On my flight home from Bali, I watched the movie “Life As We Know It.” It is a pretty decent, romantic comedy that happens to have one of the best examples I have seen on How To Approach Women and get them to talk to you.
If you Click the play button below to watch the video you will find that I have added captions throughout the video and give longer explanations below.
…And that is exactly how to approach women! Confidently, comfortably, and directly.
Did you notice how the guy got the girl to immediately drop her guard and be open with him in a matter of seconds? Do you know why he was able to do this? Because of the way he was carrying himself. YES, this is a script… but it emulates real life. This is what most women have in their mind as an ideal approach.
As you know, I'm a huge fan of the direct approach and this is an example of being direct. Not only is he saying “I WANT YOU” with his words, but he is reinforcing it to her with every other muscle in his body.
- He gets close to her
- Makes eye contact
- Speaks softly
- Compliments her
- Smiles slyly at her
In my opinion the whole interaction is super sexy.
What I Want You To Do: I want you to try this approach on 5 women this week. To start, you can use this guys approach, but I would eventually like you to create your own version so that it feels more genuine for you and to her.
To learn more about what approaches women will ALWAYS respond to, check out How To Become a Man Women Want.