Hey there, Freshman. It's me, Marni. I'm your sunshine mixed with a little hurricane. My job is to fill you in on the ONLY DATING ADVICE FOR MEN YOU'LL EVER NEED! You put a lot of thought into everything that you do.
So, I'm going, to be honest with you, my friend.
Whether you know it or not, you are about to be the best among the rest! The knowledge I'm about to drop on you will definitely set you apart.
You're a rare breed.
And I'm ready to help you discover what it takes to GET ANY GIRL you've ever wanted.
That's why I want you to see that I'm the LAST FEMALE FRIEND YOU'LL EVER NEED.
Elliott Abrams once said
“First impressions matter. Experts say we size up new people somewhere between 30 seconds and two minutes.”
His statement makes a lot of sense. When we encounter a perfect stranger and immediately have an interest in them, all at once, before a word's even spoken, that's definitely when first impressions matter.
Granted that you never get a second chance to make a first impression, you want it to be dynamic.
When it comes to women you'd like to date, it needs to be significant enough to make an impact.
Since this is so important, I think it's time for me to teach you the Top 3 Do's and Don'ts when it comes to dating… especially first dates.
I want to make sure you don't have any problem landing the first date with any woman you want!
First dates are absolutely critical. If you've ever wondered why you didn't get a second date with that gorgeous girl you really liked, then you need to take a few minutes to read through this crucial guide.
Why I'm THE Authority for Dating Advice for Men
There's a MAJOR difference between me and other dating coaches out there.
I truly care about making sure you've got exactly what you need to get the girl you've got your eyes on EVERY TIME!
I'll do whatever it takes to make sure that the impact you make on women is valuable … MORE THAN YOU CAN EVER IMAGINE!
I've schooled men on what women want for more than a decade.
That makes it easy to see why the guys I teach say that I'm bringing out the best in them.
I KNOW that just like my previous students, you're an AWESOME GUY too.
Inside and out.
I want to prove to you time and time again that I'm the only female friend that you'll ever need.
I'LL STICK BY YOUR SIDE!
And while I'm staying true to you, I'm going to change your pessimistic thoughts into optimistic ones.
As your Wing Girl, I'm going to give you an all-access pass to information about how to REALLY get the girl.
I'm blunt and honest.
Plus, I have the tools and LEGIT dating advice for men that helps them date, seduce, and get the girl NO MATTER WHAT!
You've Got One Shot
Charles R. Swindoll said it best:
“First impressions NEVER have a second chance.”
This is why first dates are so crucial.
That's because both guys and girls will be sizing each other up.
She's going to determine whether or not she digs you enough to see you again.
And that, sweetheart, depends on how you act during your first date.
That's why I think it's time to give you the upper hand.
So, let me show you what it's like to have me as your secret weapon.
I'm here to help you.
I KNOW this is what you need to show the AWESOME, BADASS guy you are!
In order to bring your dating game to the next level, I'm going to share the Top 3 Dos and Don'ts of Dating with you right now.
First Dates are Awkward
Obviously, you don't want to fall victim to the hashtag, #WorstFirstDate.
That's why I want you to remember one thing:
A man who understands women will win the attention of ANY woman he wants.
I already know that you kick some major ass learning.
So, follow this guide and your connection with women will become easier for you.
Let's get this party started with the Top 3 Dos, shall we?
1) DO Be a Gentlemen
Welcome to the real world where most men have given up on chivalry….as if to say it's dead?
That's a laugh.
Although many men believe that, the reality is that this dating rule will forever hold true to the test of time.
I know. I know. “But Marni! Times have changed…women can open their own doors..some even pay their own way.”
However, if you practice chivalry on your first date and beyond, you're going to accomplish something that so many guys fail to do…you're going to impress the hell out of her!
Not only does being a gentleman make you stand out in her mind, but it'll also reassure her that there are still men out there that treat a lady, like a lady.
Trust me when I say this, it will leave a lasting first impression.
