Are you calling me FAT??? In a few seconds I'll explain why that sentence totally caught my attention and is a great opening line.
So here's what happened.
I was out for a walk and decided to go to Trader Joes to get a little food shop on.
I ended up getting a big food shop on and ended up with about 4 bags which I then had to carry home ON FOOT 🙁
On my way home I saw a new restaurant that had finally opened up in our area and decided to stop in, get a menu and check out their deal.
I walked in carrying my 4 huge bags and as I got in line behind this guy I said “ugh! I'm so damn wide”.
Not sure that even made sense but it's what I said and he whipped around and said “Are you callin' me fat?” with a smirk on his face.
This got me to smile and we started a fun, flirty conversation.
This one little comment got me to drop my guard and pay attention to this guy. AND it got me engaged in conversation with him.
So what's your point, Marni??
My point is always to go to Trader Joes with a car and you won't have 4 bags to carry!!!
My point is that conversation starters are EVERYWHERE it's just up to you to be open to hearing them.
Even if I hadn't made my wide comment, the fact that I was carrying 4 bags around with me was enough ammo to start a conversation!
Conversation is everywhere as long as you are ready and open to it.
Now I know that you may not be as quick on your feet as Mr. “You callin' me fat” guy. BUT you can be!
I know I've sent this out in the past, but I want to send it to you again and know that it will help you with what to say to women to start a conversation AND continue it.
It's a video I put together on OSA (Observation, Share and Ask) which is The Wing Girl Method's method for starting and having attractive conversations with women.
Go watch it here:
I talk about this method all the time on my podcast and in it's part of a couple of my ‘at home' systems How To Become A Man Woman Want and ‘The INSIDhER‘. Along with tons more exercises and activities just like OSA that train you to be better with women.
Go watch the video on OSA and then go use it so that you can capitalize on the next situation where a woman crosses your path carrying 4 freakin bags of groceries 😉
Go watch it here: