want to “get” her approval.
When you think she won’t find you interesting it means you want to “get” her to see you as interesting.
Thinking you’re not handsome enough for her means you want to “get” her to approve of your physical appearance.
This “get-get-get” mentality kills your confidence because when you’re trying to “get” something from her there’s a lot of pressure on you as your mind can’t predict the outcome.
Will she actually like you? What if she rejects you? What if she finds you ugly?
There are so many uncertainties! No wonder you feel nervous and lose confidence.
Now, consider this for a second, what if every time you see a hot girl, instead of trying to get something from her, you decide you've already got it.
That’s where this Ninja move comes in and confidence can be had.
One that I learned years ago from a male dating coach, I had on my podcast.
The ninja move is to always…
Instead of assuming rejection or that she's just not into you or that she’s too good for you and you can’t talk to her.
You want to assume that girl in the hot red dress is already attracted to you.
I want you to close your eyes for a second and picture that. Picture that sexy woman being attracted to you.
Now open your eyes. Feel the difference? What a powerful attitude that is, don’t you think?
When you reframe your focus to giving instead of getting you automatically eliminate all of the pressure and uncertainty.
You take full control of the situation. You come from a place of power.
Instead of showing up to get something you know you already have it and now it’s up to YOU to decide what to do with it.
What you give to her is under your control.
Just try it the next time you see a girl you wanna approach or ask for her number or go for the kiss.
Simply take a moment and repeat the following 3 to 5 times in your mind:
“She’s totally into me. She’s attracted.” (The louder you make the voice in your head, the more effective it’ll be.)
And That’s it.
Wax on. Wax off.
Confident men always assume attraction.
It’ll take you less than a minute to do that.
And I guarantee you’ll instantly 3x, 4x, or even 5x the level of confidence you feel in that moment.
The only possible way you won’t feel confident even after this is if you start thinking that even if she's attracted that you know what to say.
Or what if what you have to say is not as good as you hope or you bore her. In that case, I have a quick tip for you.
You see, we women instantly like a guy who can banter with us. All of us do.
Playful, humorous banter signals intelligence and confidence which are two traits we literally crave in a man.
Bantering makes interaction, engaging, and fun for us.
You can’t go wrong if you know how to banter.
If you’re one of those guys who thinks “I can’t banter. I’m not that funny/playful type” or “Humor doesn’t come naturally to me”
Don’t worry. Your wing girl has your back!
I have a fun, 97-second video that will give you the one thing you need to become a banter expert overnight even if you’re terrible at it right now.
What you will find in the video has already been tried and tested by over 15,000 men like you so the chances of it not working for you are slim to none.
Just go to winggirlmethod.com
You’ll find it very useful.
Fun fact: a recent psychological study even showed that humor and banter can nearly triple a man’s chance of attracting a woman.
Now, you know the one tool that can make THE difference in your dating life, and you can learn how to do it from the comfort of your own home so definitely don't pass up this chance.
Let me be your wing girl.