If you’ve dated even a little, then you already know how powerful teasing can be. Unfortunately, many men do it wrong and it comes off as being rude. Learn how to tease the RIGHT way!
It’s no secret that teasing women is a powerful way to create attraction. When done right, it’s one of the quickest ways to make us feel sexually attracted to you. Problem is, it’s also easy to screw up.
And when you tease the WRONG way, it’s one of the quickest ways to kill your chances us. The goal is to come off as a charming, witty, and confident man…
Not a rude asshole who seems bitter and jaded towards women. That means you want to keep your teases playful and lighthearted… not insulting and harsh.
So let me give you some examples of how NOT to tease. (Yes, these are all real life examples I’ve actually witnessed.)
Guy approaches three women in a smoking area… “Why are you guys out here by yourselves, are you a bunch of losers or something?”
Woman asks guy to guess what her favorite good is… “Probably McDonald’s” (as he pokes her in the belly).
Guy trying to hit on my friend… “You’re actually kinda cute. If you just had a boob job you’d totally be my type.”
Guy responding to a woman who disagreed with him… “Awwww that’s so adorable, you have an opinion on this.”
Guy trying to tease a woman with an accent… “You sound weird. Were your parents cousins?”
I could go on and on. But hopefully you get the idea.
All of these are more rude and insulting than they are playful and fun.
So if you read any of those and thought to yourself, that actually doesn’t seem that bad…
Then that’s a sign you need to work on this.
Or if you don’t know how to tease women in a way that gets them laughing and flirting with you, then it’s also something you gotta work on.
And while I’d love to tell you right here everything there is to know about effective teasing…
That’d make this the world’s longest ever email.
Instead, I created the Banter Guide (with the help of a stand-up comedian) to solve this problem for you.
Once you go through it and discover the simple principles… And see the word-for-word examples…
You’ll never have to worry if your teases are crossing the line and making you look like a jerk.
Instead, you’ll be the charming and witty guy that always knows what to say to create attraction whenever you want.
So whether you want to go out and date a few women… or just get together with that one special girl…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,