If you want her to beg for your attention and chase after you… You need to make her miss you when you’re not around.
In other words… You must make her think about you and crave your presence when she’s not with you. Most men have no clue how to do that… But lucky for you, you have me on your side.
In this article, I’m gonna tell you the most effective ways to make a woman miss you like crazy so that she thinks about you non-stop,
becomes hungry for your attention and craves to be with you. What you’re about to discover in this article are simple tricks which any guy can do.
But these tricks are incredibly powerful and can get a woman really obsessed with you. Use these with the woman or women you like and you’ll find her chasing after you in no time. So as I said, the best way to make a woman beg for your attention and chase after you is to make her miss you when you’re not around. There are some simple and effective ways to do that. They are as follows…
Be a Little Mysterious
When you’re first interacting with a girl you like, you’ll want to let her get to know you. Be sure to let her know enough about you so she’s interested, but don’t go overboard. Meaning: don’t tell her everything about you at once.
Or in other words, don’t talk too much about yourself. I call this throwing up on women. And no one likes throwing up all over them. Yes, it’s okay to give her glimpses into your life, hobbies, passions and who you are as a person. But she doesn’t need to know every little detail, all at once. Joke around, have fun, flirt with her and get to know stuff about her.
But when it comes to revealing things about yourself, be a little conservative. Save some good stories and tidbits of your life for future dates and interactions. Let her learn more about you slowly. That’s much more exciting for a woman. It builds intrigue. And that intrigue will make her think about you when you’re not around, and keep her coming back for more.
Slow Down With The Technology
Give her some space every now and then so that she has enough time to miss you. If you’re around her every moment, then she has no space to think about you, to really miss you. This is not limited to being physically present. You should not be bombarding her phone with calls and text messages.
While it’s okay and even quite thoughtful to check in with her and respond to her calls and texts, you should not overdo it. In fact, when you are talking to each other over the phone, whether it’s via texting or a phone call… You should limit your interactions.
Here’s what I mean… In the early stages of dating or even in the early days of a relationship… Many couples tend to talk to each other for hours and hours over the phone. And at times, that’s perfectly okay.
In fact, it’s one of my favorite beginning stages things. You’re feeling that intense desire for each other. You feel the urge to spend every moment with your partner. That’s fine. And totally normal.
But, if you start doing this every single day, then you’re not giving a girl the chance to miss you. In fact, the truth is, if you’re too available and around her all the time, she might start to feel smothered and suffocated. Sooner or later, she’ll get tired of you. This leads me to the next tip…
Spend Time Apart
Even if you care about each other and love spending some time together, it is still a very good idea to give each other some alone time apart every now and then. Whether you spend one hour a day apart or a day out of the week apart, you should make it a point to find some time for yourselves.
As renowned psychologist Esther Perel says… Desire needs space.
You need to give her the space to breathe. Space to do her own thing. Even though it may sound counterintuitive… The truth is… That’s what’s gonna keep the desire and passion alive in your relationship. She will miss you when you’re not there and feel happy to see you again after you have taken a short break from each other.
In fact, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to be fully present with each other.
Have An Engaging Life of Your Own
By now you know that you shouldn’t be around her all the time or be too available to her. However, there’s a problem I’ve seen guys run into while incorporating these tips. You see, if you’re really into her, your natural instinct will be to spend every waking moment with her.
You would want to be in contact as much as possible.
In fact, that desire can be so strong that you become obsessed with her. In other words, you can’t get your mind off her. What do you do in this situation?
Well, if you are in this situation or get into it someday, it typically means that you don’t have a lot going on in your life. And that’s the root cause of this problem. You find things to do on your own. Whether it’s work-related, something with your friends or a hobby of yours… Dive into it. Get busy.
When you have important things going on in your life, you’ll find it much easier to not obsess over her… and give her the space and time she needs to miss you.
Be a Fun Person to Hang Out With
I’ve talked a lot about spending time apart and limiting your interactions, but this is something to keep in mind when you do spend time with her. You need to make sure she’s having fun. That she’s enjoying herself when she’s with you.
Take her on great dates and adventures that she will really appreciate and look back on fondly, especially when you are not together. Try to be fun and creative when you think of dates that you can take her on. From picnics to the movies to walking on the beach, there are so many awesome things that you can plan for her.
If you would rather stay in, you can build a blanket fort together, watch a movie, or cook a meal together. You can even play your favorite board games if you think that’ll be fun. There are many options for you to choose from.
Now, apart from the fun dates, the most important thing you can do to ensure she has a good time is make her smile and laugh when she’s with you. I mean, how many times have you heard by now that women like a guy with a sense of humor? There’s no one that comes close to a guy who is funny and can make us smile. It’s easily the most charming and attractive thing a man can do.
That’s why, I have an entire program for helping guys unlock the wit and learn how to have fun, engaging conversations with women – without ever running out of things to say. It’s called the Banter Guide.
It gives you proven tactics to keep a woman’s interest in the conversation and make her laugh, smile and giggle almost on command. Moreover, it even shows you simple ways to think on your feet, never runs out of things to say and avoid awkward silences at all times. In simple words, the Banter Guide makes you an extremely fun and interesting man to talk to for any woman. You’ll know exactly what to say to hook her attention, keep her interest and build desire.
The Banter Guide is the ultimate shortcut to conversation mastery. It shows you how to never be boring in your interactions with women, and make sure they absolutely LOVE talking to you. And if the woman you like loves talking to you, then she’s gonna miss you like crazy when you’re not around. And as a result, she’ll beg for your attention and crave your presence.
So go ahead and check out the Banter Guide.