The dating game is fraught with all sorts of pitfalls and uncertainties, but if you do it right, it can be as easy and natural as breathing. Want a leg up in the game? These FIVE TIPS will change your life.
Do you ever feel like dating is way harder than it should be? If so, you’re gonna want to listen up to today’s blog. That’s because I’ll share 5 things you can do to make it a hell of a lot easier.
This dawned on me last weekend while I was spending time with my nephew. He was trying to teach me one of his favorite video games. And it was super difficult. (Like I’d only last 30 seconds before dying and needing to start over.)
But just when I was about to give up, he asked me if I wanted him to switch the game to “easy mode”.
“Easy mode? What am I playing in now?”
That’s when he told me the game was set to “hero mode”, the most difficult setting. But once he switched it over to easy, the game became… well, easy! And that’s when I realized so many guys are playing the game of dating in “hero mode”.
They make everything more difficult than it needs to be by not following a few simple guidelines.
So here are 5 things you can do right now to put dating into easy mode.
#1 Work on your appearance
A lot of guys overcomplicate the whole how much do looks matter debate. It’s not that you have to be born with great looks to be attractive to women. It’s that you have to present yourself well and work with what you have.
That means choosing clothes that fit you well and are at least somewhat stylish. Getting a good haircut. Exercising regularly. Looking after your teeth. Proper skin care. Maybe a manicure now and then.
None of this stuff is hard. But it makes a huge difference in how women respond to you.
#2 Get a life
The more you participate in life, the easier it will be to get attractive women.
Because when you get out there and actually do stuff, the more women you’ll naturally meet.
And the more hobbies, interests, and experiences you have… the more you’ll have to talk about and the more attractive you become.
#3 Take the pressure off yourself
I know a lot of guys who have the mindset that if they don’t wind up sleeping with a woman they approach, it’s a failure.
This creates a ton of pressure that they have to be perfect when talking to women. As a result, they often end up taking very little action.On the other hand, I know guys who have no attachment to any outcome. Whatever happens happens.
Sometimes they get blown out. Sometimes they get laid. And most of the time it’s somewhere in between.But because they’re not putting any pressure on themselves to get a certain result, it makes meeting women so much easier.
#4 Open your eyes
The guys who make dating harder are the ones who only try to pick up women at certain times.Like they’ll go out on the weekend to a bar or club, and that’s the only time they’ll meet new women. Or they only use Tinder and don’t talk to women in real life.
But the guys who get the best results are those who meet women everywhere.
They realize every woman they see is an opportunity, no matter the situation. Every single day there are available women all around you. Open your eyes — and your mouth to talk to them — and dating becomes much easier.
#5 Follow a proven system
The biggest mistake guys make is trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to meeting and attracting women. They’ll go out there and try to figure it out on the spot, hoping inspiration strikes.
But most of the time this leads to coming across the same as every other guy we meet. Instead, when you follow a system that’s already proven to work, this does half the work for you.
And the system that’s proven to work the best for making dating easier is How To Become A Man Women Want.
Or, you can keep dating in “hero mode” and making it 10X harder than it needs to be.
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