This is going to sound counter-intuitive to a lot of guys, but here’s the truth: “Friend-zoning” a woman can have HUGE benefits that will help you attract even more women. Read this to learn the THREE HUGE ADVANTAGES to this approach!
I told you about how to make the switch from trying to “get” something from women you meet, to simply guiding and leading them to have more fun.
Doing that will immediately skyrocket your results with women, and it basically comes down to one simple thing: Abundance vs Scarcity
When you have abundance in your life, you’re automatically more attractive in every possible way.
For example, if you have several girls who are interested in you. Maybe you’re messaging each other regularly and hang out every so often. You know that you can set up 2 or 3 or 4 dates a week, whenever you want to. And even if you don’t, knowing that you have the skills and confidence to go out and meet new women whenever you want to…
If that was your reality, how would that change your confidence?
When you go to make that approach to that beautiful girl, do you really care as much if she likes you or not? You can just go up and introduce yourself and see if you get along. If not, no big deal.
In fact, you would worry more about whether you like HER or not, rather than anxiously worrying if she likes you or not. If you’re worrying about whether or not she likes you, you’ve already lost!
Now, here’s a really fun exercise that’s really going to show you the power of non-neediness.
Next time you go out, make it your goal to put every girl you meet into the friend-zone as soon as possible.
You can say things like:
“I really like talking to you, we should be best friends!”
“I feel like you’re my baby sister”
Or even… “I’m really shy to talk to girls but for some reason I feel comfortable with you. Do you wanna be my wing girl and help me talk to girls?” Just make sure you’re saying it in a friendly, positive and tongue-in-cheek way 🙂
Three things are going to happen:
First, because you’re overtly NOT hitting on her and going out of your way to make sure she knows you’re “just friends”… You’re IMMEDIATELY going to stand out to every other guy approaching her that night… you’ll probably be the only one who’s not just trying to “take” something from her.
And because she knows you don’t want anything from her, she’ll be able to drop her guard and just have fun with you.
Second, her attraction for you will actually INCREASE because you’re showing her that you don’t need her to like you for you to have fun.
Third, she’s very likely to actually want to be your wing girl and help you meet girls. This is actually tons of fun for us to do!
Trust me, if you have an attractive wing-girl by your side as you’re approaching other girls, you’ll get much better results. If that girl you’re trying to approach can see that you already have “pre-approval” from other attractive women, it’s easier for her to let her guard down and actually engage with you. If other girls already like you, you’re probably not a creep, right?
Now, just one caveat here… It has to be GENUINE!
You can’t “pretend” to put girls in the friend zone as a TRICK to make them like you.
It has to be real. Now if something ends up developing naturally and you end up going home together… great! But it has to come from the right place. If you have an ulterior motive to wanting to be friends with her, that will shine through right away.
Instead, think of it as just a fun thing you can do to help both yourself AND her have fun together, and meet a bunch of new cool people in the process. Do that a few times, and you’ll soon find yourself with an abundance of women in your life and an ability to go on a date every night of the week if you want to!
If having an ABUNDANCE of women excites you. Or if you want that one special girl you have your eye on CHASE you for a change…
Then you need to check this out: Click Here
It’s all about how you can become the prize in her eyes.
I’m rooting for ya!
Your Wing Girl,