If you ask professional dating coaches, many of them have strong opinions about which of these is better. The truth is that both CAN work. Here’s the thing you need to focus on instead….
It’s a question I get asked almost every day:
Should I be direct or indirect when approaching women?
A lot of male dating coaches have a very black or white view of this. Some preach you should always be direct… while other swear indirect is the way to go.
So what’s my take on this? The truth is, both can work. Or fail.
I’ve dated men that approached me directly. And men that approached me indirectly.
I’ve also turned down men who approached me in both of these fashions.
That’s because when you approach us, we’re getting an overall sense of who you are as a man.
And when you flip the right switches that trigger our attraction for you…
You can be either direct or indirect and we’ll still feel the same level of attraction.
And for what it’s worth, direct or indirect aren’t your only two choices when you approach.
There’s actually another way to approach women that works much more consistently in my experience.
This method is covered extensively in my program The Approach Blueprint.
What’s great about it is you can use it in any situation. Day… night… bar… coffee shop… street… park… grocery store… gym… literally anywhere you want to approach a woman.
So no matter your situation or where you’d like to meet women, this will work for you. And of course if you want to be direct or indirect when approaching, that’s covered too.
However The Approach Blueprint goes far beyond just what to say. It covers the complete picture of how to create attraction when you approach us…
Including body language, mindsets, style, and other areas that many guys struggle with.
Here’s what one of my customers, David, said after putting this training into action:
“I can now spark attraction in women without ever having to say anything sexual at all. It’s pretty amazing how women react to this and it’s so much easier than what I was doing before.”
And you’re ready to start triggering attraction within seconds or minutes of meeting a new woman…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,