How To Qualify Women To See If They Are Good Enough To Date You | Date Barometer
How do you qualify high-quality women to see if they are good enough to date YOU?
Here’s the question put another way, what systems do you have in place to help you decide if a woman is good enough for you?
And don't worry if you are stumped by this question at all because most men don’t know the answer to this question.
They don’t have a list of things women need to be or have or do in order to date them. Though, they should!
I’m going to help you figure out your own list of qualifications women must have in order to date you.
This list of qualifications will help you go from taking what you can get with women to actually getting the women you want.
The reason I wanted to make a video about what qualifies a woman to date you comes from an email I got from Vishal.
He wrote me asking:
Marni, I’ve been really digging into your programs and realizing that I really just date any woman who will give me the time of day.
I don’t want to do that anymore because I end up chasing women that I actually don’t really want and wasting my time.
What are the best qualification questions to use on high-quality women so that I can see who is right for me?
Best questions to qualify high-quality women
And this is what I wrote back:
LOVE that my programs are giving you a stronger belief in your self-worth and boosting your confidence. Music to my ears.
In terms of qualification questions. That totally depends on you.
What are the qualifications that YOU require?
What are YOUR qualifications for women?
Meaning I can totally send you a long list of questions to ask a woman to qualify her but then we’d be qualifying her to date ME.
We want these women to be qualified for you.
So….. tell me 5 values or things or attributes that are super important to you.
What you value is a qualification
For example, if you are really looking for someone that is religious and shares your religious beliefs, write that down.
And then write down 4 others.
Send that list to me when you are done and we’ll give you a plan of attack. We'll show you how you can use that list to qualify women and decide if THEY are good enough to date you.
So Vishal sent me his list of 5 things which were:
1.Good family values. A woman who values family and is close to her family.
2.Likes to do goofy kid-like activities even if they seem childish.
3.A kind heart. A woman who is kind to strangers and all those around her.
4.Likes to eat.
5.Likes to travel
Which in my opinion was a phenomenal list. Not because I shared similar interests to Vishal, which I do.
But because the list was HIS.
His wants, needs, expectations. His goals for life.
In dating, you gotta be armed with this stuff, or else you're just going in blind and hoping someone will select you.
High-quality women expect you to know what it's important to you
With this list, he has a little more control over who he allows into his world and spends time with.
So how do you use your own list like this to be a better dater and qualify high quality women?
You use it as your date evaluation barometer by steering the conversation to “get to know you questions” towards this list.
“Get to know you” questions
For example, is your list similar to Vishal’s? If you’ve listed that a woman you want in your life has to have good family values and be close to her family, you can do 1 of 2 things…
#1 you can be really bold and just ask straight out “are you close with your family” or “what is your family life like?”
Or #2, the more subtle approach that probably gets you a better response and clearer picture of her set of values around family.
You tell a story that you can prepare about you and your family. One that paints a picture of who you are in your family and what family means to you.
And then see how she responds and engages in the conversation you’ve laid out.
Pay attention to her response
For example “I was at my sister's house last weekend for my 5-year-old niece's birthday party and it was wonderful. Never thought I’d enjoy a 5-year-olds birthday.”
If she responds with “ugh, family obligations. So tough” or something along those lines, then that’s a red flag for her because she may not share that same value of family as you.
BUT if she responds “oh that is so nice. My family actually live in Portland so I’m not able to see them as much as I like.”
Then you have a big old gold star for her because she likes her family.
And then you can go further into the conversation about family or you can just know that she’s checked a box for right now and you’ll discover more as you go along.
Even giving that head nod when she responds like that is a great way to show her that what’s she’s said has earned her points and now you are further invested.
And you can continue down the list. The list can also help you come up with things to talk about.
The list can double as content for conversations
Having this list in your mind prior to dates help you maintain a good mindset. This will remind you that YOU also get to decide how this date is going and it’s not just you performing for her.
So many guys get lost in trying to get the girl that they forget to ask themselves if they actually like the girl back.
Having this list puts you in the game and takes away any and all needy vibes that may have been present in the past.
Again dating is for you as well as for her.
You are also trying to see if she fits into your world and your wants and your life.
Having a mindset that you can attract an amazing woman who shares your values is the first step.
Becoming the qualifier instead of just the one being qualified will already set you apart from the other guys out there.
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