These fine little details will make it clear that I'm the last female friend you'll ever need for dating advice for men.
Here are some of the keys to polishing your first date by being a true gentleman.
Look Like a Gentleman and Take Care of Your Appearance –
Guys, let's be real here.
If you REALLY want to impress your girl, you want to look the part.
But I want to be clear here- you don't have to be in some uncomfortable, stiff suit!
In fact, you can wear something comfortable… just make sure it's clean.
And although it may sound a bit old-fashioned, you should DEFINITELY get a flower for your gorgeous lady.
That's because EVERY WOMAN absolutely LOVES FLOWERS.
… Although she might not admit it, believe me, she does.
As a matter of fact, you can put on a nice pair of jeans with just the right shirt, and bring along a dainty little flower.
This dating tactic will work perfectly for a first date.
Oh! And before I forget…whatever you do, when it comes to cologne, DON'T use a heavy scent.
They tend to scare women off.
For instance, have you ever watched the movie Anchorman?
Let’s be honest guys. NO ONE WANTS TO WIND UP LIKE BRIAN FANTANA…
And you don’t want your cologne to come off as bad as “SEX PANTHER,” do you?
2) DO Shower Her With Nice Compliments
If you're going to show her a good time and be the perfect gentleman, then you're going to know when it's time to drop bombs!
And by bombs, I mean HONEST compliments about her.
Now, by no means should you overuse this.
Whatever you do, KEEP IT REAL.
As you can imagine, it can get kind of old hearing you compliment her on her beauty and smarts basically on repeat.
After all, there are only so many ways to say this.
Instead, take a shot in the dark and pique her interest with a conversation that is different from any she's had before.
Because let's be honest here guys. If you're feeling her, you want her to feel that spark for you!
3) DO Keep Your Potty-Mouth to a Minimum
Another key to an EPIC date night is to keep the cussing to a minimum guys.
It's okay to express yourself.
However, there comes a point that it's a bit much for your lady to endure.
In fact, I have a girlfriend who told me of a time this changed her mind REAL QUICK …
Let's listen to her side:
“I saw this guy that was UNBELIEVABLY Hot! But then … I heard him talking to his buddy on the phone … and the ENTIRE conversation was like,
“Hey asshole. I told you I wasn't down with the F&*k S&*T the last time you guys decided to pull that F*&kery Bull S*&T… so … nah man, F*&k that.”
…..“And like LITERALLY Marni, it went on and on and on!! So … I feel like it was such a TURN OFF!! I mean, like, EVERYONE has their moments, right? But when it comes out all the time … it's NOT Hot! I mean, if he's that vulgar …. He's probably uneducated.”
This little nugget of info from my girlfriend should be just another reason you can trust me when it comes to LEGIT dating advice for men.
I KNOW what women are thinking. I AM ONE OF THEM.
And of course, when one of my girlfriends shares the “deets” with me on her outlook on something like this, I'm certainly not going to leave you in the dark.
Little things like this make a HUGE difference in the outcome of your first date.
Of course, you could try one of those cheesy pick-up lines when you pick up your date for the evening.
Humor is an excellent icebreaker and it will allow your personality to shine.
Try something like this:
” Are you a parking ticket? Because you've got FINE written all over you.”
WHEN KEEPING IT REAL GOES WRONG
Welcome to the club, Slayer. I've noticed that a lot of my clients are strong in their beliefs.
As a matter of fact, just the other day, one of my students was explaining to me why it's so important to him to ‘Keep it Real.‘
“Marni, I speak my mind. I never mind what I say.”
Although it's very admirable to have that kind of heart about yourself, there's a time and a place for everything.
Being able to say whatever the heck you want 24/7 doesn't always work out as planned.
You, my friend, are simply the best among the rest.
That's why it shouldn't surprise you that I'm wanting to help you.
With my dating advice for men, you're without a doubt going to be the man that women want.
