This is a HUGE problem and a nasty trap many guys fall into. If the women you’re interested in think you’re gay, it’s a sure sign that there’s a problem with your approach. Read on, and I will tell you how to avoid falling into that trap ever again!
I was recently talking with a new coaching student, and he had a very interesting problem. Many of the women he was meeting were assuming that he was gay. Sometimes he’d learn this on the same night he met them… Other times it wasn’t until after 2 or 3 dates.
So what was he doing to send those signals?
As we dug deeper, I discovered the issue. It turns out he’d read some dating advice online that said to get good at talking about topics that women are really into.
So this guy spent time learning about fashion, celebrity gossip, astrology and other topics he could discuss with us.
Now, here’s where he went wrong:
He’d approach women by bringing up one of these topics, and he’d usually get a positive response. And then he might spend an hour talking about this stuff before asking for a number.
Many times, the woman would be happy to give him her number. But she had zero idea he was actually interested in her. Like I said, most of them assumed he was gay… because he was talking to them in the same way one of their girlfriends might.
He was so focused on connecting with them over feminine topics… That he lacked any hint of masculinity, which is what we’re actually attracted to. Added to this, he wasn’t trying to kiss them or move things forward physically.
Now, this isn’t the first time I’ve run into this. There’s a surprising amount of guys who are making this mistake, and usually they’re not aware it’s working against them or of the vibe it’s giving off.
They just think if women are responding and engaging in conversation, it’s automatically moving in the right direction.
We might be enjoying talking to you, and think that you’re fun…
But it doesn’t mean we’re viewing you as someone we want to date or sleep with. Because if you go out of your way to hide your masculinity and sexual side, then there’s little chance we’ll feel those feelings of sexual desire for you.
So, why do some guys use this tactic?
Often it’s because they want approval and to be liked. And by talking about ‘girly’ topics… and not showing any sexuality… or making any kind of move… many women do like them.
Just not in the way that the guy is hoping for. So if you want women to ‘like’ you, go ahead and play it safe. But if you want women to ‘want’ you, then you gotta take some risks.
Embrace your masculinity and your sexuality. Own it. Don’t be afraid to talk about topics that you’re into, instead of just things you think we will like. Because even if we’re NOT excited about a certain subject, if we can see that YOU’RE excited and passionate about it… then we’ll be curious to know more.
And if you try to move things forward physically… even if we’re not feeling it just yet, we’ll at least be attracted to your confidence and initiative to go for what you want.
So at the heart of it, it’s about not holding back on who you really are and what you want. Don’t put on a fake persona or act a certain way just because you think women will like it.
It’s 100% possible to be yourself around women and have us love you for it.
This is a key component I teach you about in How To Be A Man Women Want, my best-selling training program.
It’s designed for men who want to create attraction authentically and ethically by being themselves around women… with no games or B.S.
When you follow the methods I lay out for you in detail, you won’t have to worry about women liking you but not actually wanting you. Instead, you’ll be able to ignite gut-level sexual attraction in the women you want simply by behaving in a natural and masculine way.
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