The Chapelle Show hosted by Dave Chapelle had quite a few skits called “When Keeping It Real Goes Wrong.
The scene at a party explains it best.
After hearing Darius' outcome, I don't think that any of you live with your grandmother …. NOR would you want to be.
By the same token, there are many more DON'TS that exist in the dating world as well.
Here are the Top 3.
1) DON'T Convince Yourself You Only Have One Type of Woman
Okay. So right here, right now, we're going to face the music.
For most of your life, you've been dating women that met your standards.
Your type might have looked a certain way.
They might have even acted a certain way.
And that's not a bad thing.
NOT EVEN IN THE VERY LEAST.
However, it's extremely important to NEVER RELY on dating your “type” of woman.
It's damn near inevitable that it's going to cause major problems in your dating life.
You see hon, another big difference in my dating advice for men is that I WANT YOU TO GET ANY WOMAN YOU DESIRE!
That's why I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get you there.
I'm going to give it straight to you with my NO B.S. dating advice for men.
With this in mind, I want you to consider these reasons to not have a specific “type” of woman.
Your Type Might Not Be What You Require in a Relationship:
Do you want a relationship, a situationship, or perhaps, a one night stand?
Then, I need you to ask yourself what's going to make you happy in a relationship?
What are your requirements to be happy?
Having a Type Limits Your Reach with Possible Connections:
If you allow other types of women into your dating life, you just might find the one you've been searching for.
You Might Be Judged Just as Brutally as You Judge:
“Like attracts like.”
You'll discover from my dating advice for men that this is a fact.
This is a universal rule that applies to the people, situations, and jobs that are present in your life.
What You See As Your Type May Be Formed By Outside Forces:
Whether you realize it or not, there's always going to be friends and family who will search for certain things.
Honestly, these might be characteristics you're not looking for or even care to begin looking for.
These important people in your life are basing their opinion of the girl on their own personal standpoints.
Dating is So Much Freaking Fun! … So long as you ain't got no type:
Spicing it up with a little variety is THE ticket if you're wanting to see the potential that other women have if you don't exclude them.
Big boobs and a nice ass are perfect physically.
But does she touch you on a deeper level too?
Looks and vanity fade. What's on the inside, is there forever.
2) DON'T Come On Too Strong!!
Okay, Honey Bunch. This next one is a BIG issue for women.
It's NEVER a good idea to come off as desperate or too needy.
I mean, sure, you definitely want to make your date feel special by all means.
But you DEFINITELY DON'T WANT to make her feel smothered.
Now, I will say that if dating this girl turns into a relationship, then loving and needing them is necessary.
At the same time, an overkill of neediness can cause far more harm than good.
3) DON'T Be Overly Judgmental
Finally, it's extremely important to never be too quick to judge.
You should have an open mind.
Wouldn't you want her to be accepting what you're all about?
On a first date, you're just getting to know that enchantingly gorgeous little darlin'.
She may or may not want to reveal certain things to you.
However, if she doesn't, then you shouldn't pry or act like you need to know why she's single or what's the story with her ex.
Instead, be less invasive.
Try asking questions about her childhood, favorite holidays, and profession..etc.
Whatever you do, keep the convo light, unless she opens up.
– – AND IN THAT CASE – –
Be the man she didn't see coming … because you are all ears and not looking down on here for any reason.
The ONLY HONEST Dating Advice for Men
Dude, I have to hand it to you.
YOU, SIR, are a rare breed.
As your Wing Girl, I want to be that one friend who never disappoints you.
This is what I do best to have a different approach to how I coach my guys.
I'll show you the secrets I know about avoiding
I want EVERY WOMAN you meet to think you are simply the best among the rest.
With me by your side, you're going to learn more about women than 99% of the men on Earth!
Talk about one hell of an advantage!
And this isn't my first rodeo either, partner.
I know that the last decade of my life has been placed on helping thousands of guys boost their confidence and BECOME A MAN WOMEN WANT!